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Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 10:54am On Nov 16, 2020
angry

I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Bennysam: 11:36am On Nov 16, 2020
Only this little and you’re complaining, Hahahaha
Those lazy idiot that think with their pussy

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 11:39am On Nov 16, 2020
Bennysam:
Only this little and you’re complaining, Hahahaha
Those lazy idiot that think with their pussy
My brother I have lots and lots of experiences this are just the few I decided to bring up.

It's so annoying.

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nobody: 11:43am On Nov 16, 2020
The thing tire me too,the way some ladies beg ehn,thats why men treat them anyhow

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Bennysam: 11:44am On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:

My brother I have lots and lots of experiences this are just the few I decided to bring up.

It's so annoying.
I stopped dating long time ago, if I see you , I go straight to sex I want we discussed I pay you and every body go there own way

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Lexusgs430: 11:54am On Nov 16, 2020
Den get different format, but leading to the same question......

EITHER :-

- Rent is due
- Already evicted
- Parents in hospital
- Siblings in hospital
- Sister just gave birth (stuck at hospital)
- Kids are starving
- They are on hospital admission
- Police arrested them, demanding bail
- They only need 500 naira to have lunch/data (biggest scam)
- They just got attacked
- Set up small business for me
- Loan me small money..........


Infact the fake excuses five much..... Guy's begging are not any different...... Guy's too can beg, ehen......

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 11:56am On Nov 16, 2020
Bennysam:

I stopped dating long time ago, if I see you , I go straight to sex I want we discussed I pay you and every body go there own way
I'm telling you...that's the best option considering how most girls see relationships as an exit door out of poverty rather than hard work.

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 12:00pm On Nov 16, 2020
Lexusgs430:
Den get different format, but leading to the same question......

EITHER :-

- Rent is due
- Already evicted
- Parents in hospital
- Siblings in hospital
- Sister just gave birth (stuck at hospital)
- Kids are starving
- They are on hospital admission
- Police arrested them, demanding bail
- They only need 500 naira to have lunch/data (biggest scam)
- They just got attacked
- Set up small business for me
- Loan me small money..........


Infact the fake excuses five much..... Guy's begging are not any different...... Guy's too can beg, ehen......
True.

It's so annoying that's why most guys have become wise. I have a colleague who told me that the highest money he can give to any girl he's dating is 2k if she feels it's too small she can leave. Cos if a guy choose to foolishly give her the money she's asking for, more request would come sooner or later.

Their problem no de finish

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 12:00pm On Nov 16, 2020
Zzor:
The thing tire me too,the way some ladies beg ehn,thats why men treat them anyhow
True

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 12:04pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:
angry

I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male


angry
Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 12:07pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:
angry

I say this with annoyance and it's a very irritating reality.

I have noticed the high rate of begging amongst our girls. One guy even wrote on one of the front page threads some months back that dating a Nigerian girl is like taking care of an orphan. I'll say orphans are even better cos you know they have no one. But these girls have parents, siblings, uncles and aunts...etc yet they still beg shamefully.

I have so many experiences but I'll share only 5 of them cos it's really annoying.

1sf experience...an ex who is married. She called me during the pandemic and complained how things are hard and all that, kids bla bla bla. I sent her 20k just cos of the kids I was like at least let them eat. After that this girl turned me to her great provider starting telling me how she regretted marring her husband and she still loves me, bla bla bla. She even told me she won't mind having sex with me as long as I can be assisting her financially if she asks for it. I just deleted her number and blocked her.

2nd experience...a girl who lived in my neighborhood years ago. Facebook brought her up as people you may know so I added her and we started chatting. I then asked her to share some of her recent pic with me let me see how she looks currently cos I noticed that the ones on her profile were quite old 2017 to be precise. She told me to subscribe for her so she can send them. I was like WTF are you that miserable that you can't afford less than 5mb to send pictures please keep 'em

3rd experience...I was in a bus going to Abakaliki from Lagos so there was this girl sitting with me. Initially I ignored her but knowing that it's going to be a very long journey I decided to engage her in a discussion at least to pass time. We got talking from Lagos till we got to ezzillor in Ebobyi state I told her I'll drop at Ezzambo she started tell me to assist her with some money to buy things for her parents that she hasn't seen them in a while imagine? I told her I don't travel with excess money because of thevies she told me to do transfer that she'll withdraw it. I just ignored her till we got to Ezzambo I came down.

4th experience...a friend invited me to his church, after the service I met this girl very good looking. I took her number and we started chatting. She then told me that the following week was her birthday. I replied congratulations, she then told me that she wants to celebrate it. I told her that I'm not stopping her she can go ahead. She then replied that she needs money to do so. I ended the chat. This is a girl we haven't even started talking for up to a week.

