obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.

Jonathan39:
Una too mumu for this country , only criminals fear high fence. Has nothing to do with men hating women

Ladylawyer:
Please can we apply this principle of what you do not know will not kill you? I understand that some people cause their partners to lose trust in them but until your woman has given you such reasons do not destroy your home by looking for what is not lost.

thebosstrevor1:
Paternity fraud is low in Nigeria. It almost 0.99%

Most of the people shouting dna test cant even afford one loaf of bread talkless of a dna test.

Truth, the dna discussion has started, some will fall for the trap and add their dna samples to dna bank database while some dna test companies will make cash even when they know that majority test will come out negative

At the end of the day, the noise will not solve anything and the trend will reduce.

People will continue cheating as they like

osazsky:
wheather u like it or not dna has come to stay.we are not stupid.we know them...and ur hus may be in a lab now..with ur sos finger nails without informing u..dna test does not work based on emotions.if its not a march ..its not a march.i love this.and its less than 100k.the best thing that has happened in bubu administration is dna testing.i think all of una go close una legs now.very good

KNOWMORE56:


This your post make sense to me o, huh!

obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.

Waper2:

I dey view you carefully ��️�

Jonathan39:
People like you makes we plan doing DNA test as soon as I start having babies. What audacity? So it is a bad thing to be careful?

obembet:
Seriously this nonsense need to stop.

U do DNA, we end the marriage.. I can't continue to staying with someone who doesn't trust me.

Splitmind:


Same logic people used that got them HIV, continue to show your true faces.

Ladylawyer:

My dear nobody is stopping you from conducting a DNA by all means please do but please do not go about it in a humiliating manner.

boyjo:

Una go just dey curse as if say the person wey una you dey quote no go fit curse back.

You can express anger without swear words bro.

I evidently witnessed a man who had sent his wife packing because he suspects her of cheating, confronted her and because she kept denying, he angrily sent her packing.

In another story, a guy angrily beat up his girlfriend because he saw her taking a snapchat with a random guy in an event. In another story a girl dumped her boyfriend cause he refused to send her money for Christmas not minding the availability of the money. In the stories I got from a witness in a location in Benin, a man tricked his wife that he's travelling for a Business and he returned home that same day suspecting his wife was cheating but came home to meet her doing her house chores. He already started losing trust in his wife because of the stories we share on Social media. All these are just few of the numerous stories that have led to broken marriages, relationships.

Bornsinner7:
If this is destroying homes then that home ought to be destroyed..

I don't see how this would destroy the home of loyal couples...

I have just come to the realisation that over 70% of men are raising kids that are not theirs.. you can imagine the kind of fuckery and adultery going on in this world...

The trend now is most women are scum.. they are the dogs they call men

mymoney001:
As much as we love to trend on social media, let's also trend with caution and not forget the effects of the things we trend whether true, false or fiction.

Recently in the close of the year 2020 and now 2021, there has been several stories on broken homes which resulted from the DNA test results saga.

Some of us are writing and sharing stories from the comfort of our homes without taking prior concerns of the effect of the things we share on social media about relationships and lifestyle. To us, we think we are just trending but we don't care about the truthfulness in what we share and we do them ignorantly. In another sense, the stories might be true but do you know what it has done to several marital relationships?

I am writing this as a matter of deep concern to the emotional trauma it has raised in several homes, broken relationships and loss of trust among spouses. I evidently witnessed a man who had sent his wife packing because he suspects her of cheating, confronted her and because she kept denying, he angrily sent her packing.

In another story, a guy angrily beat up his girlfriend because he saw her taking a snapchat with a random guy in an event. In another story a girl dumped her boyfriend cause he refused to send her money for Christmas not minding the availability of the money. In the stories I got from a witness in a location in Benin, a man tricked his wife that he's travelling for a Business and he returned home that same day suspecting his wife was cheating but came home to meet her doing her house chores. He already started losing trust in his wife because of the stories we share on Social media. All these are just few of the numerous stories that have led to broken marriages, relationships.

