tiswell:
You are a good boy ba?

lmao... I pray! I was just surprised at how they think!!!

Martinola:
Hiss
So, I should become bad cos I wanna date a p*ssy carrier?
Nonsense.... After the bad boy annihilate them,, they come out crying.
Senseless c*nt.

After going through most of the comments, I can see that guys are getting her wrong and do not understand what she meant by "bad".

It is simple, we are created to compliment each other and just as we like them soft and tender, they also want us tough and hard. what she meant by "bad" is a man that is tough and can take charge. Those are the traits of masculinity and not the type of weak guys we have nowadays that worship women.

Are they trying to say that as a good guy, u have to be bad in other to impress nigerian ladies ..

Or what she is implying is that, good guys can't be tough

Mcslize:


But it's not worth it whether physical fight or not. The other person can use other means to follow you as well.

If you know much about women, you supposed understand that they will only tell you what you want to know. Your girlfriend might tell you that DeOTR, Okoro has been disturbing me o. He said he likes me and boom you rushed to warn Okoro and arguement ensued along the line.

Both of you start to exchange words with you screaming; do you know who I am? Do you know who I am? And Okoro screamed back; do you know who I am too? And if asked why both of you are exchanging words and people get to find out it's because of one pussy girl. Haba! It is not worth it my brother. Not for a girlfriend that will still end up fucking behind you. Not even a wife at that just a bleep partner known as girlfriend.

One can fight for one's mother but fighting for a pussy is not worth it.

I don't engage people in fist fight or altercations.
If Okoro likes my girlfriend, good (God forbid I fall in love with a Lady that won't be attractive to other men), he's only trying his luck.
But if a man assaults my girlfriend or any of my sisters, he's finished.

Splitmind:


Too nice as in not a loud, rough, sexually forward and self centred person which is what women think is sooo sexy. When a man isn’t displaying the characteristics we term as toxic masculinity and is acting like a "good church boy" they begin to wonder if there is something wrong with him they reject men like that left and right as boring until they are in their 30s looking for a husband.

Some have even gone a step further to demonise nice men as entitled and manipulative scum because they complained that the horrible advice they are given doesn't work.

That's the major contradiction, men are told by women to stop being manly because it is threatening but women are complaining that men aren't acting like men because they followed the same advice.



Nonsense?

Women in denial as usual. That's how they will come and tell us later about they are done chasing badboys and what she really needed was a good, kind, considerate man who loves her for who she is.

I'm not in denial of anything. You didn't even have to attach any pictures because the object of this thread is a woman who confirms your views. The issue is this, even if you find 1000 examples of women who like bad boys, for each and every one of them you will find girls who don't like such guys. Life isn't black or white. Between the bad boy and the church boy, there are plenty of other types. And the fact that women's tastes and standards develop is a good thing. Everyone should mature with time. It doesn't mean that they will always go from bad to good. It could simply mean that they will change and discover what matches their personality and needs better. Boys change too as they grow up, fortunately!

Anyway, believe whatever you want to believe. May your beliefs help you in finding what you are looking for.

kingsarch2000:
I thank God for you. It is good to see a woman that think differently. Most of this kind of thinking is as a result of violent domestic home upbringing. From your comment, one can see that you have got a good upbringing. Kudos to your parents.

Thank you very much. I appreciate your words of kindness.

bold
Yes, that's what I think it is too.

DeOTR:

I don't engage people in fist fight or altercations.
If Okoro likes my girlfriend, good (God forbid I fall in love with a Lady that won't be attractive to other men), he's only trying his luck.
But if a man assaults my girlfriend or any of my sisters, he's finished.

For the bolded, I will support you. That's any of your relatives. I can fight for my immediate relation but not for a girlfriend. A girlfriend can deny you at any point. But your immediate relations can't deny you no matter what.

If it is a wife, of course you can fight for your wife but a mere girlfriend, nah nah.

Hathor5:


Grow up!

I thought I was gonna receive insults. Looks like you are a good girl.

