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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by mmyfarmsltd(m): 9:37am On Dec 08, 2020
Unlawful sex has consequences. When i started unlawful sex was when i misplaced 2.9m in a business transaction. I still hoping & praying i get my money back. Stay away from sexual sin.

Mtvbaseng:
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and fro dropping my C.v here and there but all to no avail,I was broke at this point and decided to go to ikorodu to stay with my friends there ( Gee boys ) ..while I was there they took me to one hotel to watch football .the Hotel was located at itamaga and it's popularly called " BE HAPPY" ...for those familiar with the area .

As we were about to go in I saw a vacancy board looking for supervisor and bar man..I decided I would come the next day with my c.v and apply for the post of a supervisor,on getting there I was told they already got a supervisor but still in need of a bar man.i asked how much and they said 20k .I was desperate so I took the job .
I started working ,I was posted to the V.I.P section as the bar man there ,I was honest with my transactions and I quickly made friends with balling guys ( Gee Boys).. My salary was 20k but I was making at least 5k daily.. guys would come and drink ,and then ask me to take whatever I want and drink too,I would skip the drink and keep the money,some would tip me sometimes 2k,I was enjoying life and saving. Apart from staying up all night everyday and doing account of the bar the next morning there wasn't Anything strenuous I was doing .


But the hotel was a LovePeddler house too.. ladies work there as runs girls .I found out that they pay rent everyday to the hotel owner.. the cheapest room there is 2k while the most expensive is 4k..(the 4k room comes with A.C.) There were at least up to 25 girls living there permanently ,other girls come and go .men would come around ,choose thier spec and go in with them..I learnt that some ladies have been there for more than 10 years ,they all have nicknames ,you will hear names like Angel , Naomi ,. Tiepor ( means it's plenty ) e.t.c..paying rent of at least 2k everyday.. short time with these ladies ranges from 1k to 5k depending on how Hawt she is while overnight is 10k - 20k

On a bad day these ladies get at least 10 short time and one overnight whuch means they make thousands of naira everyday . They spend thier money on designer clothes and latest wears competing With each other .

What I also Got to find out is that this prostitute have boyfriend's too.the one they allow to penetrate them without the use of condom,and the funny thing is that the man/guy is aware that they are runs girls ..they spend on thier boyfriend and he dare not cheat on them..have seen scenarios where guys marry some or have a baby with her..

Just 2 months after I got there I started getting visit from this particular prostitute ,she would come to my bar during the day when there are less customers and buy coca cola drink,she would drop 1k and asked me to keep change, the hotel has a restaurant too.,she would order food and asked them to bring it to me.. The gullible me thought I have found my destiny helper as I no longer spend on food not knowing that I was being pulled into the traps of the devil..my co workers then were telling me she likes me ,the truth is all the babes there actually liked me.cos i was naturally blessed with Good looks .

There were lots of pretty young girls in that Hotel ,girls from 19 years upward .this babe that kept buying me stuff wasn't the prettiest but she was my spec plus she was a big girl ,she uses the latest iPhone ,dresses classy and trendy ,if you met her on a normal day outside the hotel block u would have mistaken her for an otedola daughter ,with her dress and style

We Got close over time ,and one day I asked her " But babe pls tell me why do u choose to do runs ?..

According to her she claimed she grew up in a poor family and things were very tough back then,she tried learning a skill or trade but her boss were always wicked to her and she would end up leaving there , things got so tough that she couldnt afford pad during menstruation..she later had to run to a friend who was doing well at that time.. the friend promised her she would take her to Lagos to work. When they arrived Lagos she brought her to the hotel instead and the babe confessed that she's into runs ..and urge her to do it too.

"No one will know ,make small money and go and start a business In Benin". Her friend urged ..and that was how she started ,she said sometimes dirty mechanic or even tout boys will sleep with her and she had no choice but to allow them,she said sometimes some of them will use drug and almost tear her vagina..but that later she got used to it ..I felt bad for her ..... What do you think ?






Comment if u would like to hear the remaining story .....

MODIFIED
At the hotel u work every day and you only get a day off . During my off days she will beg me not to go home that I should rest there, she would then book a room for me to spend my break... (Pls understand the owner of the hotel is one difficult man and he must not find out you are dating any runs babe because he will believe you are giving her his money , so we kept it on the low but all her friends and my friends know.. )


I would be in that room and she will come and check on me time to time ,with food and drinks,she was really taking care of me.sh would buy me milk saying I need to regain my strength,this babe was not asking for sex ,she was actually taking her time with me ..

Then one day I had issues with my supervisor and I was suspended ( the Supervisor was jealous of our relationship And was always looking for fault in everything I do ).