5th experience..I went to Airtel office to upgrade my sim to 4g they've been sending me silly messages and I was very tired of it. When I was done I saw a girl there so I decided to give her a lift. Truth is she wasn't going my direction but I just decided to take the stress of passing through her direction so as to strike a conversation with her. I dropped her off collected her number. This girl's hunger couldn't even wait for 2 days the following day she sent me a text that she ordered for some goods pay on delivery and her atm is bad I should help her transfer 60k that once she sorts out her ATM she'll remburse me. I mean which guy falls for such silly format?

Ladies please change.

If you want guys to value you then place value on yourself. Stop cheapening for crumbs. A lot of responsible guys loose interest in girls with this attitude leaving only the players who obviously can afford your excesses for a short period after which they'll dump you and you'll be back to square one.

I do love and respect women but stop this attitude it's bad. Very bad.

Concerned male



^^^^^^STORY
.....errmm bro..i dont meannnto sound rude but ONLY broke guys that say women are gold digger.........Quit nagging & juss find a job, i beg!!!(no oofeinse)
angry

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Cerebellum: 12:08pm On Nov 16, 2020
See you
Those girls mad gan...I can't even imagine how you will see a guy today and the second day you start begging for money, how annoying and irritating is that!

They've always love the hard way
If you know, you know

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 12:10pm On Nov 16, 2020
Cerebellum:
See you
Those girls mad gan...I can't even imagine how you will see a guy today and the second day you start begging for money, how annoying and irritating is that!

They've always love the hard way
If you know, you know



^^^^^^STORY ((((same advise to u too sir))))
.....brother....i dont meannnto sound rude but ONLY broke guys that say women are gold digger.........Quit nagging & juss find a job, i beg!!!(no oofeinse)
angry

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 12:10pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:




^^^^^^STORY
.....errmm bro..i dont meannnto sound rude but ONLY broke guys that say women are gold digger.........Quit nagging & juss find a job, i beg!!!(no oofeinse)
angry
If they also look for a job will heaven fall. If the guy should be told to look for a job which is normal, ladies themselves too should also look for jobs as well. Transferring your generational problem to a man simply because he asked. You out is a very stupid thing to do

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 12:11pm On Nov 16, 2020
Cerebellum:
See you
Those girls mad gan...I can't even imagine how you will see a guy today and the second day you start begging for money, how annoying and irritating is that!

They've always love the hard way
If you know, you know
Hunger and lack of vision is what makes them do this

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Cerebellum: 12:12pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:




^^^^^^STORY ((((same advise to u too sir))))
.....brother....i dont meannnto sound rude but ONLY broke guys that say women are gold digger.........Quit nagging & juss find a job, i beg!!!(no oofeinse)
angry

Funny you

Am going to implore you to stop being a sick dirk head!

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 12:14pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:

If they also look for a job will heaven fall. If the guy should be told to look for a job which is normal, ladies themselves too should also look for jobs as well. Transferring your generational problem to a man simply because he asked. You out is a very stupid thing to do


...Brother being a man means being alpha mame...u either a man or man dressed as women...meaning u either a man or u choose to be gay. Women are supoose to be treated like queeens....
Sir, if u can afford women than u are free to wear womens cloths so guys can spend on u...QUIT MOANING I BEG!!!!!(no oofense)
angry angry

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 12:15pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:

If they also look for a job will heaven fall. If the guy should be told to look for a job which is normal, ladies themselves too should also look for jobs as well. Transferring your generational problem to a man simply because he asked. You out is a very stupid thing to do


am a baller & I spend moiney all the time on women & I never complain....why on earth are u complaining? U dont have moiney then start saving yiur pocket moiney gaddddemit!!! (no ooofense please_ angry

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 12:17pm On Nov 16, 2020
Cerebellum:


Funny you

Am going to implore you to stop being a sick dirk head!


son I have moiney ...U dont.
Be nice to me & i will post u £12 cash to buy your sef a nice suit there in Nigeria.... so u can get women!!! (THANK ME LATER)
angry

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Cerebellum: 12:19pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:



son I have moiney ...U dont.
Be nice to me & i will post u £12 cash to buy your sef a nice suit there in Nigeria.... so u can get women!!! (THANK ME LATER)
angry

Haha!!

Arindin

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Lexusgs430: 12:23pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:

True.

It's so annoying that's why most guys have become wise. I have a colleague who told me that the highest money he can give to any girl he's dating is 2k if she feels it's too small she can leave. Cos if a guy choose to foolishly give her the money she's asking for, more request would come sooner or later.

