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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Goldencheese(m): 4:10am On Dec 08, 2020
I don't normally comment on romance section or topics, but you made sense.

LagosInter:


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You are right bro.

When I was young I used to think manual cars were better till I started driving my friend's automatic car.

Guys banging only oshos are missing a lot.

The intensity of orgasm and treatment you get from a girl who is into you can never be gotten from olosho even if you pay her 1m.

I would rather fuuckk a girl whose beauty is 4/10 that's into me than fuucckk a 9/10 olosho.

You won't know the difference till you experience it.

I used to have a girl that once she noticed I was hard, she would laugh and would ask, "Can you wait till I come back" ?




Most times If I said no, she would oblige immediately.

Her desire was my happiness. She did everything in this world to please me and have me all to herself.

I returned the favour as well and appreciated her efforts.

She never complained because she wanted the sex as much as I did. And initiated it most times. Unlike oloshos.

With her I knew I was a stud. I could do her for over an hour.

Most oloshos want you to cum even at the sight of the vagiina, but a girl into you wants the sex and wants you to last.



Or is it the moaning, that heat of the moment?

I heard one say he was sucking oloshos breast, lol.

What's there to suck, all her nerves are dead. Most of her moans are fake just to get you excited so you cum quick.

That's why she isn't happy if you stop a bit, maybe to control ejaculaation.

MOST ashawos are damaged. It's psychological, check stats. They are likened to war veterans.

They feel "looted" that's why many are drug addicts and junkies.

Trust me, I know what I am saying, I have been there.


ASIDE: I had a bj yesterday from a girl into me, she is a virgin. I don't want to deflower her sef. After smooching i told her i needed to releaase, she said, let's go, went on her kneees and did it, i saw the passion to please me, it increased my excitement and i came.

No olosho can give such bj, at least not with passion.

There is always a woman that likes you, go for her and appreciate her. That way things will be easier. Ubunja would call that "chosen"


Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by KosiGee(m): 4:38am On Dec 08, 2020
Mtvbaseng:

I tire my brother.. the thread is actually to warn people to keep off pre marital sex.. but this simp here is acting as if he's a pro ..


Sorry to disagree bro. The only simp here is you.

That girl wanted companionship and trusted you. She was the hustler and provider. You gave her NOTHING. Of all the times you guys were together, she gave her all to and even wished and prayed for you to be s better man. You reciprocated with betrayal and contempt.

Why did you have to mention the name of the hotel here, it’s location and the name of ‘your’ girl??

Was that necessary? Your type can’t be trusted. You are narcissist, selfish and greedy.

As much as I despise that type of lifestyle, I pray that girl find a much better life that wouldn’t remind her of her dark past and people like you.

You don’t deserve her.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Gerrard59(m): 4:44am On Dec 08, 2020
WoundedLamb:


So this was your takeaway from the experience? To profile women in Lagos? Cause the oloshos look classy, an "average big girl" is now an olosho? What of the men that pick them? They didn't convince you that an average man in Lagos an olosho client too? Will you guys ever stop at anything to profile women? The same you would cry a river when SARS or HR officials profile you. Sexism is disgusting.

Na today? grin

The average Nigerian male is a hypocrite. As if the ladies sleep with themselves.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 4:49am On Dec 08, 2020
KosiGee:



Sorry to disagree bro. The only simp here is you.

That girl wanted companionship and trusted you. She was the hustler and provider. You gave her NOTHING. Of all the times you guys were together, she gave her all to and even wished and prayed for you to be s better man. You reciprocated with betrayal and contempt.

Why did you have to mention the name of the hotel here, it’s location and the name of ‘your’ girl??

Was that necessary? Your type can’t be trusted. You are narcissist, selfish and greedy.

As much as I despise that type of lifestyle, I pray that girl find a much better life that wouldn’t remind her of her dark past and people like you.

You don’t deserve her.

I'm beginning to suspect u know this story personally, but if you are a total stranger then u are wrong , I gave her nothing?..Bro I made this babe quit prostution,I gave her a LIFE different from the one she was living before ,I got a job immediately I got to Benin but she won't let me do it because according to her Benin babes will snatch me ,she told me she has a land she would sell and I could start a business, ..when we got broke ,I went out again to look for job,not knowing the silly girl has gone back yo her old ways behind me ....you think you know the story when you are not there ..You are mad .