I was suspended for 3 days and that means they will deduct a week money ..this babe lodged me in another hotel , gave me 10k saying I should use it to replace the money they will deduct,she then left her hotel to come spend the three days suspension with me..and sex happened..

Somehow i'mmediately after that I lost total interest in the job ,she was buying me everything from clothes to boxers to designer shoes ,she even bought me a gold chain (real Gold) ...I started feeling too big for the job that use to be my everything..


She told me that I should quit the job and look for a better one as the one I'm doing is below my standards, I believed her and quitted , then she told me she's quitting prostitution too.. she had like 300k in her account and there is a house in Benin belonging to her .. that was how me and olosho relocated to Benin to start living as couples... I was having sex everyday....


I just wake up and have sex then sleep .. life was sweet not knowing I was killing my destiny... After bout 3 months we finished spending the money in her account. and we were becoming broke ..that was when I realized I need a job again.. then one day during my job hunt I came back and she wasn't around, when she came back she brought food , provisions and stuff and even gave me 5k to get something for myself. I asked her where she got the money from and she confessed that she went to sleep with one rich man like that in Benin...

She begged me to please allow her to continue going to see the man that the man promised to fund her business plans which I agreed ....

After a while we started having issues I realized she did not like me as she use to she will say words like " You were not like this when you were in Lagos ". ... I did not understand what she meant until I saw myself in a mirror one day .. omo I was looking old and ugly all my beauty was gone .. I almost cried .. I i'mmediately left for Lagos the next week... And after years of fasting and praying and deliveenca I started looking better ...... To those that do say sex has no consequences I hope you learn. A Thing or two ....

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ZooOga: 10:01am On Dec 08, 2020
Youngzedd:



Watch this video and thank me later.

You can't save her >>
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7bVhfDmnoI

Stop saving these hoes, let'em die!! cheesy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fx49UgzHlxY
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Cvwriter1(m): 10:11am On Dec 08, 2020
GayPontiff:
grin


Another greedy, blood sucking SOB who bleeped himself over and is still blaming another person how many years later.
You are an ingrate, gold digger, broke SOB and owe that Lady gratitude. Learn to be grateful u prick.

You have learnt nothing my friend.
The worst is yet to befall u.



Let me add further for any idiot without sense quoting me.

Did he state anywhere that d lady was not nice to him?
Shebi all he wrote was that she spent her savings on him. Even as a LovePeddler she showered him with love and affection. Prostitutes r also humans trying to make ends meet, why even post her number?

He added nothing to her life, drained her and is still here ranting how sex tore him apart.
People like u end up miserable and won't know the particular curse they inherited messing them up.
Ewu.

He even made her lose her good paying job damn.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Asadujames202(m): 10:14am On Dec 08, 2020
LagosInter:


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You are right bro.

When I was young I used to think manual cars were better till I started driving my friend's automatic car.

Guys banging only oshos are missing a lot.

The intensity of orgasm and treatment you get from a girl who is into you can never be gotten from olosho even if you pay her 1m.

I would rather fuuckk a girl whose beauty is 4/10 that's into me than fuucckk a 9/10 olosho.

You won't know the difference till you experience it.

I used to have a girl that once she noticed I was hard, she would laugh and would ask, "Can you wait till I come back" ?




Most times If I said no, she would oblige immediately.

Her desire was my happiness. She did everything in this world to please me and have me all to herself.

I returned the favour as well and appreciated her efforts.

She never complained because she wanted the sex as much as I did. And initiated it most times. Unlike oloshos.

With her I knew I was a stud. I could do her for over an hour.

Most oloshos want you to cum even at the sight of the vagiina, but a girl into you wants the sex and wants you to last.



Or is it the moaning, that heat of the moment?

I heard one say he was sucking oloshos breast, lol.

What's there to suck, all her nerves are dead. Most of her moans are fake just to get you excited so you cum quick.

That's why she isn't happy if you stop a bit, maybe to control ejaculaation.

MOST ashawos are damaged. It's psychological, check stats. They are likened to war veterans.

They feel "looted" that's why many are drug addicts and junkies.

Trust me, I know what I am saying, I have been there.


ASIDE: I had a bj yesterday from a girl into me, she is a virgin. I don't want to deflower her sef. After smooching i told her i needed to releaase, she said, let's go, went on her kneees and did it, i saw the passion to please me, it increased my excitement and i came.

No olosho can give such bj, at least not with passion.

There is always a woman that likes you, go for her and appreciate her. That way things will be easier. Ubunja would call that "chosen"




What is Bj?
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by OChimex: 10:16am On Dec 08, 2020
Mtvbaseng:



The experience made me understand that the average big girl in Lagos is an olosho.. these babes looks so classy and responsible that men will easily fall for them as good babes unless u find out

MODIFIED
To those saying I betray the babe because sohe gave me everything And I gave her nothing , I now understand why most of y'all never go far in life ..

