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Sisijetue:
Na to carry sand to mould your kind of woman
E no too hard
All these your aforementioned test and assessment no guarantee happy home
Marriage way go crash go crash

pansophist:
Okafor law is not synonymous/interchangeable or could be used in verbatim with sexual integrity. Having said that, the realities of ''Okafor-law'' doesn't handicap a woman from upholding virtue and be sexually faithful. A committed relationship is all about compromise, as no one has all the complete package. I also think Okafor law is not a gender thing, it's even a law of nature. Humans will always seek after the best thing they've had and may choose to settle when there are other equalizing forces that compensate for the lack in other places thereof. intimacy gadgets play an important role here.

CaveAdullam:
The average age of menstruation in women is between 8-14years. The essence it starts early is to quickly prepare women to make good use of their fertility, because as they grow older their fertility decreases which is fully collaborated in menopause: age 40 and above.

Now, a very large percentage of women, to be lenient enough; 70% and above, are approach for marriage immediately they hit their first menstruation, and begin to develop womanly qualities at puberty/adolescence. Since 18 years of age is when she becomes an adult and a legal age of consent, men in hordes will begin to fight for her attention in order to claim her personally. Many will declare their marriage proposals, but because she is naive, beautiful, young and can garner attention from all the cardinal points, she will decline their proposals, and cling to the men and bad boys who just want a taste of her flesh, and move away when satiated. All these happen between age 18-25.

In the age range of 18-25, many women are still young, fertile, beautiful and elegant. As a result of the sexual market deregulation, confusion on what it really means to be feminine or masculine, social obfuscation, liberalism, poor economic system, crazy ideologies and poor parental training, women resist their innate biological and natural ordination: which is to raise and nurture a family under the auspices and home of an alpha man. Instead, they focus on nonsensical careers, become social media narcissist; garnering likes, exposing their genitals for cheap pays, disrespecting good young men with marriageable potentials, enter into lion dens where they become objects of depravity, embellishing themselves in masculine traits. All these factors listed jeopardizes her fertility, and put her at a great risk as she approaches the wall---age 30.

Like I said earlier virginity/the presence of a hymen should be the first and necessary prerequisite any reasonable and high quality man should consider in a woman before committing to her in a long term relationship or marriage between age 18-25, because women at this stage are highly fertile, and still beautiful. Women around age 25-30 can also qualify if they are virgins with a high percentage of femininity. Although, at this age range it is difficult to find such women, and many put masks of superiority in order to mimic high quality women, and manipulate innocent and ignorant men into commitment.

So, any woman can get married to whomever she desires depending on her subtlety and manipulations. In this present day, many women eat their cake when young, and have it back when they catch a beta male on tenterhook. This is possible because more than 80% of men were raised in a gynocentric and blue pilled society to please women, dance to their tunes and satisfy their desires dangling the slogan: HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE before their faces.

My advice is for men who through thick and thin has upheaved themselves to the upper echelons and other males below the pyramid.

So, a lady above 26 who is not a virgin or a repentant wh0re can still get married, but not to a high quality man who understands the outer and inner layers of the female nature, and how the intersexual dynamics works.

Thanks.

Magnoliaa:
Nice. So it's not applicable in every cases — no matter how subjectively good the past thing was.

Compromise, values, present commitments et al. can trump.

JasperVII:
Beautifully written. Bravo.
I do have a question though. At the boldened, don't they all do that these days?

Fountainofyouth:
I cannot but laugh, so many men are so naive it's actually funny, some humans have perfected pretense with utmost conviction, deceit, and humility, that you can never see them coming, till it's rather too late.

DirtyGold:
That's the main point of this thread. If she's for you, you wont even have to try...
And then pray she doesn't get pulled to some other guy that seems better than you


My view does not contradict the OP. If you like a girl, make your interest known. If she truly chooses to be with you, you wont need to stress at all. With such a girl, you can tell her your church mind anytime and she wont run away. She'll commit her effort into making it work including making excuses for you when you fall short of expectations.

However, choosing you is a choice (her choice) and a normal girl (including married women) gets regular attention from other men. If for some fascination she unwittingly gives some other guy attention and the excitement or vibes of a new relationship overshadows her present relationship, then the pre-existing relationship starts developing a k-leg... what was nothing suddenly becomes a major problem and before you know it, she's pulled away to that "better man" even if what suddenly looked better to her was an illusion.

What's tha business?

Michelle55:
Hmmm. All these epistle ontop woman matter? Ike gwuru

pansophist:
Her response in stressful situations. For example, going on a vacation with her, and due to feign emergency, the trip would change and canceled midway., how is her reaction? Also, testing if she is dependable. Like calling her in the middle of a night and ask for a quick favor. (not 2k favor lol) Also, ask her for cash, yep, a lot of it. Faking loss of financial buoyancy due to bad business deals and watch if her behaviors changed. Asking her about her ex and if she talks shit about them. Her relationship with her parents, especially her father.