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Ventura1: 4:52am On Dec 08, 2020
nnamdiosu:


1. She made him leave a honest paying job with false compliments that he was better than it

2. She made a man relocate from his location with thinking properly.

3. She was rendering him as a sex machine...just eat and sleep with her

(This are just the physical demerits. I dont want to even start with the spiritual part)

You see, the guy himself is greedy and an opportunist, like someone said, he has no plans. I just hope he learnt from the experience.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by KosiGee(m): 5:05am On Dec 08, 2020
Mtvbaseng:


I'm beginning to suspect u know this story personally, but if you are a total stranger then u are wrong , I gave her nothing?..Bro I made this babe quit prostution,I gave her a LIFE different from the one she was living before ,I got a job immediately I got to Benin but she won't let me do it because according to her Benin babes will snatch me ,she told me she has a land she would sell and I could start a business, ..when we got broke ,I went out again to look for job,not knowing the silly girl has gone back yo her old ways behind me ....you think you know the story when you are not there ..You are mad .


I don’t know your story or the hotel and it’s location.
From your story and confession, this girl have you her all. You were the one sapping and depleting her energy. When you were suspended, she did not ignore you. You confessed that she made it up for you by paying for another accommodation for you and also paid you whatever you would’ve lost financially.

...took you to Benin, both of you were using up and burning her N300k savings....prostitution is a disgusting way of living, that’s how I see people involved in it till I read your story. I think that girl is a legend. You owe her big time and you must pay back. All the meagre cheddars you accumulated doing nasty things with strangers, she spent and shared with you....

You...you were concerned about your looks!!

Go back to that girl wherever she is and say sorry and pay back what you owe her.

Don’t consider yourself smart spewing and denigrating her to her likes. A billion likes don’t and won’t put food on your table or get you a sachet of water if you were dehydrated and thirsty.

You learnt nothing from your experience.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Ventura1: 5:06am On Dec 08, 2020
Nigga, admit you acted wrongly and learn from it, why would you always play according to her plans only?
- She said you should quit the job in Lagos that earned you over 100k/month, you agreed.
- She told you to move to Benin, you agreed.
- At Benin, she said you should not work, that she would sell a land for you to start a business, you also agreed, guy what do you bring to the table?
Your only suggestion is that she should stop prostitution, which we all know the reasons.
Mtvbaseng:


I'm beginning to suspect u know this story personally, but if you are a total stranger then u are wrong , I gave her nothing?..Bro I made this babe quit prostution,I gave her a LIFE different from the one she was living before ,I got a job immediately I got to Benin but she won't let me do it because according to her Benin babes will snatch me ,she told me she has a land she would sell and I could start a business, ..when we got broke ,I went out again to look for job,not knowing the silly girl has gone back yo her old ways behind me ....you think you know the story when you are not there ..You are mad .

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Athemisia: 5:12am On Dec 08, 2020
Mtvbaseng:


Thank you.. real life stories ..
Hian ... It's fake

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by adeheritage: 5:18am On Dec 08, 2020
Try and get back to her, marry her and two of you should build up

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by cardoctor(m): 5:29am On Dec 08, 2020
It must have been rougher and tougher than u described.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by mightyhazel: 5:30am On Dec 08, 2020
Where is Righteousness89 in all these? I'm sure the sin on this thread has suffocated him..



Too much sins and sinners on this thread.

#puke

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Monjerk: 5:31am On Dec 08, 2020
adeheritage:
Try and get back to her, marry her and two of you should build up

Just tell me you are joking.

@OP please ignore this advice.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by BennyDon: 5:56am On Dec 08, 2020
Wallahi you try, I can't share my woman with any man. You know she dey do ashawo and you still dey Bleep her, you no dey fear STD/HIV?

Chai
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Tilykay(m): 5:57am On Dec 08, 2020
Mtvbaseng:
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and fro dropping my C.v here and there but all to no avail,I was broke at this point and decided to go to ikorodu to stay with my friends there ( Gee boys ) ..while I was there they took me to one hotel to watch football .the Hotel was located at itamaga and it's popularly called " BE HAPPY" ...for those familiar with the area .

