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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by galantjoe(m): 8:13pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Marriage is full of regrets when things went south. Marriage is like business contract where one partner provides means of livelihood while another provide companionship, sex, homemaking, etc. Where each fails in his or her responsibilities that is when bubbles burst. Regret come in. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by zubimete(f): 8:13pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Gamesmart:INTERVIEW THEM ND HEAR HOW MANY ARE REGRETING. SOME SAID I DID'NT FIGHT FOR MY MARRIAGE,TO SOME MY ANGER IS SECOND TO NONE WHILE SOME SAID I WAS WRONG. ETC |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by tonididdy(m): 8:16pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
alphaNomega:Otherwise she is perfect. Character and submissivness is a one - hundred. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Exmilitant(m): 8:20pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Oluwaseun2020:Moses didn't know the Bible. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Phraences: 8:22pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
wisdomeze: See talk. So marriage makes a man abi. I don't know why Nigerians are marriage crazy. Men marry so their lineage won't die out while women marry to bear Mrs and have children, all to satisfy society. People living fake lives and smiling through their tears. Though some turn out lucky and the marriage is good. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:22pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Preetti: 1 Like
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:23pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
hashtagged: Na yhu Sabi o.. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Xantel(f): 8:24pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Hmmmmm, God will lead the unmarried |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Deleted the post WTF is wrong with these guys ? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:25pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:26pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
kingreign: There is...there is a right man for every woman and vice versa....if yhu don't marry the right one for yhu ....yhull have problems |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:28pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
cooooooks: How do yhu know what to eat when yhure hungry? Everybody knows who's best for them when it comes to choosing spouse... Many people ignore red flags... because of lust...monetary gain... foolishness etc... 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by yoursidenigga(m): 8:29pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Oluwaseun2020:stop spamming this thread na 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:29pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Liposure: That's the problem...if yhu rush into marriage yhull surely rush out... There's no rush in marriage... |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:31pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Gamesmart: As our faces are different so are our cases....what makes her "right" is having all the attributes yhu want in a woman ..at least most of em... And I'm not talking about lustful physical appearance... |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Martinez39s(m): 8:35pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS:In that post to bouncing04, I recommended Ubunja's miseducations, my meme threads and your thread. I told him to digest the meme threads and your thread first, and I supplied links. Before I could say Jack Robinson, the post was deleted by a moderator. Shortly before that post, I told the OP to save himself the trouble and forget marriage and that post wasn't deleted. A moderator was trying to hide OP from the red pill, or a female reported to the moderator who simply simped out. Seun Osewa needs to sack some of his moderators. I violated no rule yet that post was deleted. CAPSLOCKED, MJBOLT, Ubunja, Luminouz, JONNYSPUTE 1 Like
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 8:48pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Originakalokalo: Congratulations! He will be happy and will not throw you to hell. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by kingreign(m): 8:49pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Jodha: Lemme ask you this one question, before I decide whether to continue or not. Sincerely, are you married? Yes or No? |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 8:50pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
zubimete: If you have to "fight" for marriage, that is just the usual compromise and endurance marriage is. It is not a great thing. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:52pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
