The greatest gift God gave to mankind is the ability to make a choice. As far as it works for you my brother, stick to it

Noted

I want it

powerhouse3:
sirjamesjnr....sound like a name my people (akwa ibom) could love to bear....


Any I doubt if AKWA ibom got SIMPle man,like op


Funministic queen is whom you hype like these to high heaven..... she's yet to use her uncouth mouth on you...

not wishing you bad here ,but when it's hit the brick ,be smart enough to lets us know where both of you got wrong..

No wonder!!! You are salty about me for a reason. I can't even bother, happy new year!!

It happened in this movie


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ziZ-6k-T8o

bigpicture001:


You will later complain..trust me u will..u are only carried away by her personalities. Later attension,submissiveness ,togetherness will catch up with u......I currently date a more super woman than all you just said...but everyone adjusted till we found a compromising balance from both of us....

Remember my moniker and hit me up when reality starts to creep in

Wow!! Nairalanders can never be happy for other people, can they?!

sirjamesjnr:
She has seen the thread.

If she has indeed seen this thread, her respect for you has dropped a little. Smh.

Keep your frame bro, very important, else she’ll start feeling she is too good for you.

All these sounds like a poetry or psalms to me.....you took the decision to date a high value lady n was enjoying it , yet you are kicking against any one doing same. ...

I just like that word 'Simping'

High valued lady? Or a high earning one?

Every lady has a high value

Not everyone is lucky

Tejuri:


If she has indeed seen this thread, her respect for you has dropped a little. Smh.

No it hasn't!! He's a wonderful person and will continue to be. The people I lost respect for are some nairalnders who wont let the past go!!

Red7:
Educate us, this time don't write a prose. We need you to answer this kweshion one by one like you're talking to an high school student.

List top five compromises you make to make your relationship with your high flyer lady work

List top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better


Do this by answering the questions in the best possible way and we'll have you both on CNN live with Larry King

How about compromises BOTH have to make?
And things BOTH could adjust?

Self - centredness is bane of love

bro just trust her and fellow your heart

Na funmisticqueen be your bae!!Let me not talk
Just check my signature.

Not those stupid girls like Trayceey who you take home and their mothers start crying that you didn't buy bread for them.

The title should be: "My experience dating a crappy Nigerian doctor". Nigerian doctors based in Nigeria know next to nothing. They love to form busy but can only prescribe panadol and malaria drugs for patients.

The understanding between this two is great.

sirjamesjnr:
Yes, She won't have time for me. She doesn't have time for herself either . But trust me she always takes out her precious nap and food time, just to talk to me .

I visit her workplace she wouldn't have time to say hi also I have to sleep three nights in different hotels to be able to see her. I got angry one day and ask her, how will she take care of my kids when we marry.

When she is with me, I never want that moment to end. Our romantic life has had to suffer a lot of time because of duty calls. I have to get myself busier so I don't get emotional. she is honest and blunt, doesn’t beat around the bush. Sometimes I have to win her with a strong argument and points.

She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more.. understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.

As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. She knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.

Learn from me, if you can't compromise in some area never date a high valued woman. With slay mamas wannabe, You have no issue, all you need is your time and money and you are the boss.

It will still end in premium tears.

Mark my words.

Red7:
Educate us, this time don't write a prose. We need you to answer this kweshion one by one like you're talking to an high school student.

List top five compromises you make to make your relationship with your high flyer lady work

List top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better


Do this by answering the questions in the best possible way and we'll have you both on CNN live with Larry King

Larry King is down with COVID-19.

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

Listen to this man OP.

While it may not be low self esteem, I think OP has just never dated a woman who has her life together so he is over the man on this one.

ValCon888:
Any relationship that is harder than further maths will drive you crazy.
Premium tears loading for OP.

DrFunmisticGlow:
we came up with the answers together. Thanks so much

Aunty you don calm down o. Love good o. I remember as you been dey hyper everywhere.
Sirjamesjnr continue loving her Abeg. So she can be calming down on nairaland.

Don't rely on her completely, make life for yourself to keep the balance otherwise at some point you'll loose major of regard as the head!

Tejuri:


Listen to this man OP.

While it may not be low self esteem, I think OP has just never dated a woman who has her life together so he is over the man on this one.

Two bitter souls. Both you and the one you quoted.

Lmao. All this male redpillers and Alpha whatever will drag the OP
I believe OP is mature enough to know that everything shouldn't be brought to SM.
If you value her as you claim, you can send this to her privately.
Nairaland Alpha male wannabe's will only shove their opinions down your throat till you end up finding faults in your woman that aren't there there.
My advice, delete this thread while your sanity is still intact

Do not allow NL boys discourage you.
it takes understanding and patience for any relationship to work.
Those complaining about an independent woman will still complain about a dependent woman.
Live your life. Trust me, she will know where to compromise.

You wan marry a female doctor and you yourself no rich. I pity you.