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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by SlurUsername1: 2:01pm On Dec 06, 2020
nabiz:
you are a big liar. In my next world I will still love to marry my present wife. This is my 7 years in marriage.

That one concern you madam..
Marriage is a scam, enjoy your scam alone

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by GreaterFuture(m): 2:01pm On Dec 06, 2020
Most Nigerians are not happy in their marriages, especially the women, This i Know for sure.
The fact that you are asking shows that something is Seriously wrong somewhere and it is Obvious.
If a person has not improved on himself/herself as a human being and not matured or Experienced, how would he/she settle with another who is most likely the Same? Also deep deep down if we want it be honest, marraige is not for many People, cos of a lot of deep numerous, Complicated and not too complicated reasons. Whether the person is sensible or not, matured or not, good or not, faithful or not, is not the point, Marraige just isn't for everyone, and that's a Solid Truth. But many do not or can ever ever bring themselves to accept that Truth, because of the way our society is plus they are not even bold enough to live their life like that.
If about 60% of the married women i have met in my life, including old, middle aged and young, Rich or poor, Illiterate and Educated, North and South East, Home based and Abroad, etc... were attracted and Would have been a sure 'Lay' for me if I tried, (Some even behaving like teenagers around me) then it shows that something is seriously wrong somewhere. I know there is a lot we still do not understand about life, our existence, consciousness and psychology etc. but Still i think this is kinda Sad.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by petitejolie(f): 2:01pm On Dec 06, 2020
nabiz:
you are a big liar. In my next world I will still love to marry my present wife. This is my 7 years in marriage.
thank you ooo... some people are just looking for to join their association of miserable guys

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jefferyhi86(m): 2:02pm On Dec 06, 2020
Ur right thou, couple to the fact av being jobless for some time make me regret marriage
icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days, than being married. and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option. if she sees that man, that's her everyday crush ..she wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by when2(f): 2:02pm On Dec 06, 2020
bouncin04:
I'm a single guy ( 32 years ) who's aspiring to get married maybe in 2 to 3 years time , but news about failed relationships and my experiences gives me cold feet , I can't handle being cheated on as I just got out of one toxic relationship . So I ask people already in marriages if they have for once regretted being married to their current partners , if yes kindly give your reasons and share how you are coping with them , and if no also share your formula towards keeping a happy home , so we learn . Thanks in anticipation .





For you to come to nairaland to seek advise from women haters shows that you are not ready to settle down. Besides its a well known fact that men are unfaithful in marriage than women. Besides i don't think you are a saint.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Berankis: 2:02pm On Dec 06, 2020
1. Dont you regret being alive sometimes? But it doesnt mean you want to die.
2. Dont you regret being a Nigerian a lot of times? But it doesnt necessarily mean you want to stop being a Nigerian, so same too is marriage. Sometimes, you regret and some other times you feel it is the best thing that has happened to you.
You just have to understand that being married doesnt necessarily mean you have full control of your wife, her parents still have a great influence over her and must respect it and vice versa. She also has some level of freedom too and you must accord it.
Things dont always go as planned or as expected, just take life as it comes and try to make the best out of every situation.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by foreveryoung1515(f): 2:02pm On Dec 06, 2020
Marry your friend. that's what I didn't do and I do regret it over and over again.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by SlurUsername1: 2:03pm On Dec 06, 2020
Kuns84:



I agree with your point except for the baby mama talk. Having a baby mama will bleed your pockets and cost you a lifetime of misery - that's if you're even guaranteed that the kid is yours in the first place.

Explain to the house how baby mamas bleed pockets in Nigeria?
This is a lie to make us fall for the scam called marriage

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Ensquare(m): 2:03pm On Dec 06, 2020
Yes..five times
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Frustrated007: 2:03pm On Dec 06, 2020
nah them worse pass
BigDawsNet:
My people dint regret

So I won't too cheesy

Tho I'm about settling with a white lady
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by laborious(m): 2:04pm On Dec 06, 2020
Someone that have my child already is waiting for me to marry her...me that i know what i am doing!

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by wisdomeze(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020
Please and please, don't listen to these little children who have all come bellow u to write "marriage is a scam" most of them are not even up-to their mid-twenties.

I got married at age twenty eight and today I am 33 and still strong in my marriage. If to say ur mama and Papa fear, by now u for no exist. Be a man by taking decisions ursef, u don't need anybody's opinion about this institution called marriage. We learn everyday. I never ready, I never ready naim make some people wey de 60years get children of 1year, 3years and 7years. Which strength dem wan use train the children? Most of them go begin take Viagra to satisfy their young wives sef.

My brother, until u take that bold step, u re not yet a man....

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by icebird25(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020
Fussion1000:



I think its better if you are spokesman for single dads rather talking on behalf of married men, since the beginning of out courtship up til this present moment am enjoying it, of course we can't rule out stormy season of few occasions but with God on our side and with compromise we always overcome differences.

You guys quickly blame marriage institutions as if its human being.

The day couple will start seeing each other as one flesh is the they will start enjoying themselves.




