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Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Offpoint1: 6:21am On Nov 15, 2020
vickydevoka:
Offpoint!
No worries, I'll mention all of you in 2 months time.
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by vickydevoka(m): 6:32am On Nov 15, 2020
Offpoint1:

No worries, I'll mention all of you in 2 months time.
Na your name I mention o. Na hail I hail u
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by millionboi2: 6:36am On Nov 15, 2020
Offpoint1:

It has nothing to do with above mentioned.

There are things or business that make people millions a day, what most people lack today is information.

I think any normal person will borrow 100k for purpose of Forex or betting, knowing the risk involves.
your number?
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by charmingfrank(m): 7:10am On Nov 15, 2020
PremzY002:
I could have been among those commenting boldly here (being married).

But I made the greatest mistake of my life.


You see....

We were the perfect match.

Our love was divine.

She promised me eternal loyalty.

I felt like a king.

Yes of course....! I could take a bullet for her.


All these changed the day I went through her Facebook chat (not whatsapp ).

I discovered that I was nearly her '13th sweetheart'

That her veejay (hole between her legs) was running a 'feed the nation' program.


Anyway, I would marry blindly or by recommendation.

'Love' can go to hell cos it's a scam.


Hopefully, what I get might be 'the one' destined by heaven.

But if it's not, I'd simply endure till I get my 4th kid.

Then divorce the jezebel.


PLEASE...!!!

If you truly love your woman, NEVER open her Facebook messenger chats.
. Would you say you were lucky by going through her chat to know what she was doing? What about those that says don't invade their privacy
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by GOZIEKINGS: 7:29am On Nov 15, 2020
Marriage is a scam. If I could turn back the hands of time, I will stay unmarried n hv babymama.
Guys, ur happiness and freedom should be ur priority.

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Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Nobody: 7:30am On Nov 15, 2020
- I am happily married to the love of my life.

- She had all the qualities l was looking for and more; she is a fast learner (everything about me has pattern).

- She made a better man because she channelled my resources to better use (always talking about cutting expenses even when it's supposed to favour her).

- I had peace of mind without drama for 3 years we knew b4 marriage, she expressed her self even when angry politely.

- Infact, if l lost this my relationship then, l wouldn't have married for many years if at all l will marry again.

- Her love for me is immeasurable, and after almost 2 years of our marriage...we r even happier more than ever.

- Marriage is sweet with the right person, l am happy with my wife and l thank God daily for my rare [color=#006600][/color]gift.

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Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by olufunsho1983: 7:33am On Nov 15, 2020
To know if she's the one is to speak to GOD in your solemn heart.

If you meet a lady, date her for least ONE year and make sure you're asking the right questions, from there you will know the kind of person you want to marry. Not asking question is not praying and talking to GOD the founder of marriage.
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by IBreakRules: 7:41am On Nov 15, 2020
Offpoint1:

If you need to know, I will have to meet you in person with my lawyer, you pay me 100 millions and I sell the idea to you.

Bros try to be calming down small small na..

Was the idea customized for you or what?
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by restore8(m): 8:21am On Nov 15, 2020
NOwazobia:
First page is filled with single who are just here to catch fun. Second page, i don't know, third page with some touch of honesty.
.
KINGS don't last long in marriage, only KNIGHTS do.

I'm sorry sir, you're getting the concept of the red wrong. Of course we have men who chose to go their own way ( MGTOW), but the red pill does not licence misogamy ( hatred for marriage). it will help you to maintain your frame when you're married. You'll always be the alpha male. your dad was not a knight.

