Sex in a relationship is not necessary,it's a choice. But with the world we live in some people think with their private organs.

erico2k2:

What is the name of this sin an? U see I believe in what the bible says not MAN, so where in the Bible does it blatantly say its a sin just like it says killing is a SIN.
The one issue we have with yah lot is you take what man tells you and that of the pastor as law without bothering doing ur own research,

bla bla bla.... you can turn the Bible upside down as you want it to be..

I don't have a PASTOR.. okay

Pls enjoy your sin and flex with it.. ...

Na so one been dey find iphone 11


Dey claim no sex and virgin shlt

Told her go and work for it

Nazgul:
To me sex isn't necessary.

From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?

What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.

Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.

To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.

My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.

God bless you sir

Hmmm this matter e get as he de

Stupid question.

If u are keeping yourself for your husband why do you have a boyfriend

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

Men need HOES and virgins

Early on wet dream disvirgins us in puberty

Then chronic masturbation follows

We enter relationship with ladies with the expectation of sex because we don't know our full value to women

After redpill we stop worshipping pussy, value self development, working on our goals, building strong character and work ethics, amassing wealth and preparing for our next phase in life the option of marriage, family, or MGTOW

We then value ladies with no body counts (virgin), ladies with meaningful body counts ( who don't sleep around and have very few exes,who they only sleep with) if they are virtuous, having behavior, brain and beauty (3BS)

HOES are never an option except we transact money with them for their sexual pleasure

We don't forgive HOES and girls with high body counts

#The redpill
#MGTOW

erico2k2:

What is the name of this sin an? U see I believe in what the bible says not MAN, so where in the Bible does it blatantly say its a sin just like it says killing is a SIN.
The one issue we have with yah lot is you take what man tells you and that of the pastor as law without bothering doing ur own research,

Coincidentally, Jesus equates murder, fornication and adultery as sins that even THOUGHTS of them alone is enough to defile you.
Matthew 15:8-19, Jesus said, "Out of the heart proceeds evil thoughts, of murder, adultery, and fornication, things that defile a person."
1 Corinthians 6:18, also shows Paul warning Christians too flee from fornication, because you defile your body.
This is a religious belief, you don't really need any theological explanations for this, as it is pretty straightforward.

Saying no to premarital sex is as good as it's good, God has a reward for us and we are spiritually strong,we have nothing to worry about... Who walk away,walk away,who stay would stay, whoever that truly love you will respect your decision simple

No, No, No, No.

fati2001:
NO








PREMARITAL SEX IS A SIN AND UNHOLY ACT....









DON'T SIN AGAINST YOUR BODY (THE TEMPLE OF GOD)

THAT'S ALL I HAVE TO SAY.

don't know why folks here detest you andrighteousness89 but you guys are always good about commenting the right thing... As for the topic., pre-marital sex is a sin.... Run my fellow brethren.... If a man Or woman truly love each other, they won't bring sex to the relationship... Prayers and mind to mind connection is key......

chris20000:
See all of them claiming what they can't give, non of you girls are virgin.
I can bet with everything i have that in your current relationship now that you are having sex.
Hypocrites.

true,a lot of hypocrites here.having sex or not with the girl those not makes a man stay or go.it all depends on the girl on what she can contribute to the relationship.because,to be frank many of the ladies bring nothing to the relationship and demand for all.many men see the sex matter as not to loose out,after all she can also dump him for any slight opportunity.

CalliDora1:
Capital NO!

Only wordly men and sinners practice premarital sex. Take it or leave it!

Spirituality asides. Sex does not keep a man or determine a successful relationship or marriage.

Morally speaking, it is not good. Keep your chastity. It pays.

you have said it all sister. I'm a man and I find it extremely attractive to meet a lady that will tell me she is keeping herself for marriage. However, if that is your stance, you must be practicing abstinence, because you will be treated like a criminal if it is found out that you are secretly sleeping with other guys, period.

Uzomacharles:


Please eeh

Can you date a guy with no dick?

This is for those saying sex is not important in a relationship..

If you ain't ready for sex while indulging in a relationship

how long will a guy continue doing sampling technique?? Sex is no ultimatum for a perfect relationship you know

Misslilbootay:


So she should break up with him?

as soon as possible

Lazykulture:
If they are both in love with each other, the guy can wait till marriage.
I want to clear something here, men are not the only ones that demand for sex. There are ladies out there that can't be in a sex less relationship. So we should stop trying to make it seem that guys demand for sex all the time.
I'm a virgin, but I can't date a guy and not have sex with him.
If the guy is not ready to stay celibate, then she should leave the relationship.

i like your honesty there. It shows you are human afterall even tho you sound weak

Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

weather premarital or after marital one thing is certain
be it relationship, courting, dating, mutual friendship, friends with benefit, auxiliary friendship...one thing is certain, sex is meant to happen at any given time moment and place, it's a natural phenomenon dat tends to occur.

