saaphiere:
The earlier men understand that their WIVES need more attention and caring than their moms the better for them. Something like 60:40.
If you want to experience hell in your marriage, buy something for your mom first before buying for your wife or give your mom a quality item than your wife.

luminouz:
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Which mod are you paying to push ya topics to the FP? ...


Your attitude stinks and you promote gender wars with your asinine topics.

DKM123:
When I say nairaland should be changed to dumboland, this is what I mean.... Many of una no get sense.


If by woman, he means girlfriend, then he is absolutely on point.


But if he means wife and many of you here are also supporting him thinking he also means wife, then walahi, una no get sense.



In anycase, so after you and your wife start a family, then it is a taboo to buy car for your wife who would probably get pregnant, take the kids to school, go to the market to cook your food, take the kids to the hospital for medical check-up etc compared to your mum who is probably retired and doing nothing.

You see why I think you people here are mostly dumb?

If your dad had bought her a car, would you be here hyperventilating.

Our parents have a duty to give birth to us, raise us and then LEAVE US TO START OUR OWN FAMILY. That is why I get disgusted at parents who have kids because they want the kids to come and take care of them FINANCIALLY at old age. If you are poor yet decide to start rearing kids like fowl inside the poverty because you want them buying car and house for you when they grow up then you are a selfish person.

This our generation of parents MUST have it at the back of thier mind that IT IS OUR DUTY TO PLAN FOR OUR OLD AGE and NOT the duty of our unborn kids. If you cannot afford to have kids, then DON'T. If it's only one or two you can afford to bring into this world, train up in a way that you can still afford not to depend on them at old age, then have just one or two.
No go dey suffer dey train 10children with the hope say the house wey you no fit build and car wey you no fit buy cos you dey train battalion, na dem go come buy am for your for old age.


I and my husband should be able to get our own car and if God forbid we do not have a car and my son decides to allow his wife and kids trek and buy me a car, I would return it. He owes a duty to his young family MORE THAN ME, HIS MOTHER.

Most wives are working and supporting and some are even bread winners sef. If your wife says the family can't own a car until she buys for her father in the village, you people talking BS here will do 360.

MJBOLT:

only idiots neglect their mothers and take care of their wives and it's a fool that will call what duncan has said a dumb statement.

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CalliDora1:
Can the old woman drive? abeg chilax.

Ikillbrokehoes:
My useless mother na cofirmed Ode! She never made any sense

WrittyWritter:
Omo dey plenty oo..spending money on girls and buying her expensive things when ur mother is hawking or doing menial work and is using a phone dat as spoil..dat she have tie with rubber tire...I feel like slapping lot of guys I see every time..especially all those yahoo boys dat waste their money...dey will use money to lodge in a hotel with their babes 4 days while their mother does not even have money to eat...Ahh..dey are plenty in my side...I really pity d mothers..but if police arrest dem or dey get into trouble it is d mother dat will go and beg 4 den and bill dem out..babe nowhere to be seen..but d worst thing is after all this dey still continue with their lifestyle spending on girls while their mothers suffer

Coolcalmcollect:
foolish idiots full this country sha, Dem no go help you hustle but when you make the money finish dem go wan force advice ontop you how to spend am. the moment I marry my wife is the moment she becomes more important than my mum. mama wey wan trek go trek even if you buy am range rover, so stop been a fool and mind your business, you fit buy gwagon got your mama make you buy okada for your wife na your business. bastard.

WrittyWritter:


I reject ur type 4 any guy I know and will know..chaii..so u can allow it mother-in-law to suffer while u enjoy..I know some mother in-law get their own 4 body but

D man dat will marry better not have a mother...I am so shocked by what u said I don't even know what to say... ...I don't understand were u ladies get dis entitlement mentality from aswr..I'm a lady and I don't have it..so how do u ladies develop it

planetx13:
I just want to ask you one question.... What exactly has this 'WIFE" done to warrant her getting more love and attention ?.... Or is it because she has done him the """very great privilege""" of being his wife...... If you want more love and attention, then be willing to show him love and attention too and even go extra ( yes, women are meant to be the love and attention givers... A man can buy a car worth millions for a woman but the art of creating a soothing, relaxing and loving atmosphere lies mostly with the woman)....

