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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by pipz(m): 3:16pm On Dec 20, 2020
12inchess:
There must be an association of evil nurses in that Texas. Like a Coven of some sort. Anytime we here of these stories, 9 out of 10, nurses are always involved. I know it was the man that did the murdering but in my opinion, something must have pushed him to the wall. If you're a Nigerian man married to a nurse in Texas, better watch your back. shocked


Lol! I’m a Nigerian married to a Nurse and living in Texas. Reading this thread together with my wife. I looked at her after this comment and we both burSt out laughing. We are blessed and covered by the blood of Jesus, no evil shall prevail over our lives nor any more persons. We won’t hear these kinds of news again in Jesus name. May the Lord console this family and keep the kids under his grace. Amen

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by pocohantas(f): 3:16pm On Dec 20, 2020
Arsenate:
Nigerian women actually think they can ruin Nigerian men and live happily ever after like their white counterparts do. Thing is Nigerian men won't just go down alone. They'll take you down with them. You ladies moaning on this thread should deal with that.

You went down too na. Why don’t you just marry foreign women? I thought foreign women start rushing you guys from the airport?

Ruined indeed. Shebi na una them go profile as hoodlums all over the world. grin

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by hustla(m): 3:16pm On Dec 20, 2020
Frustrated007:
prenup get tossed out in divorce courts.
She can claim she was made to sign the document under duress grin
Best is to avoid marrying Nigerian women altogether same with Caucasian girls.
Asian women on the other hand make really good wives. cheesy


Under which duress

Wey you go sign with your own lawyer beside you and video evidence

You must think I'm here to joke

grin

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by cococandy(f): 3:16pm On Dec 20, 2020
I’m sure you live with them.

Also make sure you marry an Indian woman wink
CSTRR:
Indra Nooyi is the CEO of Pepsi.
An Indian woman.

Dem no born am well make she misbehave for house.

The same goes for CEOs of many Fortune 500 companies headed by Indian women.

Women with sense. Women of timber and calibre.

While a Nigerian Nurse earning small dollars would become more feminist than Hilary Clinton.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by LoveJesus87(m): 3:17pm On Dec 20, 2020
Plut01:

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Exactly
So many of these ladies are something else.

I have one here already telling her friends how she would explore all freedom when her husband takes her to Canada next year. Imagine

Same lady that's told me she can't live for a week without sex. All these while her man his working his ass off over there.

I sigh for these women.

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and there is no way you can contact the man and expose the mistake he is about to make to him?
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Nobody: 3:17pm On Dec 20, 2020
jedisco:


Some of your points are valid but men are not blame free too.
Most would want to marry a Nigerian lady set up their homes like they're in Nigeria which is very difficult.

Once you step into the West, know that there are different laws. If gou insist on using koboko or slap to discipline your children, then you'd loose them all. Same also, whether you brought your wife from Nigeria or not, you don't expect her to kneel to please you. Whether she was an almajiri or not, once she steps foot in the West, she's entitled to basic human rights just as everyone there.
It's another country with different laws. It's just like going to Saudi Arabia and insisting on organising a gospel crusade.

Most times, the Nigerian man who wants to be Lord and king at home will be so humble when talking with White ladies outside who are younger and less educated than his wife. It's only a matter of time before she starts asking if your strength is only over her.

Most successful Nigerians abroad are married to Nigerians and fact is Nigerian ladies can be quite very patient with their men. If most men would treat their wife same way they would a white lady, things would be much different.

Sorry for your uncle, but for him not to be able to see his kids, likely there must have been some physical abuse involved. What he'd be praised for in Nigeria as giving gis children proper training.

Are you sure cheesy
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by hustla(m): 3:17pm On Dec 20, 2020
LoveJesus87:
pls can you explain that prenup to me, make I start to dey know my options o

E full Google bro but basically na say, if we divorce, we go go our seperate ways with no yeye sharing of property or wealth

Na wetin you bring come u go waka go with unless una buy property together with una name for the document

So u no go fit Pursue me for house wey I build

grin

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by CSTRR: 3:17pm On Dec 20, 2020
pocohantas:


Go to that same YouTube and find a cultured intelligent Indian girl na. Make sure to tell her you are Nigerian, then wait her response.