My dear, don't let anybody pressure you into having sex. Let the people who want to stay, stay. Those that want to go should go

chris20000:
See all of them claiming what they can't give, non of you girls are virgin.
I can bet with everything i have that in your current relationship now that you are having sex.
Hypocrites.

The OP doesn't want to have sex now.
Why is that a big problem for you to understand?
It's not about those advising her to stick to her beliefs.
Why make her go against her beliefs and personal convictions?
Last last, if she decides to have sex with him, her conscience will never allow the relationship thrive and she will still leave him for a bro or choir master in her church who isn't led by things of the flesh.
Nothing should be coerced in a relationship , and definitely not sex. It should be given freely and happily sef.

yes body no be firewood

omotola90:
don't know why folks here detest you andrighteousness89 but you guys are always good about commenting the right thing......

pple dislike those who are honest because themselves ( haters) have insecurities about saying the right thing

right thing is tough ...it's not too comfortable ...it's not easy to handle... that is why many choose to be in the bad line (because they will be accepted in to our society that support bad things)

the right question is, is the "relationship" even necessary?

what is the essence of relationships without sex? Do you want to be smooching each other only?

because if it's only talking and talk alone, some friends are even better than the person one is in a relationship with.

So why not stick with such a friend or person?

if you don't want sex, you can just be friends.


people get married in the olden days without courtship, some even get married the first time of seeing each other.

so that the purpose of a relationship is for "courtship" that'll lead to marriage is bullshit either.


The problem here is that women want to make sex a "trophy."

But sex can only be a trophy for the poor men or those on the lowest ladder of social rank.

Even in the olden days "Real men" are the trophy.

Any woman that doesn't want sex should be in a "relationship" with her male siblings or father. At least until she's ready for sexual relationship.

Misslilbootay:


God didn't mention relationship but he did say fornication is a sin he will judge by himself.

Can you see a lady and just marry her without first doing courtship?

Yes! Ned nwoko did that.

chris20000:
See all of them claiming what they can't give, non of you girls are virgin.
I can bet with everything i have that in your current relationship now that you are having sex.
Hypocrites.

I will be every glad if you can bet with ur life!!!

joyandfaith:


Sex does not keep relationship. Sex devalues your worth in the eyes of any man. If a lady has other desirable qualities, they can compensate for feeling of disgusting men have for ladies after sex.
Also, biblically it is wrong. It is about pleasing God or men.
If a man says he is Christian, yet he has no problems knocking you up, having premarital sex or living in sin with you, then you have to ask yourself, “What version of Christ does he believe in?
Shannon L. Alder

The greatest evil in premarital sex is disappointment
ABC

but couples have sex everyday and see nothing wrong in it, some even get married afterwards

YES SEX IS VERY IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP JUST LIKE MONEY IS VERY IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP

MEN ARE MEASURED BY THE SIZE OF THEIR POCKETS ASIDES OTHER THINGS WEN IT COMES TO A RELATIONSHIP, WOMEN ARE MEASURED BY THEIR PHYSICAL BEING WHICH IS SEXUAL IN NATURE ASIDES OTHER THINGS WEN IT COMES TO A RELATIONSHIP

adampedia:


Yes! Ned nwoko did that.

Just like in the olden days, when powerful and wealthy men marry wives on almost every travel or big occasion.

fati2001:


pple dislike those who are honest because themselves ( haters) have insecurities about saying the right thing

right thing is tough ...it's not too comfortable ...it's not easy to handle... that is why many choose to be in the bad line (because they will be accepted in to our society that support bad things)

that's just it.... May God continually give us the grace to always live right... Thanks sus

omotola90:
that's just it.... May God continually give us the grace to always live right... Thanks sus

...sis...
..

DEMZEE:
YES SEX OS VERY IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP JUST LIKE MONEY IS VERY IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP

MEN ARE MEASURED BY THE SIZE OF THEIR POCKETS ASIDES OTHER THINGS WEN IT COMES TO A RELATIONSHIP, WOMEN ARE MEASURED BY THEIR PHYSICAL BEING WHICH IS SEXUAL IN NATURE ASIDES OTHER THINGS WEN IT COMES TO A RELATIONSHIP

Men=success objects

Women = sexual object

Man = commitment, Attention, Resources (CAR)

Ladies= pussy gold

Simple as ABC

Hedonini:


You're mad. All these pea brained bimbos and their nuisance.

So we're not sure it will work out, so you keep your 'body' while I should spend my hard earned money on trial and error to see if it works out. And then when it doesn't work out, who loses? You easily break up with nothing to lose.

You would then carry your pussy with pride and announce to your friends how you dumped the mugu without him seeing your pant - in spite of him spending all his money on the failed yeyeshionship.

Do you know the meaning of insurance? The meaning of give and take? Of course you do, but you think you have sense.

That sense will kee you there.

FYI
She has never asked the guy for money