A mother will stand by you, with you, for you, around you, over you, if possible become you just to take away your pains ....
Even sadists or sorry" feminists" always say that- the only woman that will feed you , love you, pamper you and still be with you no matter what is your mother and not them.. so why wanting the benefits

A man will always love his mother on a way women will never understand... Know this and know peace


Ciao

saaphiere:
The earlier men understand that their WIVES need more attention and caring than their moms the better for them. Something like 60:40.
If you want to experience hell in your marriage, buy something for your mom first before buying for your wife or give your mom a quality item than your wife.

As for Duncan laying curses on men because the take care of their wives than their mom, I really don't blame him. Anyone is entitled to do or say dumb things to trend. Just of recent a child made a fool of his parents just to trend by telling them their TV is touch-screen.

I am not saying you should not take care of your mom. I am not saying you should wait for your mom to beg you for things before you give her.
I am saying you should take care of your mom and wife but never give your mom more than you give your wife if you want peace in your home.

God bless you. What most of them don't know is, most wives are the pillars of their homes these days. What if the wife made the man who he is?

Not in this case. If the mom is sick, a sane man should use his money and take his mom to the hospital. You can't compare life with car. But in the case were both mom and wife are healthy, invest more in your wife. Your wife is the one you return home to meet everyday.

Wow! God bless you. Even the Bible says a good friend is better than a bad brother. There are men who won't amount to anything if it wasn't their wives.

saaphiere:
Before I even have a son I will buy my own cars. I am not the kind of lady that until the put food in her mouth before she eats. I go out and get my own. I will be so successful that my children wealth won't matter to me.
I will be giving out cars to my sons' wives on their birthdays.

saaphiere:
Before I even have a son I will buy my own cars. I am not the kind of lady that until the put food in her mouth before she eats. I go out and get my own. I will be so successful that my children wealth won't matter to me.
I will be giving out cars to my sons' wives on their birthdays.

Biglittlelois:



And you will become a father someday, when your kids prioritize their mum over you since you chose your mum over their mum, hope you won't cry like a baby

lefulefu:
if u laying a curse at men who buy cars for their wives at the expense of their moms then what can u say about men who send girlfriends overseas for studies and then get dumped
like a story i heard of a banker who took heavy loans from the bank to send a girl he called his girlfriend to Australia for studies.babe dumped him after she got a good job after graduation and the man was deep in the hole with debt.what would u say to such a man Oga Duncan Mighty

saaphiere:
Before I even have a son I will buy my own cars. I am not the kind of lady that until the put food in her mouth before she eats. I go out and get my own. I will be so successful that my children wealth won't matter to me.
I will be giving out cars to my sons' wives on their birthdays.

Nazgul:

Hope you'll maintain this your stand when your son grows up and gets his wife a brand new luxury car and you're there treking to church and market every day.

Talk is so cheap and convenient when it doesn't concern or affects us directly. But we immediately change and become hypocrites by protesting aggressively the moment we become victims of our supposed views.

Ninejaywon:
No be lie. I remembered when I was down financially abt a decade ago, no motherfucker came to my aid, my mother "lent" me 2 million naira and till this very moment has not asked of dat money. Which woman on Earth can do dat?? No woman on this Earth can ever take the position of my mother in my life even if Dem wan use kayamata or tayamata.

saaphiere:
The earlier men understand that their WIVES need more attention and caring than their moms the better for them. Something like 60:40.
If you want to experience hell in your marriage, buy something for your mom first before buying for your wife or give your mom a quality item than your wife.

saaphiere:
Before I even have a son I will buy my own cars. I am not the kind of lady that until the put food in her mouth before she eats. I go out and get my own. I will be so successful that my children wealth won't matter to me.
I will be giving out cars to my sons' wives on their birthdays.