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FreeSpirited:
You are mad talking about morality when I'm giving you fact. Olodo

eni4real:
How can we ban this op!!

Stop bashing married women too!!!

Face your life, leave women matter alone!!

FreeSpirited:
Nobody plans to be broke, sometimes life and circumstances unplanned just happen.
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But for married men, the experience is not an easy one to manage as regard to being the breadwinner of the family and gaining the trust and respect of your wife.
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Women generally respond better to a financially bouyant and responsible husband. When you struggle to meet up with family expenses, it's a matter of time before your wife reacts and start giving attitude. Some women are understanding and will help out, but a financially tight men easily stress an hardworking woman which can be overwhelming for her.
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When the money is not coming from the main source, she may develop distrust, anger and depression, which in turn affects sex life and energy level at home. Little issue quickly leads to quarell and malice to the point that the wife might feel underappreciated or unloved.

Over time, the persistence of such situation will make her more vulnerable to advances from guys out there who are doing well and promising her some fun and passion she's lacking at home. This is reality. And even virtuous women do fall at this point just to find happiness away from home stress.
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I've seen this countless time even as a bachelor and it makes me get scared of my future marriage.
Talking from experience I've dated married women who happen to be in this situation, many of them feel bad, but they need that spark and passion from their man, which they eventually get outside.
I'm keeping an open mind, even when I'll marry, I believe such thing can happen. Men should make money to cater for the family, otherwise have in mind your faithful wife may start fucking around when money is not there. It even get easier with social media where they get tonnes of attention from Hot men everyday. Even wives of rich husband do fall, let alone the one of broke men.
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As I write, a very homely, beautiful, gentle and innocent looking housewife is having same issue that I'm now her emotional support. It's only time before we start fvcking cos we are already building sexual tension and preparing to meet. That's just life, there's nothing can be done about reality. Though it's sad.

FreeSpirited:
If you have sense at all, u will know I wasn't bashing women, just staying the obvious you are too blind to see

Tayor23:
so you are fucking married women up and down? Be expecting your karma later in life

Ladikwa:
You will grow up someday, some here have been in your shoes, or done worse than you. learnt bitter lesson and are trying to help you avoid making same mistake, by retracing your step but you are feeling like a don. OK oh na u get urself

FreeSpirited:
Nobody plans to be broke, sometimes life and circumstances unplanned just happen.
.
But for married men, the experience is not an easy one to manage as regard to being the breadwinner of the family and gaining the trust and respect of your wife.
.
Women generally respond better to a financially bouyant and responsible husband. When you struggle to meet up with family expenses, it's a matter of time before your wife reacts and start giving attitude. Some women are understanding and will help out, but a financially tight men easily stress an hardworking woman which can be overwhelming for her.
.
When the money is not coming from the main source, she may develop distrust, anger and depression, which in turn affects sex life and energy level at home. Little issue quickly leads to quarell and malice to the point that the wife might feel underappreciated or unloved.

Over time, the persistence of such situation will make her more vulnerable to advances from guys out there who are doing well and promising her some fun and passion she's lacking at home. This is reality. And even virtuous women do fall at this point just to find happiness away from home stress.
.
I've seen this countless time even as a bachelor and it makes me get scared of my future marriage.
Talking from experience I've dated married women who happen to be in this situation, many of them feel bad, but they need that spark and passion from their man, which they eventually get outside.
I'm keeping an open mind, even when I'll marry, I believe such thing can happen. Men should make money to cater for the family, otherwise have in mind your faithful wife may start fucking around when money is not there. It even get easier with social media where they get tonnes of attention from Hot men everyday. Even wives of rich husband do fall, let alone the one of broke men.
.
As I write, a very homely, beautiful, gentle and innocent looking housewife is having same issue that I'm now her emotional support. It's only time before we start fvcking cos we are already building sexual tension and preparing to meet. That's just life, there's nothing can be done about reality. Though it's sad.

Tayor23:
so you are fucking married women up and down? Be expecting your karma later in life

ayoblinks:
As in eh bro, e go destroy beyond remedy...
Keep fucking married women bro

Babaibejii:
Guy go Bleep your Bleep nd shut up, even if na my wife Bleep am.........all of una bragging about slippers breast nd wringled puna when many 18yo dark chocolate, pear pointing nipple and clean puna with no bush dey. Mtchew

FreeSpirited:
Like saying no justification for finding happiness when one is depressed. One should just die there.

Skmoda360:
Baba, you know lie oooo.....I wish I can meet an old fashioned lady....not all this old hag dotted slay queen who are leeches everywhere with iOS or Android on their hands.......

FreeSpirited:
You guys don't read and understand...you are talking about ya mom of analog generation...I'm talking about this digital age of social media...where your wives can meet people on Facebook, Instagram, Tinder, Twitter, whatsap group even without living her house. Dey there ...Is that not what ladies do nowadays.... consuming social media from morning till night. One was even video calling at midnight while children are asleep, and hobby in another room..so what are u talking abt. it's not about being judgement...... I'm only stating the obvious reality but Nigerians are so foolish with their lack of critical thinking

paulolee:
still d same generalization shii....ma mum didn't do any shii wen ma dad was broke and bankrupt bt instead she took loans and increased her business which made her saw more profits to sustained d family and helped my dad with some cash and with prayers....i pray i get a wife inform of ma mum.

victorian:
With your critical thinking? What do u want the Nigerian man to do now?


