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seanwilliam:
lol wetin u go do??

Ghostrye:
haha, I guess you'll never know now, now do me a favour and fuk off

Jeromejnr:
He "burnt" you because you didn't give in to sex.

Its normal among guys who just wanna play around. It shows where their hearts lie. So be happy.

Very few good men who fear God out there. Some people who fear God like me have been taken tho . I will soon marry my chosen Daffodil.

What's this one even saying, is she a virgin ni?

P.S, I ain't Yoruba.

Untainted007:
Broken relationship is better than broken marriage. The fact that the man went cold doesnt mean u shud stereotyped a particular tribe. If you are gud yourself why didnt u marry the other tribes u dated befr meeting this particular yoruba man. He might av seen some traits or attributes in you he can't go ahead with in term of ego, manner of talking, or even not been appreciative by simply saying thanks after he might as spent on you; being appreciative goes a long way than u may think. Sex is nt paramount in relationships, but u felt cos u didnt allow him to av anything wit u made him back out. You may be wrong in that aspect. There are ladies that will even be emphasising on sex while men may be turning them down. Don't see urself as being justified. Search for why u are still single within or to ur village people stop causing tribal war around. An adage in Yoruba u are trying to taint says "Obínrin so ìwà nù, óní óun lórí oko" meaning A woman lacks character and she's saying she doesn't av luck for husband.

HeavenlyCherub:
So I’m back for your entertainment �.

I met this guy on ig. He flew me out to Spain. This man was funny. He did a lot for me while I was there. Most times I would ask to help and he would refuse.( please before the silly comments start. I’m very independent and God has blessed me small. I want a man to be part of my life but I don’t need one. This was my attempt at dating again (first date since I posted my last sob story years ago) but every time I open my heart I get burnt. Why?

What is all this? I think I need night vigil �. This man was so consistent when I was there, he was kind, never wanted to leave me or get off the phone the entire time. Catered to my every need. He made several attempts to kiss although I declined at first I eventually gave in after some days. He made an attempt for sex and I turned him down the whole time I was there. We did nothing sexual, he slept on the couch my entire stay. He wasn’t so happy about this but still respected my decision. - I’m tired of doing things my way and now I decided to do things Gods way.

We laughed the entire time, it was a great time. I left on a good note. This man told me he loved me, made so many promises. I actually started liking him back.

Now I’m back in California and I feel like it was once chance. If I tell you this man has gone cold. I don’t know what I did wrong. Is it my ambition/independence that scared him away? Is it the fact I turned him down? How does a man who seemed so into me go so cold? Is it the case of Yoruba demon?

It’s mood swing after mood swing and it’s like I’m forcing him to engage in conversations. He is no longer as sweet as he was before. He barely communicates.

You guys I need prayer for real. I have toasters but none so far seem like the right man for me. I’m tired of attracting bad guys or good time men.

The worst I have encountered are Yoruba. I tire for una. I wash my hand�.

Those who are married. What am I doing wrong? Do I need to down play my education/achievements? Do men give up easy when they can’t have you? Why do you men give out what they can’t maintain?

ZIINI:
Heavenlycherub heartless is not the right English to use for this man please reconstruct your endings
Before opening the thread I thought maybe the man in question broke your heart, or maybe you caught him red handed cheating on you ,or maybe you stood by him in time of trouble and when things became accurate for him he didn't look at your side . he didn't kill someone.
Why are you now you using the word heartless for him
You're a woman you need to wisen up
He went cold because you didn't give him your body
His first intention towards you is sex not true commitment,marriage, or long term relationship.
Someone said something up there and what he said is nothing but the truth.
At least 84% of men both young and old are fûck boyz
So for a man to be faithful and honest to one woman hmmm is next to impossible
I pray God provide your own husband for you
lastly when meeting this people don't show it that you're already desperate in search of a partner
They can use this to prey on you
Again don't ever see any issue or difficulty as problem cause when you see it as problem it has become problem that very moment. Pray fervently for God's direction.
Shalom...

dbestuncle:
I like your writeup but we have some faithful men so don't confuse people with how impossible a faithful man is.
It's possible and you can join the group (if male) or marry a member of the group

ZIINI:
Heavenlycherub heartless is not the right English to use for this man please reconstruct your endings
Before opening the thread I thought maybe the man in question broke your heart, or maybe you caught him red handed cheating on you ,or maybe you stood by him in time of trouble and when things became accurate for him he didn't look at your side . he didn't kill someone.
Why are you now you using the word heartless for him
You're a woman you need to wisen up
He went cold because you didn't give him your body
His first intention towards you is sex not true commitment,marriage, or long term relationship.
Someone said something up there and what he said is nothing but the truth.
At least 84% of men both young and old are fûck boyz
So for a man to be faithful and honest to one woman hmmm is next to impossible
I pray God provide your own husband for you
lastly when meeting this people don't show it that you're already desperate in search of a partner
They can use this to prey on you
Again don't ever see any issue or difficulty as problem cause when you see it as problem it has become problem that very moment. Pray fervently for God's direction.
Shalom...

kunle75:
Thanks for this piece.

