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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by tnerro1(m): 11:12am On Dec 05, 2020
You guys that fvck olosho are trying ooo, a girl that allows different dicks to enter her with no exceptions and you are still waiting to put ur own dicks inside her. Na wa oooo
My guy took me to a joint and it was full of olosho. Me I just face my front but my guy was eyeing one. The next thing he went with the girl and was back under 5 Minutes. I was like na wa oooo, so fast. He said one guy was waiting at her door when they got there and the guy was telling him to do quick that he has been waiting for her since. So even when he was bleeping her , the guy outside would be knocking on the door asking if he is not done yet, so he had to finish quickly. I nearly threw up that day.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by vizkiz: 12:07pm On Dec 05, 2020
At the end of the day, aren’t we all hoes? grin

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 12:16pm On Dec 05, 2020
Mtvbaseng:



The experience made me understand that the average big girl in Lagos is an olosho.. these babes looks so classy and responsible that men will easily fall for them as good babes unless u find out
Lolz did u just noticed that today?

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 12:16pm On Dec 05, 2020
tnerro1:
You guys that fvck olosho are trying ooo, a girl that allows different dicks to enter her with no exceptions and you are still waiting to put ur own dicks inside her. Na wa oooo
My guy took me to a joint and it was full of olosho. Me I just face my front but my guy was eyeing one. The next thing he went with the girl and was back under 5 Minutes. I was like na wa oooo, so fast. He said one guy was waiting at her door when they got there and the guy was telling him to do quick that he has been waiting for her since. So even when he was bleeping her , the guy outside would be knocking on the door asking if he is not done yet, so he had to finish quickly. I nearly threw up that day.
I'm wondering too

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Originalsly: 12:19pm On Dec 05, 2020
Hmmm.... nice sharing.... you write well too.... flowing along a timeline. So ironic that at one point you find it like unbelievable that these prostitutes have bf that know what they do..... and in the end you become a bf...knowing what she does! I guess you were sooo carried away by the pampering ..... that with all the money she was making daily..... she had only N300k saved..... and you agreed to move with her and start a new life. With N300k?.... and your new money draining lifestyle? ... you weren't thinking at all. Glad your eyes cleared in the end..... it wasn't even about her being a prostitute.... but because of your now haggard looks. To us wishing to live the flashy lifestyle... all that glitters is not gold. Again.... thanks for sharing.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by GodWrites: 12:32pm On Dec 05, 2020
GayPontiff:
grin


Another greedy, blood sucking SOB who bleeped himself over and is still blaming another person how many years later.
You are an ingrate, gold digger, broke SOB and owe that Lady gratitude. Learn to be grateful u prick.

You have learnt nothing my friend.
The worst is yet to befall u.



Let me add further for any idiot without sense quoting me.

Did he state anywhere that d lady was not nice to him?
Shebi all he wrote was that she spent her savings on him. Even as a LovePeddler she showered him with love and affection. Prostitutes r also humans trying to make ends meet, why even post her number?

He added nothing to her life, drained her and is still here ranting how sex tore him apart.
People like u end up miserable and won't know the particular curse they inherited messing them up.
Ewu.

95% of Nigerian girls are better than this pathetic fool.

For the fact that he got out of shape because a girl was feeding and housing him is even more degrading.

I think he deserves to be sold as a sex slave, so he can we washed and pampered like a deluded idiot who doesn't want to hustle.

Who knows, perhaps he was also expecting the girl to propose and pay his groom price. What a prick!

I hate it when I come across lazy, sissy and ungrateful simps like op.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by abercrombie(m): 12:55pm On Dec 05, 2020
chinchonglee:

Home you got ur wife pregnant wen you dnt have money to feed
sir it's quite a long story,you guys can help me out no matter how little it is,pending till Monday so i can find some things doing,thanks
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Tyriq: 1:05pm On Dec 05, 2020
LagosInter:


What kind of hatred and animosity is this?

Show me any sentence that was copied here.

I wrote every single thing there.

Not even a word was copied.

I posted it before, even created a thread with it.

If you knew me, you would know what you saw is just 40% of what I can write or do.

Hatred ke..Ogbeni I don't know u..i read exactly this same piece on the ashawo thread some time ago..
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 1:07pm On Dec 05, 2020
Tyriq:

Hatred ke..Ogbeni I don't know u..i read exactly this same piece on the ashawo thread some time ago..
I was the one that posted it on ashawo thread. I told you I even created a thread with it.

