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sapphiere:
Men, you must take responsibilities of the child even if the DNA confirms that the baby is not yours - Barr. Vivian

Nigerian Barrister took to her Twitter handle to advice men not to neglect the baby even if DNA confirms the baby isn't theirs.


She wrote:


https://mobile.twitter.com/VivianRora/status/1345146460514504707

What a Stoopid advice!
This is the new agenda of the Olosho Feminist.
They go about committing adultery on their husband, bring-in a bastard child into the family and when exposed, they want the man to take care of their Bastard Child, when they know the man that they slept will, to get the bastard pregnancy.

One Bullet to such lady's head will solve the problem, even if it is in America.
See the live example here: https://www.nairaland.com/6322828/ben-okigbo-nigerian-doctor-shoots

I am sure the next thing is that the NGO's making money from this sort of nonsense will start carrying Placard saying: Make law to force men to raise the bastard child that resulted from their wife's infidelity.

Thunder fire that barrister Viviam, l am sure her husband needs a DNA test of their Children, if she is married.

sapphiere:
Men have been sleeping around bringing babies from other women for their wives to care for.

Case study is 2face who brought in children from other women and Annie is caring for those children as her own.

A man will usually admit and bring d child home, and d wife will consent to raising d child.

Consent is key. Deception is the game women play, and that is what we are condemning.

If a man is aware and consents to raising another man's child, no biggie. But if he is deceived into raising another's child, it is paternity fraud. Can't even think of what to do to such an evil hearted female.

Nwodosis:
The barrister is right if the wife paid the groom price on her husband's head and the husband also lives in the wife's house.

#fact

hammerDK:
THE LAST THING A MAN SHOULD DO TO HIS KIDS IS DNA.


THAT IS SO IRRELEVANT.


OUR ANCESTORS BELIEVED IN COMMUNITY OWNERSHIP OF CHILDREN, BECAUSE THEY KNEW SEXUAL LIASON WERE NOTORIOUSLY CONDUCTED SECRETLY AND DIFFICULT TO POLICE.

THEY SAY IT TAKES A COMMUNITY TO RAISE CHILDREN AND I BELIEVE THEM.


IMAGINE THEY DID DNA TEST BACK THEN, MANY OF US ARE I AM NOT ACTUALLY FROM THE FAMILY WE I FIND OURSELVES MYSELF TODAY.


BUT DOES THAT REALLY MATTER?


IT ONLY MATTERS WEN YOU START PARADING PIECE OF PAPER CALLED DNA RESULT, OTHERWISE, YOUR FAMILY NAME WILL STILL BE CONTINUED AND YOU GIVEN ACKNOWLEDGEMENT AS BOTH PARENT AND ANCESTOR.

Why are you shouting , upon small matter? I understand that you are a product of such family.

Our Ancestors take care of Children communally but[b] they abhor Sexual promiscuity or Olosho behaviour, among their wives.
Or is it not our Ancestors that laced such harlot wives with Maagun?[/b]

It is the same people like you that will be shouting it is barbaric?
When it suits you, you accept the ways of our Ancestors, when it does not, you say it is barbaric.

The barrister was just joking ni jare. It can't happen to me sef. I mean before the child is born.

settie:
A man will usually admit and bring d child home, and d wife will consent to raising d child.

Consent is key. Deception is the game women play, and that is what we are condemning.

If a man is aware and consents to raising another man's child, no biggie. But if he is deceived into raising another's child, it is paternity fraud. Can't even think of what to do to such an evil hearted female.

You nailed it.
Deceit is the way of Women.
A lot of women have also objected and will not give their consent, to the husband bringing his love-child into his house.
He sought consent, she refused.
Women should also seek consent too.

A large percentage of ( 1 out of 3) Nigerian '1st borns' are children of another man.
Doing a DNA should be the rule, among Nigerian Husbands.

GofuckYourself:
Young man ,it is not proper for a man to talk because he has a mouth.

Sit down and think deeply about what you are saying .. a man's words should have weight and not be empty like yours

Go to bed brother

Good night

Go Check well, it is a Woman Olosho pretending to be a man.
It is their way.