I gave her nothing?..Bro I made this babe quit prostution,I gave her a LIFE !!!
Something she has been doing for years ,she met me ,and agreed to quit. ,I got a job immediately I got to Benin but she won't let me do it because according to her Benin babes will snatch me ,she told me she has a land she would sell and I could start a business not knowing she was lying , ..when we got broke ,I went out again to look for job,which I found one .not knowing the silly girl has gone back to her old ways behind me ....you think you know the story when you are not there ..You are mad .not to even mention that she must have jazz me with all those food she was giving me ...

You were making 5k daily from tips and 20k monthly from salary, which amounts to 50k monthly. Why you no cool down and work harder and saved for like 2years? You would have saved enough to go into a good business and walk on the part to success. Instead you chose to elope with a professional prostitute whom you saw being used on hourly basis?

What are kids of this generation turning into?

After wasting opportunities like this, Tomorrow now if you become poor you go begin turn village people they do juju or hating on successful people.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by RioCarputo(m): 10:21am On Dec 08, 2020
hmmmmm very similar to my own story ooooo.

2015 I used to go to popular brothel in ogbomosho to chill and hang out with some friends. though we do not bang ashewo, at times we just managed to buy some satchet hot drinks and enjoy ourselves there.

gradually we started getting acquainted to some of this girls there and they do sends us errands owning to the fact that they had gained our trust as e be say them dey see us everyday for there. they will cook and give us food.

At that time I was about gaining admission into University of Ibadan.

So one faithful day like that there was this girl , that should be in her mid 20s then while I was 23, she asked me to help her buy food around 3pm that Tuesday afternoon, that was the very first time we talk. I agreed and asked her to give me money and plate but she insisted that we go together, I was like "no problem ". as soon as we get to tger restaurant she told me that she forgot her money at her rented apartment, which is different from room she had in the brothel. she then requested I should accompany her to her apartment to get the money and as we get there. I was thinking she she would pick up her money and we go get the food asap but to my she locked the door and sat on the bed and pull her trouser. lo and behold she didn't wear panties and spread her leg wide opened. I was dumbfounded, I wanted to tell her that did she tricked me or what but I was stammering

she told me her eyes has been on me ever since she set her eyes on me in that brothel, that this is perfect time for her to get close to me.

Brethren, we had s*x that day and we didn't come out until 7pm that day. she told me not to let anybody know about our relationship that she might got evicted from the brothel or pay a large sum of money as fine.but everybody got know that we were in relationship, exept the owner of the brothel,most of the times I do sleep there with her overnight and had countless of s*x .

I was getting all the goodies from her ,ranging from clothes, different types of footwears and lot of money.

Fast forward I resumed 100level February 13 2016,she paid for my acceptance fees,tuition fees and hostel fees and do send me money regularly for upkeep. at times she would pay me visit in UI, and we do lodge and had s*x for days .

She started making plans for us to get married and promises to leave prostitution to start up her own business. I was a big boy in school and thought I was leaving the dream of a lucky boy.during holidays I'm always in ogbomosho with her .

fast forward towards the of my 300level days in November 2018 things has started changed ooo.my physical appearance had diminished a lot, that innocent fine looking boy has turned to an ugly duckling. my strength and energy has gone. I was now feeling like an old man with my dim eyes. oh my God, look at what too much s*x has landed me to.her behavior towards me changed drastically as she felt that I was no longer attracted to her anymore, the Prince charming had gone. and that's how we gone on our separate ways. I was devastated, but thanks God I was able to get myself back to life after 2months.

Around may this year, when I graduated and decided to come stay for some time pending the time I will go for NYSC, I met some of those guys that we do usually hangout together and guess what he told me. he told Beyonce as we do normally call her, is leaving with one tout now with a 1year old kid and now she's selling satchet hot drinks by the roadside now. he told me that her skin tone has really change and she looking like an old cargo.wowww.

But since then I have a really good lesson. as I don't fancy stares from women any longer, I do not even reciprocate to any attention given to me again, because I sees them as dangerous.

Yea guys get used too,so many of them are roaming the street dead.

as for now my future is the most important thing to me and when its the time to get married, that's when I will get someone.