Shebi naso e easy for an average Naija man to hook foreign woman in her youth? cheesy grin
I know many Nigerian men married to Good foreign women.

There is a YouTube video of a Nigerian Igbo doctor in America married to his Indian colleague.

They are both doctors in THE same hospital.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8D5dLcedoIU&t=448s

As long as he is educated with a future, a Nigerian male can marry any woman in the world.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by delishpot: 3:17pm On Dec 20, 2020
genq:


I guess being respectful and loyal to your husband is now "enslavement" grin

Is request of being respectful and loyal to wife emasculation? Cos last time I checked I did not say women should be disrespectful and disloyal

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Arsenate(m): 3:17pm On Dec 20, 2020
cococandy:
more like amused.

This thread is the 50th (at least) of its kind on this forum. So nothing new to rattle anyone on it. Una go tire to fantasize about the women you want to kill. Or just be ready to be dead too. Imagine the kind of frustration that makes y’all want to kill yourselves. That’s what you’re celebrating. How much harder is real life?
Yeah but these women take the men's kids and properties; everything they worked for their entire lives. The men have nothing to live for as they are usually in their fifties. Can't start life all over again so only the option is to take the women down with them. Some men call the cops on themselves and remain remorseless several years later, convinced they did the right and I can't blame them. A man with nothing to lose is very dangerous.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Frustrated007: 3:18pm On Dec 20, 2020
oh please! an Indian woman will happily marry a Nigerian man.
Most of us are decent and earn good money.
Indian women aren't money hungry sluts like most Nigerian women.
Just take a look at India, despite the poverty, wives still stick with their husbands.

I'm done with you Nigerian girls!
Even dating you these useless creatures is a nightmare.
Always playing stupid games.
pocohantas:


Go to that same YouTube and find a cultured intelligent Indian girl na. Make sure to tell her you are Nigerian, then wait her response.

Shebi naso e easy for an average Naija man to hook foreign woman in her youth? cheesy grin

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Magnoliaa(f): 3:18pm On Dec 20, 2020
delishpot:


You must be naive to think Indian women don't face domestic abuse abroad too. You can Abeg use Google. Women across the world are expected to be onlookers in the game of life and when they are unfortunate to meet wicked men they get killed for not allowing themselves to be enslaved. If this was a wife who killed her husband now, world people will tear her apart and ask why she did not leave the marriage(Most times empty handed) if she was not happy with the man's character. People hardly blame the man even if he made her bankrupt and was caught banging the woman's mother people will still say she should have left instead of killing him.

Man kill woman ----> liberalism's fault (and its influence on women)
Woman kill man ----> liberal laws and gynocentrism

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Frustrated007: 3:18pm On Dec 20, 2020
help me tell am my brother! grin
They don't value us
CSTRR:

I know many Nigerian men married to Good foreign women.

There is a YouTube video of a Nigerian Igbo doctor in America married to his Indian colleague.

They are both doctors in THE same hospital.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8D5dLcedoIU&t=448s

As long as he is educated with a future, a Nigerian male can marry any woman in the world.
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by blazer90707: 3:18pm On Dec 20, 2020
Sisters please in this coming year 2021 mind the business that pays you because it's clear these men would keep on opening thread upon thread to push this their narrative of African women being unfit for them . Please let's leave them to their foreign princesses.like I don't know where you get the energy from.as Nigerian women we are damned if we do damned if we don't. So please this is a message to all women who gets into arguments with this nairaland males to please have a change of attitude this coming year.ignore and keep being a boss that you are. Grow thrive pamper yourself and feel good. We would definitely meet the one for us that has same principles and belief as us so no need losing sleep over a non issue. Let's boss up and sip on our drinks when they start with their usual sheningans. Love and light sis.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by BluntTheApostle(m): 3:19pm On Dec 20, 2020
cococandy:


Well I initially thought of that. But It’s unlikely the police will identify the wrong person as the killer (not impossible) but unlikely .

But the police have not even identified anyone.

So far, the consensus is that it is a murder-suicide thing.

The wife might have murdered the gentleman and then killed herself.

