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| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Goldencheese(m): 4:10am On Dec 08, 2020 |
I don't normally comment on romance section or topics, but you made sense. LagosInter: |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by KosiGee(m): 4:38am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Mtvbaseng:Sorry to disagree bro. The only simp here is you. That girl wanted companionship and trusted you. She was the hustler and provider. You gave her NOTHING. Of all the times you guys were together, she gave her all to and even wished and prayed for you to be s better man. You reciprocated with betrayal and contempt. Why did you have to mention the name of the hotel here, it’s location and the name of ‘your’ girl?? Was that necessary? Your type can’t be trusted. You are narcissist, selfish and greedy. As much as I despise that type of lifestyle, I pray that girl find a much better life that wouldn’t remind her of her dark past and people like you. You don’t deserve her. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Gerrard59(m): 4:44am On Dec 08, 2020 |
WoundedLamb:Na today? ![]() The average Nigerian male is a hypocrite. As if the ladies sleep with themselves. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 4:49am On Dec 08, 2020 |
KosiGee:I'm beginning to suspect u know this story personally, but if you are a total stranger then u are wrong , I gave her nothing?..Bro I made this babe quit prostution,I gave her a LIFE different from the one she was living before ,I got a job immediately I got to Benin but she won't let me do it because according to her Benin babes will snatch me ,she told me she has a land she would sell and I could start a business, ..when we got broke ,I went out again to look for job,not knowing the silly girl has gone back yo her old ways behind me ....you think you know the story when you are not there ..You are mad . |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Ventura1: 4:52am On Dec 08, 2020 |
nnamdiosu:You see, the guy himself is greedy and an opportunist, like someone said, he has no plans. I just hope he learnt from the experience. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by KosiGee(m): 5:05am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Mtvbaseng:I don’t know your story or the hotel and it’s location. From your story and confession, this girl have you her all. You were the one sapping and depleting her energy. When you were suspended, she did not ignore you. You confessed that she made it up for you by paying for another accommodation for you and also paid you whatever you would’ve lost financially. ...took you to Benin, both of you were using up and burning her N300k savings....prostitution is a disgusting way of living, that’s how I see people involved in it till I read your story. I think that girl is a legend. You owe her big time and you must pay back. All the meagre cheddars you accumulated doing nasty things with strangers, she spent and shared with you.... You...you were concerned about your looks!! Go back to that girl wherever she is and say sorry and pay back what you owe her. Don’t consider yourself smart spewing and denigrating her to her likes. A billion likes don’t and won’t put food on your table or get you a sachet of water if you were dehydrated and thirsty. You learnt nothing from your experience. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Ventura1: 5:06am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Nigga, admit you acted wrongly and learn from it, why would you always play according to her plans only? - She said you should quit the job in Lagos that earned you over 100k/month, you agreed. - She told you to move to Benin, you agreed. - At Benin, she said you should not work, that she would sell a land for you to start a business, you also agreed, guy what do you bring to the table? Your only suggestion is that she should stop prostitution, which we all know the reasons. Mtvbaseng: |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Athemisia: 5:12am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Mtvbaseng:Hian ... It's fake |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by adeheritage: 5:18am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Try and get back to her, marry her and two of you should build up |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by cardoctor(m): 5:29am On Dec 08, 2020 |
It must have been rougher and tougher than u described. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by mightyhazel: 5:30am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Where is Righteousness89 in all these? I'm sure the sin on this thread has suffocated him.. Too much sins and sinners on this thread. #puke |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Monjerk: 5:31am On Dec 08, 2020 |
adeheritage:Just tell me you are joking. @OP please ignore this advice. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by BennyDon: 5:56am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Wallahi you try, I can't share my woman with any man. You know she dey do ashawo and you still dey Bleep her, you no dey fear STD/HIV? Chai |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Tilykay(m): 5:57am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Mtvbaseng:Hmm.. we thank God for your life. You fell and you rose again that's all that matters. It can happen to anyone. The mysteries of this world. Hmmm |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by adejoro1988(m): 5:59am On Dec 08, 2020 |
your story read so real, I fear Olosho, Nigeria economic make life unbearable for the ladies....God heal our land. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ElValiente(m): 6:21am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Mtvbaseng:Great story but the ending part was poor. You dey knack olosho and saying it won't have consequences. E go shock you. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ElValiente(m): 6:34am On Dec 08, 2020 |
BennyDon:PhD, MIT, CIA, FBI, DSS. Shits real bro |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:38am On Dec 08, 2020 |
EmmanuelBanks:Lol Nooo But i go book well well oo |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Pinchasvadim: 6:39am On Dec 08, 2020 |
LagosInter:A dad of my friend has repeatedly told me that as a man of this generation i have to be extra smart even in marriage. That i must plan/invest for my old age because by then, i won't have the physical strength to jump up and down. Mind you, he is married with his wife and children who are graduates. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:40am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Jeffyblaq:You too bro |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by austine4real(m): 6:40am On Dec 08, 2020 |
centboy123456:No oo |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Renwess: 6:52am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Life is full of experiences ... |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by WoundedLamb: 6:58am On Dec 08, 2020 |
Gerrard59:The sexism onhere is really worrisome. It is. People who you'd presume to be intelligent suddenly go illogical just to key into the trend of toxic masculinity. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 7:09am On Dec 08, 2020 |
somebody02:A human being consist of the body, soul and spirit, and this is different from animals. Each has it's role to play, it is not a myth it is reality |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Dreyton36: 7:14am On Dec 08, 2020 |
alphaRego01:As far as I met the girl in a club or bar, I will never look her twice |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Gmajor(m): 7:14am On Dec 08, 2020 |
op, you are the male version of a gold digger. You used this girl and then left her when she had nothing. You added nothing to her life and even left her worst of. Even though she is an olosho, you had no right to treat her like this. Afterall, you always knew what she was so you can't complain of deceit. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by fotadmowmend(m): 7:16am On Dec 08, 2020 |
You are the problem in that relationship. One should be weary of him/herself when the only thing that delight you is gifts and if you are the type that will always want freebies. In the real sense, nothing is free and everything comes with a price be it overt or covert. You are carried away with freebies and it becloud you senses to know your responsibilities. Even after, you had the chance to make it right with her but you didn't. |
| Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by TheOneOBI: 7:27am On Dec 08, 2020 |
ReluctantAdult:Nice one. I love that. Shows you're not judgemental or sentimental. You are DEEP. And you're level of understanding is on POINT. |
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