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Sack him with immediate effect. In as far its a confirmed case of abuse fire the bastard immediately.

Women stop dating talkless of marrying a violent men thinking prayer will change him it doesnt work that way. Prayer has not change devil till date.


Use your senses.

Brightdude007:
Thrash, so all this write up justify her been sent to her early grave. Every one has a past, the past remain in the past. No body holy pass. Not defending anyone but what is bad is bad

Obviously now the past has come to hunt the future. Wait to hear from the husband.

Why is she bringing this to social.media?

Lexusgs430:
He should have thought about that, before domestically abusing his wife and causing emotional trauma to his kids.........

After sacking him, he should be locked up in prison for 2 years.........


All the wife needs to do is relocate, for her skills to be appreciated........ She would have the financial muscle to look after all her kids......... Nigeria does not appreciate medical professionals........

if u were someone else , I knew what to tell u... good morning

I don't know if the wife's actions were the best move... Prolly they have kids, you are going to render the breadwinner of the family jobless now.


How una go feed and survive?


This Kain matter na internal affairs and settling out of public eye.

Jobs are hard to come by now oh. Women be wise.

Ps: I'm against violence of any gender.

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

I wish you were not this defensive about he man. The man Pius opened his korokoro eyes, saw a fine girl, did NOT do his proper homework, said "I love you, will you marry me". Was it the woman that went to propose marriage to the man?

Lets assume all you said was true about the woman, shouldn't the blame still rest on the man? Was he forced to pick this woman out of over 2 billoin eligible spouse in the world?

Domestic violence should be condemned in all its ramification. He could just separate from her rather than beating his wife like this.

Women should understand that especially in this year 2020 nobody is happy. Tempers are so easily flarred.


Besides she saw these temperament of his hidden somewhere during their dating days, she ignored it.
Not all men are beaters but the very few who aren't beaters, when you piss them off, even the certified beaters go shout 'jesus'

What if the woman did something bad like cheat or went against the dictates of the husband? U know some women can b stubborn....

I do not beat my wife but if she were to show our home issues on the net like this I think I mite put her out!

saaphiere:
Sack him to serve as a lesson to other wife beaters.

Theevilone:
Are u now advocating for beating now ?

I can't believe you have taken to blackmail..lol! That's cheap sis. We were all deliberating on the issue, and suddenly you accuse me of promoting domestic violence. That's not fair.

As usual they would be the first to post online to attract pity and emotional upper hand .
Beating wife is wrong tho, but this kind matters suppose day settled internally...
Lol, I no go forget the incident way happen btwn me and one aggressive barnie for uyo that year.
Since then I no day regard all these online outburst again .
I don witness am firsthand how crazy some ladies are.

saaphiere:
Sack him to serve as a lesson to other wife beaters.

When they sack him, shey, you will take care of his 4 kids while he get his bearing back.

saaphiere:
Sack him to serve as a lesson to other wife beaters.

Na so u dey vex? seh u no yhink say if dem sack am, d wife sef go follow feel d crunch of d sack? Make them susppend d guy for a month or two without pay, make him learn him lesson. Even d wife no gree make them sack am. but wait o! we never hear d guy own side of d story.

saaphiere:
What is there to investigate again?

I have read some of your comments on this issue and I must confess I am surprised, shocked and disappointed. I feel ashamed that your reasoning is beyond puerile. In all your comments, you have never agreed to listen to the man. You don't realise that an accused is always innocent until proven guilty. We must hear the man's side of the story. No court or organisation can take any decision without hearing from the man. And FYI, those marks on the woman were not made by the man's hands. They are cosmetics. Take that to any forensic and they won't spend up to a minute to tell you the same thing. For the woman to go to that extent, it shows you who is the manipulator and who was in an abusive relationship.

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

You are justifying a crime Oga. What does her mums crime have to do with beating her.

What other side please..why wont the husband leave the marriage instead of constantly battering her....