Guys and ladies out there ,hope you can all learn from us.do not waste your time and destiny with just anybody,look before you leap .remember not all that is glitters are gold.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by perryy(m): 10:25am On Dec 08, 2020
OP , you are the problem I see here. . That lady is not the problem. You are a gold digger without brain. You came here to be talking tapa Topo without being able to tell us the contribution you made to the relationship other than you were having free regular sex. Look, it is not because of your good look that made the girl fell in love with you , the girl thought you were a human being whom she can build with without knowing you are a mere gold digger without brain. She saw the way you behave , being a graduate, the way you speak, and the way you work and believed she her met her dream man with the mental capacity to change her story. That was her attraction. When the lady presented her 300k as her contribution to the planned business, how much did you contribute? When you got to Benin, which business did you suggest you do which the lady declined ? You said you were making extra 5k at least everyday, what was your saving for the period you worked ? No saving ? If yes, that shows you are a wastrel and if you had saving but refused to bring it to the table and bring idea on how to invest the money , it means you are a wasted gold digger who would suffer untold hardship later in life. . That lady played all her part, fed you , housed you , gave you her body etc, but you failed to also make any positive contribution. As that 2016, POS was still very scanty in Benin and if you have contributed yuur savings to what she had then, you guys could have opened a restaurant and bar and ads pos business. That would have fetched you millions within a year then. . I started my pos business then with a lesser amount of money , but today, I have built house , bought cars for myself from the proceeds. Mind you , I never saw anyone who gave me money to start the business like u had , I borrowed the money from a lady, yet I was able to make good use of it and made something good myself. Just go and beg for forgiveness lest you will be permanently ruined as the lord lives. Beg her , change your mindset, stop being lazy and stop looking for free food lest you end up under oshodi bridge as a vagabond. You posted her name and number online to humiliate her for doing no wrong to you . Yes, you guys later had issues. But what do you expect ? That she should praise you for not being able to live up to expectations? She expected you to bring idea to turn things around , but you ended up being a lazy ass without idea . A spoilt child you are ! A lady that left prostitution and went to Benin to build with you who was later forced into prostitution because of your laziness is supposed to even poison you and get rid of you. She didn't poison you, she only tell you to be a man she though you were . That was only offence and you are here to tarnish her image. I just pity your life. 4uck off boy.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by stonecoldcafe: 10:36am On Dec 08, 2020
Mtvbaseng:
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and fro dropping my C.v here and there I hope you learn. A Thing or two ....

What a tale. I hope you have bounced back fully
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by sharpwriter(m): 10:43am On Dec 08, 2020
Dreyton36:
As the CEO of weed association in Lagos State

Surely I know that BE HAPPY

I remember watching my sweet Manchester United match there some years back

It's opposite a road side right ?
And you'll pass ikorodu Grammer school straight to the place isn't it ?

Girls hang around both outside and inside the bar , the V.I.P session is downstairs where just wines and vodkas are sold

They also have a upstair and there's also a bar stand there and there's also a toilet at that same upstair located at the extreme

The stair care is made of steel , right or wrong?


I no dey fvck olosho Sha, no matter how she fine reach , she can never turn me on



Lights up my kpoli in peace

You are always lighting up kpoli.... Abeg show love to ya boy for this Christmas jor... Make I PM you? wink
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Seyzcham91(m): 11:26am On Dec 08, 2020
you are right! The guy na foolish guy
GayPontiff:
grin


Another greedy, blood sucking SOB who bleeped himself over and is still blaming another person how many years later.
You are an ingrate, gold digger, broke SOB and owe that Lady gratitude. Learn to be grateful u prick.

You have learnt nothing my friend.
The worst is yet to befall u.



Let me add further for any idiot without sense quoting me.

Did he state anywhere that d lady was not nice to him?
Shebi all he wrote was that she spent her savings on him. Even as a LovePeddler she showered him with love and affection. Prostitutes r also humans trying to make ends meet, why even post her number?

He added nothing to her life, drained her and is still here ranting how sex tore him apart.
People like u end up miserable and won't know the particular curse they inherited messing them up.
Ewu.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Seyzcham91(m): 11:33am On Dec 08, 2020
you are right! 100percent
LagosInter:


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You are right bro.

When I was young I used to think manual cars were better till I started driving my friend's automatic car.

Guys banging only oshos are missing a lot.

The intensity of orgasm and treatment you get from a girl who is into you can never be gotten from olosho even if you pay her 1m.

I would rather fuuckk a girl whose beauty is 4/10 that's into me than fuucckk a 9/10 olosho.

You won't know the difference till you experience it.

I used to have a girl that once she noticed I was hard, she would laugh and would ask, "Can you wait till I come back" ?




Most times If I said no, she would oblige immediately.

Her desire was my happiness. She did everything in this world to please me and have me all to herself.

I returned the favour as well and appreciated her efforts.

She never complained because she wanted the sex as much as I did. And initiated it most times. Unlike oloshos.

