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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by maiquel: 7:55pm On Dec 19, 2020
VEXT:


Okay simp male goat
As expected... do you know anything else?
cheesy
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Ginaz(f): 8:19pm On Dec 19, 2020
Martinez39s:
I thought I was the only one that didn't believe her bullśhit story. I don't trust the stories or words that come out of a woman's mouth without evidence because they are full of śhit, and to boldly speak the lie as if it is the truth is their speciality.

As for the ladies shouting "it will soon be the OP's turn" or "karma is real" should swear that they will help a close man friend before a female acquaintance. How many guys have they helped without looking for something in return?

You're full of shiit and crap. If its a Guy's story you would believed right ? Keep the same energy you have right now for your daughters when men treat them the same way the o.p story went.

That was my reply to him. You crappy piece of poo.

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by JastSiryin(m): 8:24pm On Dec 19, 2020
RedPanthar:
Yes. It's not our job to domineer or dominate or determine people's destinies. That's not what redpill is about. Redpill is emotional control and mastery not woman-hating


If you withold what you can do, you're automatically playing God... And practising witchraft.


Let them be. Let them fly. Even if you'll get nothing in return. Even if there are no advantages per se you wish to exact. You just never may know what would come out of it down the line.


I've been of assistance to many male friends who are abroad and more successful, I don't feel entitled to their success so I don't feel bad in anyway.
Very underrated response. I applaud your maturity bro
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by QuintessentialW: 8:25pm On Dec 19, 2020
light099:

I think you only averted getting used and visciously spitted on after.
If any of them was really worth it, I trust your natural instinct and conscience to never allow you but since you were able not to allow it slip with no guilt, that's an indication you averted what would have been a terrible mistake.


It was not because of what he thought of their gender but what he thought of their gestures.
If he had another another sister or another female friend who was kind and helpful to him, he would have recommended her without hesitation.


Yeah, the Holy Bible did say something about that, it also told us to help our enemies but it never instructed us to give an enemy or potential enemy an edge over ourselves. That is why you're expected to tread with caution and allow wisdom which is the principal thing, to rule your heart when taking vital decisions.


Perhaps it doesn't exactly work that way.
Karma judges the intention, not the action. So he might be rewarded positively for this act, instead of being deprived.

Then from another perspective, don't you think like you've said, these ladies he deprived are getting rewarded for all their previous bad behaviours? So if tyup was being hired by Karma to pay back the ladies for their past bad behaviours; in due time Karma would reward him bountifully for a job well done.

Wow. Such lengthy foolishness.
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Martinez39s(m): 8:47pm On Dec 19, 2020
Ginaz:


You're full of shiit and crap. If its a Guy's story you would believed right ? Keep the same energy you have right now for your daughters when men treat them the same way the o.p story went.

That was my reply to him. You crappy piece of poo.
You are so full of crap. In your tiny lizard brain, does that "well selected" screenshot serve as irrefutable evidence of your claim? Are you telling me you couldn't have made that up or even a full contrived chat if you wanted to? SMH.

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Draught: 8:47pm On Dec 19, 2020
...My brother, don't let em fool you here..

Human beings are naturally selfish.. Because it is ingrained in our genes to be successful no matter what..

If your conscience didn't feel the need to push you to pick one of these women, then forget it.. You don't need to..

We don't know the full and complicated relationship you had with these women and we don't need to but your inner mind felt they didn't deserve it..

So there you go!

You're right in what you did, don't seek validations from ppl here that don't even know you...

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Mac12(f): 8:52pm On Dec 19, 2020
Martinez39s:
Na so

I don't need to explain myself to you bro, I grew up with my brothers, so I know how to relate with guys very well
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Ginaz(f): 8:54pm On Dec 19, 2020
Martinez39s:
You are so full of crap. In your tiny lizard brain, does that "well selected" screenshot serve as irrefutable evidence of your claim? Are you telling me you couldn't have made that up or even a full contrived chat if you wanted to? SMH.


You're so mighty that I would bother myself to clone a chat na. Cos you're dangote or the president of Nigeria or cos I want a job appointment with you abi?

Get down from your high horse, Ubuja wannabe. I won't disclose full chat cos of privacy reasons.

Deal with it and stop being a sadistic unsavory element, not all women who's cut out the way you think. You're so full of crap that even if you were washed with hypo you remained a crappy poo of wasted element that you are in this forum.
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Martinez39s(m): 8:54pm On Dec 19, 2020
Mac12:


I don't need to explain myself to you bro, I grew up with my brothers, so I know how to relate with guys very well
Did I ask for an explanation?
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Martinez39s(m): 8:57pm On Dec 19, 2020
Ginaz:


You're so mighty that I would bother myself to clone a chat na. Cos you're dangote or the president of Nigeria or cos I want a job appointment with you abi?

Get down from your high horse, Ubuja wannabe. I won't disclose full chat cos of privacy reasons.

