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oyolohi:
While sex is pleasure to men, it is more of a weapon to women.


Most guys here will almost never simp for a lady, however, we fail to ask ourselves questions such as: if sex was a being, am I a simp for it?
Can I willingly say no to sex even with a erection?


You wouldn't be far from liberation the moment you start asking yourself such questions. The day you stop simping for sex among other weapons such as religion, government, etc., you'll attain a bulletproof state in a world full of gun welding individuals.

PETUK:
Meanwhile this is my first ever communication with this vigina person whom I sure she's less than 23 years old
She's already asking for airtime, who does that?

bobowaja:
Ubunja, I like you and I read your threads. But pardon me if I say you are not a redpiller. You are a gamer. Stick to what you do best. It is good to preach games to redpillers, but bad when you are preaching games as redpill.

Redpill is not about women and pussy. It is self awareness about yourself, your society and interpersonal relationships with the opposite sex (female) and how to weather those storms without getting hurt.

I cut off my best friend recently cos he did something he should not have done. He is not a female, but my knowledge of redpill warrant me not to accommodate bullshits.

For the last time, redpill is not about women. It is about self awareness and maturity that makes a man A MAN.

CaveAdullam:
It is at the heat of this ex topic that those in desire of their ex e.g Ubunja, gold360, softguy1 etc. started mentioning gifts, connections as a reason to still maintain friendship with an ex. Meanwhile, 1/3 of my posts in regards to the topic was when gold360 insists on going back to his ex when he's in "dire" need of sex and food. And of course going back to your ex for "sex and food" still remains absurd and stupid! Why because there were reasons you choose to dump her regardless of the professional sex and savoury meal she once provided you. If she was good, you would have ignored her foibles and continue with the relationship. But no, you ended it on your own terms. (Except this was not the case, that's both of you strolled out of the relationship without official breakup. And if this is the case, she's not your ex. Considering this, your ex is an ex for a reason.

In 2/3 of my posts on that same topic, the first 2 carries leverage purposes or Machiavellic purposes as the major reason for you to maintain friendship with your ex, that's if you perceived she's way better than you and has tighter connections which you can use as an opportunity to upheave yourself. But you must also know that your ex doesn't have the monopoly of helping you in life. Help from other sources is far beyond help from exes. But this is life, life is a game, and you must accept help whether it comes from your exes or allies.

I'm stating this because of the subtle remarks like forming alpha, forming redpill, anger phase, been emotional, dating trashy women, level of redpill bla bla bla that's flying in the air. And if the persons I mentioned has seen the nuances they would have understand that we all are making same points. It is good we have proper comprehension and understanding of nuances.

And by the way, who said you should cut your ex completely and dump her into the lagoon?No! Never!

But if your coming together with your ex is to quench your "dire" need for sex and hunger as at when due, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck main chick/buddy. She's not your ex, you're only spinning plates. Lol!

I still shalaye why?

Thanks.

Evolutionlove:
Being long waiting to see this "MASTER PIECE" exclusive to shiiithole as you have mentioned. Thank you and God bless you. Case Closed......

CaveAdullam:
It is at the heat of this ex topic that those in desire of their ex e.g Ubunja, gold360, softguy1 etc. started mentioning gifts, connections as a reason to still maintain friendship with an ex. Meanwhile, 1/3 of my posts in regards to the topic was when gold360 insists on going back to his ex when he's in "dire" need of sex and food. And of course going back to your ex for "sex and food" still remains absurd and stupid! Why because there were reasons you choose to dump her regardless of the professional sex and savoury meal she once provided you. If she was good, you would have ignored her foibles and continue with the relationship. But no, you ended it on your own terms. (Except this was not the case, that's both of you strolled out of the relationship without official breakup. And if this is the case, she's not your ex. Considering this, your ex is an ex for a reason.

In 2/3 of my posts on that same topic, the first 2 carries leverage purposes or Machiavellic purposes as the major reason for you to maintain friendship with your ex, that's if you perceived she's way better than you and has tighter connections which you can use as an opportunity to upheave yourself. But you must also know that your ex doesn't have the monopoly of helping you in life. Help from other sources is far beyond help from exes. But this is life, life is a game, and you must accept help whether it comes from your exes or allies.