Her kind of friends, if she is financially responsible by watching what she spends her money on. If she is religious, or submit to a sophisticated belief system. If she lives within her means. How she relates with people she gains nothing from (eg waiters), how she relates with the defenseless (animals and kids) if she can take good care of you when sick. Does she have it at the back of her head to be adorable and accentuate her femininity by eating healthy and keeping in shape?

Giving her handy crafted gifts and see if she appreciates it more or less than money. If she is a social media addict and attention seeker. If she respects things, events, and people that are important to you. Does she give you gifts equally during events such as your birthday? Does she try to impress you? Does she have the mentality that you should be lucky for having her? Is she submissive (not to be confused with being subordinate), can she cook and spice up the home with her feminine allure?

Is she egoistic? (not to be confused with healthy pride). Does she argue unnecessarily to win, or to make sense and pass her point? Is apologizing when she is at fault a big problem for her? Is saying "sorry" automatic or forced? Has she grown past mind games and cheap manipulations? Does she weaponize sex? Does she go beyond her comfort to make you smile? How is her childhood like? (to know people deeply, you need to study their childhood), Can you be vulnerable to her?

Do you find yourself pleasing her naturally because her femininity shines out the masculinity in you? or she makes you do the things she wants by force? Does she let you lead? Is she complimentary to your life and brings opposing energy that flourishes the relationship? does she contribute to the growth of the relationship by playing her own path? Can you be yourself in her presence even if you wear a mask navigating the outside world?

Most importantly, a woman will naturally do most of these things and be on her best behavior if she chooses you. Do not ever try to convert a woman that has not fallen in love with you to do all this, it will be a disaster. Go where you are loved, and the woman will naturally submit if you are playing your part right. So do well for yourself, develop yourself as a man, so you'll have female abundance and leverage to set standards.

For now, this will do. If she passes all, congrats. You got yourself a queen.

Fountainofyouth:
They are actually pretty easy to do, I don't actually see anything difficult there,

Example; why will I feel stressed when it comes to unplanned vacation or a cancelled one, when I know las las we will still go on a vacation at anytime? It's vacation o

pansophist:
Don't worry, I will also write what a woman should actively seek out in a man before committing to him.

geedot:
This is where I judge people's true behavior. Watch how they treat people below them, then you already have an idea of how good or bad a person she is or they are.

pansophist:
Yes, it is even not applicable in most cases. Break up are usually murky, messy, with a residue of a whole lot of emotional trauma, trust issues, betrayal, and a sense of regrets. In most relationships (a healthy one), the force to move on is greater than the force to reconcile or succumb to the temptations of Okafor law, relationship is not only about sex.

spice123:
Bro, with all of these tests you will fail woefully in marriage because marriage changes behaviour of both couple. I am married and I can tell you for free that when responsibilities and in-laws are involved, you can come back here and repeat these tests.

pansophist:
That is the point. If you do not feel stressed, then it points to your virtue of being patient, which is admirable. Mind you, I didn't in any way implied that the vacation will not reoccur, but simply to see her reactions and how she deals with discomfort. This test might seem so easy for you, but to some women, it is not.

Fountainofyouth:
Mention me when you do.

Fountainofyouth:
You still don't get it, the reason why I won't feel stressed is cos it's a vacation, as in going to enjoy my myself and explore, has nothing to do with patience, why will anyone feel stressed or discomfort cos it was unplanned or cancelled? Who wouldn't love to hold on to a guy that can treat a lady to a vacation at will?

Hope you get it now

Heartlessbanker:
because we don't want a used product as a wife to be na.

Shortyy:
You're still posting nonsense abi?

All my course mates that married when we were in school were runs girls, who married men they met in bars. High class men for that matter. And most of them are overseas with their hubbies.

Shortyy:
Virginity or what not isn't a criteria for a peaceful and successful marriage. And there are virgins who married for years and still no child.

This messed up mentality of some of you men is very disgusting.

Shortyy:
God will bless who he'll bless no matter what.

BabbanBura:
Person go see wife so!

CaveAdullam:
The average age of menstruation in women is between 8-14years. The essence it starts early is to quickly prepare women to make good use of their fertility, because as they grow older their fertility decreases which is fully collaborated in menopause: age 40 and above.

Now, a very large percentage of women, to be lenient enough; 70% and above, are approach for marriage immediately they hit their first menstruation, and begin to develop womanly qualities at puberty/adolescence. Since 18 years of age is when she becomes an adult and a legal age of consent, men in hordes will begin to fight for her attention in order to claim her personally. Many will declare their marriage proposals, but because she is naive, beautiful, young and can garner attention from all the cardinal points, she will decline their proposals, and cling to the men and bad boys who just want a taste of her flesh, and move away when satiated. All these happen between age 18-25.

