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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by galantjoe(m): 8:13pm On Dec 06, 2020
Marriage is full of regrets when things went south.

Marriage is like business contract where one partner provides means of livelihood while another provide companionship, sex, homemaking, etc. Where each fails in his or her responsibilities that is when bubbles burst. Regret come in.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by zubimete(f): 8:13pm On Dec 06, 2020
Gamesmart:


So the millions that end up divorced did not fall in love?

Continue prophesying fantasy.
INTERVIEW THEM ND HEAR HOW MANY ARE REGRETING. SOME SAID I DID'NT FIGHT FOR MY MARRIAGE,TO SOME MY ANGER IS SECOND TO NONE WHILE SOME SAID I WAS WRONG. ETC
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by tonididdy(m): 8:16pm On Dec 06, 2020
alphaNomega:
you haven't met the right person na why
Otherwise she is perfect.
Character and submissivness is a one - hundred.
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Exmilitant(m): 8:20pm On Dec 06, 2020
Oluwaseun2020:
Moses the second. .i salute you
Moses didn't know the Bible.
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Phraences: 8:22pm On Dec 06, 2020
wisdomeze:
Please and please, don't listen to these little children who have all come bellow u to write "marriage is a scam" most of them are not even up-to their mid-twenties.

I got married at age twenty eight and today I am 33 and still strong in my marriage. If to say ur mama and Papa fear, by now u for no exist. Be a man by taking decisions ursef, u don't need anybody's opinion about this institution called marriage. We learn everyday. I never ready, I never ready naim make some people wey de 60years get children of 1year, 3years and 7years. Which strength dem wan use train the children? Most of them go begin take Viagra to satisfy their young wives sef.

My brother, until u take that bold step, u re not yet a man....

See talk. So marriage makes a man abi. I don't know why Nigerians are marriage crazy. Men marry so their lineage won't die out while women marry to bear Mrs and have children, all to satisfy society. People living fake lives and smiling through their tears. Though some turn out lucky and the marriage is good.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:22pm On Dec 06, 2020
Preetti:
It's only in women matter they have strength. Team "Alpha" apes

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:23pm On Dec 06, 2020
hashtagged:


There is no right woman, I would advise all men to remain single and adopt a child.

Na yhu Sabi o..
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Xantel(f): 8:24pm On Dec 06, 2020
Hmmmmm, God will lead the unmarried
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Dec 06, 2020
Martinez39s:
I sent you links to my two meme threads and GLYCOLYSISS'S red-pill thread but a moderator deleted the post. There is a deliberate attempt to hide the red pill about female nature from you. Please check the threads. Forget about marriage and swallow the red pill.

Deleted the post
WTF is wrong with these guys ?

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:25pm On Dec 06, 2020
abimic:

See this girl o....sha do marry o make we come buy asoebi and collect tundra as souvenir..

Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:26pm On Dec 06, 2020
kingreign:


There's no such thing as wrong man or wrong woman. It's mostly a lame excuse to blame ones partner for his/her marital failures.

There is...there is a right man for every woman and vice versa....if yhu don't marry the right one for yhu ....yhull have problems
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:28pm On Dec 06, 2020
cooooooks:
How does he find out who is the 'right' woman.

I think that is the crux of his post.



How do yhu know what to eat when yhure hungry? Everybody knows who's best for them when it comes to choosing spouse...

Many people ignore red flags... because of lust...monetary gain... foolishness etc...

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by yoursidenigga(m): 8:29pm On Dec 06, 2020
Oluwaseun2020:

you can fix it...learn from marriage that work..like oyedepo and adeboye. .. get this book.. making marriage work by faith oyedepo. .thank me later Get the free pdf file on Google.
if you dont want him again...i have a way out..if you will try... God can change human heart
stop spamming this thread na

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:29pm On Dec 06, 2020
Liposure:
how many people married the right person. This is africa where everybody is under pressure to get married and have kids b4 its too late

That's the problem...if yhu rush into marriage yhull surely rush out...

There's no rush in marriage...
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:31pm On Dec 06, 2020
Gamesmart:


How will marrying the "right" woman make you happy for the rest of your life?

What makes her "right"?

As our faces are different so are our cases....what makes her "right" is having all the attributes yhu want in a woman
..at least most of em...

And I'm not talking about lustful physical appearance...
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Martinez39s(m): 8:35pm On Dec 06, 2020
GLYCOLYSISS:


Deleted the post
WTF is wrong with these guys ?
In that post to bouncing04, I recommended Ubunja's miseducations, my meme threads and your thread. I told him to digest the meme threads and your thread first, and I supplied links. Before I could say Jack Robinson, the post was deleted by a moderator.

Shortly before that post, I told the OP to save himself the trouble and forget marriage and that post wasn't deleted. A moderator was trying to hide OP from the red pill, or a female reported to the moderator who simply simped out. Seun Osewa needs to sack some of his moderators. I violated no rule yet that post was deleted.

CAPSLOCKED, MJBOLT, Ubunja, Luminouz, JONNYSPUTE

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 8:48pm On Dec 06, 2020
Originakalokalo:


*smiles

I married a daughter of God. I am his son myself.