I'm stating this because of the subtle remarks like forming alpha, forming redpill, anger phase, been emotional, dating trashy women, level of redpill bla bla bla that's flying in the air. And if the persons I mentioned has seen the nuances they would have understand that we all are making same points. It is good we have proper comprehension and understanding of nuances.

And by the way, who said you should cut your ex completely and dump her into the lagoon?No! Never!

But if your coming together with your ex is to quench your "dire" need for sex and hunger as at when due, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck main chick/buddy. She's not your ex, you're only spinning plates. Lol!

I still shalaye why?

Thanks.

softguy1:
STORY


There was this my friend who broke up with this particular babe long time ago (her father is a senator and a prosperous business man).
So this babe came back and was asking for this my guy (her Ex), so they directed her and she later met each other.

According to my guy, before she travelled back they had sex and she gave him 2 million naira gift, which my Guy later use to Start up a business and uptill today he is still exploring with his business.

[b]This my guy was very very stupid to accept sex and such kind of money from her Ex because he was ignorant of the redpill. had it been it was me, I would have rejected such offer because of these reasons:

- I am an Alpha redpiller.
- I always put myself first
-. She is from Nigeria and no Nigerian woman can offer such kind of thing.
- There are millions of women that could offer the same thing ( so why should I accepted it from her)
- and many more readpill reasons.

When he told me he accepted that offer ignoring those redpill reasons above, I was just laughing at his stupidity for accepting such an offer from an Ex.

mhen that guy is a stupid beta simp that need to swallow the redpill so that he will not accept such thing from an Ex again.[/b]

SkyFlint:
https://www.nairaland.com/6347736/kim-kardashian-kanye-west-divorce

Kanye West recently became a billionaire, so he's perfectly ripe for the harvest.

Personally I do not subscribe to preaching the Red Pill, I believe a man would eventually learn of his own accord. Torrents of ceaseless agony from heartbreaks will inevitably push them towards The RedPill.

But cases like this make me want to don a white garment, grab a bell and complement it with a megaphone; walk through the length and breadth of the Earth while screaming the tenets of The Red Pill at the top of my lungs.

I feel so much pain for Kanye West already. He's going to be completely brutalised.

Kim's lawyer is already setting the tone of the case, cleverly stating that their $60M building was "home" to their kids.

Plus, they're saying it's okay for Kim to be ambitious by wanting to get a law degree but it's "crazy sh!t" for Kanye West to be ambitious by wanting to be President.

It's not going to be pretty for Kanye West at all.

What's even worse?

Thousands of men are still going to get married before the end of this week. And thousands more would be proposing marriage.

All to heartless leeches.

CaveAdullam:
It is at the heat of this ex topic that those in desire of their ex e.g Ubunja, gold360, softguy1 etc. started mentioning gifts, connections as a reason to still maintain friendship with an ex. Meanwhile, 1/3 of my posts in regards to the topic was when gold360 insists on going back to his ex when he's in "dire" need of sex and food. And of course going back to your ex for "sex and food" still remains absurd and stupid! Why because there were reasons you choose to dump her regardless of the professional sex and savoury meal she once provided you. If she was good, you would have ignored her foibles and continue with the relationship. But no, you ended it on your own terms. (Except this was not the case, that's both of you strolled out of the relationship without official breakup. And if this is the case, she's not your ex. Considering this, your ex is an ex for a reason.

In 2/3 of my posts on that same topic, the first 2 carries leverage purposes or Machiavellic purposes as the major reason for you to maintain friendship with your ex, that's if you perceived she's way better than you and has tighter connections which you can use as an opportunity to upheave yourself. But you must also know that your ex doesn't have the monopoly of helping you in life. Help from other sources is far beyond help from exes. But this is life, life is a game, and you must accept help whether it comes from your exes or allies.

I'm stating this because of the subtle remarks like forming alpha, forming redpill, anger phase, been emotional, dating trashy women, level of redpill bla bla bla that's flying in the air. And if the persons I mentioned has seen the nuances they would have understand that we all are making same points. It is good we have proper comprehension and understanding of nuances.

And by the way, who said you should cut your ex completely and dump her into the lagoon?No! Never!

But if your coming together with your ex is to quench your "dire" need for sex and hunger as at when due, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck main chick/buddy. She's not your ex, you're only spinning plates. Lol!