Cos most men cheats , whichever way we look at it but women still seat their assz down in the marriage and pray, fast, hopes he changes and become faithful.

If everyone takes to your critical thinking, I repeat nobody will marry because of the fear of being broke later in the marriage.

Uncle if u no wan marry? All well and good. But stop recruiting men to think like you


Ko le werk!

Some men WIl. Still marry, love and trust their wives and there is absolutely nothing u can do about it.

Some men sef! Always creating distrust in the mind of their fellow men. May God help u all.

baralatie:
which is one of the aim of opening the thread

FreeSpirited:
I dint blame anyone here , I wonder why you are bitter. I only said men should hustle well, to at least reduce the likelihood of their wife seeking emotional support out of their matrimony. I do not regard those women I laid with as harlot, you are the one calling them so. They are only human to seek happiness and pleasure when their homes is devoid of it. I'm only underscoring the fact that women can easily seek alternative especially in this era of social media that allows remote and virtual relationship on internet. Most of the ladies I referred to here were ladies met through social media..And it's a common occurrence. Either she's working or not

FreeSpirited:
Nobody plans to be broke, sometimes life and circumstances unplanned just happen.
.
But for married men, the experience is not an easy one to manage as regard to being the breadwinner of the family and gaining the trust and respect of your wife.
.
Women generally respond better to a financially bouyant and responsible husband. When you struggle to meet up with family expenses, it's a matter of time before your wife reacts and start giving attitude. Some women are understanding and will help out, but a financially tight men easily stress an hardworking woman which can be overwhelming for her.
.
When the money is not coming from the main source, she may develop distrust, anger and depression, which in turn affects sex life and energy level at home. Little issue quickly leads to quarell and malice to the point that the wife might feel underappreciated or unloved.

Over time, the persistence of such situation will make her more vulnerable to advances from guys out there who are doing well and promising her some fun and passion she's lacking at home. This is reality. And even virtuous women do fall at this point just to find happiness away from home stress.
.
I've seen this countless time even as a bachelor and it makes me get scared of my future marriage.
Talking from experience I've dated married women who happen to be in this situation, many of them feel bad, but they need that spark and passion from their man, which they eventually get outside.
I'm keeping an open mind, even when I'll marry, I believe such thing can happen. Men should make money to cater for the family, otherwise have in mind your faithful wife may start fucking around when money is not there. It even get easier with social media where they get tonnes of attention from Hot men everyday. Even wives of rich husband do fall, let alone the one of broke men.
.
As I write, a very homely, beautiful, gentle and innocent looking housewife is having same issue that I'm now her emotional support. It's only time before we start fvcking cos we are already building sexual tension and preparing to meet. That's just life, there's nothing can be done about reality. Though it's sad.

FreeSpirited:
Nobody plans to be broke, sometimes life and circumstances unplanned just happen.
.
But for married men, the experience is not an easy one to manage as regard to being the breadwinner of the family and gaining the trust and respect of your wife.
.
Women generally respond better to a financially bouyant and responsible husband. When you struggle to meet up with family expenses, it's a matter of time before your wife reacts and start giving attitude. Some women are understanding and will help out, but a financially tight men easily stress an hardworking woman which can be overwhelming for her.
.
When the money is not coming from the main source, she may develop distrust, anger and depression, which in turn affects sex life and energy level at home. Little issue quickly leads to quarell and malice to the point that the wife might feel underappreciated or unloved.

Over time, the persistence of such situation will make her more vulnerable to advances from guys out there who are doing well and promising her some fun and passion she's lacking at home. This is reality. And even virtuous women do fall at this point just to find happiness away from home stress.
.
I've seen this countless time even as a bachelor and it makes me get scared of my future marriage.
Talking from experience I've dated married women who happen to be in this situation, many of them feel bad, but they need that spark and passion from their man, which they eventually get outside.
I'm keeping an open mind, even when I'll marry, I believe such thing can happen. Men should make money to cater for the family, otherwise have in mind your faithful wife may start fucking around when money is not there. It even get easier with social media where they get tonnes of attention from Hot men everyday. Even wives of rich husband do fall, let alone the one of broke men.
.
As I write, a very homely, beautiful, gentle and innocent looking housewife is having same issue that I'm now her emotional support. It's only time before we start fvcking cos we are already building sexual tension and preparing to meet. That's just life, there's nothing can be done about reality. Though it's sad.

