Arsenate:
Cococandy and Pocohantas are rattled. Me likey.

genq:


I already knew she had to be a Nurse.

Indian women are high earners - many are Doctors, Engineers, Business owners etc. - same with Chinese Women.

But you see Nigerian women, our money-miss-road Nigerian women, they will become Nurses, earning chicken feed compared to their Asain counterparts, but yet, we can't hear word again because she's now a demi-god!

Graxie:
Wicked man, he didn't even consider the kids. You can imagine the psychological torture those kids will be going through.

VNTS:
Nigerian men are so quick to blame women for everything. That is why I fear things will not change. A woman is not your investment. She's a real life adult human and if you can't live with her, leave. I say it agaig, your wife is not your investment. Stop feeling entitled over another person's life even if you brought her to the USA. If you cannot stay, divorce, find another babe and treat her better.

delishpot:


You must be naive to think Indian women don't face domestic abuse abroad too. You can Abeg use Google. Women across the world are expected to be onlookers in the game of life and when they are unfortunate to meet wicked men they get killed for not allowing themselves to be enslaved. If this was a wife who killed her husband now, world people will tear her apart and ask why she did not leave the marriage(Most times empty handed) if she was not happy with the man's character. People hardly blame the man even if he made her bankrupt and was caught banging the woman's mother people will still say she should have left instead of killing him.

Joseph08:
We will never know

Infidelity I guess most likely from the woman.

I[b] fear who no fear some women[/b] even though they're married they will still engage in extramarital affairs.

delishpot:


As per na you be their boiboi wey dey clean their bedroom. So you know weda she dey talk or no talk for house shior.

Arsenate:
Cococandy and Pocohantas are rattled. Me likey.

aribisala0:

Talk is very cheap . It is the men who have never seen war that call themselves warrior.
Be patient for life your time will come to show how wise you really are

Yankee101:
If you must marry a naija babe here, infact any babe here she must bring in 50 50 or more self, if not they can switch on you and take everything

Imagine, Kobe Bryant is dead and his wife inherits everything

The parents that paid for his Jordans, training, feeding, boarding and upbringing get nothing, except at the mercy of the wife. And the dad did not attend his wedding cos he felt it was a wrong choice.

Ask yourself why do successful naija men shoot their wives here. Cos she wants to take everything. Reduce his 30 years of hustle to nothing. Imagine having millions, after a divorce she take the biggest house, cars and all the children. Abeg where do you start? For some men, sometimes it's not even the money. The woman will turn the kids against him and take sole custody.

Where do you begin at 40, 50 or 60?

Does not justify the killing of course.

Stop going to naija just to pick a wife if your sole motive is cooking, cleaning, sex and obedience. It will fade away once she discovers her freedoms here. But marry an independent woman, an equal, from anywhere at anytime and it won't matter.

Imagine marrying a judge, doctor or lawyer who cooks for you and the children amd still cleans the house. That's sexy as fvck. Plus even if she wants to divorce, she's probably as rich as you or close. So no hard feelings. If you share your joint property you still get to keep yours.

cococandy:
oh shush. Without even knowing what happened you’ve left the obvious killer to blame his wife

HisMajesty1:

But that's the very problem itself... If you divorce her you lose everything even custody and access to the kids. How do you want a man to live with starting afresh knowing that all you laboured for is in the possession of a woman somewhere you can't even go near anymore... Still doesn't justify the killing though.

CSTRR:

We are not talking about riff raff here.

This is a Medical doctor.
He snapped and killed himself and his wife.
You can imagine what it took.

Same goes to many Nigerian men in that same condition.

Good men that have accomplished a Lot in society.

Their wives became their undoing.

Yankee101:

Stop going to naija just to pick a wife if your sole motive is cooking, cleaning, sex and obedience. It will fade away once she discovers her freedoms here. But marry an independent woman, an equal, from anywhere at anytime and it won't matter.

Imagine marrying a judge, doctor or lawyer who cooks for you and the children amd still cleans the house. That's sexy as fvck. Plus even if she wants to divorce, she's probably as rich as you or close. So no hard feelings. If you share your joint property you still get to keep yours.

CSTRR:

There is a video of Indra Nooyi and her family on YouTube.

She is not different from the average Indian women.

Cultured and highly intelligent.

Arsenate:
Nigerian women actually think they can ruin Nigerian men and live happily ever after like their white counterparts do. Thing is Nigerian men won't just go down alone. They'll take you down with them. You ladies moaning on this thread should deal with that.

BluntTheApostle:


You too, how did you know that the man was the obvious killer?

Don't women kill too?

bukatyne:
Another one again.

Can't black community leaders start checking what is really going on?

hustla:


I think many don't know... Or they allow the women to guilt trip them into not taking one

I am sorry but I can't marry abroad without going the prenup way, no be me person wey I bring from naija go ruin


Either prenup or I go the baby mama route

CSTRR:

Stop talking nonsense and learn Some manners.

Beremx:
Indian and Chinese men will never control their nurse wives simply because she’s a nurse. African men and their wahala.

Twaaah!!

cococandy:


You want me to give you a reason why people I don’t know are killing themselves? I’ve heard it all.

cococandy:



How many wives kill their husbands for infidelity?
Always quick to spout that theory as if it excuses murder. Many of you would be dead if y’all’s wives decided to go through with the rage they feel when you’re unfaithful. Stop it.

JoeEeL:
The laws of the West will eventually collapse on itself. Maybe not now but definitely in future generations.

Yankee101:
If you must marry a naija babe here, infact any babe here she must bring in 50 50 or more self, if not they can switch on you and take everything

Imagine, Kobe Bryant is dead and his wife inherits everything

The parents that paid for his Jordans, training, feeding, boarding and upbringing get nothing, except at the mercy of the wife. And the dad did not attend his wedding cos he felt it was a wrong choice.

Ask yourself why do successful naija men shoot their wives here. Cos she wants to take everything. Reduce his 30 years of hustle to nothing. Imagine having millions, after a divorce she take the biggest house, cars and all the children. Abeg where do you start? For some men, sometimes it's not even the money. The woman will turn the kids against him and take sole custody.

Where do you begin at 40, 50 or 60?

Does not justify the killing of course.

Stop going to naija just to pick a wife if your sole motive is cooking, cleaning, sex and obedience. It will fade away once she discovers her freedoms here. But marry an independent woman, an equal, from anywhere at anytime and it won't matter.

Imagine marrying a judge, doctor or lawyer who cooks for you and the children amd still cleans the house. That's sexy as fvck. Plus even if she wants to divorce, she's probably as rich as you or close. So no hard feelings. If you share your joint property you still get to keep yours.

Plut01:

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Talk is indeed cheap for someone that has never seen the other side of life.

I have seen it, lived with people that went through it, and myself came up as a participant of such war.

Thus the reason for my opinion. That will never change. Left for you to warn your people of someone like me


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Dpharisee:


My uncle left 4 kids there, he managed to run back to Nigeria after she set him up on a crime that could lead to many years in prison, he has not been able to go back after many years, he just remarried. One of his kids is even in the US military now and his mum is discouraging him from even visiting Nigeria to meet his dad.
He lost everything he worked for in US to that woman.
If not for Providence maybe he would have behaved like this man in anger and frustration.
The American society other of priority and care is like this:
1. Women
2. Kids
3. Animals and pets
4. Gays and lesbians
5. Men (not favourable to them)

tunapawizzy:

na that guilt tripping be d weapon..i dont care if u think i dont love you enuff.....HOPE is a dangerous thing..i cannnot hope you will be who i think you are forever...madam if u love me too sign the prenup...lets live in peace