omooba969:


Calm down lady...no be war.

ityP:



It's not better anything. Even ladies who want to knack when you invite them to come visit would immediately change their minds if you lay it out that it's sex you want. As long as it wasn't rape, the said lady can't do me anything. Please, "come visit" and "come have sex with me" are practically same thing. Even for America movies, after date, when the guy invite the babe to him house, na knack dey follow. It's standard practice. If I invite a lady over, she should have at the back of her mind that I want to knack, cause I'd definitely initiate it. That being said, ANY GUY WEY RAPE BABE BECAUSE SHE COME HIM HOUSE DESERVE TO BE CASTRATED AND JAILED WITH GAYS FOR LIFE

Silentgroper:
Are u a sierra leonian guy?

richie240:

I dey respond to ur post as e be say u sound sensible- a rare virtue amongst our ladies nowadays!
If nor be say life don spoil trowey ni, a well brought-up girl has absolutely no biznaze visiting d house of any man whatsoever.

Any man wey get interest for u shd do d needful by visiting ur parents first, pay the bride price, marry u, den una fit take it on from there.

There's a saying that "why buy d cow when u can get d milk free?".
This is what many 21st century girls aka 'slay-kwins' fail to realize.
If d guy can get free access into her vagína, what extra motivation does d guy needs to propose marriage to her? Las-las she go turn babymama as hooking a guy with pregnancy nor dey work again.

Without trying to make excuses for some he-goats, men are moved by sight! Any small 'seeing' and the third leg is already 'raising shoulder'. Many women still fail to realize that men and women don't reason alike! Men's arousal i s like light switch- it can turn on in microseconds whereas women's arousal is not so. So for a girl to naively think she will go to a Guy's house (esp d one who fancies her) and think that they are going to be discussing 'zee world' is naivety taken to the next level.

Me I don tork my own, d person wey wan hear, make he/she hear!
Na everybody waka cum by their selves!
I wee not cum and go an kee myself biko!

BadRadio:
Caucasian

21cents:


First time a lady came to my crib after I passed the wooing stage she initiated sex by trying to seduce me and kissing me but I didn't yield, and I felt disgusted of her. in my mind I was like- if she could do that to me then she's been doing it with guys before we met. this one na fine girl o.

she came off too cheap because i expected the initiation should be ignited by me.

Silentgroper:
*scoffs*

ease up on d hydroquinone bro.

Chii59:
Because many Nigerian men have no clue about personal space and consent as regards a female's body, especially under their roof.
Some men end up raping their female guests.

lefulefu:
correct guy
it should be the girl who has the desire to know ur place and wanting to visit not u forcing her to come
if she is really into u na she go even dey ask for ur home address not u begging her to come
there are some ladies that will even invite u over to their place and beg u to stay the night
its all about chemistry and attraction.

BadRadio:
shut up!!!

mmsen:


All facts.

The way many Nigerian guys struggle to control their lust is embarassing.

mainaugustine:
I once invited a girl to my house..she said she had exams the next day and needed where to read and light too...I didn't touch her that day but several days after we talked and she said I wasn't man enough because I didn't sleep with her that day....how do you explain that

Powerfly:


nothing like that. If he insist.. There are many diplomatic ways to turn him down.. If he uses force.. If he sees the next day.. Let him call me a bast*rd

saasala:
Because that is how it is and that is how it should be.

90% of the time, the guy had previously taken the girl out, spent some money on her and/or rendered some sort of financial assistance to her. Since she is not related to him by blood, nigga needs some sort of compensation so as not to feel like a fool.

90% of the time a guy asks a girl to visit him, he wants sex. 9 out of ten times a lady visits a guy, she has been offered the D.

And isn't just that the norm? Isn't that the way it should be? If I am not taking you out to the restaurant or bar or something and I tell you to come to my house (especially after asking for an urgent 2k, taken you out and spent some money on/for you), should you not know that I want to fvck you?

Na Naija girls dey do shakara na. Oyinbo girl knows that inviting me to your house means we might have sex, she might even be the one to make a move. South Africa and Ghana babes no get chill. If they come to your house and you dont F them they won't pick your calls again.

But trust this Naija babes with their "Its my first visit" Mantra. If you leave them on the first visit, they come with "Its just my second visit", but will keep asking you for money. She will bring her family problems for you to solve as if you be father Christmas.

If you are not my sister and you ask me to solve your financial problems when I was the first to approach you with "Let's date or let's fvck", once I render that help to you, you have instantly been obliged to pay me back with your pussay or you get the fvck out.

I can help ladies randomly without asking for sex in return but not the ones I toasted myself. I toast you, you no gree, you won come turn me to ATM. God punish your entire family and generation.

WoundedLamb:
You are here to shout at girls and not the opportunistic boys who think a girl coming to their houses is an invite to fvck. I really feel bad when some men defend assault by saying things like "if she didn't want to do it, then why did she go to his house?". Now, the same men are here to still scold girls for being cautious. Will girls leave this planet for you people?!

nonut:

No matter what you think you can do, don't take that mentality to a man's house.
Even if you find a way to get back at him, the deed has been done already.
If you don't know a guy too well or you have no intention of having sex with a guy you're visiting, think twice before you visit.
Better safe than sorry.

lascos912:
Ordinary "give me your number "sounds like that to them not to talk of come visit me

Why Does "Visit Me" Sound Like Sex To Many Girls?!!