Deal with it and stop being a sadistic unsavory element, not all women who's cut out the way you think. You're so full of crap that even if you were washed with hypo you remained a crappy poo of wasted element that you are in this forum.
grin grin You are still full of śhit. Good day.

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Ginaz(f): 9:00pm On Dec 19, 2020
Martinez39s:
grin grin You are still full of śhit. Good day.

Failure get back to the hole you came back from.
With your life like an undigested vomit .
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Czartega(m): 9:07pm On Dec 19, 2020
tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha smiley

Were you expecting them to suck your manhood to show you appreciation for helping them secure a job abroad?
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by SlurUsername1: 9:52pm On Dec 19, 2020
Ginaz:


You're so mighty that I would bother myself to clone a chat na. Cos you're dangote or the president of Nigeria or cos I want a job appointment with you abi?

Get down from your high horse, Ubuja wannabe. I won't disclose full chat cos of privacy reasons.

Deal with it and stop being a sadistic unsavory element, not all women who's cut out the way you think. You're so full of crap that even if you were washed with hypo you remained a crappy poo of wasted element that you are in this forum.

Martinez has carved a niche for himself on Nairaland. He's not anyone's wannabe
You, who are you?
Never seen your moniker before

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Ginaz(f): 9:55pm On Dec 19, 2020
Yamiriflathead:


Martinez has carved a niche for himself on Nairaland. He's not anyone's wannabe
You, who are you?
Never seen your moniker before

Carved indeed!!! Apart from women's matter, what does he to with his life. And you, who are you? I'm just seeing your moniker in this forum.

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by SlurUsername1: 9:59pm On Dec 19, 2020
Ginaz:


Carved indeed!!! Apart from women's matter, what does he to with his life. And you, who are you? I'm just seeing your moniker in this forum.
Put yourself and myself to a vote on a thread and let's see who's more popular..
Start from politics section and then to romance section.
I'm happy you couldn't refute my claim about Martinez's popularity

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Coolgent(m): 10:00pm On Dec 19, 2020
You should have share it with the Nairaland family just like you shared this trash
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Dec 19, 2020
light099:

I think you only averted getting used and visciously spitted on after.
If any of them was really worth it, I trust your natural instinct and conscience to never allow you but since you were able not to allow it slip with no guilt, that's an indication you averted what would have been a terrible mistake.


It was not because of what he thought of their gender but what he thought of their gestures.
If he had another another sister or another female friend who was kind and helpful to him, he would have recommended her without hesitation.


Yeah, the Holy Bible did say something about that, it also told us to help our enemies but it never instructed us to give an enemy or potential enemy an edge over ourselves. That is why you're expected to tread with caution and allow wisdom which is the principal thing, to rule your heart when taking vital decisions.


Perhaps it doesn't exactly work that way.
Karma judges the intention, not the action. So he might be rewarded positively for this act, instead of being deprived.

Then from another perspective, don't you think like you've said, these ladies he deprived are getting rewarded for all their previous bad behaviours? So if tyup was being hired by Karma to pay back the ladies for their past bad behaviours; in due time Karma would reward him bountifully for a job well done.


Hahahaha
Funny you.

I guess maybe I should read the post.

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Dec 19, 2020
tyup:


If it's happen to come from a girl or lady, trust I wount be pained or feel as bad

Haaaaa
After going through the post just now,I still stand that you made a very FOOLISH decision.

You did that because of what?
Stereotype??

Lol
You think all this ones here cheering you on are very much different from you?

You think if a female does same to you,you wouldn't feel bad?
Haaaa bro,first to do no dey pain (in Niger tongue).
It's just a matter of time.


I'm only happy cause those girls were not aware,at least they would have felt pretty bad.

It's scary how "humans think this days".

I wonder how your sister got there too.



To think you'll still be laughing and joking with them,while coming to their backs to spew this. Sick



Well,the deed is done.

Enjoy your peace of mind now.
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Ginaz(f): 10:08pm On Dec 19, 2020
Yamiriflathead:

Put yourself and myself to a vote on a thread and let's see who's more popular..
Start from politics section and then to romance section.
I'm happy you couldn't refute my claim about Martinez's popularity

Popularity gotten from riding on the women folks. Wow!! The achievement got to make scientists green with envy . I wonder why the popularity hasn't gotten him an award outside nairaland. Ooops! I forgot ! What's where the need of him ends . hahahahh.

And as for you, you can lap the poo off your master if you want which I'm gonna obliged you ( you can't drive a dog away from it's master)

Now as for that vote , I rather read a good book than waste it on your assumed popularity.

Run off and go back to where you from.

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by SlurUsername1: 10:16pm On Dec 19, 2020
Ginaz:


Popularity gotten from ridding on the women folks. Wow!! The achievement got to make scientists green with envy . I wonder why the popularity hasn't gotten him an award outside nairaland. Ooops! I forgot ! What's where the need of him ends . hahahahh.

