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Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Firstorderwizard(m): 8:57pm On Dec 10, 2020
undecided
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Agricaddict(m): 8:57pm On Dec 10, 2020
He deserves to be wearing blue top
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Gabe427: 8:57pm On Dec 10, 2020
cheers
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Fmghewzy(m): 8:57pm On Dec 10, 2020
Wyry:
Nigerian girls are useless.
Your mama too dey among idiot
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by chatinent: 8:58pm On Dec 10, 2020
You took two soldier to a peaceful signing of an undertaking?


You didn't give him a taste of his own soup?
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by KIDfurniture(m): 8:59pm On Dec 10, 2020
I no need army to deal with human being like that.. I will give em the shock of his life on a low low..you did well, b4 the idiot go kill ur mama...



BaddieFreak:
Sequel.

Former thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6300083/step-dad-maltreating-mom-confused


About my mom being maltreated by my step dad, I took a bold step today, I took two military men to my step dad's house today and luckily for me, I only met him at home, I didn't meet my mom there, I guess she went out, I am expecting her call lol. I don't know what she would say about what I did though.

When we got in, he was sitting in his living room watching TV, he was shocked to see military men with me. To cut the long story short, they made him sign an undertaking not to lay his hands on my mom again, I just hope he listens knowing the kind of man that he is.

I am really grateful to everybody that showed some love by giving me quality advice, you are blessed.

I wish I could tell you more gists about how it all happened but I am really tired, today was a really stressful day.
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by LikeAking: 9:00pm On Dec 10, 2020
Lol
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by LikeAking: 9:01pm On Dec 10, 2020
U no get mens?
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Nobody: 9:02pm On Dec 10, 2020
chatinent:
You took two soldier to a peaceful signing of an undertaking?


You didn't give him a taste of his own soup?
it would be to hasty to take such a step beating him.
Only if he breaks the undertaking he signed, then he would taste the soup
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Samfloxin(m): 9:03pm On Dec 10, 2020
How did you pay the soldiers? By cash or by kind?
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by BaddieFreak(op): 9:04pm On Dec 10, 2020
jawalis:
You’ll definitely regret your action. Mark today’s date in your calendar.
Why?
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by HIPROFILE(m): 9:05pm On Dec 10, 2020
Good one! Very perfect but! also caution your step mum not to provoke the devil in her husband through here words.

Most women at any little provocation will tell you the husband how you were born.

Their attitude and words most often make some men take to beating.

Nevertheless domestic violence is never a way forward for any home.

But all party should always take caution cos all man get e own for e body.

A typical naija man would express his hurt and anger via beating which is very bad however it takes discipline and the grace of God not to beat your wife.

Some women no deh get what is called respect to their husband at all they always forget that see finish no reach for this kind of respect.

For peace respect and love your partner!

No Monopoly to anger
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by BaddieFreak(op): 9:06pm On Dec 10, 2020
Samfloxin:
How did you pay the soldiers? By cash or by kind?
By cash sir
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Blackdisciple(m): 9:07pm On Dec 10, 2020
yeye man them for slap rubbish commot for em face ...
em get luck say na male armies follow u go , if say na female em for hear weeeeh
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Housing(m):
Your mother will be proud of you. Thanks for being there for her. That is great bold step. May God be with you
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Dpaulie(m): 9:07pm On Dec 10, 2020
You no Dey fear ur head.. You better play wise, my lil advice though
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by chatinent: 9:08pm On Dec 10, 2020
soulstalker:
it would be to hasty to take such a step beating him.
Only if he breaks the undertaking he signed, then he would taste the soup
He should be beaten before and after.


I so loathe men who beat their wives.
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Silentgroper(m): 9:09pm On Dec 10, 2020
Let's just assume this whole story is true huh
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Nicoswit(m): 9:09pm On Dec 10, 2020
Tell us if he eventually listens
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by enemyofprogress: 9:14pm On Dec 10, 2020
Did they slap him? Your action was incomplete without him being beated by those soldiers
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by IMASTEX: 9:15pm On Dec 10, 2020
[quote author=BaddieFreak post=96938148][/quote]The truth is it would be more productive to get your mum counselors to talk her into self realisation than you getting military men to force your stepdad to change from who he is. He is obviously preying on your mum's weakness and that won't stop soon. He might simply swap the maltreatment method to at least minimizing the physical injuries.
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by jawalis(m): 9:15pm On Dec 10, 2020
BaddieFreak:
Why?
I wouldn’t want to involve myself in further argument though. But what you did isn’t the best approach. We are not in America. And now; your life is on the line. Believe you me, henceforth, your mother will have to live like a slave to him after a while because he knows exactly what you are capable of doing. You should have worked on your mother instead.
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Bellotelli: 9:17pm On Dec 10, 2020
BaddieFreak:
If he tries anything stupid, I will make sure I force my mom out of his house whether she likes it or not.
But as u know not all cry u hear would be that of pain so thread carefully before u interrupt her pleasure grin
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:19pm On Dec 10, 2020
Kobicove:
I hope he keeps to the agreement!
He should not keep it now, he knows how animalistic and abnormal our soldiers are
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:20pm On Dec 10, 2020
Bellotelli:
But as u know not all cry u hear would be that of pain so thread carefully before u interrupt her pleasure grin
Na so you mumu reach
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by SILVERLINES: 9:21pm On Dec 10, 2020
BaddieFreak:
Sequel.

Former thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/6300083/step-dad-maltreating-mom-confused


About my mom being maltreated by my step dad, I took a bold step today, I took two military men to my step dad's house today and luckily for me, I only met him at home, I didn't meet my mom there, I guess she went out, I am expecting her call lol. I don't know what she would say about what I did though.

When we got in, he was sitting in his living room watching TV, he was shocked to see military men with me. To cut the long story short, they made him sign an undertaking not to lay his hands on my mom again, I just hope he listens knowing the kind of man that he is.

I am really grateful to everybody that showed some love by giving me quality advice, you are blessed.

I wish I could tell you more gists about how it all happened but I am really tired, today was a really stressful day.
I pray it works for you, but your step dad no Sabi anything, signing an undertaking under military personnels. I swear if anyone try that with me I will sue the modafuccker and strips off the officers uniform cos it's not within the jurisdiction of the military officers to arrest or intervened in marriage issues, military officers not even a police. Next time do it the right way
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Johnson5258: 9:23pm On Dec 10, 2020
You for allow them sound check him right hear like 25 times make he know wetin your mama dey go through. Bastard.

BaddieFreak:
Lol. I actually begged them not to touch him before we left.
I thought he was going to fight them but he didn't, he was really scared and he didn't expect I could do something as elaborate as bringing military men into his house, he was super shocked.
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Newman20(m): 9:24pm On Dec 10, 2020
Fake story by an attention seeking moniker.

Maybe Dominiqu.e pushed this to FP
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Pauladex(m): 9:24pm On Dec 10, 2020
So the man no collect slap, even only 3? I pray devil push him to collect at last.
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by HassieMalcomson(f): 9:25pm On Dec 10, 2020
Do you think written agreements work in such situations? You can't enforce him to not beat your mom. I think such habits don't leave you easily. But I hope he would follow. May God give you more courage.
Re: I Finally Took A Bold Step Against My Step-dad by Johnson5258: 9:26pm On Dec 10, 2020
Make he no comport make my guys come carry ham go barrack.

BaddieFreak:
Lol. I am waiting for his next line of action. My mom just called and told me that he has been comporting himself very well since she came back.
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