Powerfly:



I'll be glad to have him dead.

21cents:


First time a lady came to my crib after I passed the wooing stage she initiated sex by trying to seduce me and kissing me but I didn't yield, and I felt disgusted of her. in my mind I was like- if she could do that to me then she's been doing it with guys before we met. this one na fine girl o.

she came off too cheap because i expected the initiation should be ignited by me.

nonut:
Famous last words. We've heard that one before.

nonut:
Famous last words. We've heard that one before.

21cents:


First time a lady came to my crib after I passed the wooing stage she initiated sex by trying to seduce me and kissing me but I didn't yield, and I felt disgusted of her. in my mind I was like- if she could do that to me then she's been doing it with guys before we met. this one na fine girl o.

she came off too cheap because i expected the initiation should be ignited by me.

NACE13:


Bro, no offense but either your sexuality is not really in check or you're confused. A girl who likes you won't make things difficult for you. She's attracted to you in every way and you believe she's cheap because she willingly gave herself to you.
Do you know how many guys are at her feet begging her, yet she chose you and you see her as cheap.
I'm sure you'd say married women are cheap if they they initiate sex with their husband.
Change your mindset, bro

zynzyn:


21 Cents confirming the above!

larryking540:


I once left a lady Bec she told me she wasn't interested in having sex with me ,when she came to my apartment , but guess what ,I never kept on persuading her that very moment,when she got home ,she wrote on her status,it's only a foolish man that toys with lady feeling ...

I had to reinvite her again ,this time I kw I must not give up ,I must see the pants down ,and I had it eventually ,na every day I day hear ,are u at home? am coming


so my question is was I foolish or cool to still have my way into her panties or I would have let her go , acting like a mumu man ?

zynzyn:


The problem is that it is still acceptable for women to say no when they actually mean yes!

This is a M A S S I V E problem!!

stanliwise:

As the saying goes, “until you try to get sex, that is when you will actually get sex”.
That is the way it works but the way people go about sex this day is really alarming. For God sake how would you not having sex make you a mumu man?
I can’t understand how when people get sex they feel they have been compensated. Sex is just a five minute pleasure and I see some of my guys doing all sort of big stuff for girls.
When they finally have sex, they feel compensated.

To be it is utter stupidity. Gods knows I will never see sex as a compensation for anything I intend to do for a girl, if so, I would go to ashawo joint.

Powerfly:


u must have been with a whole lot of women to arrive at this point.
Well! Wahala for straight girls wey dey send una. I care less about una anyway.

Dreyton36:
Honestly I hate seeing guys disrespecting women
Any man who's got love for their mother at heart won't take women as cheap sex object
I can imagine how some guys find fun in sleeping with girls that are not their girlfriends ,just in the name of being Hot
I'm not tryna say I'm a saint tho , but I don't think it's sane for a man to sleep with a lady he's not sexually attracted to just because you rendered her a helping hand or because she visited you
Girls are humans too with blood flowing through them

Some girls just wanna have fun , there are girls who just prefer hanging out with guys more than females
If a lady asks you for money why not just be bold enough to tell her I don't have, I'm sure she won't kill you

There is nothing like golddigger my brothers , if a lady requests money from you and you think what she needs it for is important why not just help her like helping a fellow human without expecting nothing in return , but NO automatically you're now owing them sex

I know of a girl who always hangs around us every night , she grew up in that area , when we're chilling at a barber shop where we drink and weed she'll be with us , if we're going out to the club she'll go with us and we'll protect her, that doesn't make us simps , it's called SELF RESPECT
And no single guy in our midst has ever made advances towards her , she's busty , tall , beautiful , and she's got a very big ass , to crown it up she's super sexy tbh
And if any guy on our circle likes any babe around and the babe is playing hard to get ,. That babe in our midst will handle her case , she'll befriend the girl as ensure the guy gets her , but that's only when she's sure that he truly love her
That's how it's supposed to be
Knock that thought of pvssy all the time and respect ur name

Pls guy need to learn to respect women , women have to feel more safe around guys , I know some will insult me as usual , asking me if I don't have sex , yes I do , but with my partner ,
My partner is my bitch , my treaure , my wife , and my everything

Pvssy is overrated don't let it ruin you , not all pvssy have grace , there are some pvssy u will bleep you won't know you've just killed ur glory that isn't even big before

Just my opinion for those who choose to listen tho

Powerfly:


Nah.. The reason why most ladies aren't vocal about their desires is all because of the level of hypocrisy that runs in a typical Nigerian guy's blood.
Alot of ya'll wants and expects a lady to be open-minded but the truth is.. An average naija guy can't handle an open minded lady.
In foreign countries.. 'Come to my house' means 'come and know my place.
They know how to court a lady.
But here in Naija, they care less about chemistry and knowing the lady better. Na to f*ck.