Oh well with all this nonsense you wrote I see why she hasnt left..She didnt want society to say her marriage failed..she prolly wanted to do better than her mother to shame people like you who have expected nothing good from her.

Rubbish and society...

clarocuzioo:
Obviously now the past has come to hunt the future. Wait to hear from the husband.

Why is she bringing this to social.media?

All am saying is I know emotion can overwhelm a man. But domestic violence can never ever be the solution. Two wrongs don't make a right.

tonididdy:
Women should understand that especially in this year 2020 nobody is happy. Tempers are so easily flarred.


Besides she saw these temperament of his hidden somewhere during their dating days, she ignored it.
Not all men are beaters but the very few who aren't beaters, when you piss them off, even the certified beaters go shout 'jesus'

guy na true, but there r other ways to treat a crazy womans f**k up.

U never meet Jamaican girls....I was told by one not that I heard!
Her exact word 'if you don't beat me you don't love me'....
I was incredoulous!

saaphiere:
Don't mind that clout. No human even animal would like to be beaten.

tobechi74:
Some women love beating Sha. That girl in a video that says If your husband,no beat you, e no love u, is an example

She doesn't represent a vast majority of us. She likes to be beaten doesn't mean the rest of us do.

[quote author=asatemple post=96807910]if they do, is it good for the kids right now?[/quote

This is One of the few ladies that talk with sense here unlike some opening mouth to talk rubbish anyhow sack and jail him talk and saying all her past escapades should be ignored cos they r in the past..what rubbish talk..anyway donestic violence is WRONG oga should have just left the marriage..

Brightdude007:
All am saying is I know emotion can overwhelm a man. But domestic violence can never ever be the solution. Two wrongs don't make a right.

I alao condenm domestic violence in it's entirety, am also saying brining family issues to social media is not really a smart move.

She should.have involved families to sort this out.

Esseite:
If the beating could be this bad while he still works and earns, imagine without income.... she should be advised to stay or leave..

The fight must have started with "Look at your mates"..

Stop justifying what's wrong! Stop making it seem like when fights arise in a home then women are always responsible!

saaphiere:
Sack him to serve as a lesson to other wife beaters.

Promote him
Women and frustration are like 5&6

psylliumhusk1:
You are justifying a crime Oga. What does her mums crime have to do with beating her.

What other side please..why wont the husband leave the marriage instead of constantly battering her....na she remain na..she prolly wants to leave in a body bag.

Oh well with all this nonsense you wrote I see why she hasnt left..She didnt want society to say her marriage failed..she prolly wanted to do better than her mother to shame people like you who have expected nothing good from her.

Rubbish and society...

I.condemned the violence in it's entirety. The.major issue I have with her is bringing this issue to social media, she should have reported to family and they will.handle it.

The woman will always play the victim and the society will always hang the man. Follow the Johnny Depp story.

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

Are you his mouth piece? Besides, why are dragging her whole family into this. Who is bankrolling you? You go about on all thread posting this shit. Or, are you the 'panel beater' husband? Say no to domestic violence! If you can't cope with the marriage, abeg go your separate ways!

saaphiere:
Sack him to serve as a lesson to other wife beaters.

Wisdom is not a cheap commodity.

shadeyinka:
I wish you were not this defensive about he man. The man Pius opened his korokoro eyes, saw a fine girl, did NOT do his proper homework, said "I love you, will you marry me". Was it the woman that went to propose marriage to the man?

Lets assume all you said was true about the woman, shouldn't the blame still rest on the man? Was he forced to pick this woman out of over 2 billoin eligible spouse in the world?

Domestic violence should be condemned in all its ramification. He could just separate from her rather than beating his wife like this.

I also confirm domestic violence in it's entirety, you can see that in my write up.

My major issue here is " why bringing this on social media" to what purpose?

