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Adebami895:
Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please

Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it.

I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me.

Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling.

The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable.

I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only.

Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.

The only woman you should have sex with must be your married wife

Adebami895:
Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please

Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it.

I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me.

Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling.

The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable.

I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only.

Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.

My little advice is to let her be. Just keep showering her love but don't disvirgin her. It may make her go wild with ecstasy and you won't be there to satisfy her cravings, then she will start sleeping around with other guys in school which will eventually hurt you when you find out

ProphetM0hammad:
Who is asking you about that?
However if it's based on her words and expressions only, you might be in for a surprise.

OK imam mohammed. I've heard u. Lemme come and be going.

Ademoore07:
OK imam mohammed. I've heard u. Lemme come and be going.

Please beware, if a lady tells you she's a virgin, that doesn't mean she's a virgin.

Truvel:
Lol. Na 18yrs Old Girl U Dey Call Small? If U See What 18yrs Girls Are Doing, U Will Be Astonished. My Advice 4 Him Is Just Like An Advice I Would Av Given My Own Son If He Were In His Shoes. I Know My Comment May Sound Weird Or Unpleasant But If Done, Happiness Would Be D Outcome. Dat Doesn't Mean He Won't Face Challenges. At D End He Will Overcome.

Happiness will be the outcome of 18yrs old girl getting pregnant when her mate are in sch right? That's why i wish ur sisters & daughters same. Amen!!!

Boy face your future and leave preeeek n pucie. You have a long way ahead of you

If you don't someone from her street or sch will.

Go ahead n burst the cap.

Chai! 18 ad 21 yrs....na only God go help us for dis country.

ProphetM0hammad:
Please beware, if a lady tells you she's a virgin, that doesn't mean she's a virgin.

What do u know about ladies? All ladies are not the same pls. I had dated at least 5 ladies. Im not a novice.

Truvel:
Op, I Want To Advise U As A Good Bad Guy Now. If U Take My Advice D Better 4 U. Do U Really Love Her & Want To Marry Her. Disvirgin Her B4 Going To School, If U Don't, Anoda Guy Dat Doesn't Love Her Or Dat May Not Love Her Will Disvirgin Her B4 U Return 4rm Sch & It Will Hurt U Very Bad. After Disvirgining Her, Get Her Pregnant & Do D Little U Can Do 4 Her B4 Going To Sch. After Ur Sch, U Can Do D Remaining Things. Note: I'm Advising D Way I Would Advise My Own Blood Brother. Getting A Virgin As A Wife Is Hard. Don't Misuse Dis Opportunity U Av. U Can Thank Me Later.

.a very good advice there! chop her first then start the marriage formality which you conclude when you guys are fully done with the school dtuffs, if you don't ,regret will be your own .Take these advice from me as an elder in relationship matter, this same girl very loyal now will surprise you later about her ways if you don't make your print bold now, change the say, is the only constant thing.

�just passing by

Alaye focus on ur self for now
No disvirgin am
E get why

If she loves u truly, she no go misbehave

Repent, Repent, Repent. That's all I have to say.

Adebami895:
Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please

Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it.

I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me.

Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling.

The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable.

I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only.

Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.

Bros i just dey feel for u, as d bashing by members here nor go easy... Lol

Angelacruz:
Pls tell him

experience is da best teacher

Ademoore07:
Once they restore electricity to your residence, visit the nearest transformer and hug it.

as usual, helpless hypocrite.. Get lost

anthonyuncle:
experience is da best teacher

true

Sixfeetbelle:
Thank you for accepting that men have an entitlement mentality over a woman's body.

Thank you for accepting that it's an entitlement to expect men not to think that way, especially when most women have an entitlement mentality over a man's money.

Anyway, do learn to use adjectives like "most" and "some". This will help you avoid the fallacy of hasty generalisation.

Geofavor:
Thank you for accepting that it's an entitlement to expect men not to think that way, especially when most women have an entitlement mentality over a man's money.

Anyway, do learn to use adjectives like "most" and "some". This will help you avoid the fallacy of hasty generalisation.

Go tell your fellow men who open women bashing threads everyday to always use some and most.

chocboi78:
as usual, helpless hypocrite.. Get lost

Why will i get lost? We know your type. You and your type we resort to rape. Child-marriage ambassadors. Tufiakwa.

Even if she's a virgin... Open the gate cos as u dey pity her bad boys out there will make d job done without your consent... do it before u go to school

Adebami895:
Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please

Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it.

I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me.

Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling.

The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable.

I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only.

Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.

Nonsense article. I just wasted 2 mins of my life reading this bullshit

Ademoore07:
Why will i get lost? We know your type. You and your type we resort to rape. Child-marriage ambassadors. Tufiakwa.

shut up oga..hypocrisy is the worst thing a man will resort to...claiming holy holy in public while u do the unimaginable behind close doors..Better no mention me again..Anu mpama

Truvel:
I Get Ur Point Too. She Will Continue Her Sch. If D Guy Truly Loves Her, He Will Help Her. I Know My Comment Sounds Weird But Atimes In Life, 4 U To Get Something U Cherish So Much Sacrifice Has To Be Made.

yes,you are correct,the guy has to be strong to attain it.

chocboi78:
shut up oga..hypocrisy is the worst thing a man will resort to...claiming holy holy in public while u do the unimaginable behind close doors..Better no mention me again..Anu mpama

Omo ale jatijati

Sixfeetbelle:
Whether her husband gets to deflower her in the end or not isn't the point here. The point is: no man should tie himself down to that singular duty.

It's because he thinks it's his that's why he's worried about deflowering her and whatnot. Otherwise tell my why this is his worry out of everything else to worry about.

She may get admission into a university in another state and fall out of love with him, he may fall out of love with her after they get separated by educational stress, she may suddenly get married to a rich aristo this Christmas, she may even fall sick and die, all of these are viable worries for a relationship as young as theirs but no, deflowering her is his concern.

Until young men in relationships stop expecting the hymen to be theirs, they will always be caught in useless worries like this and the foolish "betrayals" that may result if they don't get to deflower her. Now imagine after six months she says she's no longer a virgin, would his love for her hold faith or would he move on?

Fair point!

Ademoore07:
What do u know about ladies? All ladies are not the same pls. I had dated at least 5 ladies. Im not a novice.

That's what you think.

bros.... nsuk ntie ubedooo.

o bro u better do wetin u wan do now cause by the time she's already in school and you ain't there with her she may end up getting bleeped by someone else and if you confront her to ask her why she did that she'll say she has already agreed to have sex with you but you are the one who didn't go ahead to do it. Trust no girl my brother u don't know the kind of friends she'll meet in school that will show her way to that long thing

Adebami895:
Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please

Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it.

I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me.

Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling.

The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable.

I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only.

Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well.

Deflowering her does not guarantee her waiting for you.
I've met over 10 virgins who claims to love me and will wait till we are legally married before we both deflower on our wedding night.
But once they get behind that immorality lecture walls called the University, they sleep with as many guys as possible, and still blame me for not doing it first.

If you truly want to marry her as you claim, discuss it with her. If she can wait till you both are through, good. If she can't, fine, take your division, but don't open her up for all flies to perch on and fly away.