If you are wise, you should know that the problem is from Lola. Why wish him happy birthday online when you are not in good terms with him? He don't need it and she know. She is an hypocrite

YoungAncient1:
Paul okoye aka rude boy is a fool nothing less. He keeps repeating this line of accusation year in year out. If you don't want her birthday wishes, ignore it. What measure do you take to reach out to your brother for reconciliation? Why are you so pained that he chose to be more of a husband and father than a brother?

Once a man marries, his immediate constituency changes to his wife and kids. Learn to live with it.

Bitterness is poison to the soul. Paul needs to take it easy. If a man finds peace with his wife, mother of his kids.. that's all that matters. The Bible says "the two shall become one". You may not like it, but Peter has made his choice.

No amount of love between siblings can cause them to cleave to one another. It's the one you're married to you cleave to cos coupling, sex and procreation has made it so. A wise man will accept his wife as she is cos that's how to make things work. Marriage..love is acceptance. Peter knows this, it's why he's found peace. His allegiance, loyalty and faithfulness is to his wife. People need to understand this simple but relevant fact.

Home breaker. She broke the bond between them.
See ehn, I used to be a male feminist till I lived with my cousin and his jezebel wife, that's when I knew women(wives) are not to be treated with much respect, they will turn your head and turn family against eachother.
Treat them with iron hands.
Home breakers.

Please I need an unbiased person to explain to me where this whole issue started from,I've never followed the story before.Anyone please.

NwaAmaikpe:





The vilest and cruelest of all serpents are the most subtle.

Don't worry Rudy
We see through her schemes and social media sainthood but we are comforted from knowing that every evil has an expiry date; one day the veil will fade and the other Pea in your pod will know that women are not worth creating enmity over.

Posterity will forever use these twins as the perfect example as to what marrying an evil woman can do to a family's unity.

The evil wife is lucky I am not Okpara Jude, she would have been back to her maiden name since 2015.
She has not only divided a great family but has deprived the fans of Psquare from hearing great music.

This is why the bible is a complete book.
We've been warned not to unequally yoked with unbelievers and for this reason did Abraham, Isaac and Jacob insist that their sons went back home to marry amongst their kin.
But the wayward one went against his late mom's dying wish and brought a termite-infested rotten log back home now no one can sleep in peace.

Tufiakwa!
2 green bottles were standing on the wall till one green bottle decided to carry condemned oil.
Now the condemned oil has stained both bottles and even the wall.

welcome back ......we missed u

nuelyoyo:
In my opinion, I think the birthday stunt by Lola on social media is just eye service. If someone has made it known that they don't like you, why not maintain your lane. You and your husband aren't in talking terms with his twin, why not just stay on your own, wish your husband happy birthday and let him decide if he wants to reach out to his brother.

If she wish only her husband you lots will still castigate her. Wetin una want?

ABlAstate:
But why would Peter chose to marry a woman old enough to be his mother

Keep quiet

Omo Igbo ppl tribalism no be for here o,what do you want the girls to do,Omotola that is not their family wished only Peter and they attacked her,what will now happen if Lola did such?
How can you say that shez the cause of their problem do you live with them to have come to such conclusions,what she has been trying to speak to Paul one on one and hez giving her the cold shoulder and she thought that the only way to reach out to him is through his birthday?
Yorubas are too should start defending our own because this ppl go just frustrate her life.
Igbo ppl only like it when an unknown Igbo person marry a known Yoruba person but if the reverse is the case omo..

Collecting money from who to shoot music video? You no like shoot heaven

dangotesmummy:
broda ode.at your age you no still get Sense


When the twins were collecting money from her to shoot music videos she wasn't manipulative, when you were driving her Car before you blew she wasn't manipulative.youre lucky you have such a sweet and peaceful sister in-law in the person of lola.if it were other Yoruba women for each Time you talk shiii they'll keep reminding you that they were the ones that made you and without their money and support you will not have been better than those selling CDs under the bridge.

Lousy Razz he goat.very immature

And as for you nairaland lout,think before you type.no be every time you go dey do like say Na from gutter you grew up

spiralwedge:


Live with?

Are they living together?


Too many kids on NL these days, time to leave this forum for them

Hahaha me kid
Recheck my date of registeration abeg,I've bn on this earth for a long time ma.