In the age range of 18-25, many women are still young, fertile, beautiful and elegant. As a result of the sexual market deregulation, confusion on what it really means to be feminine or masculine, social obfuscation, liberalism, poor economic system, crazy ideologies and poor parental training, women resist their innate biological and natural ordination: which is to raise and nurture a family under the auspices and home of an alpha man. Instead, they focus on nonsensical careers, become social media narcissist; garnering likes, exposing their genitals for cheap pays, disrespecting good young men with marriageable potentials, enter into lion dens where they become objects of depravity, embellishing themselves in masculine traits. All these factors listed jeopardizes her fertility, and put her at a great risk as she approaches the wall---age 30.

Like I said earlier virginity/the presence of a hymen should be the first and necessary prerequisite any reasonable and high quality man should consider in a woman before committing to her in a long term relationship or marriage between age 18-25, because women at this stage are highly fertile, and still beautiful. Women around age 25-30 can also qualify if they are virgins with a high percentage of femininity. Although, at this age range it is difficult to find such women, and many put masks of superiority in order to mimic high quality women, and manipulate innocent and ignorant men into commitment.

So, any woman can get married to whomever she desires depending on her subtlety and manipulations. In this present day, many women eat their cake when young, and have it back when they catch a beta male on tenterhook. This is possible because more than 80% of men were raised in a gynocentric and blue pilled society to please women, dance to their tunes and satisfy their desires dangling the slogan: HAPPY WIFE, HAPPY LIFE before their faces.

My advice is for men who through thick and thin has upheaved themselves to the upper echelons and other males below the pyramid.

So, a lady above 26 who is not a virgin or one who is a repentant wh0re can still get married, but not to a high quality man who understands the outer and inner layers of the female nature, and how the intersexual dynamics works.

Thanks.

Wow. Wisdom.



I've never seen my life path so easily penned before.

pansophist:
I do get it now.

What if the cancellation is my fault because ayam broke ? what will you do :?

CaveAdullam:
But you will never advice any of your brother or male relative to marry a runs girl. Hypocrisy at its core.

And for your info, many men who occupy top positions are simps e.g politicians. The reason you see jobless girls with a very low IQ and mental capacity displaying houses, cars, bags and shoes they cannot afford based on their own ability.

More than 80% of men lack an understanding of the female nature, and they will commit to any woman in as much they satisfy their libido. And of course, many are rich, high quality, famous e.g Will Smith, but that an absolute simp when it comes to women. They are pawns in women's chess board, the ones you call MAGA, ATM, sugar daddies, etc.

Your runs girls classmates were subtle and good in their games.

PURE LIE!!!! LIE FROM THE BOTTOMLESS PART OF HELL.


For your information:
Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.

Now lets see who's talking nonsense, and know the truth about virginity.

Fountainofyouth:
I will wait till you're "unbroke" then we can go

A guy that can even bring up vacation to his partner will never be let off the hook easily, she will always want to please, being broke is definitely a one off thing.

pansophist:
Wife material.

CaveAdullam, I found a wife for you

Shortyy:
Oga I not get time to dey read all those trash. Virgin or no virgin, someone that will be promiscuous will be promiscuous.

And if I find a good woman I'll introduce her to my bro. Virgin or no virgin.

pansophist:
Wife material.

CaveAdullam, I found a wife for you

Palema007:
Don't put words where there are not. A test is something you do deliberately, meaning you are intentional about it, you spend your time and energy accessing a woman before you get committed, really? So what happens if she fails one or two? She isn't worth it? During the process of assessment, will feelings be placed on hold by both partners or just the accessor? Wheres the time for all these tests when some are already popping babies in first year of meeting? Lol. Your write up as much as it is virtually sensible to read, it isn't practicable. Very far from reality!

Lol... Sometimes i wish life is really white and black the way you lot make it seem!

Magnoliaa:
You have said nothing in response to what I asked... My point still stands.
You proved it, in fact.

If it possible for a lady to be lured and tAkEn from you,

then there's no way you can really keep her to remain with you, no matter what.

Do you believe women don't like to hear the truth? And they cannot be with an ordinary, down-to-earth guy, with "nothing"? (In terms of experience, money, looks, etc.)

If you believe the above determines whether a woman choose you or not, then you can't say there's a woman that can choose you for who you are. Without pretenses, etc.

sapientia:
Hahahahahaha

Fuel is now officially N170

Selling now at N200

CaveAdullam:
You don't have the time to read, but you have time to expose your low IQ about a fact you lack knowledge of, and still acts strong even in the presence of pictorial statistical evidences.

Now, every sound and logical person can judge for himself or herself if virginity is relevant for marriage or not. The truth is open for all to behold.

Bon voyage.

jimmychang:
The hymen to me doesn't make sense though..If she loves me like mad I am good ....Every mallam with their own kettle....