IamD18:
Secretly take DNA test of whatever shiit your wife birthed for you, if it's yours, pretend like nothing happened. If it's not yours, still pretend like nothing happened.

Arrange a lil romantic hangout, before then make sure you've dug a grave for her, kindly take her where the grave was dug and make sure she's buried alive with the bastard she birthed for you.

Remember to unirate on her before burying her alive. A wayward idiotic hoe who's capable of deceiving you with another man's kids doesn't deserve to live, but to be sent to her grave which is the only place her legs can be closed.

what you said is insane.
kill a woman and her child for what??

she cheated yes! but you train a child like yours, it would only be inhumane of you to disown that child..
what if you discover today that your dad ain't your real dad, would you stop taking the man who trained you as your dad??

please let's be reasonable in life.

fatherhood of s child mater's a lot..

Dalby:
How does your statement correlate in your head

Women should be treated equally, was she under any compulsion to accept the plea when the reverse is the case?

The child has a father, as the DNA has proven so what will be his responsibility?

I read it and found it was just your personal plea or opinion without any legal bite o it...

When you see a masquerade dancing, be certain that the drummers are behind the bushes somewhere .
Na so dem they take start am.
In the Western Countries, that is the law and na so e take start.
Take note that it is a 'Lawyer' that is floating the sacrilegious idea. `

jumper524:
what you said is insane.
kill a woman and her child for what??

she cheated yes! but you train a child like yours, it would only be inhumane of you to disown that child..
what if you discover today that your dad ain't your real dad, would you stop taking the man who trained you as your dad??

please let's be reasonable in life.

fatherhood of s child mater's a lot..

The Child is innocent in all these and no harm should come to him but he has a father and should be sent to his father to raise, to love and to bond to, even as an adult.

But the woman who deceived and put everyone into such pain should not go scot-free.
How each man decides to terminate the hoe of a wife, is left to him to decide.
A Woman that brings a bastard pregnancy and child for her husband has already killed the husband, a long time ago
No man should be deceived into thinking he is the father of another man's seed.

Janesouthall:
U are mad... U are fvcking mad!!!

A mad dog indeed

How will she feel if 5 years down the line after child birth, she got to know her baby was swapped with a dead baby at the maternity clinic, i bet that hurts, but paternity fraud is way graver.

sapphiere:
Men have been sleeping around bringing babies from other women for their wives to care for.

Case study is 2face who brought in children from other women and Annie is caring for those children as her own.

What are you saying... Sentiment has beclouded your sense of reasoning and sagacity. If a man impregnates a woman aside his wife, their is no way the man can trick the woman to believe she birthed the baby...

The reason this is bad, is because the husband is made to believe he is the biological father of the baby... That's why it's called paternity fraud.

I wish I can slap sense into your empty skull... I want to believe you know better but just decided to be on the other side because this is a faceless forum.

NkemChukwudi:
Oloriburuku!!! Another man’s daughter? Someone’s sister, Aunty or niece?

You and your whole family will be buried alive!!!

Think!

Na so e pain you reach?
Your husband is already planning a secret DNA test, you better run before yo get discovered.

sapphiere:
Men have been sleeping around bringing babies from other women for their wives to care for.

Case study is 2face who brought in children from other women and Annie is caring for those children as her own.

I think Annie's case is different. She knew from the onset that he had children with different women, probably before they got mutual. Unlike this which involves lies and deception.

Opexzy:
What are you saying... Sentiment has beclouded your sense of reasoning and sagacity. If a man impregnates a woman aside his wife, their is no way the man can trick the woman to believe she birthed the baby...

The reason this is bad, is because the husband is made to believe he is the biological father of the baby... That's why it's called paternity fraud.

I wish I can slap sense into your empty skull... I want to believe you know better but just decided to be on the other side because this is a faceless forum.

Trust me, Women supporting this nonsense have actually given their husband a Pregnancy they brought from outside or are certain they would one day find themselves in that situation.
They are afraid of being buried alive, according to one guy on previous page.

sapphiere:
I said she makes sense to SOME extend.

But remember men also lie to their wives that they don't have other kids outside only to later discovered they do.

Please enough with the financial bla bla bla.