As we were about to go in I saw a vacancy board looking for supervisor and bar man..I decided I would come the next day with my c.v and apply for the post of a supervisor,on getting there I was told they already got a supervisor but still in need of a bar man.i asked how much and they said 20k .I was desperate so I took the job .
I started working ,I was posted to the V.I.P section as the bar man there ,I was honest with my transactions and I quickly made friends with balling guys ( Gee Boys).. My salary was 20k but I was making at least 5k daily.. guys would come and drink ,and then ask me to take whatever I want and drink too,I would skip the drink and keep the money,some would tip me sometimes 2k,I was enjoying life and saving. Apart from staying up all night everyday and doing account of the bar the next morning there wasn't Anything strenuous I was doing .


But the hotel was a LovePeddler house too.. ladies work there as runs girls .I found out that they pay rent everyday to the hotel owner.. the cheapest room there is 2k while the most expensive is 4k..(the 4k room comes with A.C.) There were at least up to 25 girls living there permanently ,other girls come and go .men would come around ,choose thier spec and go in with them..I learnt that some ladies have been there for more than 10 years ,they all have nicknames ,you will hear names like Angel , Naomi ,. Tiepor ( means it's plenty ) e.t.c..paying rent of at least 2k everyday.. short time with these ladies ranges from 1k to 5k depending on how Hawt she is while overnight is 10k - 20k

On a bad day these ladies get at least 10 short time and one overnight whuch means they make thousands of naira everyday . They spend thier money on designer clothes and latest wears competing With each other .

What I also Got to find out is that this prostitute have boyfriend's too.the one they allow to penetrate them without the use of condom,and the funny thing is that the man/guy is aware that they are runs girls ..they spend on thier boyfriend and he dare not cheat on them..have seen scenarios where guys marry some or have a baby with her..

Just 2 months after I got there I started getting visit from this particular prostitute ,she would come to my bar during the day when there are less customers and buy coca cola drink,she would drop 1k and asked me to keep change, the hotel has a restaurant too.,she would order food and asked them to bring it to me.. The gullible me thought I have found my destiny helper as I no longer spend on food not knowing that I was being pulled into the traps of the devil..my co workers then were telling me she likes me ,the truth is all the babes there actually liked me.cos i was naturally blessed with Good looks .

There were lots of pretty young girls in that Hotel ,girls from 19 years upward .this babe that kept buying me stuff wasn't the prettiest but she was my spec plus she was a big girl ,she uses the latest iPhone ,dresses classy and trendy ,if you met her on a normal day outside the hotel block u would have mistaken her for an otedola daughter ,with her dress and style

We Got close over time ,and one day I asked her " But babe pls tell me why do u choose to do runs ?..

According to her she claimed she grew up in a poor family and things were very tough back then,she tried learning a skill or trade but her boss were always wicked to her and she would end up leaving there , things got so tough that she couldnt afford pad during menstruation..she later had to run to a friend who was doing well at that time.. the friend promised her she would take her to Lagos to work. When they arrived Lagos she brought her to the hotel instead and the babe confessed that she's into runs ..and urge her to do it too.

"No one will know ,make small money and go and start a business In Benin". Her friend urged ..and that was how she started ,she said sometimes dirty mechanic or even tout boys will sleep with her and she had no choice but to allow them,she said sometimes some of them will use drug and almost tear her vagina..but that later she got used to it ..I felt bad for her ..... What do you think ?






Comment if u would like to hear the remaining story .....

MODIFIED
At the hotel u work every day and you only get a day off . During my off days she will beg me not to go home that I should rest there, she would then book a room for me to spend my break... (Pls understand the owner of the hotel is one difficult man and he must not find out you are dating any runs babe because he will believe you are giving her his money , so we kept it on the low but all her friends and my friends know.. )


I would be in that room and she will come and check on me time to time ,with food and drinks,she was really taking care of me.sh would buy me milk saying I need to regain my strength,this babe was not asking for sex ,she was actually taking her time with me ..

Then one day I had issues with my supervisor and I was suspended ( the Supervisor was jealous of our relationship And was always looking for fault in everything I do ).