Am right by saying living together,yes read that again,am an igbo by tribe and no matter your age,marriage and inclination,you can't run away from your family.even that house dem deh avoid e get as e go red reach family go enter.

Even ordinary village meeting u cant run away from "umunna", once in a while you're expected to show face and pay your dues. Or else you'll burry yoursef or with strangers if that be the case.

Lemme ask you,if smthn happens to paul or abi,who do they contact? Isnt it the family member??

Even in death na family member the point where dem deh burry the man,so u see am not a kid afterall, you owe me and apology.

Onyi22:
So na Yoruba woman scattered this handsome twins?
Afonjas and their miserable way of doing things.

. Afonja no good? The negative effect of marrying outside your tribe.

Ochelyko1:


What do u expect bro when ur brother marry who senior him by far, almost 50years and u and ur brother is 39years so why won't she manipulate you people? Marry someone you can control not who will control u.

Is love and life about happiness? If your brother is happy with him mama mate and wan marry am, why should that give you headache and fever. If you dey complain about ordinary 11 year difference between Lola and Peter Okoye, watin you go come talk about the 25 year age gap between Emmanuel and Brigette Macron.

luminouz:


Lmaoooo...
You must be God to know these details.

Everyone is saying yen yen yen like they know the TRUTH...

Nawa oo

Details? It's obvious Peter isn't doing well musically as he used towhen he was with Paul. Paul said it with his mouth he did all the song writing and recording and Peter didn't dispute it. So where is the lie in what i said now?

Jonathan39:
Collecting money from who to shoot music video? You no like shoot heaven

she made them.lola is their source!

Take it or go and do your findings

samuelchimmy:
two brothers can't be against one woman. She must have done something

A whole family can be against one woman if for instance they are prejudiced against her tribe

NwaAmaikpe:





The vilest and cruelest of all serpents are the most subtle.

Don't worry Rudy
We see through her schemes and social media sainthood but we are comforted from knowing that every evil has an expiry date; one day the veil will fade and the other Pea in your pod will know that women are not worth creating enmity over.

Posterity will forever use these twins as the perfect example as to what marrying an evil woman can do to a family's unity.

The evil wife is lucky I am not Okpara Jude, she would have been back to her maiden name since 2015.
She has not only divided a great family but has deprived the fans of Psquare from hearing great music.

This is why the bible is a complete book.
We've been warned not to unequally yoked with unbelievers and for this reason did Abraham, Isaac and Jacob insist that their sons went back home to marry amongst their kin.
But the wayward one went against his late mom's dying wish and brought a termite-infested rotten log back home now no one can sleep in peace.

Tufiakwa!
2 green bottles were standing on the wall till one green bottle decided to carry condemned oil.
Now the condemned oil has stained both bottles and even the wall.

o
u never see couple of same community fighting tooth and bull??
which kind school u go
does good character has to do with where u come from??
does the character of a stupid person represent the whole tribe.
die in tribalism if u like.....

jrusky:


You are the one wrong bro its all about tribalism stop being hypocrite.

Name any successful Igbo man that marry other tribe and smile? None. Bro its unfair and very satanic.

I'm a full blooded SE but very very far different in reasoning. My younger brother married Edo girl it was a war simply our dad is a big retired senior millitary officer for that reason some idiots tribalist should be deciding for us or what? I had to banned 2 of my so called uncle never to step feet on my father's compound again and if they do I have promised them I will put them on wheelchair for the remaining of their tribalistic miserable life and I even text their childten to warn their father and went to police station to put down my statement they all know me and know when I'm ready to strike i fear no one.

We are too racist and tribalistic. Let Lola and her family be or whoever not should go and die.

And they want 2023 presidency but hate fill their hearts. Nonsense!!!

......jeeeeez!

This is the most senseless and useless comment from the most brain-deprived buffoon parading himself as a human being.

First, you are not and can never be Igbo, stop calling yourself a bird when you are not worth a butterfly, 'who dash you Igbo abi ya popsy also lived as self acclaimed Igbo'?

My advice before it's late for you: Kindly go and ask your mother about your real origin, she's the only one who knows where she took-in a nincompoop like you. What a moronic dumb ass!

generationz:


Details? It's obvious Peter isn't doing well musically as he used towhen he was with Paul. Paul said it with his mouth he did all the song writing and recording and Peter didn't dispute it. So where is the lie in what i said now?