kingreign: No Are yhu saying I can't have opinions about issues like this if I'm not married? |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Originakalokalo(m): 8:56pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Gamesmart: Thank you. I don't serve him because of hell anymore. I serve him because I want to get closer to him and make him happy....and also to have power and break people loose from their bondages. Going to hell is no longer an issue... I know the way to heaven already....why will I want to deviate from it? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by kingreign(m): 8:56pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Jodha:No insults meant but I should be blunt at this point. You have nothing to say about marriage. Wait till you go thru a spiritual class on marital counselling, and eventually get married then you can discuss about marriage. Marriage is more spiritual than you are seeing. This is coming from someone who is happily married and has a marriage counsellor has spent 40years in their blissful union and still waxing strong. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 8:56pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Jodha: So high quality physical appearance is not part of what the man should find in the "right" woman. Men are supposed to have erections based on your personality? And when fine girl walks pass, then he should not even give her a second looking because his wife has a nice personality. You women and your self-delusions/wishful thinking. That is one of the major causes of marriage failures. Working based on delusions, not reality, is a perfect recipe for failure. And most women have a PhD in this. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 9:00pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Originakalokalo: I said that from the word "go" na. I said your priority is to keep him happy. Gamesmart: I try. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 9:03pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Gamesmart: Lmao..yhu succeeded in twisting everything I said.... I'm not saying physical appearance doesn't matter...it does because that's what will attract yhu to the opposite sex....I won't have any business with someone I'm not physically attracted to... But I'm saying it should not only be based on that...it should not be based of only how she looks....how the sex is good etc... Yhu get my drift? |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Martinez39s: They were just being mischievous ! Trying to prevent TRP from reaching other men ? Dead on arrival ! Do you really think Mr seun is going to do anything about that ? I appreciate his is open minded, but I'm hugely skeptical on these (him calling his mods to order ,let alone sacking them ). Things like these, I just wave them off and move on, man, especially when I get that feeling my complains will barely yield anything tangible. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 9:11pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
kingreign: Unmarried people have no say about marriages ...got it... Mind yhu... even if I've not gone yhu the spiritual and counseling and whatever yhure talking about... I have experience...experiences I've witnessed from first hand from married couples... it's only a fool that wouldn't learn from the mistakes of others.... I don't have to be married...to know what marriage is all about.. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by CAPSLOCKED: 9:13pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Martinez39s: I DON'T HAVE TO FINGER MAD44 BECAUSE I'VE FIGURED IT'S NOT THE ONLY MODERATOR ACTING ON THE INFLUENCE OF CHEAP THRILLS. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BREAK ANY RULES TO BE SILENCED. YOU JUST HAVE TO SPEAK THE "TRUTH". LOOK AT THE FRONTPAGE. RULE BREAKERS AND SPAMMERS LEFT AND RIGHT. BUT IT IS YOUR OWN HONEST AND IMPORTANT OPINION THAT AN ADMIN DOESN'T WANT TO SEE SIMPLY BECAUSE IT MAKES HIM/HER UNCOMFORTABLE. THE PLAN IS TO KEEP SCREENSHOTS OF EVERY POST. OR SAVE PAGES ON SIMPLE BROWSERS SO WE ALWAYS REPLACE ANYTHING THEY DELETE, INSTANTLY. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by kingreign(m): 9:18pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Jodha: 1. You have no first hand experience in marital lifestyle because you aren't married. 2. You result to insult in trying to prove a point. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 9:20pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Jodha: I get your drift now. Before you said not "lustful physical appearance", when that is the most important thing to most men. To have the best chance of successfully attracting, retaining and satisfying a man and his desires, he should feel you are one of the finest things he has seen on planet earth to the point blood rushes to his heart. He has to feel he is very lucky to have ever seen you and for you to even give him a chance to date you. When he is having sex with you, he has to be thinking in his head "Na me dey f**k this fine gal? I can't believe it. I can't believe my luck and that she would even let me. I am truly lucky and blessed. I can f**k her till I die". The first 10 times he f**ks you, if he does not come way too early at least once, he is either (a) "not that highly excited about f**king you; you are moderately fine or not fine" or (b) "you are fine but not good in bed the way he likes it". After you get passed that enchantment of his mind, then your personality should seal the deal. Without lustful physical appearance, you are operating a future relationship starting with batteries that were not fully charged. 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 9:27pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
kingreign: Please read to understand I didn't insult... I was insinuating that I would be a fool if I wasn't able to learn from the things happening around me... It's yhur opinion though...and I respect it...but that doesn't mean yhure right.. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Martinez39s(m): 9:31pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
GLYCOLYSISS:I wouldn't put much hope on Seun Osewa. He is probably a busy businessman who rarely has time to check his numerous mentions. My post had to be taken down because OP was at a crucial stage where he was beginning to have doubt and was about taking himself off the plantation. They desperately needed him blind to the red pill and stuck in the plantation, hence they could not permit my efforts to liberate the OP. Capslocked 1 Like |
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