She has ego problem.

She's even quick to remind the readers how bless she is small,who cares, somebody like me don't really care about your achievements but character which is scarse nowadays among our women.
The next thing you here them saying is mens are jealous of them .

Fake women everywhere

Kondomatic:
The reason relationship tire me these is because of this me first mentality of many people.


People don't care about your needs as long as theirs are being met and when you get tired of trying and quit, they will start opening threads.


You want him because he was meeting your needs, he doesn't want you because you don't care about his.


Move on and stop disturbing us.


See as you're emphasizing on laughter as if he is a relationship to laugh.

HeavenlyCherub:
So I’m back for your entertainment.

I met this guy on ig. He flew me out to Spain. This man was funny. He did a lot for me while I was there. Most times I would ask to help and he would refuse.(please before the silly comments start. I’m very independent and God has blessed me small. I want a man to be part of my life but I don’t need one. This was my attempt at dating again (first date since I posted my last sob story years ago) but every time I open my heart I get burnt. Why?

What is all this? I think I need night vigil �. This man was so consistent when I was there, he was kind, never wanted to leave me or get off the phone the entire time. Catered to my every need. He made several attempts to kiss although I declined at first I eventually gave in after some days. He made an attempt for sex and I turned him down the whole time I was there. We did nothing sexual, he slept on the couch my entire stay. He wasn’t so happy about this but still respected my decision. - I’m tired of doing things my way and now I decided to do things Gods way.

We laughed the entire time, it was a great time. I left on a good note. This man told me he loved me, made so many promises. I actually started liking him back.

Now I’m back in California and I feel like it was once chance. If I tell you this man has gone cold. I don’t know what I did wrong. Is it my ambition/independence that scared him away? Is it the fact I turned him down? How does a man who seemed so into me go so cold? Is it the case of Yoruba demon?

It’s mood swing after mood swing and it’s like I’m forcing him to engage in conversations. He is no longer as sweet as he was before. He barely communicates.

You guys I need prayer for real. I have toasters but none so far seem like the right man for me. I’m tired of attracting bad guys or good time men.

The worst I have encountered are Yoruba. I tire for una. I wash my hand�.

Those who are married. What am I doing wrong? Do I need to down play my education/achievements? Do men give up easy when they can’t have you? Why do you men give out what they can’t maintain?

dukeprince50:
I think u have to understand relationship is all about compromise and sacrifice

The guy bears ur burden, catered to ur every need and u no even allow the tip to enter, bress sef him no see to suck?
Madam u are Wicked.

modified
Forget ppl that will call him a fvckboy he is not.
If u ask financial help from ur boyfriend and he refused every time u ask but u cater for his sexual needs and do cook for him. If u leave that guy later, no one should call u a gold digger, its the same with guys.
If we cater for ur financial needs and u refused to satisfy our sexual and emotional needs, we have every right to leave u when we can no longer bear it. its a relationship not a prison after all.

make I hear wetin lalasticlala get to talk on this matter

HeavenlyCherub:
Those who are married. What am I doing wrong? Do I need to down play my education/achievements? Do men give up easy when they can’t have you? Why do you men give out what they can’t maintain?

HeavenlyCherub:
All these comments I read are so laughable. He didn’t pay for everything on this trip like most assume. I won’t go into detail on this. We were in a hotel. I took care of most major bills.

Surely you don’t expect me to open up to someone I just met the same week. Do you people not fear soul ties? I value myself I’m not reckless and I will not increase my body count for temporary pleasure. Why is sex the only way to show appreciation?My body is sacred and I’m not my own. I have made mistakes in the past. I’m just trying to do it Gods way as my own way has failed.

Imagine if I slept with every man that I came across? I did thank him for everything and showed him I liked him too. I just didn’t want to do anything sexual as this affects your judgment. I just wanted to take it slow.

I truly believe he was so persistent and wanted me to agree being his girlfriend because he wanted to have sex. This man said and did everything just to have me. Why are the words ‘ I love you’ used so loosely by some of you men.

There’s no way to tell if things would have been the same if we were intimate. I can only thank God for protecting me.