I still shalaye why?

Thanks.

softguy1:
I thought collecting the money was a beta move!
Lol.

Some broke ass niggars here will decline an opportunity that will make them rich(more alpha) simply because, it is coming from there Ex. wtf

gold360:
[s]As simple as this sounds, guys Cant understand it,
Its all about your interest, if you're down (which everyone is from time to time) and your ex offers you a helping hand. Grab it, its for YOUR OWN INTEREST... your ex isn't your enemy, the only thing is that by now being redpilled , how manipulative ish can no longer work on you.

Guys saying they Cant roll with their ex anymore are the real SIMPS, because you've not grown balls enough to stand her manipulative skills, so you're still scared hiding behind cut all contacts and draw a boundary crap[/s]

Evolutionlove:
I will try and make my sentence as simple as possible. You sound and reason like a Kid who doesn't really know much about life and haven't seen much about life as well. I'm 1000% certain you and so called ubunja are still under 30years. I can easily deduce comments made by under 30years peeps on here. Although "Age doesn't equates Intelligence In some cases" but believe me Age Is very Important, The Importance of AGE cannot be overemphasized.

CaveAdullam:
It is at the heat of this ex topic that those in desire of their ex e.g Ubunja, gold360, softguy1 etc. started mentioning gifts, connections as a reason to still maintain friendship with an ex. Meanwhile, 1/3 of my posts in regards to the topic was when gold360 insists on going back to his ex when he's in "dire" need of sex and food. And of course going back to your ex for "sex and food" still remains absurd and stupid! Why because there were reasons you choose to dump her regardless of the professional sex and savoury meal she once provided you. If she was good, you would have ignored her foibles and continue with the relationship. But no, you ended it on your own terms. (Except this was not the case, that's both of you strolled out of the relationship without official breakup. And if this is the case, she's not your ex. Considering this, your ex is an ex for a reason.

In 2/3 of my posts on that same topic, the first 2 carries leverage purposes or Machiavellic purposes as the major reason for you to maintain friendship with your ex, that's if you perceived she's way better than you and has tighter connections which you can use as an opportunity to upheave yourself. But you must also know that your ex doesn't have the monopoly of helping you in life. Help from other sources is far beyond help from exes. But this is life, life is a game, and you must accept help whether it comes from your exes or allies.

I'm stating this because of the subtle remarks like forming alpha, forming redpill, anger phase, been emotional, dating trashy women, level of redpill bla bla bla that's flying in the air. And if the persons I mentioned has seen the nuances they would have understand that we all are making same points. It is good we have proper comprehension and understanding of nuances.

And by the way, who said you should cut your ex completely and dump her into the lagoon?No! Never!

But if your coming together with your ex is to quench your "dire" need for sex and hunger as at when due, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck main chick/buddy. She's not your ex, you're only spinning plates. Lol!

I still shalaye why?

Thanks.

MrLucifer:
We underestimate this "Anger stage" a lot, and we overestimate our ability to get out on time.

It's stays on you like a faint odour,even when you think you've moved on higher in redpill knowledge, even when you think you've known it all, that anger stage is almost for a life time.
Anger is ultimately an emotion and decision making based on emotions is not part of redpill.
It's a daily struggle, we can't be perfect.

Dpsychologist:
Check out kim Kardashian's past life and you'll see how she always end up in divorce with her estranged husbands. There was a time she married a celebrity and after 72days filed for divorce.

Kim Kardashian is very calculative more like a coded gold digger. She didn't divorce till he is a billionaire.

I guess her new target will be a Billionaire.

What is striking about her and her Family is they keep going for blacks.

oyolohi:
While sex is pleasure to men, it is more of a weapon to women.


Most guys here will almost never simp for a lady, however, we fail to ask ourselves questions such as: if sex was a being, am I a simp for it?
Can I willingly say no to sex even with a erection?


You wouldn't be far from liberation the moment you start asking yourself such questions. The day you stop simping for sex among other weapons such as religion, government, etc., you'll attain a bulletproof state in a world full of gun welding individuals.

waywardpikin:
Always deal with a woman with one leg out the door. You stick around accepting favours from her thinking you're smart and that's how you catch some serious insults.

How many women even offer tangible help without some serious strings attached to start with?


I laugh in witchcraft.

