fati2001:
NO







PREMARITAL SEX IS A SIN AND UNHOLY ACT....








DON'T SIN AGAINST YOUR BODY (THE TEMPLE OF GOD)
THAT'S ALL I HAVE TO SAY.

U mean after two kids

Nazgul:
To me sex isn't necessary.

From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?

What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.

Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.

To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.

My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.

thank u very much. this is exactly what's happening to me now

but why do people get into romantic relationship when they are not ready for sex.na waaa.stay away from romantic relationship if you dont want sex.stop tempting yourself

JoyJones2000:

You sound foolish! Sorry to say

am sorry to ask joy ,is it okay if you also date a guy without asking for money assistant ,no sex no money ,the equation seems balance to me ,what's your take ?

Yes now!

It's our religion that has turned it into a crime.

In those days when people were required to be chaste before marriage, people married early.

I mean as early as 18.

You can't expect a 26 year old for example to not have a natural urge to have sex unless we want to be deceiving ourselves.

She does not want sex and she is kissing d guy
shey probably giving d guy breast to suck

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

1-Yes!!! I know a lot of men like that. I mean those who are sold out for God. Not those who want to mix worldliness with being a Christian.

2- This should apply after marriage. Walk with genuine children of God who flee from sin and funication and this will not be an issue.

3- your question does not apply to genuinely saved children of God.

This thing is easy
If you are not ready for sex, don't date

If they are both in love with each other, the guy can wait till marriage.
I want to clear something here, men are not the only ones that demand for sex. There are ladies out there that can't be in a sex less relationship. So we should stop trying to make it seem that guys demand for sex all the time.
I'm a virgin, but I can't date a guy and not have sex with him.
If the guy is not ready to stay celibate, then she should leave the relationship.

Misslilbootay:


If she doesn't indulge in a relationship, how will she get married?

Did Isaac and Rebecca have a relationship prior to marriage?


If you like have 7 years relationship. What will flop will flop.

If I asked her if she is still a virgin and she said yes then I cannot touch her till wedding night but if you said she is no longer a virgin with some past excuses and story then I am afraid of not having sex with her. It will only take the grace of God. And having sex or not does not mean the guy that want to stay will not stay but most times it's good not to try it at all before wedding. Biblically it's wrong to have sex before wedding. But if the lady can keep herself and she is intact I can assure her that she cannot have any problem with me till the night of the wedding but she must not deceive me or tell lies that can spoil things later in the marriage. She must let me know her status.

larryking540:


am sorry to ask joy ,is it okay if you also date a guy without asking for money assistant ,no sex no money ,the equation seems balance to me ,what's your take ?

First of all I don't date,but court in a holy way when is time for marriage
Secondly yea I won't ask for anything till we are married but I would only ask for more prayers

I don't know what to type

no,until marriage

Sex is Necessarily not necessary

JoyJones2000:

First of all I don't date,but court in a holy way when is time for marriage
Secondly yea I won't ask for anything till we are married but I would only ask for more prayers

God has sent me my missing boo,let's connect ,I swear ,I am saving money for your bride price already

Misslilbootay:


God didn't mention relationship but he did say fornication is a sin he will judge by himself.

Can you see a lady and just marry her without first doing courtship?

Yes. Those who are led by the spirit are the sons of God. The problem with this current generation is being carnally minded. Everyone is looking at the superficial.

While the girl is looking at his pocket, the guy is looking at her yansh and bweast. When all these fall apart, marriage packs up.

larryking540:

God has sent me my missing boo,let's connect ,I swear ,I am saving money for your bride price already

Hahaha you just made my day thanks

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

Sex does not keep relationship. Sex devalues your worth in the eyes of any man. If a lady has other desirable qualities, they can compensate for feeling of disgusting men have for ladies after sex.
Also, biblically it is wrong. It is about pleasing God or men.
If a man says he is Christian, yet he has no problems knocking you up, having premarital sex or living in sin with you, then you have to ask yourself, “What version of Christ does he believe in?
Shannon L. Alder

The greatest evil in premarital sex is disappointment
ABC

CalliDora1:
Capital NO!

Only wordly men and sinners practice premarital sex. Take it or leave it!

Spirituality asides. Sex does not keep a man or determine a successful relationship or marriage.

Morally speaking, it is not good. Keep your chastity. It pays.