We enjoy our marriage in a very wonderful way.

We have fun...we disagree, we pray together.... but in all, we allow the Holy Spirit to be the head.

He instructs us on what to do....he guides us on what to do.....and we do it.

Our marriage is heaven on earth because Jesus is the centre of it and WE LISTEN TO HIM.

Congratulations!

He will be happy and will not throw you to hell.
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by kingreign(m): 8:49pm On Dec 06, 2020
Jodha:


There is...there is a right man for every woman and vice versa....if yhu don't marry the right one for yhu ....yhull have problems

Lemme ask you this one question, before I decide whether to continue or not.

Sincerely, are you married? Yes or No?
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 8:50pm On Dec 06, 2020
zubimete:
INTERVIEW THEM ND HEAR HOW MANY ARE REGRETING. SOME SAID I DID'NT FIGHT FOR MY MARRIAGE,TO SOME MY ANGER IS SECOND TO NONE WHILE SOME SAID I WAS WRONG. ETC

If you have to "fight" for marriage, that is just the usual compromise and endurance marriage is.

It is not a great thing.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 8:52pm On Dec 06, 2020
kingreign:


Lemme ask you this one question, before I decide whether to continue or not.

Sincerely, are you married? Yes or No?

No

Are yhu saying I can't have opinions about issues like this if I'm not married?
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Originakalokalo(m): 8:56pm On Dec 06, 2020
Gamesmart:


Congratulations!

He will be happy and will not throw you to hell.

Thank you.

I don't serve him because of hell anymore. I serve him because I want to get closer to him and make him happy....and also to have power and break people loose from their bondages.

Going to hell is no longer an issue... I know the way to heaven already....why will I want to deviate from it?

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by kingreign(m): 8:56pm On Dec 06, 2020
Jodha:


No

Are yhu saying I can't have opinions about issues like this if I'm not married?
No insults meant but I should be blunt at this point.
You have nothing to say about marriage. Wait till you go thru a spiritual class on marital counselling, and eventually get married then you can discuss about marriage. Marriage is more spiritual than you are seeing.


This is coming from someone who is happily married and has a marriage counsellor has spent 40years in their blissful union and still waxing strong.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 8:56pm On Dec 06, 2020
Jodha:


As our faces are different so are our cases....what makes her "right" is having all the attributes yhu want in a woman
..at least most of em...

And I'm not talking about lustful physical appearance...

So high quality physical appearance is not part of what the man should find in the "right" woman.

Men are supposed to have erections based on your personality?

And when fine girl walks pass, then he should not even give her a second looking because his wife has a nice personality.

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

You women and your self-delusions/wishful thinking. grin grin grin

That is one of the major causes of marriage failures.

Working based on delusions, not reality, is a perfect recipe for failure. And most women have a PhD in this. grin

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 9:00pm On Dec 06, 2020
Originakalokalo:


Thank you.

I don't serve him because of hell anymore. I serve him because I want to get closer to him and make him happy....and also to have power and break people loose from their bondages.

Going to hell is no longer an issue... I know the way to heaven already....why will I want to deviate from it?

I said that from the word "go" na.

I said your priority is to keep him happy. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Gamesmart:


This is one of those that are merely satisfying their God's needs, not their own need.

Once I hear this type, I never believe they have a happy marriage. They are just happy at the thought of their God being happy with them.

I try. grin
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 9:03pm On Dec 06, 2020
Gamesmart:


So high quality physical appearance is not part of what the man should find in the "right" woman.

Men are supposed to have erections based on your personality?

And when fine girl walks pass, then he should not even give her a second looking because his wife has a nice personality.

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

You women and your self-delusions/wishful thinking. grin grin grin

That is one of the major causes of marriage failures.

Working based on delusions, not reality, is a perfect recipe for failure. And most women have a PhD in this. grin

Lmao..yhu succeeded in twisting everything I said....

I'm not saying physical appearance doesn't matter...it does because that's what will attract yhu to the opposite sex....I won't have any business with someone I'm not physically attracted to...

But I'm saying it should not only be based on that...it should not be based of only how she looks....how the sex is good etc...

Yhu get my drift?
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Dec 06, 2020
Martinez39s:
In that post to bouncing04, I recommended Ubunja's miseducations, my meme threads and your thread. I told him to digest the meme threads and your thread first, and I supplied links. Before I could say Jack Robinson, the post was deleted by a moderator.

Shortly before that post, I told the OP to save himself the trouble and forget marriage and that post wasn't deleted. A moderator was trying to hide OP from the red pill, or a female reported to the moderator who simply simped out. Seun Osewa needs to sack some of his moderators. I violated no rule yet that post was deleted.