With her I knew I was a stud. I could do her for over an hour.

Most oloshos want you to cum even at the sight of the vagiina, but a girl into you wants the sex and wants you to last.



Or is it the moaning, that heat of the moment?

I heard one say he was sucking oloshos breast, lol.

What's there to suck, all her nerves are dead. Most of her moans are fake just to get you excited so you cum quick.

That's why she isn't happy if you stop a bit, maybe to control ejaculaation.

MOST ashawos are damaged. It's psychological, check stats. They are likened to war veterans.

They feel "looted" that's why many are drug addicts and junkies.

Trust me, I know what I am saying, I have been there.


ASIDE: I had a bj yesterday from a girl into me, she is a virgin. I don't want to deflower her sef. After smooching i told her i needed to releaase, she said, let's go, went on her kneees and did it, i saw the passion to please me, it increased my excitement and i came.

No olosho can give such bj, at least not with passion.

There is always a woman that likes you, go for her and appreciate her. That way things will be easier. Ubunja would call that "chosen"


Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Talkingoil(m): 11:49am On Dec 08, 2020
LagosInter:


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You are right bro.

When I was young I used to think manual cars were better till I started driving my friend's automatic car.

Guys banging only oshos are missing a lot.

The intensity of orgasm and treatment you get from a girl who is into you can never be gotten from olosho even if you pay her 1m.

I would rather fuuckk a girl whose beauty is 4/10 that's into me than fuucckk a 9/10 olosho.

You won't know the difference till you experience it.

I used to have a girl that once she noticed I was hard, she would laugh and would ask, "Can you wait till I come back" ?




Most times If I said no, she would oblige immediately.

Her desire was my happiness. She did everything in this world to please me and have me all to herself.

I returned the favour as well and appreciated her efforts.

She never complained because she wanted the sex as much as I did. And initiated it most times. Unlike oloshos.

With her I knew I was a stud. I could do her for over an hour.

Most oloshos want you to cum even at the sight of the vagiina, but a girl into you wants the sex and wants you to last.



Or is it the moaning, that heat of the moment?

I heard one say he was sucking oloshos breast, lol.

What's there to suck, all her nerves are dead. Most of her moans are fake just to get you excited so you cum quick.

That's why she isn't happy if you stop a bit, maybe to control ejaculaation.

MOST ashawos are damaged. It's psychological, check stats. They are likened to war veterans.

They feel "looted" that's why many are drug addicts and junkies.

Trust me, I know what I am saying, I have been there.


ASIDE: I had a bj yesterday from a girl into me, she is a virgin. I don't want to deflower her sef. After smooching i told her i needed to releaase, she said, let's go, went on her kneees and did it, i saw the passion to please me, it increased my excitement and i came.

No olosho can give such bj, at least not with passion.

There is always a woman that likes you, go for her and appreciate her. That way things will be easier. Ubunja would call that "chosen"



You know the game
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Monben: 11:49am On Dec 08, 2020
Get ready to be a father because this is how virgin births happen. Congratulations


rowland545:
u r right bro....everything u wrote from top to bottom is the truth...

I also have this girl she is a virgin..I think she is just 20 years of age....the kind of love she has for ehh I can't describe it...

She came over to d house last week and we were smooching and I got hard she was not ready to loose it but if I had insisted she would have ...

I just told her she should let me put it in just small DAT I won't disvirgin her and she trusted me and agreed....nah so I take put just d head ooo and she was so wet... DT I even released.

And she went home a virgin... I'm happy she is happy... ..d greatest satisfaction u can get from sex is doing it wit a woman who is into u...no matter how small ur dick is she will still be satisfied... U can't get this from a call girl
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by eze31362(m): 11:53am On Dec 08, 2020
woww be happy my area when i was living at ijede
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by sharpwriter(m): 11:55am On Dec 08, 2020
RioCarputo:
hmmmmm very similar to my own story ooooo.

2015 I used to go to popular brothel in ogbomosho to chill and hang out with some friends. though we do not bang ashewo, at times we just managed to buy some satchet hot drinks and enjoy ourselves there.

gradually we started getting acquainted to some of this girls there and they do sends us errands owning to the fact that they had gained our trust as e be say them dey see us everyday for there. they will cook and give us food.

At that time I was about gaining admission into University of Ibadan.