Anyway, I won't engage you again on this.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Notatribalist(m): 1:11pm On Dec 05, 2020
Mtvbaseng:
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and fro dropping my C.v here and there but all to no avail,I was broke at this point and decided to go to ikorodu to stay with my friends there ( Gee boys ) ..while I was there they took me to one hotel to watch football .the Hotel was located at itamaga and it's popularly called " BE HAPPY" ...for those familiar with the area .

As we were about to go in I saw a vacancy board looking for supervisor and bar man..I decided I would come the next day with my c.v and apply for the post of a supervisor,on getting there I was told they already got a supervisor but still in need of a bar man.i asked how much and they said 20k .I was desperate so I took the job .
I started working ,I was posted to the V.I.P section as the bar man there ,I was honest with my transactions and I quickly made friends with balling guys ( Gee Boys).. My salary was 20k but I was making at least 5k daily.. guys would come and drink ,and then ask me to take whatever I want and drink too,I would skip the drink and keep the money,some would tip me sometimes 2k,I was enjoying life and saving. Apart from staying up all night everyday and doing account of the bar the next morning there wasn't Anything strenuous I was doing .


But the hotel was a LovePeddler house too.. ladies work there as runs girls .I found out that they pay rent everyday to the hotel owner.. the cheapest room there is 2k while the most expensive is 4k..(the 4k room comes with A.C.) There were at least up to 25 girls living there permanently ,other girls come and go .men would come around ,choose thier spec and go in with them..I learnt that some ladies have been there for more than 10 years ,they all have nicknames ,you will hear names like Angel , Naomi ,. Tiepor ( means it's plenty ) e.t.c..paying rent of at least 2k everyday.. short time with these ladies ranges from 1k to 5k depending on how Hawt she is while overnight is 10k - 20k

On a bad day these ladies get at least 10 short time and one overnight whuch means they make thousands of naira everyday . They spend thier money on designer clothes and latest wears competing With each other .

What I also Got to find out is that this prostitute have boyfriend's too.the one they allow to penetrate them without the use of condom,and the funny thing is that the man/guy is aware that they are runs girls ..they spend on thier boyfriend and he dare not cheat on them..have seen scenarios where guys marry some or have a baby with her..

Just 2 months after I got there I started getting visit from this particular prostitute ,she would come to my bar during the day when there are less customers and buy coca cola drink,she would drop 1k and asked me to keep change, the hotel has a restaurant too.,she would order food and asked them to bring it to me.. The gullible me thought I have found my destiny helper as I no longer spend on food not knowing that I was being pulled into the traps of the devil..my co workers then were telling me she likes me ,the truth is all the babes there actually liked me.cos i was naturally blessed with Good looks .

There were lots of pretty young girls in that Hotel ,girls from 19 years upward .this babe that kept buying me stuff wasn't the prettiest but she was my spec plus she was a big girl ,she uses the latest iPhone ,dresses classy and trendy ,if you met her on a normal day outside the hotel block u would have mistaken her for an otedola daughter ,with her dress and style

We Got close over time ,and one day I asked her " But babe pls tell me why do u choose to do runs ?..

According to her she claimed she grew up in a poor family and things were very tough back then,she tried learning a skill or trade but her boss were always wicked to her and she would end up leaving there , things got so tough that she couldnt afford pad during menstruation..she later had to run to a friend who was doing well at that time.. the friend promised her she would take her to Lagos to work. When they arrived Lagos she brought her to the hotel instead and the babe confessed that she's into runs ..and urge her to do it too.

"No one will know ,make small money and go and start a business In Benin". Her friend urged ..and that was how she started ,she said sometimes dirty mechanic or even tout boys will sleep with her and she had no choice but to allow them,she said sometimes some of them will use drug and almost tear her vagina..but that later she got used to it ..I felt bad for her ..... What do you think ?






Comment if u would like to hear the remaining story .....

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At the hotel u work every day and you only get a day off . During my off days she will beg me not to go home that I should rest there, she would then book a room for me to spend my break... (Pls understand the owner of the hotel is one difficult man and he must not find out you are dating any runs babe because he will believe you are giving her his money , so we kept it on the low but all her friends and my friends know.. )


I would be in that room and she will come and check on me time to time ,with food and drinks,she was really taking care of me.sh would buy me milk saying I need to regain my strength,this babe was not asking for sex ,she was actually taking her time with me ..

Then one day I had issues with my supervisor and I was suspended ( the Supervisor was jealous of our relationship And was always looking for fault in everything I do ).

I was suspended for 3 days and that means they will deduct a week money ..this babe lodged me in another hotel , gave me 10k saying I should use it to replace the money they will deduct,she then left her hotel to come spend the three days suspension with me..and sex happened..

