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dauddy97:
Compliment of the season to you all.
This my story is long. I have tried to squeeze everything to make it short but, it's still long. I just want to pass all the information both my side and her side.
I need a candid suggestion on what to do.

First and foremost, God has the way of reveling things to those who follow him and are patient with him.

How it started,
I met this young girl on Facebook. We became friends for just a week and since then, our love for each other has been wao.

I love her and she shows to me she loved me too at that time. Even though she still tells me she loves me.
Towards ending of December, I started noticing that she hasn't been having time for me like before. I called her and she gave me some reasons why she hasn't been having time for me. She told me, i should understand the nature of their work being tailor, you have to work till night especially during December period. So, she told me, after December 31, she will give me all the time she hasn't been seeing me.

Well, as a mature guy, i have to follow along and watch careful. Ever since then, we hardly talk till now. During new year, i invited her to my office(where i study). she declined saying her dad wont allow her. Okay, no probs I told her.

I will call this lady for hours, she won't answer, message her she won't reply on WhatsApp nor Facebook. A time during that December period, i decided to test her with a break-up. She was crying and begged me never to do such to her. She changed during that time, in fact, she even visited my house during Christmas.

So, today i called her. Luckily for me, she picked up. I told her my state of not been happy with this relationship any longer. That, we haven't been seeing nor chatting like bfor. Is everything alright. With what she heard, she said i should visit her at home by night (7:00pm) to talk and make love.

While on phone with her, I asked her what she was doing, she said she was washing her clothes. I told her, can we chat after washing your clothes. She said -"My battery is low, i can't chat". Me knowing the condition of electricity over here, i told her, let me come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. She refused totally. I said, this is not you anymore. After all, you do call me from home to come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. Why sudden "No". She said nothing. So, i tricked her by telling her that, but you told me to see you by night. How am I going to call you? If your phone is low and i believe it will be off bfor night.

That was when she now said, ok. I rushed to her place. I collected the phone. The phone was 3%. I couldn't believe how fast this girl has off the phone as soon as I called her out that i was in the front of her house to collect the phone. I was surprised and was curious why this girl started acting like that these days.

I switch on the phone when I got to my office. Her phone was tightly locked. Like Anini in the prison yard. Well, i tried all password associated to her, including her names, date of birth and so on. Something just flash on me that, i Should use her private number. She used that number to call me one time like that, she said it's her private number.

To God be the glory it worked. Still yet i couldn't assess her WhatsApp nor Facebook account. Cos this girl spend hours on these apps without chatting with me. At times, i wondered what could a young lady like this be doing with 2 facebook apps, 2 WhatsApp numbers. Well, that's her problem.

While going through her phone, she didn't password her -FileManager- i was able to dig in. I saw several recorded calls from guys including me. I listen to everything. How she even visited one. Something she hardly do to me. How they make appointment to meet somewhere. My head was red. I patiently send everything to my phone and screenshot everything as evidence. I don't plan to show her even if I still countinue with her.
But the fact that, you kept on deceiving me that, whenever i leave for school, everything is fine. Meanwhile, everything is not even fine in my present.

What can I do? Should I just play along. She Knowing that I'm in the University always makes her feel proud and respect me. I tried to understand that, all the people who had been calling her, we are all having same issues with her, everyone complain of her Not picking calls and not having time for them. I even listen a record of a guy, saying - " you will be online chatting and you won't reply my message, and you will be crying if i want to breakup with you.

Abeg all, what can I do. I am not afraid of loosing her. I love her and if she decides to change, i will still continue with her. I haven't show her all the records and we are yet to meet by today's night.
Screenshot images below.

What should I do?

Lalasticlala Moderators: Rocktation, farano help for wider view. Thanks

send her to the streets ma nigga, that's where she belongs

Bhadmus77 it worked, but referred my sister but she didn't get any bonus

If I use PIN on my phone, if you get it in 100 trials then you deserve the greatest award in life.
Note: I will unlock the phone 3 times in your presence)

dauddy97:
Compliment of the season to you all.
This my story is long. I have tried to squeeze everything to make it short but, it's still long. I just want to pass all the information both my side and her side.
I need a candid suggestion on what to do.