You can't compare financial support to bring a child up.

Your sense of reasoning is as poor as your grammar.

chinchum:
How will she feel if 5 years down the line after child birth, she got to know her baby was swapped with a dead baby at the maternity clinic, i bet that hurts, but paternity fraud is way graver.

Okay, one more excuse to justify paternity fraud
We dey here dey listen

sapphiere:
What is financial responsibility compare to;
Cooking for the child,
Waking up at midnight to check on the child,
Wash the child's clothes,
Dress the child up for school.

If we should trade places and men take over domestic chores while women only bring in money, I bet most men if not all the men would faint.

All your domestic self importance can be replaced with multiple maids making you useless to the main.
When a man dies, the woman and children are thrown into extreme poverty in most cases showing the importance of the man and finance. Many of the women loosing their husband end up homeless and begging for survival. That is when you’ll know that motherly love is conditional and dependent on the comfort provided by men. Some women even give up or kill their baby to enable them to latch on to another man.
You will never see a man who lost his wife begging for money to take care of the children because the man will hustle by any means possible, showing that financial responsibility is supreme in a child's life. The domestic provider can be replaced with a maid anytime but the financial provider can never be replaced.

Excuzeme:
Trust me, Women supporting this nonsense have actually given their husband a Pregnancy they brought from outside or are certain they would one day find themselves in that situation.
They are afraid of being buried alive, according to one guy on previous page.

You are right... The only reason a woman will see any iota of sense in a clear-cut case like parternity fraud is because they are perpetrators themselve or they have put themselves in a liable position for such occurrence (infidelity).

juman:
As we watch in american shows like maury show, if the husband signed the birth certificate of the "bastard" child, the man must continue his responsibility as father.

But I dont think that hold in nigeria.

It does not hold and that is what that Evil barrister Vivian is trying to introduce in Nigeria.
Five years down the line, the discussion wont be a Tweet, it will be at the NAAS but l am sure my Brodas will die before they allow such law to be passed.
Imagine the Injustice! To be forced to take care of another man's child, that you were tricked into believing is your Child? .
That is why that USA Doctor Ben Okigbo decide to finish-off his wife and the two bastard children (The Children survived and l am happy for that because they have nothing to do with it)

Read it here, if interested: https://www.nairaland.com/6322828/ben-okigbo-nigerian-doctor-shoots

engrsyer:
Her opinion doesn't count in reality of life.

Those calling for gender equality are demons. It has never been so right from Adam and Even.

The gender equality proposition is one of the devil's schemes to change God's original plan for mankind. It appalls me knowing that believers advocate such.

Excuzeme:
What a Stoopid advice!
This is the new agenda of the Olosho Feminist.
They go about committing adultery on their husband, bring-in a bastard child into the family and when exposed, they want the man to take care of their Bastard Child, when they know the man that they slept will, to get the bastard pregnancy.

One Bullet to such lady's head will solve the problem, even if it is in America.
See the live example here: https://www.nairaland.com/6322828/ben-okigbo-nigerian-doctor-shoots

I am sure the next thing is that the NGO's making money from this sort of nonsense will start carrying Placard saying: Make law to force men to raise the bastard child that resulted from their wife's infidelity.

Thunder fire that barrister Viviam, l am sure her husband needs a DNA test of their Children, if she is married.

Na until women destroy una finish b4 una realize sey marriage na scam.

You should have known better than to forcefully make another man father another man's child.... This would ruin the baby for life and even you. In fact ruin everybody!

mk3jax:
All your domestic self importance can be replaced with multiple maids making you useless to the main.
When a man dies, the woman and children are thrown into extreme poverty in most cases showing the importance of the man and finance. Many of the women loosing their husband end up homeless and begging for survival. That is when you’ll know that motherly love is conditional and dependent on the comfort provided by men. Some women even give up or kill their baby to enable them to latch on to another man.
You will never see a man who lost his wife begging for money to take care of the children because the man will hustle by any means possible, showing that financial responsibility is supreme in a child's life. The domestic provider can be replaced with a maid anytime but the financial provider can never be replaced.

Don't argue with that girl, you will get tired and frustrated especially in gender related premises, not beacause she's smart (far from that) but because she's simply stupid.