Especially as she has a lot of baggages?

saaphiere:
Sack him to serve as a lesson to other wife beaters.

when you sack him. Na you go pay the bills for him house. I m not in support of women beater. You can suspend him or give the wife 3 month salary. Then a warning to the guy.

The issue is domestic violence not polygamy vs monogamy. Instead of using an intelligent way to get back at his wife for being too insulting, he used violence, now he risks losing his job.

flokii:
He is still the husband and the head of the house.. some men decide to have more than one wife. So??

ceeceeuwa:
Are you his mouth piece? Besides, why are dragging her whole family into this. Who is bankrolling you? You go about on all thread posting this shit. Or, are you the 'panel beater' husband? Say no to domestic violence! If you can't cope with the marriage, abeg go your separate ways!

I can't marry that type of a girl. My family will disown me.

Nobody can bank roll me.
I.dont even know the husband.

Why is she bringing this to the social media when families are there.

clarocuzioo:
The guy shouldn't have beaten her. I condemn domestic violence in it's entirety.


There's no justification whatsoever for this kind of beating.

But please i urge everybody to try and hear from the guy also before making comments. It will help us all.

Ifenyinwa just gave her own side of the story, how about the guy's side.

Six years ago when the wedding came up, we were so sure a day as this will come.

This girl shouldn't for any reason bring this to social.media. there's a family to report and families will handle this.

If we start saying things about her on social media, days will not be enough for her Chronicles.

Where do we even start? Do we start from her toxic mother getting pregnant for another man and pining it down on her father, later she will openly tell the whole Irette community that her husband is.impotent and that Ifenyinwa's father is different from her husband?

Do we start from her toxic mother terrorising the peaceful Irette community that earned her the popular name " TRANSFORMER," meaning when ever a transformer blows, everywhere will be calm. That name came about when her mother fought a mobile policeman and injured him seriously in the ear.

Do we start from her father grabbing the properties of her late elder sister till date claiming it's his ?

Do we talk about her mother travelling to Ijebu Ode for some stupid juju, only to have a terrible accident at St. Helen's Catholic Church Irette few minutes to her home?

Do we even talk about her mother confessing to terrible things she did , before her death?

Do we start talking about her early days in Bishop Lasbrey Girls Secondary School? Where when her father gives her school fees, she will put it in am envelope , and tell her classmates that her father from Abuja just sent her money, meanwhile her father is a driver in Owerri.

Do we talk about her promiscuity at early stage. In life? Let her kindly explain the circumstances that brought about " DADDY TAKE IT EASY IT IS PAINING ME". Her sexual escapades abound as a student in Bishop Lasbrey, her school mates can attest to this.

Do.we even talk about the illicit affair she was having with a certain prominent man from Irette who was also spraying her money during their wedding that people who knew what's up were laughing at the husband?

Do we talk about her wayward way of dressing even after her wedding?

There's a reason why Igbos around did not marry her, because when they ask questions and make enquires, they know she's just a girlfriend and not a wife.

It's unfortunate this guy used a girlfriend for a wife.

For anybody that cares to know more about this girl, please visit Onwu's compound in Irette, Owerri , Imo state and ask about her, you will understand better the kind of toxic personality she is.

NB : I am not holding brief for the husband. I am just seeing his picture for the first time now.

So we should blame her for her parents choices okwaya?
For a child at that time to say " DADDY TAKE IT EASY, IT IS PAINING ME" do you not infer that an adult is having sex with a minor ? And you are here shaming the victim?

Oga, bia did she choose her parentage? If her parents didn't show her a good example growing up and she still became a medical doctor? What would have happened if she had a good example to follow.

Walk a mile in someone else's shoes to know where it pinches. All I see from your defense is a history of abuse of a little girl and its attendant effects.
Smh

sapphiere:
Telling your husband not to spend recklessly on other women is disrespect?

Una wahala too much...
If the husband beats the wife you'll complain
If he decides divorce which is civil you'll still complain

Na by force to live under the same roof in peace with the woman?