Somehow i'mmediately after that I lost total interest in the job ,she was buying me everything from clothes to boxers to designer shoes ,she even bought me a gold chain (real Gold) ...I started feeling too big for the job that use to be my everything..


She told me that I should quit the job and look for a better one as the one I'm doing is below my standards, I believed her and quitted , then she told me she's quitting prostitution too.. she had like 300k in her account and there is a house in Benin belonging to her .. that was how me and olosho relocated to Benin to start living as couples... I was banging pussy everyday....


I just wake up and bang pussy then sleep .. life was sweet not knowing I was killing my destiny... After bout 3 months we spent the money in her account finish.. and we were becoming broke ..that was when I realized I need a job again.. then one day during my job hunt I came back and she wasn't around, when she came back she brought food , provisions and stuff and even gave me 5k to get something for myself. I asked her where she got the money from and she confessed that she went to sleep with one rich man like that in Benin...

She begged me to please allow her to continue going to see the man that the man promised to fund her business plans which I agreed ....

After a while we started having issues I realized she did not like me as she use to she will say words like " You were not like this when you were in Lagos ". ... I did not understand what she meant until I saw myself in a mirror one day .. omo I was looking old and ugly all my beauty was gone .. I almost cried .. I i'mmediately left for Lagos the next week... And after years of fasting and praying and deliveenca I started looking better ...... To those that do say sex has no consequences I hope you learn. A Thing or two ....
Nice write up..But op,it's spells " their " not "thier".. Is this how you wrote it all through your university? I am not finding fault though, I am not perfect too.But I am just curious.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 1:33pm On Dec 05, 2020
Notatribalist:
Nice write up..But op,it's spells " their " not "thier".. Is this how you wrote it all through your university? I am not finding fault though, I am not perfect too.But I am just curious.
See how you quoted the whole post undecided Nawa for you grin

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Notatribalist(m): 1:40pm On Dec 05, 2020
Bikochii:

See how you quoted the whole post undecided Nawa for you grin
Lol..wetin I for do now?
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by OKOATA(m): 2:18pm On Dec 05, 2020
tnerro1:
You guys that fvck olosho are trying ooo, a girl that allows different dicks to enter her with no exceptions and you are still waiting to put ur own dicks inside her. Na wa oooo
My guy took me to a joint and it was full of olosho. Me I just face my front but my guy was eyeing one. The next thing he went with the girl and was back under 5 Minutes. I was like na wa oooo, so fast. He said one guy was waiting at her door when they got there and the guy was telling him to do quick that he has been waiting for her since. So even when he was bleeping her , the guy outside would be knocking on the door asking if he is not done yet, so he had to finish quickly. I nearly threw up that day.
Damm. shocked

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by sammycarz(m): 2:36pm On Dec 05, 2020
You don't have to mention the name of the hotel...its someone business
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by LagosAirport: 2:40pm On Dec 05, 2020
TOPCRUISE:
Olosho business is booming in Lagos. Girls into it call it different names. They don't call it prostitution. I can't just trust any girl in Lagos when it comes to relationship and sex.
It's the same everywhere in Nigeria

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 2:53pm On Dec 05, 2020
any guy dating ashewo or confirmed olosho, as in, he knew she into such stuff, i feel for him and i pity the viginna he came out from.

in fact, any guy who is comfortable that girl or wife is the one taking care of everything needs..... Should go for deliverance

woman may be richer but taking over full responsibility over a man is unhearable!

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 2:54pm On Dec 05, 2020
Op be making olosho business looks so lucrative from his story...

I have friends that are into it
They suffer like mad
Mor ever that stuff is very risky

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by idibe24(m): 2:59pm On Dec 05, 2020
nice one I learn a lot from this story

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by DonroxyII: 3:16pm On Dec 05, 2020
Mtvbaseng:
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and fro dropping my C.v here and there but all to no avail,I was broke at this point and decided to go to ikorodu to stay with my friends there ( Gee boys ) ..while I was there they took me to one hotel to watch football .the Hotel was located at itamaga and it's popularly called " BE HAPPY" ...for those familiar with the area .

As we were about to go in I saw a vacancy board looking for supervisor and bar man..I decided I would come the next day with my c.v and apply for the post of a supervisor,on getting there I was told they already got a supervisor but still in need of a bar man.i asked how much and they said 20k .I was desperate so I took the job .
I started working ,I was posted to the V.I.P section as the bar man there ,I was honest with my transactions and I quickly made friends with balling guys ( Gee Boys).. My salary was 20k but I was making at least 5k daily.. guys would come and drink ,and then ask me to take whatever I want and drink too,I would skip the drink and keep the money,some would tip me sometimes 2k,I was enjoying life and saving. Apart from staying up all night everyday and doing account of the bar the next morning there wasn't Anything strenuous I was doing .


