Kewtt:

You said it all. Men stop seeing your spouse as investments

And you confidently wrote that rubbish........

HisMajesty1:

This your post is deep sir... It's ladened with experience.

You are right bro

SeriouslySense:
okay, we have been blaming women, and forgetting men role too.

that is the issue. No one knew what transpired except their kids. We can’t outrightly blame the woman

May thier soul rest in peace. So painful

cococandy:
@bold, and that’s the lamest response you could come up with. Sigh.

that's why you got shot anyhow, stop sleeping around, close your legs.

If you must marry a naija babe here, infact any babe here, she must bring in 50-50 or more self, if not they can switch on you and take everything

Imagine, Kobe Bryant is dead and his wife inherits everything

The parents that paid for his Jordans, training, feeding, boarding and upbringing get nothing, except at the mercy of the wife. And the dad did not attend his wedding cos he felt it was a wrong choice.

Ask yourself why do successful naija men shoot their wives here. Cos she wants to take everything. Reduce his 30 years of hustle to nothing. Imagine having millions, after a divorce she takes the biggest house, cars and all the children. Abeg where do you start? For some men, sometimes it's not even the money. The woman will turn the kids against him and take sole custody.

Where do you begin at 40, 50 or 60?

Does not justify the killing of course.

Stop going to naija just to pick a wife if your sole motive is cooking, cleaning, sex and obedience. It will fade away once she discovers her freedoms here. But marry an independent woman, an equal, from anywhere, at anytime and it won't matter.

Imagine marrying a judge, doctor or lawyer who cooks for you and the children and still cleans the house. That's sexy as fvck. Plus, even if she wants to divorce, she's probably as rich as you or close. So no hard feelings. If you share your joint property, you still get to keep yours.

Onyemaya:
One should never trust a woman who will not tell you her real age.

Never trust a woman who doesn't like to eat.

Never trust a woman who will not lie about her age after thirty.

Never trust a woman whose father calls her 'Princess'.

this is so unsophisticated

cooooooks:
Let's wait for details to come out before running wild with conspiracy theories.

No. it’s a Nigerian nurse. We already know she did it. Whatever it was that went wrong was her fault. Shikena

BiggyB242:


Funny thing is these Nigerian ladies end up behaving like the white after they get themselves accustom to their rights, not all though.

Change is constant and environment factors play a role too.
What a white lady would do to you in the U.S, she may not try in Nigeria.
There are different kinds of issues that would come up in an interracial marriage that you may not even encouter if you marry someone from a similar background.

cococandy:


Exactly. I wouldn’t even be surprised if this wasn’t a new incident. Sometimes they find old topics on similar incidents and bring it to the front page so that boys can jubilate about another dear Nigerian woman.

Seun and his MODs really know how to milk the hate his male forum members have for women. Especially women abroad whom they can’t intimidate with their “send her packing”. That hate is so deep they don’t hesitate to come feast on any topic that shows something bad happening to one of such women. It draws traffic.

Na to celebrate for days.

That is their anger, the fact they can’t get away with their bullshit.

They can’t even try a tenth of their nonsense with foreign women. They’ll be lucky not to be the dead party.

Enhh so why is that so? U gave no reason but i believe you knew the reasons. Your rant are pointless

cococandy:

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Why don’t these suicidal/murdering spouses just kill themselves instead of looking for who will die with them. I’m sorry to say this happens more with men. Not just black men. White men too.
When they are tired of life, they want to end their lives but can’t just go by themselves. They try to take their wives and kids with them.

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LordIsaac:
"We will never know? " We know o... Pray a woman you helped to the top never turn against you.

amen

Nairalandwizerd:
that's why you got shot anyhow, stop sleeping around, close your legs.

so much to unpack in the lameness

Plut01:

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I sympathise with your bro.

I still believe no woman can try such with me and live. Not even her family down in Nigeria will survive it.

I worked my ass off to make things work, you now want to claim everything that I worked for just because you found yourself in a feminine biased society.

Dem no born the lady



.

We stand as one in this regard brodie.

Nigerian men are so quick to blame women for everything. That is why I fear things will not change. A woman is not your investment. She's a real life adult human and if you can't live with her, leave. I say it agaig, your wife is not your investment. Stop feeling entitled over another person's life even if you brought her to the USA. If you cannot stay, divorce, find another babe and treat her better.

genq:
This will never end.

These men in America will keep killing their wicked, ungrateful wives - not to excuse murder but Nigerian women abroad tend to exhibit signs of demonic possession - they will fuuckk around on you and bring bastaard children home for you to raise, they will insult and belittle you at any slight provocation, they will mentally and emotionally abuse you (some even physical), they will take you to court and claim everything you've laboured for, leaving you penniless in your old age, then turn your children against you so that you're left to rot in poverty, loneliness and misery. They have no conscience and are supported by their coven of westernized Nigerian-American witches wives (whom are mostly in the Nursing profession).