So one faithful day like that there was this girl , that should be in her mid 20s then while I was 23, she asked me to help her buy food around 3pm that Tuesday afternoon, that was the very first time we talk. I agreed and asked her to give me money and plate but she insisted that we go together, I was like "no problem ". as soon as we get to tger restaurant she told me that she forgot her money at her rented apartment, which is different from room she had in the brothel. she then requested I should accompany her to her apartment to get the money and as we get there. I was thinking she she would pick up her money and we go get the food asap but to my she locked the door and sat on the bed and pull her trouser. lo and behold she didn't wear panties and spread her leg wide opened. I was dumbfounded, I wanted to tell her that did she tricked me or what but I was stammering

she told me her eyes has been on me ever since she set her eyes on me in that brothel, that this is perfect time for her to get close to me.

Brethren, we had s*x that day and we didn't come out until 7pm that day. she told me not to let anybody know about our relationship that she might got evicted from the brothel or pay a large sum of money as fine.but everybody got know that we were in relationship, exept the owner of the brothel,most of the times I do sleep there with her overnight and had countless of s*x .

I was getting all the goodies from her ,ranging from clothes, different types of footwears and lot of money.

Fast forward I resumed 100level February 13 2016,she paid for my acceptance fees,tuition fees and hostel fees and do send me money regularly for upkeep. at times she would pay me visit in UI, and we do lodge and had s*x for days .

She started making plans for us to get married and promises to leave prostitution to start up her own business. I was a big boy in school and thought I was leaving the dream of a lucky boy.during holidays I'm always in ogbomosho with her .

fast forward towards the of my 300level days in November 2018 things has started changed ooo.my physical appearance had diminished a lot, that innocent fine looking boy has turned to an ugly duckling. my strength and energy has gone. I was now feeling like an old man with my dim eyes. oh my God, look at what too much s*x has landed me to.her behavior towards me changed drastically as she felt that I was no longer attracted to her anymore, the Prince charming had gone. and that's how we gone on our separate ways. I was devastated, but thanks God I was able to get myself back to life after 2months.

Around may this year, when I graduated and decided to come stay for some time pending the time I will go for NYSC, I met some of those guys that we do usually hangout together and guess what he told me. he told Beyonce as we do normally call her, is leaving with one tout now with a 1year old kid and now she's selling satchet hot drinks by the roadside now. he told me that her skin tone has really change and she looking like an old cargo.wowww.

But since then I have a really good lesson. as I don't fancy stares from women any longer, I do not even reciprocate to any attention given to me again, because I sees them as dangerous.

Yea guys get used too,so many of them are roaming the street dead.

as for now my future is the most important thing to me and when its the time to get married, that's when I will get someone.

Guys and ladies out there ,hope you can all learn from us.do not waste your time and destiny with just anybody,look before you leap .remember not all that is glitters are gold.




Kai.... Na God save you o
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by JIREN01: 12:02pm On Dec 08, 2020
Preshieben:
Oga
Firstly,stop saying you have the money...we all know you don't. cheesy

Secondly...you lack understanding

Thirdly....I didn't have any business with you...we didn't negotiate on anything and all of the sudden you started wailing I'm not worth 5k.. cheesy grin
Who asked you for it sir?

Lastly...I don't like guys with toothpick dick ...I'm very convinced you're one,so I wouldn't Bleep you for 10mil


Know this and know peace wink
Nice clapback
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by MisterKennedy(m): 12:17pm On Dec 08, 2020
Mtvbaseng .... I love your story bro... Thanks a lot from sharing your experience... But please do not leave the prostitute alone keep being with her until she turns a new leaf... For her to be this nice to you, that's unlike the character of a prostitute... Because most of them don't know what love even is... Yes she's a sex worker but I really respect her... And if bringing her closer to God and giving her a better life is all I'm going to do in life then so be it... I don't really care that she's a sex worker, I care more about her Spirit... She's really a nice lady that maybe... The thing with sex is just as bad as a magician... Devil never allows the money being made to amount to anything.... Mtvbaseng please I learnt that you posted her number her and then took it off, that wasn't very cool because she will be stigmatized and stereotyped... Some people might want to poke fun at her.... Please can you send me her phone number privately but please not on nairaland... I want to have a one on one talk with her... Please Mtvbaseng please don't ignore me bro
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by rowland545(m): 1:12pm On Dec 08, 2020
Monben:
Get ready to be a father because this is how virgin births happen. Congratulations


uhmmm she is on her period as we speak....so the joke is on u
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Yoighaman(m): 1:13pm On Dec 08, 2020
LagosInter:


.[/b]




You are right bro.

When I was young I used to think manual cars were better till I started driving my friend's automatic car.

Guys banging only oshos are missing a lot.

The intensity of orgasm and treatment you get from a girl who is into you can never be gotten from olosho even if you pay her 1m.

I would rather fuuckk a girl whose beauty is 4/10 that's into me than fuucckk a 9/10 olosho.

You won't know the difference till you experience it.