Wao , Wao !! ThanGod you no die or get lost for eternity but who move with a woman for 300k and not even your own hustle ... God is wonderful ni, u should have a broken leg or arm to teach u a lesson !

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by DonroxyII: 3:17pm On Dec 05, 2020
GayPontiff:
grin


Another greedy, blood sucking SOB who bleeped himself over and is still blaming another person how many years later.
You are an ingrate, gold digger, broke SOB and owe that Lady gratitude. Learn to be grateful u prick.

You have learnt nothing my friend.
The worst is yet to befall u.



Let me add further for any idiot without sense quoting me.

Did he state anywhere that d lady was not nice to him?
Shebi all he wrote was that she spent her savings on him. Even as a LovePeddler she showered him with love and affection. Prostitutes r also humans trying to make ends meet, why even post her number?

He added nothing to her life, drained her and is still here ranting how sex tore him apart.
People like u end up miserable and won't know the particular curse they inherited messing them up.
Ewu.
Another angle .. Gbam !

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 4:41pm On Dec 05, 2020
judondasylva:
you are mad get out of my post


It's your Generations and your entire family that are mad . May thunder strike you blind . Useless God-forsaken fool. If you don't understand the ethics of business, don't ever think of marketing your product for sale.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Tony142: 4:57pm On Dec 05, 2020
Preshieben:
Op be making olosho business looks so lucrative from his story...

I have friends that are into it
They suffer like mad
Mor ever that stuff is very risky




u have friends that are into it? show me your friend and I will tell u who u are #wink

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by KingTom(m): 5:09pm On Dec 05, 2020
GayPontiff:
grin


Another greedy, blood sucking SOB who bleeped himself over and is still blaming another person how many years later.
You are an ingrate, gold digger, broke SOB and owe that Lady gratitude. Learn to be grateful u prick.

You have learnt nothing my friend.
The worst is yet to befall u.



Let me add further for any idiot without sense quoting me.

Did he state anywhere that d lady was not nice to him?
Shebi all he wrote was that she spent her savings on him. Even as a LovePeddler she showered him with love and affection. Prostitutes r also humans trying to make ends meet, why even post her number?

He added nothing to her life, drained her and is still here ranting how sex tore him apart.
People like u end up miserable and won't know the particular curse they inherited messing them up.
Ewu.
Seconded!!!

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by TOPCRUISE(m): 5:20pm On Dec 05, 2020
LagosAirport:

It's the same everywhere in Nigeria
Poverty
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by judondasylva(m): 5:56pm On Dec 05, 2020
Classyuniquebae:



It's your Generations and your entire family that are mad . May thunder strike you blind . Useless God-forsaken fool. If you don't understand the ethics of business, don't ever think of marketing your product for sale.
all these curses I send it back to you and your generation fool. You know ethics of business that's why you Price a brand new phone of those specs 18k even if its a stolen phone. You lack sense

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by solonubinho(m): 6:31pm On Dec 05, 2020
Mtvbaseng:


You need prayers .I know u wish u were in my shoes but I will advise you like a big brother " Don't ever invest your time on sex "...


The problem was you. Not the young lady. You quit your job, stayed at home and banged away your destiny and you're here complaining how she destroyed you. Were you expecting to move forward in life without a job or business??

I dont know you but if you offended that lady when you moved, call her today and apologise o. She loved you na you no just use your brain.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Franktom247(m): 7:00pm On Dec 05, 2020
[quote author=Preshieben post=96759263]Op be making olosho business looks so lucrative from his story...

I have friends that are into it
They suffer like mad
Mor ever that stuff is very risky

mama you lie there are rich oloshos your friends are the poor ones which work no risky abeg my question op where was family and friends when all these was going on

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by linsa01(m): 7:39pm On Dec 05, 2020
Olo.shi grin grin
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 9:29pm On Dec 05, 2020
judondasylva:
all these curses I send it back to you and your generation fool. You know ethics of business that's why you Price a brand new phone of those specs 18k even if its a stolen phone. You lack sense

You were the first to curse and now you are sending back the same curse you sent? Obviously common sense is far away from you . Even a brand new car is negotiable let alone a phone . What stops you from simply saying " I can't settle for that " I even asked you your last price and you chose to display your homeless manner by calling me MAD. That madness will envelope you and your life ! I guess you go to the market and buy everything at whatever price you are being told fool.

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