First and foremost, God has the way of reveling things to those who follow him and are patient with him.

How it started,
I met this young girl on Facebook. We became friends for just a week and since then, our love for each other has been wao.

I love her and she shows to me she loved me too at that time. Even though she still tells me she loves me.
Towards ending of December, I started noticing that she hasn't been having time for me like before. I called her and she gave me some reasons why she hasn't been having time for me. She told me, i should understand the nature of their work being tailor, you have to work till night especially during December period. So, she told me, after December 31, she will give me all the time she hasn't been seeing me.

Well, as a mature guy, i have to follow along and watch careful. Ever since then, we hardly talk till now. During new year, i invited her to my office(where i study). she declined saying her dad wont allow her. Okay, no probs I told her.

I will call this lady for hours, she won't answer, message her she won't reply on WhatsApp nor Facebook. A time during that December period, i decided to test her with a break-up. She was crying and begged me never to do such to her. She changed during that time, in fact, she even visited my house during Christmas.

So, today i called her. Luckily for me, she picked up. I told her my state of not been happy with this relationship any longer. That, we haven't been seeing nor chatting like bfor. Is everything alright. With what she heard, she said i should visit her at home by night (7:00pm) to talk and make love.

While on phone with her, I asked her what she was doing, she said she was washing her clothes. I told her, can we chat after washing your clothes. She said -"My battery is low, i can't chat". Me knowing the condition of electricity over here, i told her, let me come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. She refused totally. I said, this is not you anymore. After all, you do call me from home to come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. Why sudden "No". She said nothing. So, i tricked her by telling her that, but you told me to see you by night. How am I going to call you? If your phone is low and i believe it will be off bfor night.

That was when she now said, ok. I rushed to her place. I collected the phone. The phone was 3%. I couldn't believe how fast this girl has off the phone as soon as I called her out that i was in the front of her house to collect the phone. I was surprised and was curious why this girl started acting like that these days.

I switch on the phone when I got to my office. Her phone was tightly locked. Like Anini in the prison yard. Well, i tried all password associated to her, including her names, date of birth and so on. Something just flash on me that, i Should use her private number. She used that number to call me one time like that, she said it's her private number.

To God be the glory it worked. Still yet i couldn't assess her WhatsApp nor Facebook account. Cos this girl spend hours on these apps without chatting with me. At times, i wondered what could a young lady like this be doing with 2 facebook apps, 2 WhatsApp numbers. Well, that's her problem.

While going through her phone, she didn't password her -FileManager- i was able to dig in. I saw several recorded calls from guys including me. I listen to everything. How she even visited one. Something she hardly do to me. How they make appointment to meet somewhere. My head was red. I patiently send everything to my phone and screenshot everything as evidence. I don't plan to show her even if I still countinue with her.
But the fact that, you kept on deceiving me that, whenever i leave for school, everything is fine. Meanwhile, everything is not even fine in my present.

What can I do? Should I just play along. She Knowing that I'm in the University always makes her feel proud and respect me. I tried to understand that, all the people who had been calling her, we are all having same issues with her, everyone complain of her Not picking calls and not having time for them. I even listen a record of a guy, saying - " you will be online chatting and you won't reply my message, and you will be crying if i want to breakup with you.

Abeg all, what can I do. I am not afraid of loosing her. I love her and if she decides to change, i will still continue with her. I haven't show her all the records and we are yet to meet by today's night.
Screenshot images below.

What should I do?

Lalasticlala Moderators: Rocktation, farano help for wider view. Thanks

But Honestly Speaking She Ain't cheating on you, you can only cheat in a marriage.
Both of you are cheating on her future husband.
You don't need our advise, you already know what you want to do, you are only scared of going ahead doing what you want to do.