Sixfeetbelle:
I doubt those old fashioned ladies would have allowed you this amount of premarital sex experience that you've accumulated or put up with your leeching behaviour

FreeSpirited:
Nobody plans to be broke, sometimes life and circumstances unplanned just happen.
.
But for married men, the experience is not an easy one to manage as regard to being the breadwinner of the family and gaining the trust and respect of your wife.
.
Women generally respond better to a financially bouyant and responsible husband. When you struggle to meet up with family expenses, it's a matter of time before your wife reacts and start giving attitude. Some women are understanding and will help out, but a financially tight men easily stress an hardworking woman which can be overwhelming for her.
.
When the money is not coming from the main source, she may develop distrust, anger and depression, which in turn affects sex life and energy level at home. Little issue quickly leads to quarell and malice to the point that the wife might feel underappreciated or unloved.

Over time, the persistence of such situation will make her more vulnerable to advances from guys out there who are doing well and promising her some fun and passion she's lacking at home. This is reality. And even virtuous women do fall at this point just to find happiness away from home stress.
.
I've seen this countless time even as a bachelor and it makes me get scared of my future marriage.
Talking from experience I've dated married women who happen to be in this situation, many of them feel bad, but they need that spark and passion from their man, which they eventually get outside.
I'm keeping an open mind, even when I'll marry, I believe such thing can happen. Men should make money to cater for the family, otherwise have in mind your faithful wife may start fucking around when money is not there. It even get easier with social media where they get tonnes of attention from Hot men everyday. Even wives of rich husband do fall, let alone the one of broke men.
.
As I write, a very homely, beautiful, gentle and innocent looking housewife is having same issue that I'm now her emotional support. It's only time before we start fvcking cos we are already building sexual tension and preparing to meet. That's just life, there's nothing can be done about reality. Though it's sad.

lefulefu:
its like u dont know many pastors marry ex runz women.these women will claim to have accepted christ and being born again but many of them still have lovers even wen married.no be only d woman wey stand for road dey wait for customer be ashawo...there are corporate ashawos these days so know the type of woman u with.if the woman u dey with believes that its the duty of the man to be giving her money while she spends then probability dey say such a woman might be a runz woman.wen u no get money again she will go outside to spread leg and collect money from other men.no be every woman get the stomach to do such.u think its easy lying on ur back and different men with different body odour be mounting u and spilling their sperm inside u .na woman wey sabi such racket dey do am.dats why they always say an ashawo can never be retired but tired .its only wen ur wife was in the street in the past she will go back to it when u broke.others will prefer to manage or set up a biz.

MiddleDimension:
this is the biggest lie that has been peddled for years!
even if the man is well behaved, once he is broke, he ceases being attractive to women and
if they are already married, then she begins to regret being with him. because she cannot leave, she then carries out that frustration o him one way or the other. this has got nothing to do with
a man him exhibiting behaviours that are bad. the mere fact things are not working for him is enough
to make the lady disrespect and regret ever being with him. it is very much like when a woman loses
her beauty, and the man is doing very well, then it becomes difficult for him to stay with her. him not
being faithful to her has got nothing to do with what she did or did not do wrong, it is just the issue with the psychology
of men. in the same way, when a man is not doing well, he loses every bit of attraction to the wife. it has got nothing to do with what he is doing well or not doing well. it is just a thing with the psychology of the woman.
people who deny this are only willing to say that women do not have their own version of innate behaviour.

so you can see that the forces of sexual selection as explained by Charles Darwin is so great, not even your all powerful god can break it through the church wedding you do.

only men and women of great character can rise above the natural forces that shaped us.

FreeSpirited:
Nobody plans to be broke, sometimes life and circumstances unplanned just happen.
.
But for married men, the experience is not an easy one to manage as regard to being the breadwinner of the family and gaining the trust and respect of your wife.
.
Women generally respond better to a financially bouyant and responsible husband. When you struggle to meet up with family expenses, it's a matter of time before your wife reacts and start giving attitude. Some women are understanding and will help out, but a financially tight men easily stress an hardworking woman which can be overwhelming for her.
.
When the money is not coming from the main source, she may develop distrust, anger and depression, which in turn affects sex life and energy level at home. Little issue quickly leads to quarell and malice to the point that the wife might feel underappreciated or unloved.

Over time, the persistence of such situation will make her more vulnerable to advances from guys out there who are doing well and promising her some fun and passion she's lacking at home. This is reality. And even virtuous women do fall at this point just to find happiness away from home stress.
.
I've seen this countless time even as a bachelor and it makes me get scared of my future marriage.
Talking from experience I've dated married women who happen to be in this situation, many of them feel bad, but they need that spark and passion from their man, which they eventually get outside.
I'm keeping an open mind, even when I'll marry, I believe such thing can happen. Men should make money to cater for the family, otherwise have in mind your faithful wife may start fucking around when money is not there. It even get easier with social media where they get tonnes of attention from Hot men everyday. Even wives of rich husband do fall, let alone the one of broke men.
.
As I write, a very homely, beautiful, gentle and innocent looking housewife is having same issue that I'm now her emotional support. It's only time before we start fvcking cos we are already building sexual tension and preparing to meet. That's just life, there's nothing can be done about reality. Though it's sad.

Dshocker:
If truly you sleep with married women,my brother your own is finished,the consequences is unspeakable