I used to have a girl that once she noticed I was hard, she would laugh and would ask, "Can you wait till I come back" ?




Most times If I said no, she would oblige immediately.

Her desire was my happiness. She did everything in this world to please me and have me all to herself.

I returned the favour as well and appreciated her efforts.

She never complained because she wanted the sex as much as I did. And initiated it most times. Unlike oloshos.

With her I knew I was a stud. I could do her for over an hour.

Most oloshos want you to cum even at the sight of the vagiina, but a girl into you wants the sex and wants you to last.



Or is it the moaning, that heat of the moment?

I heard one say he was sucking oloshos breast, lol.

What's there to suck, all her nerves are dead. Most of her moans are fake just to get you excited so you cum quick.

That's why she isn't happy if you stop a bit, maybe to control ejaculaation.

MOST ashawos are damaged. It's psychological, check stats. They are likened to war veterans.

They feel "looted" that's why many are drug addicts and junkies.

Trust me, I know what I am saying, I have been there.


ASIDE: I had a bj yesterday from a girl into me, she is a virgin. I don't want to deflower her sef. After smooching i told her i needed to releaase, she said, let's go, went on her kneees and did it, i saw the passion to please me, it increased my excitement and i came.

No olosho can give such bj, at least not with passion.

There is always a woman that likes you, go for her and appreciate her. That way things will be easier. Ubunja would call that "chosen"



Prof. Prof....I hail o...
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Yoighaman(m): 1:21pm On Dec 08, 2020
LagosInter:


No woman who has done prostitution will ever leave it.

The money they make will never allow them value normal job.


She will be like " Why would I work here for 30k when I can get that in a night with pepper soup, smirnoff, AC hotel etc."?


Ironically, many of them amount to nothing eventually.

You wonder what they do with all the money.

ASIDE: We all pay for sex, either with time, money, affluence, etc.

Even in marriage, because women are wicked by default and incapable of loving.

It's all about what she is gonna gain there.


A woman can only manage to love the son a bit genuinely, not the husband.

The husband is a mere provider and is replaced the moment he loses this ability.

All men should beg Chukwu to be able to have means till death.

Otherwise, whatever you see, you take.

We also have to make our own input as well by working hard and saving for rainy days.





Professor....wait o, did you graduate from UBUNJA University?
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Webb107: 1:35pm On Dec 08, 2020
Mtvbaseng:
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and fro dropping my ....

You my friend, are a colossal ungrateful ass*ole. Typical low life humans, going around blaming others for their own mistakes and undoing.

For a fact, free things killed you half... And if you are still the same way you are with that lady, free thing is what will kill you dead in the end.


"You made her quit prostitution" hence you have become her Messiah, hence you can just seat down and relax and be eating are labour.

If you were not a damn worthless guy that you certainly were, how can a lady you claim to have saved from prostitution ask you to just seat home and not work, that she will sort you out and you and your egomaniac sense feel that is OK.

It doesn't matter if she had 1million hectare of land... A true man, a worthy man will still strive to fend for himself and her.


Self centered, gold digging, ungrateful, spineless prick.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by generationz(f): 1:57pm On Dec 08, 2020
Bornsinner7:
The story funny

Someone said olosho business is lucrative and every average big girl is into it but I still wonder where the money this girls get go into..

Like no investment, no house of their own, no land, no car,.. just empty brain and deep borehole

imagine charging 5-10k for so called short time and 20+k for over night.. that's a lot of money by the end of the month depending on how the toto sweet

But still nothing to show for it.. they still task every dude that they come across for money.

Well.. op thank God for your life.. maybe your story for be like that maduabuchi own but you use your head


There is a spirit attached to that thing and its the spirit of greed. I know many do it because of poverty but it's not something they should plan their lives around. It's easy money but not a good profession. Many who have the charisma to attract men don't have the foresight to plan a way out. Even Cardi B is still ashamed about her stripping past after making a ton of money and getting out of it.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by generationz(f): 2:01pm On Dec 08, 2020
LagosInter:


.[/b]




You are right bro.

When I was young I used to think manual cars were better till I started driving my friend's automatic car.

Guys banging only oshos are missing a lot.

The intensity of orgasm and treatment you get from a girl who is into you can never be gotten from olosho even if you pay her 1m.

I would rather fuuckk a girl whose beauty is 4/10 that's into me than fuucckk a 9/10 olosho.

You won't know the difference till you experience it.

I used to have a girl that once she noticed I was hard, she would laugh and would ask, "Can you wait till I come back" ?




Most times If I said no, she would oblige immediately.

Her desire was my happiness. She did everything in this world to please me and have me all to herself.

I returned the favour as well and appreciated her efforts.