CAPSLOCKED, MJBOLT, Ubunja, Luminouz, JONNYSPUTE

They were just being mischievous !
Trying to prevent TRP from reaching other men ? Dead on arrival !
Do you really think Mr seun is going to do anything about that ? I appreciate his is open minded, but I'm hugely skeptical on these (him calling his mods to order ,let alone sacking them ).
Things like these, I just wave them off and move on, man, especially when I get that feeling my complains will barely yield anything tangible.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 9:11pm On Dec 06, 2020
kingreign:

No insults meant but I should be blunt at this point.
You have nothing to say about marriage. Wait till you go thru a spiritual class on marital counselling, and eventually get married then you can discuss about marriage. Marriage is more spiritual than you are seeing.


This is coming from someone who is happily married and has a marriage counsellor has spent 40years in their blissful union and still waxing strong.

Unmarried people have no say about marriages ...got it...

Mind yhu... even if I've not gone yhu the spiritual and counseling and whatever yhure talking about...

I have experience...experiences I've witnessed from first hand from married couples... it's only a fool that wouldn't learn from the mistakes of others....

I don't have to be married...to know what marriage is all about..
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by CAPSLOCKED: 9:13pm On Dec 06, 2020
Martinez39s:
A moderator was trying to hide OP from the red pill, or a female reported to the moderator who simply simped out. Seu Osuwa needs to sack some of his moderators. I violated no rule yet that post was deleted.

CAPSLOCKED

I DON'T HAVE TO FINGER MAD44 BECAUSE I'VE FIGURED IT'S NOT THE ONLY MODERATOR ACTING ON THE INFLUENCE OF CHEAP THRILLS.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BREAK ANY RULES TO BE SILENCED. YOU JUST HAVE TO SPEAK THE "TRUTH".
LOOK AT THE FRONTPAGE. RULE BREAKERS AND SPAMMERS LEFT AND RIGHT. BUT IT IS YOUR OWN HONEST AND IMPORTANT OPINION THAT AN ADMIN DOESN'T WANT TO SEE SIMPLY BECAUSE IT MAKES HIM/HER UNCOMFORTABLE. grin
THE PLAN IS TO KEEP SCREENSHOTS OF EVERY POST. OR SAVE PAGES ON SIMPLE BROWSERS SO WE ALWAYS REPLACE ANYTHING THEY DELETE, INSTANTLY. cheesy

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by kingreign(m): 9:18pm On Dec 06, 2020
Jodha:


Unmarried people have no say about marriages ...got it...

Mind yhu... even if I've not gone yhu the spiritual and counseling and whatever yhure talking about...

I have experience...experiences I've witnessed from first hand from married couples... it's only a fool that wouldn't learn from the mistakes of others ....

I don't have to be married...to know what marriage is all about..

1. You have no first hand experience in marital lifestyle because you aren't married.
2. You result to insult in trying to prove a point.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Gamesmart: 9:20pm On Dec 06, 2020
Jodha:


Lmao..yhu succeeded in twisting everything I said....

I'm not saying physical appearance doesn't matter...it does because that's what will attract yhu to the opposite sex....I won't have any business with someone I'm not physically attracted to...

But I'm saying it should not only be based on that...it should not be based of only how she looks....how the sex is good etc...

Yhu get my drift?

I get your drift now.

Before you said not "lustful physical appearance", when that is the most important thing to most men.

To have the best chance of successfully attracting, retaining and satisfying a man and his desires, he should feel you are one of the finest things he has seen on planet earth to the point blood rushes to his heart. He has to feel he is very lucky to have ever seen you and for you to even give him a chance to date you. When he is having sex with you, he has to be thinking in his head "Na me dey f**k this fine gal? I can't believe it. I can't believe my luck and that she would even let me. I am truly lucky and blessed. I can f**k her till I die".

The first 10 times he f**ks you, if he does not come way too early at least once, he is either (a) "not that highly excited about f**king you; you are moderately fine or not fine" or (b) "you are fine but not good in bed the way he likes it".

After you get passed that enchantment of his mind, then your personality should seal the deal.

Without lustful physical appearance, you are operating a future relationship starting with batteries that were not fully charged. grin

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Jodha(f): 9:27pm On Dec 06, 2020
kingreign:


1. You have no first hand experience in marital lifestyle because you aren't married.
2. You result to insult in trying to prove a point.

Please read to understand I didn't insult...

I was insinuating that I would be a fool if I wasn't able to learn from the things happening around me...

It's yhur opinion though...and I respect it...but that doesn't mean yhure right..
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Martinez39s(m): 9:31pm On Dec 06, 2020
GLYCOLYSISS:


They were just being mischievous !
Trying to prevent TRP from reaching other men ? Dead on arrival !
Do you really think Mr seun is going to do anything about that ? I appreciate his is open minded, but I'm hugely skeptical on these (him calling his mods to order ,let alone sacking them ).
Things like these, I just wave them off and move on, man, especially when I get that feeling my complains will barely yield anything tangible.
I wouldn't put much hope on Seun Osewa. He is probably a busy businessman who rarely has time to check his numerous mentions. My post had to be taken down because OP was at a crucial stage where he was beginning to have doubt and was about taking himself off the plantation. They desperately needed him blind to the red pill and stuck in the plantation, hence they could not permit my efforts to liberate the OP.

Capslocked

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