Skepticus:
I have always wanted to delve into the political, religious and socioeconomic part of the red pill, especially leaning towards MGTOW and its relation to our part of the world (Africa) but I get stuck with the dating/relationship/marriage part of it which incorporates some elements of PUA themes called GAME/GAMING WOMEN.

Some "lazy" guys here have complained about us talking "too much theory". I don't blame them. Our "needs" in the red pill are different as we are at different stages of life and understanding of the red pill. For most here, i have observed that it is either to get laid, manage dating issues and for some others, marriage issues. It's okay, though. Overtime, I have found them bland and boring. Too many intricacies and society-specific peculiarities.

I want to talk about Ayn Rand's philosophy of OBJECTIVISM (Ayn Rand and her philosophy is held in high esteem among MGTOWs), Capitalism and Free thought. As it is, this thread would not do for these and just like it was suggested for the red pill thread for business and investment, we may need a thread for it at some point in time to CLEAR things up.

waywardpikin:
I dunno why you bother. Sèx and food from an ex? I am disgusted.

Even if it's for worthy connections, who she epp?

You don't go about accepting help from anyone and even if you do you have to gauge and measure if it's worth accepting, it is usually not worth the hassle in the end.

How have you been living your life that it is only your ex that has the key to your destiny in your hands? This level of thinking is absurd.

Sometimes even, it may come to a choice between choosing your ego or accepting her useless help, bearing in mind that any so-called help from a female species come with strings attached. Deny it if you will. For someone like me, I'll choose my ego if necessary. I don't live my life hoping to be at the mercy of anyone for anything.

I had a married ex who came out of the blues trying to rekindle past memories and whatnot. She has always been a boss lady doing well for herself. Back in school, I nearly got married to her due to pressure from her and her family to settle down. Bear in mind that I was a broke aśs final year student. Nevertheless, they assured me that they would sponsor the wedding and set me up for life. However, they refused to get me anything to do while mounting pressure on me to get married to their daughter. Who does that?

I analysed the situation and saw it wasn't good for me and so I jakpaed for my life. This is despite the fact that they rented a two bedroom apartment for I and their daughter, and were even offering me a job in her (single) mother's company. It struck me as a tale similar to the story of Esau who sold his birthright for a pot of porridge.

I broke up, collected all the curses and swears they had to throw at me and kept it moving. Babe resurfaced in 2019 with tales of love and repentance. She's even bigger than she was before financially, running a branch of her mother's outfit in Lagos with two personal cars for her to do as she pleased. At that time I'd bought and sold my first car. Bought from the proceeds of pure hustle and sold in order to meet up with demands from family. If u be first son u go know say e no easy.

I asked about her husband, she told me they were divorced. My birthday came around and I threw a small party at the beach, she saw proceedings on WhatsApp, complained she was bored and I didn't invite her. I told her to come if she wanted to. She came around in record time... from Ikorodu o!

We got wasted, ended up having sèx in the back of her car, she took me home, we had sex the morning after, a leg of my sneakers got missing and I had to go back home with a pair of bathroom slippers. My missing sneaker turned up "miraculously" weeks later which she offered to bring back to my place. She brought it along with my birthday gift. All the while, she was down for whatever, friends with benefits, relationship, friendship. All she wanted was to have me in her life. But ultimately it must have been for a purpose, one which I may not be favorable towards.

We had sèx that final time, and afterwards I ghosted her. She's richer than me and better off. I don't feel like I missed anything ghosting her, because eventually when it becomes clear that I'm not able to give her what she desperately wants, I might not be able to predict what she would do in retaliation. The easiest way to harm a man is either through food and sex. If you go about accepting favours, that would be the quickest way to receiving some disrespect.

I guess I'm in the minority on this, but I don't live my life believing that any one person holds the key to my ultimate breakthrough. Not family, not friends, talk less of an ex. And statistically speaking, the people in the first two categories are more likely to offer life-changing help to you before a useless ex. Let's just be real for a second. Unless your family and friends are nothing to write home about.


Food and sex from an ex? I laugh!


That's how I 'rented' a relationship for a little over a month. It featured intense penising and all the works. When she started showing red and indigo lights, I cut my losses and ran. No stress, no quarrel, nothing. I no get time.