As a matter of concern, we all have errors, issues and reasons we do what we do but the consequences are sometimes inevitable. A girl will naturally dump her boyfriend because he couldn't meet up with her needs like other girls enjoy luxury from their boyfriends, she begins to treat him like he means nothing and starts framing up issues to end the relationship. She does so much to frustrate him and the guy being a weaker vessel ends up commiting suicide upon discovering that the girl he invested so much on, has dumped him. The girl ends up with the other Rich boyfriend, when he gets broke again she dumps him. In other cases marries him and not enjoy her marriage. This is because she's suffering the consequences of dumping the one who had nothing but cared so much for her even with his last blood.

Social media stories like the recent video from Bobrisky has poisoned the minds of some of our ladies especially those who love and are addicted to luxuries. Our ladies in our generation no longer have concern for love but wealth. They are all looking for already made men and not ready to work hard in creating wealth with their trying partner. They have failed to understand that love itself can create wealth and when you build wealth with the one who truly love and care for you, you will always find comfort in the relationship even when it eventually leads to marriage. Ladies stop chasing the one in wealth and build wealth with the one currently with you.

These are what led to the DNA text results saga. Beware!

Away from the Ladies, the men are also not perfect, they are even worse and they take the much of the blame. There are several men who chase after ladies in wealth too, they dry them up, cheat on them and run away. The men also, but not all, are heartless, they beat up their wives, fail to take up responsibilities as husbands and sleep out with their concubines and leave their wives and kids starving. Some of these happen as a result of the advices they take from their pairs, lack of trust or because they feel their wives are getting old and fading away in their sight. Men sometimes are really so heartless. Our young Boys lose respect, care and affection for their Girlfriends because of youthful exuberance. They feel that they are doing justice to life by sleeping around, cheating on their girls and doing all sorts of things without putting their feelings in consideration and when they are confronted they become brutal and beat up the girls. Men don't see anything wrong in sleeping out after marriage but they see everything wrong in their wives keeping home late or going out for fun with their fellow women. This circle is really complicated.

I call for a stop to social media stories that has broken countless number of homes just in the beginning of this year. Let's learn to teach some good morals, offer good advices, respect our relationships, mind our businesses, build relationships in love, trust and take responsibilities in them. Let's treat everyone with respect, let's live happily and let's grow a better society, abiding by the principles of social values.

*Samuel Iyobosa writes✍️

Jonathan39:
How many times did you write waec to ask this kind of question

Theboss100:
It will not stop. Many women are lovepeddlers. Shameless things. If u pack out another woman will replace u asap. A man can av children outside marriage and leave it outside. But u women will pin it on ur husbands. Anyday problems arises, u will call him and tell him his is nt the father. Like what da fvk?? Only the guilty ones are panicking. Who trust help. No be married women dey sleep wit their pastors Most generation of women we have nw are bitching hoes. Patheitic lots. Thank GOD i read medlab science. No woman will such with me.

usj:
I did not read the whole post because it based on emotion, and not objective. If a DNA test result causes a home to be broken, the test isn't to be blamed. Whoever cheated broke the home, and that person should be blame.

thebosstrevor1:
Paternity fraud is low in Nigeria. It almost 0.99%

Most of the people shouting dna test cant even afford one loaf of bread talkless of a dna test.

Truth, the dna discussion has started, some will fall for the trap and add their dna samples to dna bank database while some dna test companies will make cash even when they know that majority test will come out negative

At the end of the day, the noise will not solve anything and the trend will reduce.

People will continue cheating as they like

thebosstrevor1:
Paternity fraud is low in Nigeria. It almost 0.99%

Most of the people shouting dna test cant even afford one loaf of bread talkless of a dna test.

Truth, the dna discussion has started, some will fall for the trap and add their dna samples to dna bank database while some dna test companies will make cash even when they know that majority test will come out negative

At the end of the day, the noise will not solve anything and the trend will reduce.

People will continue cheating as they like

iamJ:
Liked by guilty women worldwide.

Ladylawyer:

What you said is quite true but my view is this; amidst this DNA challenge one should apply caution else things will go haywire. I will not be pertubed if tomorrow my husband request for a DNA test but we all dont see things from the same angle.