Wetin concern me with their issue

Go into the kitchen and make me lunch

Juliusmalema:
I said it earlier that this woman Lola is everything bad to Okoye's family.

Who tire okoye family apart- she is the one.

She manipulates the stupid boy and pitch him against his own flesh and blood..

But will be the first to come out as saint on media.

The woman Lola is a devil. Look at how she scattered a whole family and ruining it to pieces

Very deceptive woman...... Every thing is totally wrong with that woman Lola.


Late Mrs Okoye will be turning in her grave for what a stranger has succeed in turning her once lovely and enviable family to..

if as a man u allow cunningness of women overwhelm u, u are senseless. every woman has manipulative tendencies but the man shud resist it.

I did my findings and saw nothing, can you help me with a link or something

dangotesmummy:
she made them.lola is their source!

Take it or go and do your findings

This is why I am never a proponent for inter tribal marriages. Issues will always be difficult to solve due to alot of differences. I have always blamed peter. With time he will start blaming himself for all the allowed to go wrong with his family.

They are identical twins, made from a pot of genetic soup, it is clear Peter got the looks and paul got all the brain matter. That would be the only reason to explain why these quarells and animosity happened in the first place.

It is truly painful that the Yoruba woman saw that Peter was a fool and took it to great advantage.

coolsegun2002:


U will not die young jare

amen

if as a man u allow cunningness of women overwhelm u, u are senseless. every woman has manipulative tendencies but the man shud resist it.

Smellymouth:
Lola should swallow some self respect & bone them. This thing she does year in, year out constantly looks like she’s begging for their friendship.

But then again, her kids and the rest kids are close cousins, it’s hard to ignore if not the kids will inherit the whole nonsense they met their parents doing...

This rudeboy nor just get sense, age shaming people is awkward.

What he meant was "at your age, you never get sense?".

Only God knows wot is hidden under the sun. Huh wetin i sabi....Let peace reign

Smellymouth:
Lola should swallow some self respect & bone them. This thing she does year in, year out constantly looks like she’s begging for their friendship.

But then again, her kids and the rest kids are close cousins, it’s hard to ignore if not the kids will inherit the whole nonsense they met their parents doing...

This rudeboy nor just get sense, age shaming people is awkward.

It appears like you know so much about what is going on there for you to know that Lola wants good, and Paul is petty.

The reason why it is hard to meddle in matters like this is because we (the outsiders) don't know much.

And actions of any of the insiders can be deceptive.

In fact, it is hard to take side in a husband and wife fight. Our bias most of them makes us want to support who we percieve to be disadvantaged (most of the time, the woman). While the woman may actually be the devil.

Jonathan39:
I did my findings and saw nothing, can you help me with a link or something

keep searching

kolade560:
if as a man u allow cunningness of women overwhelm u, u are senseless. every woman has manipulative tendencies but the man shud resist it.

seconded

Jackson105:


Just shvt ur mouth, I pray your husband will reject u, if his family doesn't like u.

Say Amen

She doesn't have to shut up because she's right.

Why won't her husband's family like her if she has good character and attitude towards them?

Juliusmalema:



It is not everytime you go just come online to write nonsense.

The woman called Lola is tearing a whole family apart and all you could write is this gibberish.

Are you okay?

Sometimes it is better to keep shut than just writing out of ignorance.

who no know say pocahantas na confam olodo. 38yr old hag with no functioning brain - on NL 24hrs a day chatting shiit.

Humanoid01:
This still feels like a dream to me, the way the highly esteemed psquare cut ties and became blood enemies. A relationship that existed for over 30 years got broken just like that. Now it's just about four years, and they act like there was nothing between them. Chai! Wahala for who nor believe say Satan dey real. I hope they settle their differences soon.

That's what happens when you have a cunning lady in b/w brothers (family) Also when you have a bro that can't pretend over liking you. For me, I can't pretend over liking you, I hate pretence. when you offend a bro they tell it to your face loud and clear, why because they still have spirit of love in them, although some ladies also do same.
This is the true story elders have been telling me. "A bad woman will destroy the family, but, a good woman bring her family together in love and unity. if a prophet had told me that the then psquare will end up this way, I go say make he go sidon........... I pray they come together in love in the nearest future.