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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 9:18am On Nov 06, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 9:19am On Nov 06, 2020 |
Klass99: Am confused |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 9:35am On Nov 06, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 9:46am On Nov 06, 2020 |
Klass99: Let me be frank with you, I proudly did all I have done not really because of my son but because I wanted her to be comfortable. If I say I don’t love this girl then I’ll be deceiving myself and everyone on this thread. Now she has a confidant, an adviser and she now want to do the things I don’t know her for. I won’t accept that |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 10:01am On Nov 06, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 11:10am On Nov 06, 2020 |
Klass99: Trying is where my confusion is |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 1:48pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by shugasofttouch: 7:05pm On Nov 06, 2020 |
Broken2020:What do you want now? be sincere and honest. |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by 4ckyou: 10:41am On Nov 07, 2020 |
cococandy: So when she was broke and had nothing, money was everything to her then, but now that she's financially stable because of the guy money is no longer everything right? |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by edego2up(m): 1:16pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
4ckyou:Guy, this is Nigeria you surpose know for yourself, this chic don hot gold mine.you will pay and pay for the rest of your life.please don't blame yourself.a profet is involved This one pas you oo her friend don carry am Waka so thread with care��� 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 5:22pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Klass99: Been quietly working to make things work between us since. I admitted I was too strict and temperamental just to make thing work all still because of my son, I promised her a gift which I gave her last Monday. I ordered a bike for my son and it was delivered yesterday, we agreed she must hide it and present it to him on his birthday but somehow he saw it when it was delivered, he knew it was for him, he cried for it and I asked his mom to give it to him which she reluctantly did. This afternoon we were talking and I asked if he has forgotten about the bike na there wahala start oo. She: I’m going out, Me: To where ? She: Festac, Me: What for? She: To get something from a customer Me: What’s that She: Sugar Me: When are you coming back She: Na wah, what’s when am I coming back? I said I’m going to get sugar in festac why are you asking again when am coming back Me: Okay sorry but don’t take my son to Ayo’s place oo and I don’t want you to go there . She: You can’t tell me who to be friend with and who not to be friend with. We started arguing again, from all I observed she can’t be submissive anymore and I can’t be with such person, her enemy is my enemy and my enemy is supposed to be hers. Meanwhile I called her aunt to talk to her about two weeks ago, her aunt concentrated on that friend of hers, saying anyone who advices you to quit the father of your son isn’t a good friend, this guy is not around yet he makes sure you guys lacks nothing. Obey him and leave this girl. I was doing everything to make her happy again but it’s obvious my efforts isn’t enough. I called her aunt just now and she told me she will call her again but if she is not ready to listen to me am sorry I’ll let her be. Now me I don tire, I don’t see this thing working at all. I had to call my dad this afternoon and explained everything to him, he said why did you take them to Lagos when you don’t have anyone in Lagos. Obviously am tired, I was considering my son but I know he will be fine, he is fully my responsibility. I don try now am done. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 6:29pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by eightsin(m): 6:58pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Simp! Let her go. |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 7:58pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Klass99: She has vowed she won’t let me have my son but she won’t deny me access to him whenever I want to see him. My dad said I should book a flight for them to come to Benin on Friday after my son’s birthday. He said he wants to ask her a few question, he didn’t fail to remind me that I entered the road to marriage from the wrong route. As for me, am tired.... attached is what I bought her on Monday just to say am sorry
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by barakah(m): 9:29pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Have you considered a future without this lady? Get serious with your life and think about the next 5 to 10 years. Look for someone with a mature mind and start thinking about settling down. Meanwhile, reduce or cut off her allowances entirely including the rent. At least you've not seen her or your child in a while...they will survive. Stop acting all lovey doveey there. Man up and plan a future with a woman that has a vision. Afterwards, you will get your kid whether through the courts or family intervention. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by FanOfMyself: 9:31pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Broken2020:Showing us the iPhone is not necessary bro. |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 9:38pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 9:46pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by FanOfMyself: 9:49pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Klass99:It's okay then, I know amebos like you will be enjoying it. Maybe it's all for fun sha |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by keepingmum: 11:05pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Broken2020: Send me a pm , perhaps i can give you a few suggestions that may help |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 4:39am On Nov 30, 2020 |
FanOfMyself: Not sure I was showing you. I mentioned a specific moniker 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 5:02am On Nov 30, 2020 |
Klass99: The phone was just a gift and to say am truly sorry, besides I made it a habit to change her phone every year either before her birthday or few days after her birthday. This one came a bit late this year cos COVID-19 affected everything. I don’t really know where I missed it, but I wanted to touch every areas to see if I could fix things and the more I try the more it get worse, now I dare not crack jokes because I’ll get a very cold response, I dare not ask questions about where she is going, I’ll get an aggressive response. She does not tell me about where she is going now, I just call and see her driving, if I ask where she is going she will say I want to go get this and that. My younger sister once teased me saying I bought her a car to be raving mad In the streets of Lagos since she is not under the authority of anyone. This thing has become too toxic, I can’t take it anymore, she was the only one I could talk to on the phone for hours, not even my parents or siblings. I swear I just confuse, this will make me see every woman out there as a betrayer. I don’t know how this will end. The more I look the less I see......... imagine this happening again in the week of my son’s birthday. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 9:03am On Nov 30, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 9:16am On Nov 30, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 9:25am On Nov 30, 2020 |
Klass99: Thanks so much. |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 8:51pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 9:56pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Klass99: The whole thing has turned terribly bad |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Ishilove: 10:27pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Broken2020:What happened? |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 10:37pm On Dec 10, 2020 |
Ishilove: My dad invited her, her uncle said she shouldn’t honor the invitation. I have been avoiding her, I only call her to speak to my son |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Klass99(f): 3:49am On Dec 11, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 4:00am On Dec 11, 2020 |
Klass99: My dad invited her from Lagos, she was supposed to travel by flight oo... Her maternal uncle, she is between 29/31 of age... she stopped asking me for anything. I have moved on and I’m living the best of my life. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Broken I Need Advice From Matured Minds by Broken2020: 9:35pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Good evening to everyone that followed my post, thanks to everyone that advised me and to those that insulted me I say thank you too. I learnt a lot from all y’all said, but it’s very unfortunate that she is really bent on quitting whatever we had. The more I tried the more harder puzzle she became. I just found out there is someone she is seeing, she told me the guy was an investor who offered to invest in her business, she said the guy wanted them to sign a 15yrs contract and I advised her not to go into that contract because 15yrs is so much. She reluctantly agreed. When I noticed she wasn’t happy with my advice then I told her to tell the guy to bring his proposal so that I can send it to a business analyst to advice us on the deal. About 1 month later I asked if she has heard from the guy she said no. I have confirmed all she is doing with the guy, it’s business and pleasure. She is bragging to everyone about the business and I know she has not saved enough to invest into the business. No lies am heart broken, but i know I tried. Please how do I delete this thread? |
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