I was suspended for 3 days and that means they will deduct a week money ..this babe lodged me in another hotel , gave me 10k saying I should use it to replace the money they will deduct,she then left her hotel to come spend the three days suspension with me..and sex happened..

Somehow i'mmediately after that I lost total interest in the job ,she was buying me everything from clothes to boxers to designer shoes ,she even bought me a gold chain (real Gold) ...I started feeling too big for the job that use to be my everything..


She told me that I should quit the job and look for a better one as the one I'm doing is below my standards, I believed her and quitted , then she told me she's quitting prostitution too.. she had like 300k in her account and there is a house in Benin belonging to her .. that was how me and olosho relocated to Benin to start living as couples... I was having sex everyday....


I just wake up and have sex then sleep .. life was sweet not knowing I was killing my destiny... After bout 3 months we finished spending the money in her account. and we were becoming broke ..that was when I realized I need a job again.. then one day during my job hunt I came back and she wasn't around, when she came back she brought food , provisions and stuff and even gave me 5k to get something for myself. I asked her where she got the money from and she confessed that she went to sleep with one rich man like that in Benin...

She begged me to please allow her to continue going to see the man that the man promised to fund her business plans which I agreed ....

After a while we started having issues I realized she did not like me as she use to she will say words like " You were not like this when you were in Lagos ". ... I did not understand what she meant until I saw myself in a mirror one day .. omo I was looking old and ugly all my beauty was gone .. I almost cried .. I i'mmediately left for Lagos the next week... And after years of fasting and praying and deliveenca I started looking better ...... To those that do say sex has no consequences I hope you learn. A Thing or two ....

Hmm.. we thank God for your life. You fell and you rose again that's all that matters. It can happen to anyone. The mysteries of this world. Hmmm
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by adejoro1988(m): 5:59am On Dec 08, 2020
your story read so real, I fear Olosho, Nigeria economic make life unbearable for the ladies....God heal our land.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ElValiente(m): 6:21am On Dec 08, 2020
Mtvbaseng:
The year 2016 was quite tough for me I was a fresh graduate looking for a job I kept going to and fro dropping my C.v here and there but all to no avail,I was broke at this point and decided to go to ikorodu to stay with my friends there ( Gee boys ) ..while I was there they took me to one hotel to watch football .the Hotel was located at itamaga and it's popularly called " BE HAPPY" ...for those familiar with the area .

As we were about to go in I saw a vacancy board looking for supervisor and bar man..I decided I would come the next day with my c.v and apply for the post of a supervisor,on getting there I was told they already got a supervisor but still in need of a bar man.i asked how much and they said 20k .I was desperate so I took the job .
I started working ,I was posted to the V.I.P section as the bar man there ,I was honest with my transactions and I quickly made friends with balling guys ( Gee Boys).. My salary was 20k but I was making at least 5k daily.. guys would come and drink ,and then ask me to take whatever I want and drink too,I would skip the drink and keep the money,some would tip me sometimes 2k,I was enjoying life and saving. Apart from staying up all night everyday and doing account of the bar the next morning there wasn't Anything strenuous I was doing .


But the hotel was a LovePeddler house too.. ladies work there as runs girls .I found out that they pay rent everyday to the hotel owner.. the cheapest room there is 2k while the most expensive is 4k..(the 4k room comes with A.C.) There were at least up to 25 girls living there permanently ,other girls come and go .men would come around ,choose thier spec and go in with them..I learnt that some ladies have been there for more than 10 years ,they all have nicknames ,you will hear names like Angel , Naomi ,. Tiepor ( means it's plenty ) e.t.c..paying rent of at least 2k everyday.. short time with these ladies ranges from 1k to 5k depending on how Hawt she is while overnight is 10k - 20k

On a bad day these ladies get at least 10 short time and one overnight whuch means they make thousands of naira everyday . They spend thier money on designer clothes and latest wears competing With each other .

What I also Got to find out is that this prostitute have boyfriend's too.the one they allow to penetrate them without the use of condom,and the funny thing is that the man/guy is aware that they are runs girls ..they spend on thier boyfriend and he dare not cheat on them..have seen scenarios where guys marry some or have a baby with her..

