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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Mekudi: 7:49am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Afromentalist:best comment 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by UnBanEbenezer(f): 7:51am On Jan 09, 2021 |
ceeceeuwa:Amen my dear. Kindly read the quoted text again. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nobody: 7:52am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Women and not having common sense. Tufia. Gifts bring you before great men indeed. How about the value of the visit and acclimatisatiin with future inlaws? I don't blame you all. You people have always prefered a rich baboon that will treat your family like gutter pigs than a comfortable man that will treat you like royalty. God punish entitlement mentality. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Fiscus105(m): 7:52am On Jan 09, 2021 |
shantti: Go back to my last comment, I see full correction. Schooling abroad again! Thank God that I schooled in Nigeria, I am still be able to correct 'obodo oyibo guy grammatical blunders, abroad guy doing menial job for White people. I guess you will move higher from abroad to heaven |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Greatlee54: 7:58am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Too many kids on nairaland. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 8:04am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Bennysam:Did I say gift everyday? Yes you right, a reasonable mother shouldn't bring up such. Personally I thought it was his first visit |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by missymide: 8:05am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Even though i do not support how the mum reacted and she herself eventually, most men ranting here have mothers who have done worse things to their girlfriends on their first or second visit to their mums. It is then their mothers will be giving nonsense attitudes as if they want to marry their sons. The whites, we are trying to copy will visit with a bottle of wine, box of chocolate etc. When visiting someone be it friends or family, a gift is advisable. Except you have now become a regular visitor then that wont be necessary every time. #Menhavemomswhoaremoreguiltyofthis# |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by m140(m): 8:05am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Mariangeles:My own dey complain I no dey come, Me no dey wan go sef |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 8:06am On Jan 09, 2021 |
AngryIgboDon:Abi na. God punish entitlement mentality. Na that same mentality that makes politicians steal public fund like it's their village property |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ceeceeuwa: 8:07am On Jan 09, 2021 |
UnBanEbenezer: |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 8:10am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Abeg stop typing, English no be by force, i didnt understand a single thing you wrote here. Even you that typed this shit, did you understand what you typed 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by TOPCRUISE(m): 8:10am On Jan 09, 2021 |
She call her name traceey. If you bear those names you are a red flag to me. Slay queens, olosho leeches are fond of adopting names like Traceey, Nelly. The name their mama no give them 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 8:12am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Fiscus105: Abeg stop typing, English no be by force, i didnt understand a single thing you wrote here. What are you even trying to say. Even you that typed this shit, did you understand what you typed. Just imagine yourself participating in a school debate, i can already see the students and moderators being mesmerized with confusion, your debate team will just give up and apologize to their opponent, Abeg someone should help me summarize the rubbish this meniac wrote here, i would appreciate it 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Minemrys: 8:12am On Jan 09, 2021 |
SweetCunt97:the way you even call it ordinary is what i d0n't get. Did she labor in his hands to be expecting ordinary bread or whatever? If it's so ordinary, why the fuss? Here's the thing the mama no try, and the babe wey ma go c0nfr0nt the guy the way she do, no get wisd0m. What the eff with the expectati0ns sef? A freaking gift? Haba, i d0n see gr0oms dy go visit in laws without gifts, and n0thing happened. No fuss. Married or n0t, no one owes the in laws [be the gr0om or bride] anything m0netary or whatever when c0ming for a social visit for it to be carried as a big deal. H0nestly, i d0n't like your reas0ning. Because he intends to marry doesn't make him a slave absent freewill till eternity. Gift maybe n0thing, but the fact there's a problem because of it, is what we are saying. Besides, the Lady use her m0uth talk say prior visits the guy bring s0mething for the mama. Relati0nships fall apart because of t0o much expectati0ns over little things. It's n0t slavery n0r a job. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Nellsworld(m): 8:12am On Jan 09, 2021 |
46arcadez:Ok i get it, but still he should ve still gotten something, even if na bread, we are Africans, especially 9ja we do not go to an elderly house empty handed, or he should ve given an excuse, although the said lady shouldn't ve told him on the phone like that, she should ve codedly told him wen she visit him, like joking abt it and explaining y it is done cos not everyone was brought up like that, like me, i was trained in a way that even if am going to see any elderly person, i must go with something. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by nams77: 8:13am On Jan 09, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:Guy you cracked me with your response Just imagine? The average lady in Nigeria sees marriage and relationship as investment opportunities. This is how dey will push the poor man into robbing a bank or committing a crime so he can meet up to their warped expectations. Men don suffer for this country. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 8:13am On Jan 09, 2021 |
SweetCunt97:but from d op write up the guy has been visiting before and d mum expects gift everyday |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by tesseract: 8:13am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Miarose:No mind her... They don't know. They are already exposing themselves. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 8:14am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Minemrys:Guy calm down na. Do what makes you happy. Simply catching cruise here oo. Lolzz. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 8:14am On Jan 09, 2021 |
osazsky:OK that's bad. Make she no go spoil everything for d girl. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 8:16am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Nellsworld:Please not everyone understands this kinda training so let them be. They are already quoting slavery, freewill, job, poverty! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by emonis88: 8:16am On Jan 09, 2021 |
it can still b corrected. he can still send her something but if u r still angry u can go n marry ur mother. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 8:16am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Nellsworld:ok as there was no money for bread d bictch couldnt cover up for the guy..ok mum i forgot to tell you o..he sent me 5k to give u the money is in my acc..then she sends her mum 5k..no wonder we dont have mothers again...imagine wat this woman trained and one innocent man is comming to get her as a wife wat a pitty |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by aviona: 8:19am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Entitlement mentality everywhere. There are numerous men who did not take a PIN to their would be in-laws, until the main introduction, (nobody complained) and they are happily married till today. So do they cease to Africans or Igbos? Misplaced priority shown by some folks here is simply irritating and annoying. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by SweetCunt97(f): 8:19am On Jan 09, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:Savage. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 8:19am On Jan 09, 2021 |
emonis88:u dont know how we men think..even if the relationship continues d guy will continue to look down on her morher and pretend that all his well.i just pray d guy didnt open up to any of his sibblings or parents after this chidish and foolish act by the girl 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by pek(m): 8:20am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Trayceey:This shows how confused and immature you are. You are not defending your mum but you called the guy, picked a fight with him and hung up on him. Take five. You try. Next! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by VanBommel(m): 8:21am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Trayceey:this is where Nigerian girls got their leeching behaviour from |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by johhnnie(m): 8:21am On Jan 09, 2021 |
GayPontiff: I sincerely hope that when the time comes that the man decides to take a second wife, you will happily quote that we are Africans. And, that African culture/tradition supports polygamy. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by tesseract: 8:23am On Jan 09, 2021 |
Graxie: So she should throw the baby away with the bath water...? This your advise shows that you don't have any sense. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 8:25am On Jan 09, 2021 |
johhnnie:what really happened to polygamy.used to love those days while growing up as a child and d commands it respect...wish we could go back...but white men don confuse us |
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