Look at this one ..better go and run a DNA test on your children ..before you comment anything here....

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by zubimete(f): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020
icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days than being married, and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option, if she sees that man that's her everyday crush ..you wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own
YOU LIED. WOMEN ARE THE MOST FAITHFUL IN MARRIAGE. MARRIAGE IS FOR SERIOUS & RESPONSIBLE BEING.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by SlurUsername1: 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020
foreveryoung1515:
Marry your friend. that's what I didn't do and I do regret it over and over again.

Shaaraappp

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by judedwriter(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Are you married?

Lol grin

why are you asking?

Do you have a definite reason for asking?
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by FuckThaMod: 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020
Na this kain topic dey sweet ladies,
Always fantasizing about anything marriage.

Mtcheww

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by omotola90(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020
Preetti:
It's only in women matter they have strength. Team "Alpha" apes
alpha apes is not right to call God's creature... Happy Sunday
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by reidkrugger(m): 2:05pm On Dec 06, 2020
There's no difference between marriage and courtship. Na oversense and overconfidence de kill d latter. If you r humble, truthful, wise and tolerant, you can marry. Marriage is simple, it's d participants dat makes it hard. Get married when your time comes, for there is no real joy in becoming a baby anything.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by malali: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020
petitejolie:
abi Dutch minister is gay

Abi you are lesbian ?
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Theevilone(m): 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020
icebird25:
Every married men here is regretting on venturing into the scam called marriage ..they wont tell you is a scam because they want you to be a victim too ....just take a look at the Duncan mighty's marriage ...if to born dey hungry you just look for one woman and impregnate her and make her your baby mama ...even women prefer baby mama status this days, than being married. and every woman has the potential to cheat ..you were never his spec but just an option. if she sees that man, that's her everyday crush ..she wouldn't mind to offer her pussy to him .. that's to show what women can do.. marriage is a scam, baby mama all the way ...all men was born equal and free. If you later go and marry you are on your own

Ur so so wrong.
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by mkoabiola: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020
Make i Park for this br lane to read comments.

D gud.. D bad abd d ugly.


But it will b gud if married men/women comment so as to read with juice n popcorn

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Karlifate: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020
bouncin04, compatibility is vital.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by TheRedpillguy: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020
dominique:
There's no perfect spouse or marriage anywhere. Just make sure you study whoever you're dating very well to see if you will be able to cope with their imperfections. Sadly men are too busy focused on physical looks and women too desperate to become Mrs to see through any flaws their prospective spouse may have. Las Las, na hide my id go end their matter.

Don't be discouraged by all the tales of gloom and doom you read on social media about marriage. There are a lot of marriages that are doing well.

Yeah ignore the statistics and real life story and pay attention to the make believe happy life nobody is seeing .

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by AlfaSeltzer(m): 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020
Many people that give you marriage advise, just like rev. fathers, have no idea what marriage is like.

Follow them at your own risk.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by emkz: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020
petitejolie:
abi Dutch minister is gay

Please where did you read and how do you know Mark Rutte is gay? Please don't come to a public forum to throw speculations about his sexual orientation. It can be damaging if it's not true.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gidah: 2:06pm On Dec 06, 2020
Funny I just got married few weeks ago and every forum I go this is the only thing I see lol. That's how it went for everyone I guess everyone reminding you that you can't do this and that now, but I'm denying it and I will live to be a proof that marriage shouldn't be an obstacle if God give you the knowledge to handle your type of woman. So help me God

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:07pm On Dec 06, 2020
When you are ready to marry, go ahead and Marry. Forget about scary stories you here about marriage.
Parents regret giving birth to some kids and even they try to abort some and they refuse to get aborted. Sinlings fight even twins. Look at Peter and Paul for example. I'm sure at a point they regretted being borthers.
Don't marry with the mentality that everything is gonna be perfect. It wont. It has never been perfect. It gets perfect at some point where you look back and smile and tell yourself you dis the right thing marrying this person. Some don't ever get perfect and leads to break-up. That doesn't mean people shouldn't marry if they want to.also remember, it's not a do or die or a competition or a let me taste it and know if I can do kind of thing.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by icebird25(m): 2:07pm On Dec 06, 2020
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Are you married?
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by FuckThaMod: 2:07pm On Dec 06, 2020
zubimete:
YOU LIED. WOMEN ARE THE MOST FAITHFUL IN MARRIAGE. MARRIAGE IS FOR SERIOUS & RESPONSIBLE BEING.
So you mean everyone that got married are serious and responsible.
Clap for yourself, marriage counselor

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by pocohantas(f): 2:08pm On Dec 06, 2020
It is funny when some NL guys claim marriage doesn’t benefit men, yet they won’t stop shaming single ladies with “go and marry”.

One would think they’ll love single ladies and encourage them, but the reverse is the case. I honestly don’t know how that works.

If your parents and the people around you are having troubled marriages- that is on them. After all, marriage is the coming together of 2 (maybe more) people. It is what you put into it, that it gives you back. GIGO...

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