For me, marriage remains overrated. It is a prison that I would like everyone to avoid at all cost.

We can look for other ways of keeping society in order, with regards to parenthood.

Whatever we decide, the coming generations will continue from there, and very soon, it would become the norm.

Several studies have shown that many people are not happy in their marriages.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by CSTRR: 3:19pm On Dec 20, 2020
This one is a Yoruba man married to another beautiful Indian in America.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dNrBQO5-dS4

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by pocohantas(f): 3:20pm On Dec 20, 2020
CSTRR:

I know many Nigerian men married to Good foreign women.

There is a YouTube video of a Nigerian Igbo doctor in America married to his Indian colleague.

They are both doctors in THE same hospital.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8D5dLcedoIU&t=448s

As long as he is educated with a future, a Nigerian male can marry any woman in the world.

I know some too. Educated with submissive foreign women.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by jedisco(m): 3:20pm On Dec 20, 2020
CSTRR:

It was what THE Nigerian men accomplished that they used to import these wives and give them a better life.

Some even train their wives through expensive Nursing school.


Then why can't these men marry already established White ladies?
They have lived in the West but still opt for a Nigerian lady... That should tell you something. The problems you'd encouter with the White lady is on another level.
Fact is that it's much more likely for a Nigerian man (born in 9ja) in the West to have a successful union with someone of same race and background. That's a fact that cuts across everyone?

That person (wife or not) is a human. That you facilitated yhe persons travel, paid for their schooling e.t.c gives you no right to Lord it over them. That's not how the West works.

Have you ever asked yourself if the mrn do anything that makes the wife turn around?

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Plut01: 3:20pm On Dec 20, 2020
aribisala0:

Actually you need to warn your self .
The fundamental lesson in life is that you are mortal. That means you can die at any time and mostly it is not a time of your choosing.
If you have a mature understanding of that fact you will not talk so confidently about what you will do tomorrow.
Have you even seen tonight? people that reason like you are the easiest to take out.

There is wisdom around you everyday. Don't let it go to waste.
.


And when death comes, people like me will lend out our hands in honour and say, welcome!


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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by vixpal: 3:21pm On Dec 20, 2020
BrB
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Magnoliaa(f): 3:21pm On Dec 20, 2020
cooooooks:
Callous of you and others to be making foolish points when the entire story is not yet out.



She wasn't making points ABOUT the story, but responding to that foolish mail's comment.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Kraspo(m): 3:21pm On Dec 20, 2020
LordIsaac:
"We will never know? " We know o... Pray a woman you helped to the top never turn against you. undecided

My thoughts exactly

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by aribisala0(m): 3:21pm On Dec 20, 2020
genq:


I already knew she had to be a Nurse.

Indian women are high earners - many are Doctors, Engineers, Business owners etc. - same with Chinese Women.

But you see Nigerian women, our money-miss-road Nigerian women, they will become Nurses, earning chicken feed compared to their Asain counterparts, but yet, we can't hear word again because she's now a demi-god! lipsrsealed
Your reasoning is interesting

Indian women are high earners


What is the source of this claim?
What is the average earning of an Indian woman? a Chinese woman?
What is the level of unemployment in Indian or Chinese women compared to the national average?

Now what is the average salary in the United States
What is the average salary of a nurse in the United states and how does it compare to the average national salary?

You just wake up one day come to the internet and start vomiting rubbish

All this information is publicly available, it is no secret?

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by efficiencie(m): 3:22pm On Dec 20, 2020
Kewtt:

You said it all. Men stop seeing your spouse as investments

So you have made up your mind to marry a liability, right? See counsel ohhh!!!

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by jedisco(m): 3:22pm On Dec 20, 2020
Frustrated007:
these women keep Making my case against marriage stronger by the day grin
Marry a Nigerian woman at your own risk!!!
It seems Asian women make better wives

Hehe good luck with that... Hope you find successful examples before you jump in.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by JoeEeL(m): 3:23pm On Dec 20, 2020
Goodman247:
true bro,they are feeding disfunctional families

Swears.
Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by CSTRR: 3:23pm On Dec 20, 2020
Frustrated007:
help me tell am my brother! grin
They don't value us
See as the woman hold am with pride.