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Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Adeniran906(m): 8:26am On Nov 15, 2020
Starzo:
when she arranged two sexy runz girls for me to knack cuz she was on her period and she knew I desperately needed to do the do at that time
I went shopping for a ring the very next day
Ha,such lady are scarce
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Adeniran906(m): 8:30am On Nov 15, 2020
miketonic:
When I got her pregnant and the parent said I must marry her or go to prison.... that’s when I knew she was the one... now we have 5 kids
which year dis that happened

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Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Fvcknames: 8:38am On Nov 15, 2020
Dreadlock69:
When I know
I'm all I'm really all in , in love with all your flaws and sins
Scars are really gorgeous ain't that weird way of giving compliments

I'm all I'm really all in , i fell in love with all your Flaw's and sins
Scars are really gorgeous you the light in all my darkness
Shebi I dun try
Na juice wrld go finish u
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Seyzcham91(m): 8:40am On Nov 15, 2020
Truth is ladies don't know when Him(men) are the one for them, They just wanna get married to someone cuz of alot of factors ranging from

societal pressure
Parent pressure
Age

it's we men that that the post should be for, cuz we the one that decide whether She(ladies) is the one for us or not
JohnspeakU:
Good Day Everyone!!

There has been so many teachings on how to know that the person you’re dating or admiring is the one for you. Some people believe that you must get to date them for some time before you know but I’m of the opinion that when a man sees or converse with a woman for the first time he should know if he has found a wife or just another girlfriend �‍♂️

This question is also for the ladies to answer too.
So dear married people (male & female), when did you know that he or she was the one for you? And how did you know?

Please your contribution will help the unmarried to avoid marrying wrongly.

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Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Seyzcham91(m): 8:41am On Nov 15, 2020
confirm!
Nahdeh:
Time reach, you marry. True love is overrated
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Seyzcham91(m): 8:42am On Nov 15, 2020
infact Big nonsense!
omooba969:
Nonsense!
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by kingsolomonjnr01(m): 9:08am On Nov 15, 2020
Dshocker:
Despite the hurdles,a lot of people still got married this 2020

Probably they have been saving for a while now.
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Nobody: 9:42am On Nov 15, 2020
SILENTandSMART2:



I still don't get it , why is it dat people call me fact1, I've said it time without number dat I'm not fact1 , please stop all this abeg angry
You didn't reply my pm, I'm hurt.
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Dreadlock69(m): 9:46am On Nov 15, 2020
Fvcknames:

Na juice wrld go finish u
The shit hit differently when you can relate to...
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Johnnyplus01k(m): 9:56am On Nov 15, 2020
longetivity:
well I am not married and I will never marry, I have many girls that wants to be my babymama cool
pakam
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Johnnyplus01k(m): 10:05am On Nov 15, 2020
When the time comes it can never pass u by......even if you have babaymamas your wifey go surely show
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by akeensbussy(m): 10:22am On Nov 15, 2020
2011, I jokingly wrote on a platform called nairalist that I need a serious lady for a relationship that will lead to marriage. She was the only person that replied my message with her number.

I called her and went to see her at Surulere. We chatted and I left. After a week my phone rang, boom she was the one calling and she said I have not call her since I left her place. I told her I was busy at work.

She came to my house by weekend and since that day she became my wife. never went back home till after 2 months she was pregnant. I told her to go inform her parent, That I am ready to marry her.

9 years still counting with three 3kidz. we are still enjoying ourself.

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Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by ImaIma1(f): 10:27am On Nov 15, 2020
humilitypays:
If you are reasonable, realistic with life and wise in understanding life, there are two ways to know that you have met your spouse:

1.) You will feel at peace whenever you are around her or him; I mean that peace like a river.

For most wise men who are financially settled, what they consider most is the lady that gives them peace of mind


2.) You will be confident to discuss any topic with the person


But most times now, it depends on what the guy or lady is looking for in a spouse to be. Once the person ticks most of the qualities they feel he or she is the one.

Some it's financial status, some it's physical beauty, some it's family background, etc


Very valid points.

That peace especially, is very important. Someone you feel at home with that you can talk to about anything without feeling embarrassed or awkward.
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Fvcknames: 11:26am On Nov 15, 2020
Dreadlock69:

The shit hit differently when you can relate to...
True that....
One of my juice wrld favorites but I don't really relate on a personal level.
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by amamahdaniel(m): 11:45am On Nov 15, 2020
PremzY002:
I could have been among those commenting boldly here (being married).

But I made the greatest mistake of my life.


You see....

We were the perfect match.

Our love was divine.

She promised me eternal loyalty.

I felt like a king.

Yes of course....! I could take a bullet for her.


