Nazgul:
To me sex isn't necessary.

From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?

What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.

Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.

To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.

My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.

This is really appreciated

Very important.

But not so important that I think my sex drive is the only thing that matters in a relationship. Sometimes one person is in the mood and the other isn't, and that's not the end of the world. I've dated guys who lost their fucking mind if we went more than a day without sex, guilt trips, complaints I didn't care about him, etc. That's more about an overall selfish attitude than sex, though. I'm currently the higher libido partner in my relationship but I understand that sexual frequency doesn't have anything to do with how much he loves me or how attractive he finds me

Well it depends. People date for different reasons these days plus the fact that there are platonic and non platonic relationships

Local man is just speechless

Uzomacharles:


No worry

Make I catch u First for road as you dey come back

Bia Nwokem, hapu mu aka. Biko!

Uzomacharles:

Please eeh
Can you date a guy with no dick?
This is for those saying sex is not important in a relationship..
If you ain't ready for sex while indulging in a relationship

Do you vomit your urine?
The penis has many functions.

double post.

chris20000:
See all of them claiming what they can't give, non of you girls are virgin.
I can bet with everything i have that in your current relationship now that you are having sex.
Hypocrites.

My Gee.. I just dey read comments dey laugh..
I pity any dude that allows a girl fool him with that no sex crap..

Madam OP, shey ur friend na virgin? If nor be virgin so why she one come deny guy man access to her hotspot after guy man don sub (provide for her)

Omo make ur friend drop password make guy man flex jare.

Something wen una get free una go one dey form stingy on top. Open kpekus make guy man give her rod.

Make sure u tell ha wetin I yan so.

Why not

Yes yes yes yes yes

The real question should be....what will you be doing with your partner that you spend a lot of time with, apart from talking and hanging out? Una go talk tire ehn!

No. The only necessary thing is domestic violence.


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Yes and No

In Chris Rock voice, "You got to f'ck"

What if the girl gives it to another man while this one is waiting??

Insome cases, YES and in some cases, NO

If you do not want sex, do not have love relationship....QED!

Is oxygen important in respiration?

Op is salt necessary in soup?

Misslilbootay:
why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?
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You're mad. All these pea brained bimbos and their nuisance.

So we're not sure it will work out, so you keep your 'body' while I should spend my hard earned money on trial and error to see if it works out. And then when it doesn't work out, who loses? You easily break up with nothing to lose.

You would then carry your pussy with pride and announce to your friends how you dumped the mugu without him seeing your pant - in spite of him spending all his money on the failed yeyeshionship.

Do you know the meaning of insurance? The meaning of give and take? Of course you do, but you think you have sense.

That sense will kee you there.

Nazgul:
To me sex isn't necessary.

From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?

What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.

Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.

To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.

My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.

Nice points!

Nazgul:
To me sex isn't necessary.

From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?

What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.

Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.

To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.

My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.

Words on marble.

Is money important in relationship?
Use this to answer yourself

Its ok to say no sex

But make sure u dont demand any money from the man

And just like its ok for u to say no sex, its ok for the man to say no giving u money or gifts till marriage

Misslilbootay question 2 is the main reason. Until most ladies stop depending on men for their financial needs,sex would use to reciprocate what they had offered you.

No sex & financial commitment.. then we re good to go.