When a lady starts acting uninterested, I ghost her with immediately. And my ghosting is done without conscience.

anochuko01:
When a lady starts acting uninterested, I ghost her with immediately. And my ghosting is done without conscience.

Sincerely, i am thinking of this too but, i will do it whenever i finally leave for school.

Legendarytonyy:
Bhadmus77 it worked, but referred my sister but she didn't get any bonus

Maybe she have registered on Palm pay before.
Did u try it with my own link

University relationships never work.Join a church fellowship in school and use the time to face studies, work for God and play PC games during your free time

Fiscus105:
Go and check her social media messages, they will hastening ur sucide.

lol. wicked

Fahdiga:
You are asking us what to do. my advice is that you hug, kiss and pamper her with love. sell all your landed properties and use the money to buy her designer stuffs and also take her to Dubai and give her a nice treat. are you happy now?

No mind that simp

Bhadmus77:
Maybe she have registered on Palm pay before.
Did u try it with my own link

Yeah she have registered before. It later worked for someone else

..

One girl playing with the hearts of many simps. Some people say fear who no fear woman but I disagree. Women are like dogs. If you fear them, they attack you but if you don't, they respect you. I keep telling people that love is scam. Just fucck woman and take your mind off her until the next day you have her in your bed and you will live long.

my first question be say....bro, na only her be your girlfriend wey you get?

Fvk the bitch and move on. Some women are kept for sex only.

Nonexistent:
One girl playing with the hearts of many simps. Some people say fear who no fear woman but I disagree. Women are like dogs. If you fear them, they attack you but if you don't, they respect you. I keep telling people that love is scam. Just fucck woman and take your mind off her until the next day you have her in your bed and you will live long.

Yes, you are absolutely right.
OP, give me her digits, I will get her laid for you in less than one week.

Bitches aren't royal!

sweetmelanin:
Nonsense.

People just like to open mouth anyhow to prove what I don't know.

What country in this world has laws were partners in a relationship cannot check each others phones? Please state the country and the said legislation.. mtcheww!

Piss off!

It's not my fault that you've never been out of Nigeria and have no idea how things are done in a sane country.

Hold tightly to your ignorance!

dauddy97:
Compliment of the season to you all.
This my story is long. I have tried to squeeze everything to make it short but, it's still long. I just want to pass all the information both my side and her side.
I need a candid suggestion on what to do.

First and foremost, God has the way of reveling things to those who follow him and are patient with him.

How it started,
I met this young girl on Facebook. We became friends for just a week and since then, our love for each other has been wao.

I love her and she shows to me she loved me too at that time. Even though she still tells me she loves me.
Towards ending of December, I started noticing that she hasn't been having time for me like before. I called her and she gave me some reasons why she hasn't been having time for me. She told me, i should understand the nature of their work being tailor, you have to work till night especially during December period. So, she told me, after December 31, she will give me all the time she hasn't been seeing me.

Well, as a mature guy, i have to follow along and watch careful. Ever since then, we hardly talk till now. During new year, i invited her to my office(where i study). she declined saying her dad wont allow her. Okay, no probs I told her.

I will call this lady for hours, she won't answer, message her she won't reply on WhatsApp nor Facebook. A time during that December period, i decided to test her with a break-up. She was crying and begged me never to do such to her. She changed during that time, in fact, she even visited my house during Christmas.

So, today i called her. Luckily for me, she picked up. I told her my state of not been happy with this relationship any longer. That, we haven't been seeing nor chatting like bfor. Is everything alright. With what she heard, she said i should visit her at home by night (7:00pm) to talk and make love.

While on phone with her, I asked her what she was doing, she said she was washing her clothes. I told her, can we chat after washing your clothes. She said -"My battery is low, i can't chat". Me knowing the condition of electricity over here, i told her, let me come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. She refused totally. I said, this is not you anymore. After all, you do call me from home to come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. Why sudden "No". She said nothing. So, i tricked her by telling her that, but you told me to see you by night. How am I going to call you? If your phone is low and i believe it will be off bfor night.