She probably destroyed his life and livelihood to the point of no return and the man probably thought 'fvck it, imma send this bitch back to the pit of hell she emerged from' . I can see he also tried to eliminate his (potential bastaard) children too

Twelfthman:
Enhh so why is that so? U gave no reason but i believe you knew the reasons. Your rant are pointless

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You want me to give you a reason why people I don’t know are killing themselves? I’ve heard it all.

I know you're being sarcastic but it only fuels the fire of those looking for something to say (with ZERO evidence).

R.I.P to both of them.

cococandy:


No. it’s a Nigerian nurse. We already know she did it. Whatever it was that went wrong was her fault. Shikena

Such a sad event. Most marriages do not always end up in murder both in naija and at abroad. Better to walk away than to be sorry.

90% of marital failures are orchestrated by women. Look at home's where women are honest , loyal and supportive, that home always thrives . Many a times women 60% good behaviors makes best of men's 90% bad behavior. We just pray for our own wife's and not someone else.

Hedonini:


Their crime should be very obvious, as DNA records would surely reveal.

That shows he is a wicked and vengeful man. The children committed no crime.

horrible.

the trauma those two sons
will forever live with, though.

rest in peace to their mama.

Yankee101:


If you must marry a naija babe here, infact any babe here she must bring in 50 50 or more self, if not they can switch on you and take everything

Imagine, Kobe Bryant is dead and his wife inherits everything

The parents that paid for his Jordan's, training, feeding, boarding and upbringing get nothing, except at the mercy of the wife. And the dad did not attend his wedding cos he felt it was a wrong choice.

Ask yourself why do successful naija men shoot their wives here. Cos she wants to take everything. Reduce his 30 years of hustle to nothing. Imagine having millions, after a divorce she take the biggest house, cars and all the children. Abeg where do you start? Fo

Do not import wives oversee.

It's a collosal mistake.

Look for a good woman there and marry.
I told one of my cousins to marry in Switzerland when he wanted to import his girlfriend.

At least she is not going to drastically change overnight.

You already know what you are getting.

hustla:


Probably paternity fraud

That shows he is a wicked and vengeful man, and probably pushed his wife to look for love and affection elsewhere. The children committed no crime.

pocohantas:


That is their anger, the fact they can’t get away with their bullshit.

They can’t even try a tenth of their nonsense with foreign women. They’ll be lucky not to be the dead party.

The frustration of not being able to get away with so much crap can be infuriating for their egos.

If these so called western systems are broken, why do they keep trying to to escape to those places?

cooooooks:
Callous of you and others to be making foolish points when the entire story is not yet out.

Who is making points about this story? I replied someone who said Asian women are better than naija women hence when compared to Asians only naija women abroad have record history of domestic violence against them in the diaspora community. Did I in any way say the Dr or Wife is guilty?

genq:


I already knew she had to be a Nurse.

Indian women are high earners - many are Doctors, Engineers, Business owners etc. - same with Chinese Women.

But you see Nigerian women, our money-miss-road Nigerian women, they will become Nurses, earning chicken feed compared to their Asain counterparts, but yet, we can't hear word again because she's now a demi-god!

True!
I have never heard of any bad tales about the Indian and Chinese women who earn fortunes in the Western world. This is one prove that the Devil is actually an African!

CSTRR:
Indra Nooyi is the CEO of Pepsi.
An Indian woman.

Dem no born am well make she misbehave for house.

The same goes for CEOs of many Fortune 500 companies headed by Indian women.

Women with sense. Women of timber and calibre.

While a Nigerian Nurse earning small dollars would become more feminist than Hilary Clinton.

You have visited Indra Nooyi's family to conduct research?

Do not bring your wife to abroad you won't listen

Naija women don't deserve to be treated with care

cococandy:


The frustration of not being able to get away with so much crap can be infuriating.

If these so called western systems are broken, why do they keep trying to to escape to those places?

No mind them. All their nonsense ends at MMIA. After there, no one rates them, and their women, the only human they have ever been able to dominate is now an equal.

E reach to craze sha.

Our culture paints women as investments. This has even been furthered by religious teachings.

From paying on dates, to bride price, to 'providing'; the 'ideal' and 'standard' methods of relating paint women as investments.

Some of us will continue to reject these so called norms.

VNTS:
Nigerian men are so quick to blame women for everything. That is why I fear things will not change. A woman is not your investment. She's a real life adult human and if you can't live with her, leave. I say it agaig, your wife is not your investment. Stop feeling entitled over another person's life even if you brought her to the USA. If you cannot stay, divorce, find another babe and treat her better.

cooooooks:
I know you're being sarcastic but it only fuels the fire of those looking for something to say (with ZERO evidence).

R.I.P to both of them.

You’re not going to change anyone’s mind who’s already biased against the woman (or man). It is what it is. Half the people on this thread came to jubilate that another Nigerian woman nurse is dead.
It’s a sort of consolation to them.

Zooposki:


That shows he is a wicked and vengeful man, and probably pushed his wife to look for love and affection elsewhere. The children committed no crime.

Smfh