"The difference between genuis and stupidity is; genuis has its limits" - Albert Einstein

mk3jax:
All your domestic self importance can be replaced with multiple maids making you useless to the main.
When a man dies, the woman and children are thrown into extreme poverty in most cases showing the importance of the man and finance. Many of the women loosing their husband end up homeless and begging for survival. That is when you’ll know that motherly love is conditional and dependent on the comfort provided by men. Some women even give up or kill their baby to enable them to latch on to another man.
You will never see a man who lost his wife begging for money to take care of the children because the man will hustle by any means possible, showing that financial responsibility is supreme in a child's life. The domestic provider can be replaced with a maid anytime but the financial provider can never be replaced.

@the bolded:
This is so true, it is always women that are always complaining about being widowed and dying of hunger!
You never see a man begging and complaining that his wife died and left him with all the Children to look after!
It confirms that men have always been the ones who provide financial survival for the family, majority of women just follow chop and most are ingrates, as well.

Very good observation, Kudos.

Madibahisback:
You too must be senseless for expecting a senseless person to give you a specific answer

Senseless boy.
Now, get back to your porn addiction, kiddo.

lebete3000:
Na until women destroy una finish b4 una realize sey marriage na scam.

It is changing, though not fast enough!
Anderson Cooper of CNN has a Child, no wife, no marriage. Many men are doing this now, without even being gay.

Most Men are constrained by the need to have a Child, to marry a Woman but 'Women' are teaching them that Women are actually dispensable and not as important as they claim to be.
Those Japanese Sex Dolls also provide better Sex, with no liability (apart from a pair of 3V Batteries ) and wont bring a bastard Child home or bring another man into your bed when you are at work.
it wont even be asking you for maintenance, once you get fed-up with it and decide to buy a newer Model and neither will it attempt to stab you to death in your sleep.
I really pity the future of Women, with all these their Gragra.

sapphiere:
Men have been sleeping around bringing babies from other women for their wives to care for.

Case study is 2face who brought in children from other women and Annie is caring for those children as her own.

At least Annie knows from the onset that those kids aren't hers.

Just imagine your dad isn't your father... You self go wan kill your mama...

IF the wife told the husband right from day one, it would be a different ball game... Not after the man has showered love and resource on the child, just for you to give him stroke

Righteousness2:
Taking care of the Baby is not a Problem..

The Problem is the Deceiving the man, only for him to get a visit from another man claiming He wants his child..

Or Deceiving the man only for Him to be told at the Embassy that his blood and the kids he claims are his do not Match..

If it is a confession, it's not a big deal. You Forgive and move ahead..

Forgive ginni?
She better disappear before l lose my control.

You don see any woman confess that kain thing before, without being first caught out?

Excuzeme:
It is changing, though not fast enough!
Anderson Cooper of CNN has a Child, no wife, no marriage. Many men are doing this now, without even being gay.

Most Men are constrained by the need to have a Child, to marry a Woman but 'Women' are teaching them that Women are actually dispensable and not as important as they claim to be.
Those Japanese Sex Dolls also provide better Sex, with no liability (apart from a pair of 3V Batteries ) and wont bring a bastard Child home or bring another man into your bed when you are at work.
it wont even be asking you for maintenance, once you get fed-up with it and decide to buy a newer Model and neither will it attempt to stab you to death in your sleep.
I really pity the future of Women, with all these their Gragra.

My brother I don dey worry about myself sef, cos when guys dey talk about dem getting married and so on, I don't even feel bothered a bit. It just feels like normal gist to me. Na only money dey my mind. One guy even sey hin fear me, sey the way I dey reason ehn, I fit even use person do ritual sef I'm financially comfortable by the way, but there's hunger for much more!!!

I need to enjoy this life to the fullest, and how best than with a bevy of chicks struggling to bag my balls in their warm mouth

Excuzeme:
Okay, one more excuse to justify paternity fraud
We dey here dey listen

I guess you have comprehension issues, cause i am wondering how you can come to that conclusion with what i stated. the sad tale is that people like you seems to be in the majority and form quickly very strong shitty opinions.