Just 2 months after I got there I started getting visit from this particular prostitute ,she would come to my bar during the day when there are less customers and buy coca cola drink,she would drop 1k and asked me to keep change, the hotel has a restaurant too.,she would order food and asked them to bring it to me.. The gullible me thought I have found my destiny helper as I no longer spend on food not knowing that I was being pulled into the traps of the devil..my co workers then were telling me she likes me ,the truth is all the babes there actually liked me.cos i was naturally blessed with Good looks .

There were lots of pretty young girls in that Hotel ,girls from 19 years upward .this babe that kept buying me stuff wasn't the prettiest but she was my spec plus she was a big girl ,she uses the latest iPhone ,dresses classy and trendy ,if you met her on a normal day outside the hotel block u would have mistaken her for an otedola daughter ,with her dress and style

We Got close over time ,and one day I asked her " But babe pls tell me why do u choose to do runs ?..

According to her she claimed she grew up in a poor family and things were very tough back then,she tried learning a skill or trade but her boss were always wicked to her and she would end up leaving there , things got so tough that she couldnt afford pad during menstruation..she later had to run to a friend who was doing well at that time.. the friend promised her she would take her to Lagos to work. When they arrived Lagos she brought her to the hotel instead and the babe confessed that she's into runs ..and urge her to do it too.

"No one will know ,make small money and go and start a business In Benin". Her friend urged ..and that was how she started ,she said sometimes dirty mechanic or even tout boys will sleep with her and she had no choice but to allow them,she said sometimes some of them will use drug and almost tear her vagina..but that later she got used to it ..I felt bad for her ..... What do you think ?






Comment if u would like to hear the remaining story .....

MODIFIED
At the hotel u work every day and you only get a day off . During my off days she will beg me not to go home that I should rest there, she would then book a room for me to spend my break... (Pls understand the owner of the hotel is one difficult man and he must not find out you are dating any runs babe because he will believe you are giving her his money , so we kept it on the low but all her friends and my friends know.. )


I would be in that room and she will come and check on me time to time ,with food and drinks,she was really taking care of me.sh would buy me milk saying I need to regain my strength,this babe was not asking for sex ,she was actually taking her time with me ..

Then one day I had issues with my supervisor and I was suspended ( the Supervisor was jealous of our relationship And was always looking for fault in everything I do ).

I was suspended for 3 days and that means they will deduct a week money ..this babe lodged me in another hotel , gave me 10k saying I should use it to replace the money they will deduct,she then left her hotel to come spend the three days suspension with me..and sex happened..

Somehow i'mmediately after that I lost total interest in the job ,she was buying me everything from clothes to boxers to designer shoes ,she even bought me a gold chain (real Gold) ...I started feeling too big for the job that use to be my everything..


She told me that I should quit the job and look for a better one as the one I'm doing is below my standards, I believed her and quitted , then she told me she's quitting prostitution too.. she had like 300k in her account and there is a house in Benin belonging to her .. that was how me and olosho relocated to Benin to start living as couples... I was having sex everyday....


I just wake up and have sex then sleep .. life was sweet not knowing I was killing my destiny... After bout 3 months we finished spending the money in her account. and we were becoming broke ..that was when I realized I need a job again.. then one day during my job hunt I came back and she wasn't around, when she came back she brought food , provisions and stuff and even gave me 5k to get something for myself. I asked her where she got the money from and she confessed that she went to sleep with one rich man like that in Benin...

She begged me to please allow her to continue going to see the man that the man promised to fund her business plans which I agreed ....

After a while we started having issues I realized she did not like me as she use to she will say words like " You were not like this when you were in Lagos ". ... I did not understand what she meant until I saw myself in a mirror one day .. omo I was looking old and ugly all my beauty was gone .. I almost cried .. I i'mmediately left for Lagos the next week... And after years of fasting and praying and deliveenca I started looking better ...... To those that do say sex has no consequences I hope you learn. A Thing or two ....
Great story but the ending part was poor. You dey knack olosho and saying it won't have consequences. E go shock you.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by ElValiente(m): 6:34am On Dec 08, 2020
BennyDon:
Wallahi you try, I can't share my woman with any man. You know she dey do ashawo and you still dey Bleep her, you no dey fear STD/HIV?