Mickey18AR:
That's why even at 40 they'll never see any "Good man" to marry them

you should be arrested for giving this lady a perfect response

Mcslize:


For the bolded, I will support you. That's any of your relatives. I can fight for my immediate relation but not for a girlfriend. A girlfriend can deny you at any point. But your immediate relations can't deny you no matter what.

If it is a wife, of course you can fight for your wife but a mere girlfriend, nah nah.

If you can't create that habit later if you don't do it now.
Protection comes in many forms and most times, it won't involve you having to fight anyone.
I treat my girlfriends at any particular time as I would treat my wife and it doesn't really matter if we break up tomorrow.
If you treat them as a part of you, you'll find them more useful, even your Exes.

Mcslize:


Girls are confused being no doubt. I experienced a scenario where I was chatting with one like that. She finally visited within 2 days of we knowing each other and she spilled the secret to me that she came because I sounded quite rude with my chat with her. Really? That I was too blunt with her but still she wanted to meet me. And that's exactly what got her attracted.

I simply told her that's not being rude. I just don't give a damn about doing all those nice guy type of chat with a lady I want something with. So because I want something with you I must now start ass licking you? So because I refused to ass lick you , that indirectly translated to a guy being rude?

She was like she is used to guys petting her and complimenting her. But she got non of that from me and that alone got her interested to meet me.

However, she came though and the rest they said was history.

I have discovered that people like to cry foul when they realize that things aren’t exactly within their experience of how shit was supposed to be.

If you are result oriented, stick with what gets you result regardless of society’s limiting belief/expectations.

If you constantly notice around you how all the fine girls bill their nice guy boyfriends to pay a side nigga/bad boy whom she freely gives every style,

And now you have girls telling you both subliminally and outrightly that she prefers to date a bad boy whom she can be free to express her desires without all of society’s expectations

But instead of reading between the lines, all you do is cry foul and lament on how life don spoil bro, how many lamentations ever got you laid?
How many lamentations (without focused action) ever changed a thing in the world?

2 things if you want to be happy in life
- never take life too seriously
- never take women too seriously


Hmm... perhaps truly Life is a bitch

Shortyy:


When did you and I discuss that?

Bruh you can be whatever you want, I do not care. As long you allow me to be whatever I want.

Hello shorty

When a woman says she likes a bad boy,she doesn't necessarily mean someone who goes about bullying people, causing trouble abusing women,drug addicts,men with tattoos all over their body.

A bad boy insn't :

Someone who is abusive to women.

A guy who tries to look mean for know reason

A guy who intimidates people for no reason

A guy who starts a fight to prove he is tough.

A guy who is controlling over women.

What so bad about bad boys that women find attractive is that they make women "feel things",things that cause women to think and do things they have never done in their lifes.things that "good guys" dream of making women feel.things that only bad boys know how to turn on and women don't know how to turn off.bad boys have something about them that women find insanely attractive, very good and intoxicating to them.

Lots of women don't like their men 100% sugar and sweet,they want a mixture of bitter in their man, like a cocktail drink with a mixture of sugar and aromatic bitters so they can be deeply drunk in love for their man.

So these are the things women find in bad boys that make them feel deeply in love with them that good boys don't have:

1.women like men that don't take shit from anyone.

2.men that can handle tough situations.
.
3.women like men that have standards and picky.

4.men that are dominant in nature,who takes charge of everything.

5.men that can set their own rules,and can bend other people's rules.

6.men that are hard to impress.

7.men that are not affected by other people's opinions,or thoughts, tough minds.

8.men that already have their shits under control,that the woman willingly submit her life under him cos she feels safe under his care than all the other good guys joined together.

9.men that are effortlessly cool, sexually relaxed,knows how to have fun,and have their own style of life.

10.men that have a life, have no fear over anything or anyone,men that are hard to get,not been predictable.

11.men that are not needy or clingy to her, don't apologise for anything,that don't pretend,not jealous.

12.men that do things on their own terms and not her terms,smart and intelligent, humble and cocky,and leave her wanting more of him always.



If you have these bad boy list of things that makes women feel attracted to bad boys, you are a winner when it comes to women,but if you don't have it, you are a loser,who goes about crying, while the bad boys are busy having all the fun with women.