That was when she now said, ok. I rushed to her place. I collected the phone. The phone was 3%. I couldn't believe how fast this girl has off the phone as soon as I called her out that i was in the front of her house to collect the phone. I was surprised and was curious why this girl started acting like that these days.

I switch on the phone when I got to my office. Her phone was tightly locked. Like Anini in the prison yard. Well, i tried all password associated to her, including her names, date of birth and so on. Something just flash on me that, i Should use her private number. She used that number to call me one time like that, she said it's her private number.

To God be the glory it worked. Still yet i couldn't assess her WhatsApp nor Facebook account. Cos this girl spend hours on these apps without chatting with me. At times, i wondered what could a young lady like this be doing with 2 facebook apps, 2 WhatsApp numbers. Well, that's her problem.

While going through her phone, she didn't password her -FileManager- i was able to dig in. I saw several recorded calls from guys including me. I listen to everything. How she even visited one. Something she hardly do to me. How they make appointment to meet somewhere. My head was red. I patiently send everything to my phone and screenshot everything as evidence. I don't plan to show her even if I still countinue with her.
But the fact that, you kept on deceiving me that, whenever i leave for school, everything is fine. Meanwhile, everything is not even fine in my present.

What can I do? Should I just play along. She Knowing that I'm in the University always makes her feel proud and respect me. I tried to understand that, all the people who had been calling her, we are all having same issues with her, everyone complain of her Not picking calls and not having time for them. I even listen a record of a guy, saying - " you will be online chatting and you won't reply my message, and you will be crying if i want to breakup with you.

Abeg all, what can I do. I am not afraid of loosing her. I love her and if she decides to change, i will still continue with her. I haven't show her all the records and we are yet to meet by today's night.
Screenshot images below.

What should I do?

Lalasticlala Moderators: Rocktation, farano help for wider view. Thanks

love-vendor her for other guys

Na small pikin love dey worry the two of Una....A time would come when you will laugh over your stupidity!!

Kobicove:
Piss off!

It's not my fault that you've never been out of Nigeria and have no idea how things are done in a sane country.

Hold tightly to your ignorance!

LOL. you are clearly the ignorant one here. So you think I'm based in Nigeria? Ok

Fahdiga:
You are asking us what to do. my advice is that you hug, kiss and pamper her with love. sell all your landed properties and use the money to buy her designer stuffs and also take her to Dubai and give her a nice treat. are you happy now?

U are very wicked

Op is your babe Glory Obidimbu on Facebook

Ur babe na escort.

Goan look for her @ codedruns she might be there with that her private number

dauddy97 come and update us. What later happened?

Lol this girl don change her broke screen

Me I did not go through phone. I just saw her near my house sitting on the lap of a guy on my own plastic chair. I passed and they didn't even bulge. I came back from where I went to buy something and still in the same position. I just ordered them to stand up! and live my vicinity. Na so e take end

dauddy97:
Compliment of the season to you all.
This my story is long. I have tried to squeeze everything to make it short but, it's still long. I just want to pass all the information both my side and her side.
I need a candid suggestion on what to do.

First and foremost, God has the way of reveling things to those who follow him and are patient with him.

How it started,
I met this young girl on Facebook. We became friends for just a week and since then, our love for each other has been wao.

I love her and she shows to me she loved me too at that time. Even though she still tells me she loves me.
Towards ending of December, I started noticing that she hasn't been having time for me like before. I called her and she gave me some reasons why she hasn't been having time for me. She told me, i should understand the nature of their work being tailor, you have to work till night especially during December period. So, she told me, after December 31, she will give me all the time she hasn't been seeing me.

Well, as a mature guy, i have to follow along and watch careful. Ever since then, we hardly talk till now. During new year, i invited her to my office(where i study). she declined saying her dad wont allow her. Okay, no probs I told her.