Chai
PhD, MIT, CIA, FBI, DSS. Shits real bro

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:38am On Dec 08, 2020
EmmanuelBanks:



wow , you really good with ur analogy and write up Sir...it was good read indeed...thank you for this. Sorry if I may ask, are you a lecturer or teacher

Lol Nooo

But i go book well well oo
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Pinchasvadim: 6:39am On Dec 08, 2020
LagosInter:


No woman who has done prostitution will ever leave it.

The money they make will never allow them value normal job.


She will be like " Why would I work here for 30k when I can get that in a night with pepper soup, smirnoff, AC hotel etc."?


Ironically, many of them amount to nothing eventually.

You wonder what they do with all the money.

ASIDE: We all pay for sex, either with time, money, affluence, etc.

Even in marriage, because women are wicked by default and incapable of loving.

It's all about what she is gonna gain there.


A woman can only manage to love the son a bit genuinely, not the husband.

The husband is a mere provider and is replaced the moment he loses this ability.

All men should beg Chukwu to be able to have means till death.

Otherwise, whatever you see, you take.

We also have to make our own input as well by working hard and saving for rainy days.





A dad of my friend has repeatedly told me that as a man of this generation i have to be extra smart even in marriage. That i must plan/invest for my old age because by then, i won't have the physical strength to jump up and down.
Mind you, he is married with his wife and children who are graduates.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 6:40am On Dec 08, 2020
Jeffyblaq:

Apart from all da stuffs you wrote..

I lyk intelligent niggars who respect women.

Bless up!

You too bro

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by austine4real(m): 6:40am On Dec 08, 2020
centboy123456:



that ur guy get luck oh

are day till together

No oo
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Renwess: 6:52am On Dec 08, 2020
Life is full of experiences ...
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by WoundedLamb: 6:58am On Dec 08, 2020
Gerrard59:


Na today? grin

The average Nigerian male is a hypocrite. As if the ladies sleep with themselves.

The sexism onhere is really worrisome. It is. People who you'd presume to be intelligent suddenly go illogical just to key into the trend of toxic masculinity.
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Nobody: 7:09am On Dec 08, 2020
somebody02:
Attaching spirituality with sex.

"After all sex really is just sex. only the human specie has been known to put such importance to daily events of life and create myths around them as a tool for mind control.... perhaps your consciousness is also your undoing?
Other living species have sex all the time without creating senseless myths around them."

Not that sleeping indiscriminately is a virtue.


I buy PayPal funds, eBay gift cards, Skrill, Neteller and Africard funds.
A human being consist of the body, soul and spirit, and this is different from animals. Each has it's role to play, it is not a myth it is reality
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Dreyton36: 7:14am On Dec 08, 2020
alphaRego01:






No worry ur self brother.u never jam queen mother.

As far as I met the girl in a club or bar, I will never look her twice
Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by Gmajor(m): 7:14am On Dec 08, 2020
op, you are the male version of a gold digger. You used this girl and then left her when she had nothing. You added nothing to her life and even left her worst of.
Even though she is an olosho, you had no right to treat her like this. Afterall, you always knew what she was so you can't complain of deceit.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by fotadmowmend(m): 7:16am On Dec 08, 2020
You are the problem in that relationship. One should be weary of him/herself when the only thing that delight you is gifts and if you are the type that will always want freebies. In the real sense, nothing is free and everything comes with a price be it overt or covert. You are carried away with freebies and it becloud you senses to know your responsibilities. Even after, you had the chance to make it right with her but you didn't.

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Re: My Experience As A Bar Man In A Lagos Brothel . ( Life lesson) by TheOneOBI: 7:27am On Dec 08, 2020
ReluctantAdult:
Well, prostitution in whatever form will continue to be lucrative till eternity. Men generally, will always want sex, so a good percentage of our income will go to satisfying that. Whether that'd be with wives, brothel
hookers, runs website hookers, porn, girlfriends, FWBs, escorts etc.

It is so tempting and easy for women to fvck for money. It's just a matter of morality and that doesn't mean anything for some people especially in the face of poverty, greed and laziness.

Who knows, maybe I'd have fvcked for money too, if I were a woman undecided grin


Nice one. I love that. Shows you're not judgemental or sentimental.

You are DEEP. And you're level of understanding is on POINT.

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