Add yours if you know of any thing that bad boys do that women find attractive and intoxicating them in love

envoymedia:
A Nigerian lady, Temitope Bukola has stated why many ladies prefer to date 'Bad Boys' rather than the 'Good Boys', IgbereTV reports.

Taking to her Twitter handle, she wrote:


https://twitter.com/_Temitopebukola/status/1340192639270998016?s=19

When a woman says she likes a bad boy,she doesn't necessarily mean someone who goes about bullying people, causing trouble abusing women,drug addicts,men with tattoos all over their body.

A bad boy insn't :

Someone who is abusive to women.

A guy who tries to look mean for know reason

A guy who intimidates people for no reason

A guy who starts a fight to prove he is tough.

A guy who is controlling over women.

What so bad about bad boys that women find attractive is that they make women "feel things",things that cause women to think and do things they have never done in their lifes.things that "good guys" dream of making women feel.things that only bad boys know how to turn on and women don't know how to turn off.bad boys have something about them that women find insanely attractive, very good and intoxicating to them.

Lots of women don't like their men 100% sugar and sweet,they want a mixture of bitter in their man, like a cocktail drink with a mixture of sugar and aromatic bitters so they can be deeply drunk in love for their man.

So these are the things women find in bad boys that make them feel deeply in love with them that good boys don't have:

1.women like men that don't take shit from anyone.

2.men that can handle tough situations.
.
3.women like men that have standards and picky.

4.men that are dominant in nature,who takes charge of everything.

5.men that can set their own rules,and can bend other people's rules.

6.men that are hard to impress.

7.men that are not affected by other people's opinions,or thoughts, tough minds.

8.men that already have their shits under control,that the woman willingly submit her life under him cos she feels safe under his care than all the other good guys joined together.

9.men that are effortlessly cool, sexually relaxed,knows how to have fun,and have their own style of life.

10.men that have a life, have no fear over anything or anyone,men that are hard to get,not been predictable.

11.men that are not needy or clingy to her, don't apologise for anything,that don't pretend,not jealous.

12.men that do things on their own terms and not her terms,smart and intelligent, humble and cocky,and leave her wanting more of him always.



If you have these bad boy list of things that makes women feel attracted to bad boys, you are a winner when it comes to women,but if you don't have it, you are a loser,who goes about crying, while the bad boys are busy having all the fun with women.

Add yours if you know of any thing that bad boys do that women find attractive and intoxicating them in love

SweetCunt97:
You a very big fooooooooooooooool. So bad boys no dey marry? Abi what d heck u spewing from ur oversized brain? Ode

Bad boys las las dey marry decent girls not rotten girls like u that have smoked away ur brains with shisha.

Hello, good evening.. long time... I was the lady we talked sometimes ago... Anuoluwa1234... Pls, how do we reconnect again??... I want to discuss some things with you... Pls reply once you see this, thanks

Danielfx:
My woman is more concerned on me leaving her than her leaving me...


I have her ATM pin. I transfer card and money at will. I restrict her calls to certain people and she even gives persistent guys my number rather than her own...

I have disciplined her in the past about two times that she even became unconcious at one time, though i vow not to do such again for personal reasons...


She respects me and always make me know her every move...Cheating Kwa ?

The day she makes that mistake, the hypo she tried to drink in the past, na me go force am for her mouth...

Though i spend Sha, reasonable spending but she doesn't hoard penny from me. That's not even the case, i may not marry her due to my own personal reasons. I just love the fact that i am in control...

Na lie. I got a lot of mercy fvcks during nysc because some of those big yansh babes considered me weak and harmless. A couple of them even cooked for me once in a while.

envoymedia:
A Nigerian lady, Temitope Bukola has stated why many ladies prefer to date 'Bad Boys' rather than the 'Good Boys', IgbereTV reports.

Taking to her Twitter handle, she wrote:


https://twitter.com/_Temitopebukola/status/1340192639270998016?s=19

Alright... She realy meant a mix
of the two qualities.

Bad boys are for hot girls, no be akara girls, see her face
Yes bad boys Bleep the shit out of you, like bitches want.

Mscheew.