That's how she messaged me out of nowhere that she was around my area and she wanted to see me. See me? Me wey chop you run? What if she wanted to come and pour me battery acid? What if she was on a revenge mission?

You see, where most men would think about sex and food and other fringe benefits, I think about SAFETY FIRST! Women are not so nice and if you give them the chance they will fùck you up totally.

In fact, sometimes it is better to toast a new girl afresh and turn her into what you want her to be (even if it's for a short time), than going back to an EX. An ex ain't no fuçking unicorn. You fùcking left her for a reason!

Most times, you will find that the juice is not worth the squeeze. No one man/woman has the key to your destiny. Copy that!


XOXO.

Martinez39s:
I remember a story on this forum about a guy that broke up with his gf. The gf called the police on him and claimed he stole her 30k whereas she had given it to him as a gift during the relationship. From my experience, it seems like for women, most at least, that anything you give them is a gift but anything they give you is a loan or has some conditions attached to it. Can women be of substantial help? Maybe, but I will rather take my chances and live as if my destiny is entirely in my own hands.

Edit: I am not saying you should your ex's enemy.

Martinez39s:
I remember a story on this forum about a guy that broke up with his gf. The gf called the police on him and claimed he stole her 30k whereas she had given it to him as a gift during the relationship. From my experience, it seems like for women, most at least, that anything you give them is a gift but anything they give you is a loan or has some conditions attached to it. Can women be of substantial help? Maybe, but I will rather take my chances and live as if my destiny is entirely in my own hands.

Edit: I am not saying you should your ex's enemy.

Evolutionlove:
Seems you are less busy and playing around lol.....

Evolutionlove:
I will try and make my sentence as simple as possible. You sound and reason like a Kid who doesn't really know much about life and haven't seen much about life as well. I'm 1000% certain you and so called ubunja are still under 30years. I can easily deduce comments made by under 30years peeps on here. Although "Age doesn't equates Intelligence sometimes" but believe me, The Importance and experience that comes with AGING cannot be overemphasized. I actually broke up with my ex because we are not "Spiritually Compatible" She seems to have this "Bad Energy" which usually slow things down for me and It was affecting my carrier badly plus she Isn't a well to do financially lady. But she loves me like mehn, She did all she could to stick with me but I had to use my senses and stood my ground. It's really a long story. The message I'm trying to pass Is "Your reasoning Is very shallow and childish and your hasty generalization sounds very absurd......

waywardpikin:
THE 48 LAWS OF POWER

LAW 40: DESPISE THE FREE LUNCH

"What is offered for free is dangerous—it usually involves either a trick or a hidden obligation. What has worth is worth paying for. By paying your own way you stay clear of gratitude, guilt, and deceit. It is also often wise to pay the full price—there are no cutting corners with excellence. Be lavish with your money and keep it circulating, for generosity is a sign and a magnet for power."

Of course, I know that there are know-it-alls whose understanding and level of Game/Red Pill surpasses everybody else's. They are operating on a god-tier level that no one else can comprehend or meet up with. The above excerpt is not for them since they know better.

Evolutionlove:
I will try and make my sentence as simple as possible. You sound and reason like a Kid who doesn't really know much about life and haven't seen much about life as well. I'm 1000% certain you and so called ubunja are still under 30years. I can easily deduce comments made by under 30years peeps on here..

ubunja:
if women are not central to the RedPill message then take this thread to another section of NL, eg investment, and see if it will catch on. It won't.

Men's problem is not money or whatever. It's women.men can make money well on their own. But it's sex, love and romance where men have headaches. Hence the Red Pill.

Don't get it twisted. The Red Pill is not some virtuous movement that will uplift society. If every man became redpill society will collapse in record speed. Red Pill is basically selfishness that preserves the man but that ultimately harms society. individual men will improve their lives by becoming red pill but if enough men become red pill society will go to shiit. No man will want to go to war to fight and die for country. No man will self sacrifice. Etc. The RedPill are shortcuts to life that benefit individuals but harm the collective. Just like gold digging. If enough women become gold diggers everything will collapse.

And to try to separate game and redpill is very laughable. I'm not even going to waste time on that.
Research anew your redpill themes you'll see the error of your ways.

Lol. Red Pill is not about women!!yet this whole thread is 100% wailings and lamentations on women. Lmfao. Dude!