I will call this lady for hours, she won't answer, message her she won't reply on WhatsApp nor Facebook. A time during that December period, i decided to test her with a break-up. She was crying and begged me never to do such to her. She changed during that time, in fact, she even visited my house during Christmas.

So, today i called her. Luckily for me, she picked up. I told her my state of not been happy with this relationship any longer. That, we haven't been seeing nor chatting like bfor. Is everything alright. With what she heard, she said i should visit her at home by night (7:00pm) to talk and make love.

While on phone with her, I asked her what she was doing, she said she was washing her clothes. I told her, can we chat after washing your clothes. She said -"My battery is low, i can't chat". Me knowing the condition of electricity over here, i told her, let me come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. She refused totally. I said, this is not you anymore. After all, you do call me from home to come over to collect your phone and charge it for you. Why sudden "No". She said nothing. So, i tricked her by telling her that, but you told me to see you by night. How am I going to call you? If your phone is low and i believe it will be off bfor night.

That was when she now said, ok. I rushed to her place. I collected the phone. The phone was 3%. I couldn't believe how fast this girl has off the phone as soon as I called her out that i was in the front of her house to collect the phone. I was surprised and was curious why this girl started acting like that these days.

I switch on the phone when I got to my office. Her phone was tightly locked. Like Anini in the prison yard. Well, i tried all password associated to her, including her names, date of birth and so on. Something just flash on me that, i Should use her private number. She used that number to call me one time like that, she said it's her private number.

To God be the glory it worked. Still yet i couldn't assess her WhatsApp nor Facebook account. Cos this girl spend hours on these apps without chatting with me. At times, i wondered what could a young lady like this be doing with 2 facebook apps, 2 WhatsApp numbers. Well, that's her problem.

While going through her phone, she didn't password her -FileManager- i was able to dig in. I saw several recorded calls from guys including me. I listen to everything. How she even visited one. Something she hardly do to me. How they make appointment to meet somewhere. My head was red. I patiently send everything to my phone and screenshot everything as evidence. I don't plan to show her even if I still countinue with her.
But the fact that, you kept on deceiving me that, whenever i leave for school, everything is fine. Meanwhile, everything is not even fine in my present.

What can I do? Should I just play along. She Knowing that I'm in the University always makes her feel proud and respect me. I tried to understand that, all the people who had been calling her, we are all having same issues with her, everyone complain of her Not picking calls and not having time for them. I even listen a record of a guy, saying - " you will be online chatting and you won't reply my message, and you will be crying if i want to breakup with you.

Abeg all, what can I do. I am not afraid of loosing her. I love her and if she decides to change, i will still continue with her. I haven't show her all the records and we are yet to meet by today's night.
Screenshot images below.

What should I do?

Lalasticlala Moderators: Rocktation, farano help for wider view. Thanks

Sorry for asking where she base at?

It's like maybe u not hearing about the Nuhu Fcmd bank issue.no go kill urself with stroke if she come give u another man children as ur own.dis one is an eye opener for u to break up with her

Kobicove:
Piss off!

It's not my fault that you've never been out of Nigeria and have no idea how things are done in a sane country.

Hold tightly to your ignorance!

You are truely the ignorance one here, cus u cant back ur claim with prove.
she ask for prove, why cant u give her as u claim?

pls, always be more factual with your words

sweetmelanin:
LOL. you are clearly the ignorant one here. So you think I'm based in Nigeria? Ok

Dont mind him, he does'nt know what he saying more why is cant give u prove

Something similar happend to me in 2018.the bitter truth is ur relationship can never ever be the same again. Guess what I know u u will still accept her back because she is going to beg u and ask for forgiveness.. But in the long run u guys are still going to brk up. The best advice is to brk up now and move one with ur life. Once u brk trust it very difficult to fix. A broken bottle has no mequatility. speaking from experience bro.