She never complained because she wanted the sex as much as I did. And initiated it most times. Unlike oloshos.

With her I knew I was a stud. I could do her for over an hour.

Most oloshos want you to cum even at the sight of the vagiina, but a girl into you wants the sex and wants you to last.



Or is it the moaning, that heat of the moment?

I heard one say he was sucking oloshos breast, lol.

What's there to suck, all her nerves are dead. Most of her moans are fake just to get you excited so you cum quick.

That's why she isn't happy if you stop a bit, maybe to control ejaculaation.

MOST ashawos are damaged. It's psychological, check stats. They are likened to war veterans.

They feel "looted" that's why many are drug addicts and junkies.

Trust me, I know what I am saying, I have been there.


ASIDE: I had a bj yesterday from a girl into me, she is a virgin. I don't want to deflower her sef. After smooching i told her i needed to releaase, she said, let's go, went on her kneees and did it, i saw the passion to please me, it increased my excitement and i came.

No olosho can give such bj, at least not with passion.

There is always a woman that likes you, go for her and appreciate her. That way things will be easier. Ubunja would call that "chosen"



So why didn't you end up marrying the first girl? undecided
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ORIAYO70(m): 2:20pm On Dec 08, 2020
GayPontiff:
grin


Another greedy, blood sucking SOB who bleeped himself over and is still blaming another person how many years later.
You are an ingrate, gold digger, broke SOB and owe that Lady gratitude. Learn to be grateful u prick.

You have learnt nothing my friend.
The worst is yet to befall u.



Let me add further for any idiot without sense quoting me.

Did he state anywhere that d lady was not nice to him?
Shebi all he wrote was that she spent her savings on him. Even as a LovePeddler she showered him with love and affection. Prostitutes r also humans trying to make ends meet, why even post her number?

He added nothing to her life, drained her and is still here ranting how sex tore him apart.
People like u end up miserable and won't know the particular curse they inherited messing them up.
Ewu.



You r very correct.
The lady might have felt miserable spending much on him and later put such attitude. The guy is nothing but a lazy wack
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Mineisgrace(f): 3:02pm On Dec 08, 2020
This is quite a story but I think she wanted the best for you. No woman wants a sit at home hubby.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 3:24pm On Dec 08, 2020
Hmmmmmmmmm I think op is an ingrate

He wasn't complaining while they were spending the money in her account

If he really was wise as he paint himself to be

He would have advised her to jointly use her savings in starting a business

Or op does not really love her


There's nothing wrong with A man marrying an Ashawo, most of our decent girls even worse pass some Ashawos sef

Everybody has their past

Op is simply a gold digger and he's probably cheating on her sef


Is he not a Man


Woo let me comot hand for this matter

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 4:05pm On Dec 08, 2020
generationz:


So why didn't you end up marrying the first girl? undecided

Genotype and small ish bro. We still talk, i still send her money sef
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 4:18pm On Dec 08, 2020
Decimus:

show me your friends and.....
E concern u ohh

Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 4:23pm On Dec 08, 2020
Pls does anyone know ashawo joint in Adamawa yola
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by PS712: 4:38pm On Dec 08, 2020
perryy:
OP
Aptly written, except that poisoning part I beg to differ. But you really captured all I wanted writing the OP. After reading his story (which happens to be his version) I can't but see that lady as an angel, one that can be a true support if given chance to. It really got me wondering if the OP made the story up just to send home message against premarital sex or sex with those with multiple partners (cause I didn't read it when the girl's details were still on display). Or could it still be another ploy to drive calls to that line?
Otherwise, it beats every imagination why someone who makes average N120k monthly (5k times 6 = 30k weekly) and who does not have to spend on food, clothing and most times accommodation, abuse opportunity he got to better his life despite having suffered unemployment post graduation...?
You made money lots of graduates in state and even some FG agencies don't make in a month (and in your case your expenses are even covered by someone who loves you), yet you are here spewing all these and seeking to blame one who meant you good. That OP really needs to change orientation and also approach that lady for forgiveness, cause her only sin in this case was she had faith and fell in love with the wrong person!
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by PS712: 4:49pm On Dec 08, 2020
GayPontiff:
grin
Did he state anywhere that d lady was not nice to him?
Shebi all he wrote was that she spent her savings on him. Even as a LovePeddler she showered him with love and affection. .
Thank you.
To think all we read is the OP's version of the story and knowing how well people tend to paint themselves good with their own version of the story I bet that lady did more graciously to him and probably saw ills (don't want to use word hell here) from him. Lazy guy making what government workers (FG) at level 8 and above make yet unable to plan his life, despite having expenses covered by a girl in love!
Some guys are the reason some women decide never to be supportive in relationship.

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