Their problem no de finish


Wahala is like a bicycle.... E no dey ever finish...... wink
Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by baralatie(m): 12:24pm On Nov 16, 2020
Lexusgs430:
Den get different format, but leading to the same question......

EITHER :-

- Rent is due
- Already evicted
- Parents in hospital
- Siblings in hospital
- Sister just gave birth (stuck at hospital)
- Kids are starving
- They are on hospital admission
- Police arrested them, demanding bail
- They only need 500 naira to have lunch/data (biggest scam)
- They just got attacked
- Set up small business for me
- Loan me small money..........


Infact the fake excuses five much..... Guy's begging are not any different...... Guy's too can beg, ehen......
as in ehn!

some


guys



can


begggg


for africa!
Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 12:25pm On Nov 16, 2020
Cerebellum:


Haha!!

Arindin

^^^ther u go...we glad u now finaly sound dumb for opening dumb thread(no ooofeinse) undecided
Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Cerebellum: 12:27pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:


^^^ther u go...we glad u now finaly sound dumb for opening dumb thread(no ooofeinse) undecided

Now I rest this case!

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by TheCork(m): 12:31pm On Nov 16, 2020
Cerebellum:


Now I rest this case!

dont rest..please delete the dumb thread. ..thanks!! smiley
Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by anochuko01(m): 12:34pm On Nov 16, 2020
I'm a very introverted person so I've not really met alot of girls in my life. But I've recently decided to go on a spree and I've got about ten of them I'm currently chatting with.

It's very funny how they expect you to start dashing them money just like that without bothering to even create any form of friendship.

I however have two outstanding ones who have never asked me for a dime, one of them being a student and the other one losing her job due to coro.

It'll also be fair to also condemn guys who are only interested in entering ladies pants as soon as they meet them.

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by Nazgul: 12:41pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:



am a baller & I spend moiney all the time on women & I never complain....why on earth are u complaining? U dont have moiney then start saving yiur pocket moiney gaddddemit!!! (no ooofense please_ angry
For your mind you've made sense ko?

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by BrokeNhustling: 12:59pm On Nov 16, 2020
Nazgul:

Hunger and lack of vision is what makes them do this
no no no..you got it wrong boss...it is greed...them dey chop 3 or 4 times a day oo..roof over their head..papa and mama dey work and still give you money once once...the main problem is social media..they go on Instagram and Facebook and see things..say fake lifestyle and real people balling..women are moved by what they see..they are easily deceived reason the devil went to Eve and not Adam..social media is the main problem..influence and friends too get hand..na just to find one old aunty to born for you o..put am for house..take care of am..that one you know say she done waka all the waka she want..if she like sef make she continue the waka..me nor send.. just born for me and care for me and my kids..me too go waka my own..just don't kill me or stress me with your waka..this life nor too hard..

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by neutralmind: 12:59pm On Nov 16, 2020
TheCork:



am a baller & I spend moiney all the time on women & I never complain....why on earth are u complaining? U dont have moiney then start saving yiur pocket moiney gaddddemit!!! (no ooofense please_ angry


Clap for yourself.... Baller kor. Footballer ni

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by fati2001(m): 1:01pm On Nov 16, 2020
BECAUSE THEY ARE SO LAZY.....
ONLY TO WEAR LATEST FASHIONABLE STUFFS FORMIN BIG GIRLS..















BUT NAH THEIR TYPE MEN DEY RUSH PASS.

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by BrokeNhustling: 1:03pm On Nov 16, 2020
anochuko01:
I'm a very introverted person so I've not really met alot of girls in my life. But I've recently decided to go on a spree and I've got about ten of them I'm currently chatting with.

It's very funny how they expect you to start dashing them money just like that without bothering to even create any form of friendship.

I however have two outstanding ones who have never asked me for a dime, one of them being a student and the other one losing her job due to coro.

It'll also be fair to also condemn guys who are only interested in entering ladies pants as soon as they meet them.
nice..but the last paragraph sir...that is because we don know say them must ask for money.. we already know they don't love us and she is just in it for her own gains..all we want is to cum..na make rich men nor too dey complain..because they have the money plenty to go round..na poor man na dey hear am pass..because once they meet most ladies it always comes down to the man providing..and them nor con get..God nor go shame us o.

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Re: Why Have Most Girls Become Beggars? by BrokeNhustling: 1:05pm On Nov 16, 2020
fati2001:
BECAUSE THEY ARE SO LAZY.....

ONLY TO WEAR LATEST FASHIONABLE STUFFS FORMIN BIG GIRLS.. na just to cum we need them for..nothing come out..them they quick enter our eye..
















BUT NAH THEIR TYPE MEN DEY RUSH PASS.
















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