₦airaland Forum

JustCruise:
Wait bro, you want to break up cos of a compliment?

nijaomegacode:
Op, dump that potential prostitute ASAP. Never date a girl who has her ex at her reach.

Nomorelove:
Happy married life then. I hope you're faithful and will remain faithful because you ooze of infidelity and mind you, we have several types. Google is your friend

johnnychuks:
bro if you know what is good for you, this is the right time to back off that relationship, before you will regret every of your entire life, this people have nothing to offer if not because of having child for us, it is only few of them has little wisdom with your efforts been checkmating on them, If the married men open their mouth to tell you what their going through but they just keep mute and that's is what they called matured mind in marriage.

BabbanBura:
Guy she still loves him. Has he bleeped her before? If yes, then just know that he will Bleep her even when married to you. I am talking from my experiences!!!

Dharkcocoa:
� children!

ojuu4u:
Bf or after has nothing to do with it.

A guy who left his girlfriend and go for another girl for marriage, yet the girl is still considering moving back to the ex, now when she meets
another serious guy, who had presented her to his parents, yet the girl still galvanating' with ex who broke her heart.

psalmylee:
na so dem dey talk..all this useless people for nairaland...my guy,run oo..unless u want die young... Its obvious she is still in love with the guy..take the decision now before u regret it later in future.. ..make I tell u the truth ?That guy stl dey Bleep am..bitter truth bro

RisenPhoenix1:
@op alone.

Your present actions are correct, though you made an earlier mistake by trying to marry a woman with an ex. Never marry a woman with an ex, and if they try to guilt trip you by calling you insecure, mistrustful, low esteemed, thank them. Still, never marry a woman with an ex.

Oh, and lest you fall for the same trick, they never block the exes they really fall for. They'll befriend them on FB, twitter and everywhere, and they'll memorise their phone numbers by heart so that they can pretend to delete the numbers from their phones if the marital pressure gets too much. But they'll never stop communicating with them. And they'll jump back together into bed the first chance they get. Then you enter the realm of paternity fraud, DNA testing and all that mind wasting rubbish. And as a man, you need to focus on your career and business, not on all that ISH. So once more, don't marry a woman with an ex. It's not worth it.

psalmylee:
use condom,use condom..them no go hear..that simple action would have saved the world from terrible disasters n foolish comments

Sonyboom:
Look at a fool's comment. With how girl slaughtered their husband in their sleep n countless number of Nigerians men murdering their wives in the USA a lunatic can still be suggesting another man is insecure because he chose to be careful instead of being foolish or sentimental ?! People like you need to be beaten thoroughly so your brain can function properly.
Thank you I need to buy you a bottle of champagne

danowena:
Very correct. I staffed one of my ex's that got married last Saturday. I straffed her all week till Thursday. Despite asking her not to come because it may lead to us ending Upton bed, she insisted on coming.

onadana:
Naive indeed...did you read the part where the ex wants her back.Women are so unpredictable,don't forget that.

Nomorelove:
With this your mentality, you no go ever marry. Boyfriends turn to husband. I hope you come to understand that someday. Whatever you can't do when you're dating your boyfriend, you won't do when you get married. Stop giving excuses for a very abnormal behaviour. No responsible girl would do that. I don't blame most girls anyways... It's the guys that follow your type I blame. When you get married abeg come back and message me.

grossintel:
Guy, leave am. Such things don't bother me. I'm too busy with other things to be checking who she's chatting with. Constantly looking for how to increase my networth and source of income with the way naira is losing value. My girlfriend have many ex's, I don't even know there names but I know one of them is closest to her. But I no just get that time to investigate shit. This sort of communication is normal and expected to happen, by forbidding her to cut all communications with her ex's you make her start making secret calls and the natural human instincts craves for adventures and before you know it, the dead feelings start coming back. Las las woman way go cheat go cheat, it's not her ex's you should be worried about it's her pastor and choir master.

aristocrazzy:
it's evident that the girl still likes the ex bf, but won't come clean on it. because girls are deceptive to both themselves and people. he should follow his instinct now and let her go. because the way men are commiting suicide over failed marriage is becoming alarming and it all starts by ignoring red flags at the beginning because she said she loves you. don't deceive yourself and act!!!

Icedplane:
A girl that I was dating, took her to my parents and even met her people chatted with her ex who ditched her and married another girl. The other girl died and this ex wants her back.

She said if she see's someone else she would move ahead but if not she may consider him back. All these happened like 4 months before I met her.

Now I have introduced her to all my family and even met some of her family.

Sent her mum money for Christmas, she still has the guts to reply the guys compliment of the season even after I warned her months back and asked her to block the guy which she did.

What pains me was the new phone I bought for her was what she used.

