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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by samsard(m): 5:16pm On Jan 06, 2021
12ade34:
Too bad
It will destroy many marriages in the nearest future
Any marriage destroyed by DNA issue never existed.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Nairalandwizerd(m): 5:16pm On Jan 06, 2021
mymoney001:
As much as we love to trend on social media, let's also trend with caution and not forget the effects of the things we trend whether true, false or fiction.

Recently in the close of the year 2020 and now 2021, there has been several stories on broken homes which resulted from the DNA test results saga.

Some of us are writing and sharing stories from the comfort of our homes without taking prior concerns of the effect of the things we share on social media about relationships and lifestyle. To us, we think we are just trending but we don't care about the truthfulness in what we share and we do them ignorantly. In another sense, the stories might be true but do you know what it has done to several marital relationships?

I am writing this as a matter of deep concern to the emotional trauma it has raised in several homes, broken relationships and loss of trust among spouses. I evidently witnessed a man who had sent his wife packing because he suspects her of cheating, confronted her and because she kept denying, he angrily sent her packing.

In another story, a guy angrily beat up his girlfriend because he saw her taking a snapchat with a random guy in an event. In another story a girl dumped her boyfriend cause he refused to send her money for Christmas not minding the availability of the money. In the stories I got from a witness in a location in Benin, a man tricked his wife that he's travelling for a Business and he returned home that same day suspecting his wife was cheating but came home to meet her doing her house chores. He already started losing trust in his wife because of the stories we share on Social media. All these are just few of the numerous stories that have led to broken marriages, relationships.

As a matter of concern, we all have errors, issues and reasons we do what we do but the consequences are sometimes inevitable. A girl will naturally dump her boyfriend because he couldn't meet up with her needs like other girls enjoy luxury from their boyfriends, she begins to treat him like he means nothing and starts framing up issues to end the relationship. She does so much to frustrate him and the guy being a weaker vessel ends up commiting suicide upon discovering that the girl he invested so much on, has dumped him. The girl ends up with the other Rich boyfriend, when he gets broke again she dumps him. In other cases marries him and not enjoy her marriage. This is because she's suffering the consequences of dumping the one who had nothing but cared so much for her even with his last blood.

Social media stories like the recent video from Bobrisky has poisoned the minds of some of our ladies especially those who love and are addicted to luxuries. Our ladies in our generation no longer have concern for love but wealth. They are all looking for already made men and not ready to work hard in creating wealth with their trying partner. They have failed to understand that love itself can create wealth and when you build wealth with the one who truly love and care for you, you will always find comfort in the relationship even when it eventually leads to marriage. Ladies stop chasing the one in wealth and build wealth with the one currently with you.

These are what led to the DNA text results saga. Beware!

Away from the Ladies, the men are also not perfect, they are even worse and they take the much of the blame. There are several men who chase after ladies in wealth too, they dry them up, cheat on them and run away. The men also, but not all, are heartless, they beat up their wives, fail to take up responsibilities as husbands and sleep out with their concubines and leave their wives and kids starving. Some of these happen as a result of the advices they take from their pairs, lack of trust or because they feel their wives are getting old and fading away in their sight. Men sometimes are really so heartless. Our young Boys lose respect, care and affection for their Girlfriends because of youthful exuberance. They feel that they are doing justice to life by sleeping around, cheating on their girls and doing all sorts of things without putting their feelings in consideration and when they are confronted they become brutal and beat up the girls. Men don't see anything wrong in sleeping out after marriage but they see everything wrong in their wives keeping home late or going out for fun with their fellow women. This circle is really complicated.

I call for a stop to social media stories that has broken countless number of homes just in the beginning of this year. Let's learn to teach some good morals, offer good advices, respect our relationships, mind our businesses, build relationships in love, trust and take responsibilities in them. Let's treat everyone with respect, let's live happily and let's grow a better society, abiding by the principles of social values.

*Samuel Iyobosa writes✍️
who is this unbaptized writer?

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by seunny4lif(m): 5:17pm On Jan 06, 2021
See them grin grin grin grin

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Canvass: 5:17pm On Jan 06, 2021
While lab scientists running the DNA test are cashing out big time.

Any home built on everlasting deceit with live evidence(s) is not supposed to stand, hence should crumble hard and fast.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by juman(m): 5:18pm On Jan 06, 2021
Nonsense opinion.

Do not fight the truth.
Stand by the truth.

With sense the husband can do DNA test without arousing anger.
Or manageable anger.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by thatigboman: 5:19pm On Jan 06, 2021
Why DNA per minute per minute. Im tired of this nonsense. And why is it that is only yorubas are complaining. When we tell you that your women are very promiscuous, u see it as insult.
Just a matter of fact.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by flamingREED(m): 5:19pm On Jan 06, 2021
There's nothing wrong with this if you know scriptures.
It's better your sins are exposed and handled now than it be revealed on the day of judgement.