Its easy to speak on the side fence, howmany ladies do you think in the Bible married a virgin, you lot are taking this religion stuff far too much that the people of Israel!I pray God opens yah eyes one day so you know how this religious syte limits the mind of the average black MAN

What’s necessary in a relationship is BONDING. It helps the relationship to grow and stand tests.
Now, there are different types of Relationships.
In a ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP, SEXX is one of the ways to bond
During sexx, you share your most greatest, most vounourable, most embarrassing, sweetest moments you don’t share with anyone else, and this makes you one with your partner.
Now, during courting(relationship) you should have boundaries and these boundaries should be accepted by both of you in the relationship if not; then you are in a relationship with the wrong person.
BREAK UP and look for or wait for who shares the same ideas with you and date him or her.

joyandfaith:


Sex does not keep relationship. Sex devalues your worth in the eyes of any man. If a lady has other desirable qualities, they can compensate for feeling of disgusting men have for ladies after sex.
Also, biblically it is wrong. It is about pleasing God or men.
If a man says he is Christian, yet he has no problems knocking you up, having premarital sex or living in sin with you, then you have to ask yourself, “What version of Christ does he believe in?
Shannon L. Alder

The greatest evil in premarital sex is disappointment
ABC

List one successful marriage i n the world stage that was virgins b4 marriage even the men of God that we all listen to did not marry a virgin! and God did not curse the marriage

No it's not
But people already made sex so important in relationship
Guys ask for it
Ladies ask for it also
Ladies even enjoy sex more.

Also when you start billing the dude too much he will ask for sex because he will start seeing the relationship as partnership.
Sex for money and money for sex.

To avoid this,just look for a girl or guy that's practicing celibacy and also avoid girls that will start billing and ripping you and will be hiding under celibacy.
You'd be dumb to date that kind of girl.

Sex is not even important tbh but this generation yaf turn relationship to pornship and moneyship

JoyJones2000:

First of all I don't date,but court in a holy way when is time for marriage
Secondly yea I won't ask for anything till we are married but I would only ask for more prayers

are you working , because I kw ladies who work still ask for money,talk more of the ones who don't work ,see babe joke apart ,guys aren't afraid of giving assistant to a lady but what's brings pain and agony to guys is the statement ladies makes ,that's is the real heartvreak when things go south/west bw them "what have you done for me" that little thing" ....
even though there is nothing to benefit from a lady ,sorry I might be rude with dat statement,the only thing we can atleast compensate our self is the sex kalasss

Vikynas:
premarital spending is also a SIN lol,mehn SEX is necessary...o unless you will stop collecting his money and other valuables because you will still be fuckin other men behind him

listen I'm not like ur girlfriend that is FUCKI around with every sticks because of cheap money and useless valuable things as u said.... and FAMY MONEY IS ENOUGH FOR ME.....


NO ONE FORCE YOU TO SPEND ON UR GIRLFRIEND SO STOP YELLING.

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

Is money necessary in a relationship too

I have never met any man who agreed to stay without sex. Whether sex or no sex, just let him trust you

JoyJones2000:
You sound foolish! Sorry to say

Lemme take it as your view

CalliDora1:

Bia Nwokem, hapu mu aka. Biko!

Egim ga aka

In a relationship where the couple involved is seriously attracted to and fond of each other, this question will hardly arise. A babe can't see a guy she really fancies starve of sex and she won't help him out gladly, and vice versa. It's part of the first sign of love, which is free giving. Lovers are givers. Even the most religious babe has a guy she won't mind giving any style he wants, so far as his urge of sex is satisfied. I've dated one, a "mama" in one of the notable campus fellowships, and only I knew how wild she was in the other room

Cases where couples use money to trade for sex are cases where the couple are not "naturally" attracted to each other, and this depends on how they met themselves. How can you as a guy go out of your way to toast a girl who isn't feeling you in the first place? Truth be told, the toasting stuff is rubbish. From experience, if a girl is crazy about you, she would make things very easy for you.

Lemme just stop here.

Erotix:
What’s necessary in a relationship is BONDING. It helps the relationship to grow and stand tests.
Now, there are different types of Relationships.
In a ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP, SEXX is one of the ways to bond
During sexx, you share your most greatest, most vounourable, most embarrassing, sweetest moments you don’t share with anyone else, and this makes you one with your partner.
Now, during courting(relationship) you should have boundaries and these boundaries should be accepted by both of you in the relationship if not; then you are in a relationship with the wrong person.
BREAK UP and look for or wait for who shares the same ideas with you and date him or her.

sorry to interrupt you ,I know ladies who prefer to give Mouth Action instead of sex ,what's your take in that

Lazykulture:
If they are both in love with each other, the guy can wait till marriage.
I want to clear something here, men are not the only ones that demand for sex. There are ladies out there that can't be in a sex less relationship. So we should stop trying to make it seem that guys demand for sex all the time.
I'm a virgin, but I can't date a guy and not have sex with him.
If the guy is not ready to stay celibate, then[b] she should leave the relationship[/b].

The bold is very correct, if not yah gonna be married to a 5 min man then wanna cheat