She knows she has land a gold mine.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Yankee101: 3:23pm On Dec 20, 2020
delishpot:


If the gender was reversed, would you still cut her some slack if she killed her husband? Cos I know cases where men after years of marriage and control kick the wives out to the curb, and take the kids and lock her out of their lives. I some don't even allow her take her property. Knowing how our society is towards divorced women, how difficult it will be for her to remarry and start all over again if these wives kill the men would you justify their action like you are doing for this man assuming your opinion is true?

The scenario you're painting is a Nigerian scenario. You can't do that to a woman here. A woman will cheat here and still get the house and kids.

Men go to jail here for assaulting men they caught sleeping with their wives.

We're talking about why naija men kill their naija wives here. How many times have you heard that a man took everything from his wife here in the US? The law here is children first, women next, old people third and men last.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by angelfallz(m): 3:23pm On Dec 20, 2020
Yankee101:
If you must marry a naija babe here, infact any babe here she must bring in 50 50 or more self, if not they can switch on you and take everything

Imagine, Kobe Bryant is dead and his wife inherits everything

The parents that paid for his Jordans, training, feeding, boarding and upbringing get nothing, except at the mercy of the wife. And the dad did not attend his wedding cos he felt it was a wrong choice.

Ask yourself why do successful naija men shoot their wives here. Cos she wants to take everything. Reduce his 30 years of hustle to nothing. Imagine having millions, after a divorce she take the biggest house, cars and all the children. Abeg where do you start? For some men, sometimes it's not even the money. The woman will turn the kids against him and take sole custody.

Where do you begin at 40, 50 or 60?

Does not justify the killing of course.

Stop going to naija just to pick a wife if your sole motive is cooking, cleaning, sex and obedience. It will fade away once she discovers her freedoms here. But marry an independent woman, an equal, from anywhere at anytime and it won't matter.

Imagine marrying a judge, doctor or lawyer who cooks for you and the children amd still cleans the house. That's sexy as fvck. Plus even if she wants to divorce, she's probably as rich as you or close. So no hard feelings. If you share your joint property you still get to keep yours.

Lol, the problem is not coming to 9ja to pick a wife. It's in the character of the wife. A woman changing because of some perceived freedom is a white lie.
What freedom if I may ask is she enjoying there that she isn't enjoying here in 9ja?

Your thinking is all wrong in the first place. It's just like saying a man that was humble when he was poor all of a sudden started behaving arrogantly when he became rich, its a white lie.
The man was never humble in the first place.
So too the woman, the perceived freedom did not change her. Rather it brought out her true colours.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by pocohantas(f): 3:23pm On Dec 20, 2020
Frustrated007:
oh please! an Indian woman will happily marry a Nigerian man.
Most of us are decent and earn good money.
Indian women aren't money hungry sluts like most Nigerian women.
Just take a look at India, despite the poverty, wives still stick with their husbands.

I'm done with you Nigerian girls!
Even dating you these useless creatures is a nightmare.
Always playing stupid games.

Please be done with us. Na beg I dey beg.

Na only Naija man fit turn staunch atheist to frequent crusader. Marry a Nigerian man irreligious, 5yrs down the line and you will start seeing witches and wizard everywhere.

At least from the pictures you can see the foreign women do not go for just any negro. You need to have a good status to induce an amnesia, one that makes them forget who you actually are.

Please go marry Indian women.

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by lightpurple: 3:24pm On Dec 20, 2020
ThePlainTruth:


Your prayer is on point. The mistake a Naija man makes overseas is that when they help a woman to the top believing he has met the flesh of their flesh and bones of their bones, then once the woman is comfortable and making good money the woman beginning to treat the man like trash this can mess up the mind of the most gentle man and drive him to do the unthinkable. May GOD give our women wisdom and keep our men away from women that can mess up our mind.
If the man can’t help himself by rising to the top as well, then he is a liability and a complete f00l

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Re: Ben Okigbo: Nigerian Doctor Shoots His Wife Dead & Commits Suicide In America by Litmus: 3:24pm On Dec 20, 2020
Eh, killing everywhere in America, break up this contraption called America!


RIP

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