Now she's begging my mum to beg me.
Am done

Funflipper:
Sit down for dia dey look. Na from verbal compliment dem go begin compliment each other on top bed.

Bennysam:
You Nairaland guy can’t disappoint he dump a girl because she’s trying to get back to her ex you people insult him but if he writes how he take her back after chatting her ex you people will still call him SIMP

Bizibi:
na small small chicken dey dance into cooking pot. Anything ex should be cancelled.....

JustCruise:
Call me old school but am not scared of my girl complimenting her ex,that's just some simp shit.

JONSYN7154:
You see these words "my ex is not my enemy " has destroyed so many marriage and relationship.

Exes are biggest threat to every relationship and marriage, yes they are not your enemy but they are something one needs to avoid then if you two meets by chance then you can greet ,gist and walk away.

Many women with such mentality "my ex is not my enemy "therefore I want to go to his place and invite him to my wedding, from there" can I get a last hug?

That was how they ended up in bed, from ordinary hug it turned to kissing, this is how many married woman got pregnant for their exes.

Many will be saying that they are matured spiritually to handle such, but forgot what the Bible said in 1 Corinthians 10:12 ...

Men on the other hand usually have the same mentality too, she is just a friend this and that...they forgot most times we fall in love with someone you didn't intend falling in love with by simply spending time with them, it may start as casual friends ,colleague e.t. c by spending time together you start seeing the beautiful qualities of the person that you don't know, from there intimate feeling can start building up.

When you are in a relationship/marriage you should respect your spouse feelings, and stop all this "we are just friends.

Yes that you are married or in a relationship doesn't mean you aren't allowed to make friends but know your limits..

Have this in mind �
What a man doesn't want to eat he shouldn't take it close to his nose, because the nice aroma might be tempting to resist ��

JONSYN7154:
You see these words "my ex is not my enemy " has destroyed so many marriage and relationship.

Exes are biggest threat to every relationship and marriage, yes they are not your enemy but they are something one needs to avoid then if you two meets by chance then you can greet ,gist and walk away.

Many women with such mentality "my ex is not my enemy "therefore I want to go to his place and invite him to my wedding, from there" can I get a last hug?

That was how they ended up in bed, from ordinary hug it turned to kissing, this is how many married woman got pregnant for their exes.

Many will be saying that they are matured spiritually to handle such, but forgot what the Bible said in 1 Corinthians 10:12 ...

Men on the other hand usually have the same mentality too, she is just a friend this and that...they forgot most times we fall in love with someone you didn't intend falling in love with by simply spending time with them, it may start as casual friends ,colleague e.t. c by spending time together you start seeing the beautiful qualities of the person that you don't know, from there intimate feeling can start building up.

When you are in a relationship/marriage you should respect your spouse feelings, and stop all this "we are just friends.

Yes that you are married or in a relationship doesn't mean you aren't allowed to make friends but know your limits..

Have this in mind �
What a man doesn't want to eat he shouldn't take it close to his nose, because the nice aroma might be tempting to resist ��

BraniacX:
mortal minds didn't reveal this to you I tell you bro

JONSYN7154:
You see these words "my ex is not my enemy " has destroyed so many marriage and relationship.

Exes are biggest threat to every relationship and marriage, yes they are not your enemy but they are something one needs to avoid then if you two meets by chance then you can greet ,gist and walk away.

Many women with such mentality "my ex is not my enemy "therefore I want to go to his place and invite him to my wedding, from there" can I get a last hug?

That was how they ended up in bed, from ordinary hug it turned to kissing, this is how many married woman got pregnant for their exes.

Many will be saying that they are matured spiritually to handle such, but forgot what the Bible said in 1 Corinthians 10:12 ...

Men on the other hand usually have the same mentality too, she is just a friend this and that...they forgot most times we fall in love with someone you didn't intend falling in love with by simply spending time with them, it may start as casual friends ,colleague e.t. c by spending time together you start seeing the beautiful qualities of the person that you don't know, from there intimate feeling can start building up.

When you are in a relationship/marriage you should respect your spouse feelings, and stop all this "we are just friends.

Yes that you are married or in a relationship doesn't mean you aren't allowed to make friends but know your limits..

Have this in mind �
What a man doesn't want to eat he shouldn't take it close to his nose, because the nice aroma might be tempting to resist ��

PrimeWatermark:
Now, you're beginning to sound insecure.

Wait, were you doing all those things for her just to make her all yours?? I mean the gifts and all that, then the things you've been sending to her parents.

You better re-evaluate the whole situation cos if the girl wants the guy back, no amount of care would make her stay with you.

But all the same, there's no harm in replying ordinary 'Compliments of the season'.