All these changed the day I went through her Facebook chat (not whatsapp ).

I discovered that I was nearly her '13th sweetheart'

That her veejay (hole between her legs) was running a 'feed the nation' program.


Anyway, I would marry blindly or by recommendation.

'Love' can go to hell cos it's a scam.


Hopefully, what I get might be 'the one' destined by heaven.

But if it's not, I'd simply endure till I get my 4th kid.

Then divorce the jezebel.


PLEASE...!!!

If you truly love your woman, NEVER open her Facebook messenger chats.

Your word is touching. I feel your pain.

But for me. Have been dating this lady for a year and some months now.

I think I trust her, because I have hack into her Facebook account severely time to see those she chat with or if I will find any flaws. Am surprised she hardly chat with people. That's not enough, I always check her whatsap. I find nothing criminating.

During this pandemic I lost my job but her work was stable because she is work in a pharmacy. She gave me money for up keep till am able to get a job though I was shy at first but sometimes things like this do happen.
All this are sigh this lady is the best for me. I was surprised when she gave me her Facebook password some months ago not knowing have been checking it.

What more did I want from a woman.. I never believed good lady do exist until I meet her.

In summary, I can no. Plan on o settle down with you if I don't have access to your Facebook account or whatsap.. Because that's the area most lady do shit..

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Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by SILENTandSMART2: 11:56am On Nov 15, 2020
MhisTahrah:
You didn't reply my pm, I'm hurt.

grin


I don't get what you're talking about wink

I'm new here no pm nah smiley
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by longetivity(m): 12:16pm On Nov 15, 2020
ibechris:


Amen to your request. It shall be permanent and sealed in Jesus name.
fix ur life nigga
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by FinanceHub: 12:48pm On Nov 15, 2020
Offpoint1:

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Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Nobody: 12:57pm On Nov 15, 2020
SILENTandSMART2:


grin


I don't get what you're talking about wink

I'm new here no pm nah smiley

Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by ibechris(m): 12:57pm On Nov 15, 2020
longetivity:
fix ur life nigga


U dont want too marry and I have helped u to bind it.
It's just so easy to say what u can't do,after all,no one is forcing u to marry.
Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Emanodimo(m): 1:32pm On Nov 15, 2020
What do you miss most about your old life; that is, before you became a traditional ruler?



Early, I started staying away from women. In fact, their lives pissed me off. I only had a girlfriend when I lived in Calabar (in Cross River State). I sat the Standard Six Certificate examination there. Calabar had a stadium where festivals were held and it also served as a cinema. She liked us to attend such festivals together. She would book for our tickets. When I came back to Nnewi, during my students’ union days, I ran into another one who requested money from me to buy a photo album. I told her I didn’t have money and the relationship ended there.



So, in the real sense of it, I didn’t have a girlfriend the way people have girlfriends these days. I lived in Kano and had no girlfriend. All I did as a youth was to take care of myself, cook for myself and read. I had no business with women. Unfortunately, this generation is funny. Today’s men are milked dry by women. When you give them money, your energy and time, you are wasting and killing yourself gradually.

The moment u can separate the seed from the shaft in this narrative by

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Re: To The Married; When Did You Know He/she Was The One For You? by Revelation4(m): 1:36pm On Nov 15, 2020
PremzY002:
I could have been among those commenting boldly here (being married).

But I made the greatest mistake of my life.


You see....

We were the perfect match.

Our love was divine.

She promised me eternal loyalty.

I felt like a king.

Yes of course....! I could take a bullet for her.


All these changed the day I went through her Facebook chat (not whatsapp ).

I discovered that I was nearly her '13th sweetheart'

That her veejay (hole between her legs) was running a 'feed the nation' program.


Anyway, I would marry blindly or by recommendation.

'Love' can go to hell cos it's a scam.


Hopefully, what I get might be 'the one' destined by heaven.

But if it's not, I'd simply endure till I get my 4th kid.

Then divorce the jezebel.


PLEASE...!!!

If you truly love your woman, NEVER open her Facebook messenger chats.
Sorry for what you passed through. Why don't you talk to her and ask her why she is doing all that. I'm sorry I will check her social network chat o

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