There's nothing hidden that won't be revealed:

1 Timothy 5:24-25 (KJV) Some men's sins are open beforehand, going before to judgment; and some men they follow after.
Likewise also the good works of some are manifest beforehand; and they that are otherwise cannot be hid.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by MOVIC6: 5:19pm On Jan 06, 2021
Is just that you are male possibly a simp I would have given you the tip of my feelings right now but still STFU.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Downey(f): 5:20pm On Jan 06, 2021
Its must not stop

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Urchman27(m): 5:20pm On Jan 06, 2021
DNA test will reduce cheating in a marriage

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by MOVIC6: 5:20pm On Jan 06, 2021
People like you encourage sugar mummy,daddy stuff and when the shit hits the fan you come playing victim jus like Tunde’s shameless wife.
Ogweni STFU.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by thelinguist: 5:21pm On Jan 06, 2021
See nansense post

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by usj(m): 5:21pm On Jan 06, 2021
I did not read the whole post because it based on emotion, and not objective. If a DNA test result causes a home to be broken, the test isn't to be blamed. Whoever cheated broke the home, and that person should be blame.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Paccus: 5:22pm On Jan 06, 2021
obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.

So you won’t check his phone and social media messages??

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Exmilitant(m): 5:23pm On Jan 06, 2021
OP, your theory is not practical.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by WibusJaga: 5:23pm On Jan 06, 2021
Much ado about nothing!

If you doubt the paternity of your child & it's of serious concern to you & you have the funds, go ahead & do a DNA test. Simple.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Mitsurugi(m): 5:23pm On Jan 06, 2021
obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.


Do you and the sisterhood trust your partners? This rubbish started from somewhere and women are crying foul now after many years of even suspecting their spouses cheating with Oni Bread undecided

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by boyjo: 5:23pm On Jan 06, 2021
mymoney001

It is spiritual.
They want to groom boys to hate girls and become homosexuals but them no go succeed in JESUS name.
Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by OldNairalander(m): 5:24pm On Jan 06, 2021
My own problem now is that my ekuke gave birth to 5 black puppies when the compound male dog is yellow undecided

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by bammydhele(m): 5:25pm On Jan 06, 2021
I dont think that is bad, then while talk about trust when u still check his phone behind him
obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Fvckyouall: 5:25pm On Jan 06, 2021
If you don't love your husband enough to give him only his child and not another man's child then you don't deserve marriage. A marriage broken by DNA results was not a marriage it was a scam done by a wh0re to an innocent guy

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by osazsky(m): 5:26pm On Jan 06, 2021
mymoney001:
As much as we love to trend on social media, let's also trend with caution and not forget the effects of the things we trend whether true, false or fiction.

Recently in the close of the year 2020 and now 2021, there has been several stories on broken homes which resulted from the DNA test results saga.

Some of us are writing and sharing stories from the comfort of our homes without taking prior concerns of the effect of the things we share on social media about relationships and lifestyle. To us, we think we are just trending but we don't care about the truthfulness in what we share and we do them ignorantly. In another sense, the stories might be true but do you know what it has done to several marital relationships?

I am writing this as a matter of deep concern to the emotional trauma it has raised in several homes, broken relationships and loss of trust among spouses. I evidently witnessed a man who had sent his wife packing because he suspects her of cheating, confronted her and because she kept denying, he angrily sent her packing.

In another story, a guy angrily beat up his girlfriend because he saw her taking a snapchat with a random guy in an event. In another story a girl dumped her boyfriend cause he refused to send her money for Christmas not minding the availability of the money. In the stories I got from a witness in a location in Benin, a man tricked his wife that he's travelling for a Business and he returned home that same day suspecting his wife was cheating but came home to meet her doing her house chores. He already started losing trust in his wife because of the stories we share on Social media. All these are just few of the numerous stories that have led to broken marriages, relationships.

As a matter of concern, we all have errors, issues and reasons we do what we do but the consequences are sometimes inevitable. A girl will naturally dump her boyfriend because he couldn't meet up with her needs like other girls enjoy luxury from their boyfriends, she begins to treat him like he means nothing and starts framing up issues to end the relationship. She does so much to frustrate him and the guy being a weaker vessel ends up commiting suicide upon discovering that the girl he invested so much on, has dumped him. The girl ends up with the other Rich boyfriend, when he gets broke again she dumps him. In other cases marries him and not enjoy her marriage. This is because she's suffering the consequences of dumping the one who had nothing but cared so much for her even with his last blood.

