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internationalman:
After achieving everything in the world without a family, then you would know that kids are the biggest achievement of all...

Even though I'm scared of marriage but the feeling I get when my babe is sleeping over is enriching. I sometimes wonder how it would feel when this sleeping over happens everyday...

Everything depends on how many marriages you've wrecked with your tactlessness

azawuoba:
bro reports has it that most people get tired of that companionship just after 3 years of marriage


I can't imagie sharing the bed with one kpekus with the rest of my life .

Marriage is more about companionship than sex.

Just make sure you don't marry someone because she's "a pro in bed"

: Davido pikin scatter? do they still recognize him as a father and husband? case close... next

adaolisa29165:
: Davido pikin scatter? do they still recognize him as a father and husband? case close... next

lol

Yes I do

hashtagged:
No they are not achievements they are liabilities

Y is that?

Marrying a rich man is an achievement

One of life mysteries I don't think I will ever understand.

Life itself is a liability. Your life get spent and diminishes till you get to the grave

If you think is not an achievement ask that wealthy man that has been married for twenty years but couldn't have a child.

Ok

haha! right about that

Na this part(Africa) of the world we put am for head like Dreadlock, For Europe and USA, dem no care and thats why you see People of 60, 70 and above being single, never married and no kids

hashtagged:
No they are not achievements they are liabilities

Marriage is one out of many achievements one can attain in this life.

BadRadio:
Some live to harness themselves for it.

Some would set no other goal & do nothing else but look forward to the excitement of being married.

For a man or a woman, Is marriage and having kids an achievement?

When a man or a woman decides by choice not to have kids or get married, does it in anyway affect them?

What are the core importance of being married or getting married.

Is having children paramount in marriage?

Marriage & having kids are very good achievements. If some people don't get married or have kids, they shouldn't be made to feel any less

[b][/b]Depends on how you look at it.

I concur 100%

internationalman:
That's how rotten the system has gotten.
And it's mainly because relationships nowadays set of on a foundation of sex..

When you are dating the right girl you hardly get tired of her let alone marriage..

You see that my babe I never get tired of her...

In fact the more I see her the stronger my hunger for her gets..

hashtagged:
No they are not achievements they are liabilities

It is what it is .

Seyzcham91:
haha! right about that

Na this part(Africa) of the world we put am for head like Dreadlock, For Europe and USA, dem no care and thats why you see People of 60, 70 and above being single, never married and no kids

Does that mean marriage & having kids aren't achievements?

internationalman:
After achieving everything in the world without a family, then you would know that kids are the biggest achievement of all...

Even though I'm scared of marriage but the feeling I get when my babe is sleeping over is enriching. I sometimes wonder how it would feel when this sleeping over happens everyday...

Lol...I pity this one..

CAPITAL NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

I think it is a liability and in some way an achievement. Just like owning a car

Whether you like it or not, as humans the only way we gain some kind of fulfilment and happiness is to be responsible for something/someone.

Marriage is great for companionship sake. Nothing beats having a lovely partner to come back home to, having children to raise and care for. It gives a sense of fulfillment. God designed it so.

Though It has its downsides just like any other thing on earth but the downsides of being lonely when you're ageing hits you more.


So get married and raise children.

Kestolove:
To us it is, but for some of dem ladies dat have crossed 30 ND know husband dey console demsefs by saying it's not an achievement, watch dem cum attack me now

SHUT UP!
KEEP DECEIVING GULLIBLE PEOPLE THAT YOU ARE A FEMALE. REAL PEOPLE KNOW IT IS A SMALL HUNGRY BOY THAT IS BEHIND THIS ACCOUNT

gunners160:
are u married? No. so chilax.
in every marriage dhr is always the fantasy stage, excitement stage, decline stage and Restoration stage. Don't conclude yet , you never start. It takes couple with a will to pass and conquer these stages not just by typing

Please educate him. He is still a newbie.

No because anybody can marry and get someone pregnant, doing it doesn't mean it will have a positive effect on their life.

Even being able to drink water in a day is an achievement. Whatever you do is an achievement so far it makes you fulfilled

Good and mature cross fertilization of ideas from gunners160 and internationalman up there.

This is how to argue and not all these trowing of tantrums kids do here regularly

They are both mandates.

To me, no.
To others, maybe.
A lot of women see marriage as their retirement plan.
And marriage isn't the main priority of life.
Everyone with their choices.

thesicilian:
For some women, yes.
One doesn't need any special credentials to be able to marry or have children. The true achievement comes from being able to raise up godly children

Gbam, you have spoken the truth