And as for you, you can lap the poo off your master if you want which I'm gonna obliged you ( you can't drive a dog away from it's master)

Now as for that vote , I rather read a good book than waste it on your assumed popularity.

Run off and go back to where you from.


Your post reeks of persecution complex syndrome and victim mentality..
Yawns... Bye

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Ginaz(f): 10:25pm On Dec 19, 2020
Yamiriflathead:


Your post reeks of persecution complex syndrome and victim mentality..
Yawns... Bye

That sounds exactly like what a loser who has nothing else to say would say. Run off.
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by wax123(m): 10:56pm On Dec 19, 2020
You are a capital Idiot
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by kodix(m): 10:58pm On Dec 19, 2020
That's so bad of you,don't be surprise when those two ladies will still be better of and do very well in life,their destines is not even in your hands whether you help or not they will still be what they will be if they are destined to.
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Sarang(f): 11:36pm On Dec 19, 2020
tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha smiley

May I never have a friend like you.
Even an acquaintance!
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by BigJoe19: 11:49pm On Dec 19, 2020
Tyup the real niggarrrr see as you made all the women on Nairaland to rant like fools, they're shocked that there are still smart men who can use their brains cheesy grin

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by konkerall(m): 6:19am On Dec 20, 2020
Lol, see this one. Which thrash are you talking about. Which favors?

Did your sis tell you that once you share the link, they will automatically get the jobs or what?
Or you just want to brag in Nairaland here that your sis is in UK.

If your sis in UK, how come you sound as if you don't even know any shit about the process of getting that kinda job as a foreigner. You're just keen to hoard information, makes me think you made this shit up.

BTW Is getting a job in UK as a nurse or doctor big deal nowadays. What sort of favors are you talking about this naive nigga?

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Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Digmygold: 6:35am On Dec 20, 2020
You know the answer to your stupid question. Dont waste our time.
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Arsenate(m): 7:08am On Dec 20, 2020
BigJoe19:
Tyup the real niggarrrr see as you made all the women on Nairaland to rant like fools, they're shocked that there are still smart men who can use their brains cheesy grin
He should take the rants of the ladies as a compliment. grin
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Nobody: 7:45am On Dec 20, 2020
Pharaoh4rin:

It's a lie.
Karma Judges action and not intention.
God judges intention and not always action (James 4:5)

Really?
A suicide bomber about to blow up a school filled with good kids but you pulled the trigger, killed the terrorist and saved the kids.

According to you, Karma kills you back for your good intention and service to humanity because of your action of killing the terrorist?
Isn't it?
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by ibinaboonline: 7:50am On Dec 20, 2020
Harsh truth. Bitter truth is better than sweetened deception.
Acjohn:


What makes the devil evil is because he can't go to heaven and he doesnt want others to go. Your story sounds like that to me.

The devil also doesnt help people with no string attached and those he helps are also pay with more regrets.

If you are wise, you already understand where I am headed
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by Mypeople2(m): 7:55am On Dec 20, 2020
tyup:
Without going into much stories. My sis in the UK bout last month or so once shared a link to me bout the Hospital she works in had Vancancies for some foreign qualified Doctors or Nurse either practicing or internship worker. I had these besties one happened to be my Ex but we still vibe real good whilst the other happened to be a good friend of mine at school.

To cut the story short, after reading of how 9ja girls are really not appreciative of favors and reading of stories of how guys go the long length to help either their GF n friends and they later get to change in a shocking manner and especially those guys that would be like after all I've done for her she did this bla bla. I later got to finalise these girls are all the same no matter how close you think you're to them or what doubt you have bout them. Another problem was I had no Nursing Male friends, I really wanted to share the link with a guy but I checked thr I had no Gee who did or studied Nursing, the other MBBs friends I have are still in school/ serving. Well that was how I let the link slide and my sister probably found other people to fill in IDK sha

But do y'all think I wasn't at all fair to both girls?? Insults of any kind are welcomed sha smiley
OP I won't blame you for doing that .I know of a babe that refused to help her own jobless boyfriend to get a job in the company she works even when she knows the guy is very intelligent. The question is bow many girls help their boyfriends to secure a job these days ? When you are broke can you ask any of your female friends to send you money and she will do it ? Even if they have 10million naira resting in the account, they won't send you 1k .
However, you should have helped because you are not just helping her, you also helping those close to her e.g her family members
Re: Am I Really Being unfair To These Two Girls?? by cevek11: 8:37am On Dec 20, 2020
What is it you expect them to do for you as appreciation?

Do you expect thwm to pay u first fruits?

All the people that have directed your future, how much have you paid them for it?

The job is not yours or your sister to give, and you only have these 2 persons as fit for the job.

I see an Entitlement Mentality here... work on it


fati2001:



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