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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Scout60(m): 8:58pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
RedPanthar: just ask those based abroad. it do happen in some homes here in Nigeria but most Nigeria men use gra gra to send money come to think of abroad where they get law backing them |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Nobody: 9:02pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
luminouz:I thought I was the only one who noticed that. ziondaughter247 indeed |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by RedPanthar: 9:18pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Scout60: Please stop this joke boss The woman that will question the use of my financial resources has not been created. She wan short be that. Na which kind joke be this one 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Nobody: 9:33pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
DamZik: Exactly. After mundane things that will later turn to haunt them in the future. 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by AntiNigerian: 9:38pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Naikkie:some Nigerian men can't integrate a different system. Don't blame then, na local breed dem be, those ones that can easily be deported back to the village with Akpu and Egusi diabolicaly from the Abroad 4 Likes |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Lucyspa: 10:05pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
DamZik: In layman language, what if he refuses? 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by emonis88: 10:19pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Ardar:for information cave woman. we males didnt start d abuse n name calling, u did. So we were only trying to remind u that calling a man an Ape also includes ur male relatives. we didnt call any female names so our female relative ve not bn called any names. |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Scout60(m): 10:29pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
RedPanthar: if she does, what will you do? beat her or fight her.... for oyibo land na express u dey go 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by DEMZEE(m): 10:53pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
onyechez: Friendship also requires transaction, u sell ur time between yourselves nah |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by DEMZEE(m): 10:54pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
SmartMen: Really u never jam! |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by DEMZEE(m): 10:54pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Mikehot: Follow dpsychologist on nairaland |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by DEMZEE(m): 10:55pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
DamZik: Dick for pussy for time for money for attention for commitment for children for marriage 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by rexington: 11:07pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
JovialJune: Most of the men in this scenario are not necessarily domineering but there a number of reasons why these things happen. 1. Most of those marriages start on a wrong footing as the women usually don't love their men and only see them as a get out of jail card to be used for the betterment of her life and that of her siblings. 2. When the ladies get over their they take the advantage of family law but don't accept the financial behavior. By that I mean the 'my money is my money but your money is our money mentality'. Usually when she first arrives and barely earns the man carries the family and her education from his earning as family income but immediately she starts earning well she sees her income as hers alone and no longer make decisions as a family because she wants to use it to lift her family back home knowing fully well she has all the cards. In those environments earnings from both spouse are treated as 'household income' even attracting some tax privileges but when these women with preconceived parental family betterment plan (that don't love but only tolerate their husband's from the beginning) get these cultural shock they revolt because they are not raised in that culture and now they have all the advantage. So they begin to ask why should I not have 100% say over the money I bring? But they forget that they have had joint say over the money he was bringing in all along. They now see the man as a treat because he would ask questions about some of her expenses towards her parents family when they have immediate family plans. Also he is no longer of use to her and she is not emotionally invested in him. Don't forget they do this to their foreign husband's as well, if Nigerian husband's were domineering and bad as you paint them how come non Nigerian men also get this treatment? 12 Likes |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by JovialJune(f): 11:11pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Newman20: Lmao what da hell dude This is a faceless forum, why feeling important, you sound ridiculous lol. 1 Like |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by toye440: 11:15pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Zzor:See why i still dey fear to propose to Zzor. |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by bezimo(m): 11:23pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Harmlesspill: Wow...women ehn |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by bezimo(m): 11:29pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
rexington: You aptly captured the situation 100%. 9ja girls offering fake ass love to 9ja abroad based guys then dealing with them..as soon as they escape Nigeria.. Also, that financial behaviour is one of the critical part of this unfortunate trend that has come to be associated with 9ja girls. 2 Likes |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by ceeceeuwa: 11:32pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
nitrogen:You must be living a miserable life to conclude that all Nigerian women depend on men... You need to change the class of women you mingle with, and also the enclave you live in. You also sound frustrated and bitter towards women. It goes to show that the women that brought you up did a terrible job. Kudos to all hardworking Nigerian women who have sacrificed all towards their family and loved ones! If Nigerian women were to be terrible, then I am yet to see a Nigerian man who speaks ill about his mother or sisters. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by bezimo(m): 11:32pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
SamNaijaboy: Don't mind their useless broke ass liability mouth.. If e easy to go abroad why not her spend the millions and go by herself nah..Nonsense! Ungrateful women! 8 Likes |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by nitrogen(m): 11:36pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
ceeceeuwa: You are a tool! I dont know why you decided to bring your elders into this. I am so sure you are guilty, reason you came out blazing with an AK47, better go and change your ways. Eeeedioootttt! I swear if you try that sh1t again with me, I will curse your generation! Fuvktard! |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hassanmaye(m): 11:44pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
fati2001:Ke |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hassanmaye(m): 11:46pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
JOACHINpedro:How is that a good job |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by ceeceeuwa: 11:46pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
nitrogen:Channel your curses and frustrations to those who made your life so bitter! If you have regards for elders you won't come on a faceless forum to generalize and abuse women, forgetting that a woman birth you. I see the struggles of women towards their family everyday... from the petty traders to professional women. It will be a disservice to their struggles if someone sits idle behind a keyboard and downplay their efforts and call them names because of his personal experience. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hassanmaye(m): 11:50pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
Jessepaid:Lol they hate good guys but they like Randy men, naso one useless girl I love for university dey do me yanga up and down, while she will be calling my roommate just to intimidate me, the idiot finished university up till now no husband she don old at home, continue misbehaving babies when good men approach naso menopause go teach you lesson. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Newman20(m): 11:56pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Newman20(m): 11:58pm On Dec 17, 2020 |
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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by JovialJune(f): 12:00am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Newman20: Lol ask yourself if your last comment made sense to you..... |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hassanmaye(m): 12:10am On Dec 18, 2020 |
MrColdsweat:Especially if you want to live long Abi. |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hassanmaye(m): 12:13am On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hassanmaye(m): 12:15am On Dec 18, 2020 |
ojuu4u:No sir marry by all means we go dash you our women free abeg we need to prison you with your money na. |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hassanmaye(m): 12:17am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Favourchris:Lol women hate good guys they will just use and dump them |
Re: Abroad Sisters, Stop Shaming Us by Hassanmaye(m): 12:22am On Dec 18, 2020 |
Hathor5:They know but the problem is they are tired of been manipulated over and use because of their simplicity |
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