Social media stories like the recent video from Bobrisky has poisoned the minds of some of our ladies especially those who love and are addicted to luxuries. Our ladies in our generation no longer have concern for love but wealth. They are all looking for already made men and not ready to work hard in creating wealth with their trying partner. They have failed to understand that love itself can create wealth and when you build wealth with the one who truly love and care for you, you will always find comfort in the relationship even when it eventually leads to marriage. Ladies stop chasing the one in wealth and build wealth with the one currently with you.

These are what led to the DNA text results saga. Beware!

Away from the Ladies, the men are also not perfect, they are even worse and they take the much of the blame. There are several men who chase after ladies in wealth too, they dry them up, cheat on them and run away. The men also, but not all, are heartless, they beat up their wives, fail to take up responsibilities as husbands and sleep out with their concubines and leave their wives and kids starving. Some of these happen as a result of the advices they take from their pairs, lack of trust or because they feel their wives are getting old and fading away in their sight. Men sometimes are really so heartless. Our young Boys lose respect, care and affection for their Girlfriends because of youthful exuberance. They feel that they are doing justice to life by sleeping around, cheating on their girls and doing all sorts of things without putting their feelings in consideration and when they are confronted they become brutal and beat up the girls. Men don't see anything wrong in sleeping out after marriage but they see everything wrong in their wives keeping home late or going out for fun with their fellow women. This circle is really complicated.

I call for a stop to social media stories that has broken countless number of homes just in the beginning of this year. Let's learn to teach some good morals, offer good advices, respect our relationships, mind our businesses, build relationships in love, trust and take responsibilities in them. Let's treat everyone with respect, let's live happily and let's grow a better society, abiding by the principles of social values.

*Samuel Iyobosa writes✍️
y are men this stupid. U dont need permission from ur wife to do DNA all u need is either the child hair.fingernails or hair which u could easily get without the child knowledge carry any of these samples and yourself to a lab.in uniben dentistry it's less than 100k.
Which kind men do we have.children getting married.u make profit of 500 u call ur wife before u get home she will call u that hair cream and diapers have finished..Simpson too many for this country

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Glycosunde: 5:26pm On Jan 06, 2021
If ur gf leave u bcus u nor fit take care of her, guy waka go meet anoda gal. If ur man dey suspect u n cum dey beat u put for wetin u nor do, aunty jejely waka comot for d relationship if u don tire. And if u dey suspect ur wife say d children nor b ur own, broda go do dna test b4 u train anoda person children. If u don know n u say u wan still train dem, den no problem. E beta say we all know wetin we dey do, love nor dey blind n definitely marriage nor be blind man business. E beta say u know now n break d marriage dan u dey married to a cheating Jezebel or Delilah

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Fvckyouall: 5:27pm On Jan 06, 2021
obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.


Ok we divorce na so?, Who you ladies room it's the kids that are important if you want to go carry your cheating LovePeddler ass and fvck off but if you try and carry my kids as you go you are dead

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Offpoint1: 5:27pm On Jan 06, 2021
Fake or real.... DNA test is very important.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by christopheojo(m): 5:27pm On Jan 06, 2021
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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 06, 2021
osazsky:
y are men this stupid. U dont need permission from ur wife to do DNA all u need is either the child hair.fingernails or hair which u could easily get without the child knowledge carry any of these samples and yourself to a lab.in uniben dentistry it's less than 100k.
Which kind men do we have.children getting married.u make profit of 500 u call ur wife before u get home she will call u that hair cream and diapers have finished..Simpson too many for this country

The reason why Nigerian girls are behaving badly.

Do a dna test, save yourself from a lifetime of headache and bills, possibly death. A cheating wife can kill

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by PataAlhajaKeji(m): 5:29pm On Jan 06, 2021
Antinatalists like me just dey laff all of una ...

DNA tests and untrustworthy spouses kill all of una dia.

We move. grin

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by Sierusvirus(m): 5:30pm On Jan 06, 2021
Whether you like it or not, it will never stop rather it’s just the beginning.

According to you, it’s distroying homes or breaking homes now.

If I may ask you, what do you expect from a spouse with a deadly secret that won’t harm her but only the husband and at the end of it all, the man will loose everything (money and children he has spent all his saving to raise and finally turns out not to be his)

This is a death penalty for the woman which the laws needs to enforce.

I can’t imagine how a human being like you will say such a thing to pressing issues like this?

The men should start early to prevent things that will cause their death in the future.

The rate at which this increases calls for a cause of concern.

The senate need to come to the aid and reduce the cost so men can be saved.

Anybody going trying to sweep this DNA test under the carpent must have a mental disorder and needs a proper Check-up.

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Re: DNA: Social Media Stories Are Destroying Homes And Relationships & Must Stop by sylve11: 5:32pm On Jan 06, 2021
Urchman27:
DNA test will reduce cheating in a marriage

How? cool

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