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This is the greatest lie of the new year. Doctors have more time than most civil servants.

This guy is just faking story to creat traffic. Call duty gives doctors 24 hours work and 3 to 4 days off. Even doctors in private practice have time as well.

Am sick of all these fake news or stories here. Maybe he want to tell us he is dating a doctor and was dying of the hallucinating joy because of low self esteem.

Chii59:
Two bitter souls. Both you and the one you quoted.

When a man tells another man the truth, this is always the angle you women take, I wonder why.

He is way too excited, like a teenage boy who is having a girlfriend for the first time, I just asked him to calm down.

...

This guy is on self Consolidation! You need more of her time, but don’t have it.

iLegendd

I think you are suffering but lying to yourself. All the same.........well done.

bmdnamixer:
what is this one even writing self i got bored half way, all this Shakespeare wanna be

I must confess, it was a tough read

Wittyglam:
I'm happy you found your balance.

Unlike you


I know this is not a true-life story....op just want us to get engaged with his cooked up story....

Anyway, I read it and it was interesting ....but I doubt any African high-value lady that is not arrogant and saucy...

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

I totally agree with you. Op is trying to comfort himself with this writeup

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, infact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

Lol bro you just hit the nail on the head

Dear Op, accept the fact that she will never have your time. You may think you'll be able to cope with her work and all but I bet you in future you'll definitely have regrets. If you're the type of man that loves attention and all then don't dig any further.

This topic is more like a poetry for your high value working class woman

See how he got me reading like I have an exam.
Nice Post but then what about them kids or is she gonna take care of them kids like that?

sirjamesjnr:
You are dragging me out but I have to come clean.
Five top Sacrifices
1: Five years of good friendship with an American lady: I have to choose between Green card( working opportunities) or my girl.
2: I have to explain every motive sometime with proofs. ( I like being the boss in my relationship)
3:I had to endure a less romantic moment: due to her job, babe is always on calls.
4: I put up a lot of patience dealing with her: Last time we met I slept in three different hotels, spend good money, endure Lagos noise for three days before she could find time to be with me.
5: Always be the one travel to come meet her: Only once my babe visits me in Abuja. I like hosting my girl but I can't for now.
These are huge compromises for me.
Top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better
1:Absolute Trust.
2: step up romantic words and deed
3: Find time to read books with me
4: Putting me first before her family
5: Go on a vacation with me.

Oga you dey speak grammar,you mean you forfeited greencard because of a woman?
The girl Is not really into you,like you did ,forget all those tight work schedule,if a woman really likes yo,that won’t be an excuse .So far you are more or less like a sacrificial lamb and i pray you don’t regret your action .What gives you the assurance that the girl will marry you at last ?I Sorry for you .

Oga. So after all this ur sermon wat do u us to do

Summary pls??

sirjamesjnr:
Yes, She won't have time for me. She doesn't have time for herself either . But trust me she always takes out her precious nap and food time, just to talk to me .

I visit her workplace she wouldn't have time to say hi also I have to sleep three nights in different hotels to be able to see her. I got angry one day and ask her, how will she take care of my kids when we marry.

When she is with me, I never want that moment to end. Our romantic life has had to suffer a lot of time because of duty calls. I have to get myself busier so I don't get emotional. she is honest and blunt, doesn’t beat around the bush. Sometimes I have to win her with a strong argument and points.

She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more.. understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.

As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. She knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.

Learn from me, if you can't compromise in some area never date a high valued woman. With slay mamas wannabe, You have no issue, all you need is your time and money and you are the boss.

Just dating a Dokita abi Doctor make u de write all these Mills and Boon stories for, odikwa egwu oh, wetin guys weh come De date young managers working with IOCs go do Na, maybe release a full music album




My brother see eh, if you are making like 3m to 5million monthly every month as a guy based in Nigeria (not all those abroad $$ based income our people ignorantly convert to Naira and start to scream), believe me, u will be dating Kiki Osinbajo and not give a fvck about who her father is.

Your problem is you seem to be far below her income status and maybe your perceived class.


But a Doctor is not that big na, Doctors don't earn much in Nigeria to warrant this big grammar lol, na wa oh


#talkingfromexperience

[quote author=sirjamesjnr post=97891523]. I did further mathematics in high school, so I can handle this. [/quote


Nice response. No mind the OLODO.. Slaymana and sharp 2k girls are his type

OP better run for your life while you can. Female doctors are better off as single ladies. They chop gbola from their male counterparts and most time fvck their patients. Most of the acts take place during night shifts when you the husband will be at home playing the role of house wife. And she won't give a damn about you cos she has got the money. Op, I am talking to you as a friend. Run while you can!



Another thing is that any patient she saves from dying will be attached to her. And satan come punish you, she come get feelings for the guy, na everyday fvcking with the patient be that o. The song "Night Nurse" by Gregory Isaacs comes to mind. My guy you better run like the wind and never, I repeat, and never look back!

Nice post to an extent, but not for my kind.

For iLegend, me and my woman will be billionaires without working day and night and with all the time in the world to catch cruise.

No work obstruction. I don't compromise quality time for money/work. I compromise money for quality time.

This is why men should work smarter to avoid being in OP's shoe. At last, he will raise another man's child.

The woman is in control and she subtly dictates all in the name of work.

I guess you poured out your heart in this write up. Dr. Funmi might need to read it well and make some adjustments.
You are a good man.
All the best to both of you in your relationship. Cheers!

sirjamesjnr:
Yes, She won't have time for me. She doesn't have time for herself either . But trust me she always takes out her precious nap and food time, just to talk to me .

I visit her workplace she wouldn't have time to say hi also I have to sleep three nights in different hotels to be able to see her. I got angry one day and ask her, how will she take care of my kids when we marry.

When she is with me, I never want that moment to end. Our romantic life has had to suffer a lot of time because of duty calls. I have to get myself busier so I don't get emotional. she is honest and blunt, doesn’t beat around the bush. Sometimes I have to win her with a strong argument and points.

She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more.. understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.

As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. She knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.

Learn from me, if you can't compromise in some area never date a high valued woman. With slay mamas wannabe, You have no issue, all you need is your time and money and you are the boss.

Wasn't able to finish ops novel

All I'm seeing is just premium tears loading ..
A full grown man with low self esteem.have seen your type bro ,they be chasing my colleagues all in the Hope' of marrying a doctor loool it usually never ends well .

Rollo thomassi said ..when a woman wants to be with you ,she would crawl through barbed wire ,scale fence etc just to be with you ..not all these nonsense jare .
Doctors leave the hospital at 4 PM by the way except they are on call

jawalis:
All I see in picture is a man with a very low self esteem who bows at the hearing of a female doctor. Trust me, yes You have a low self esteem. I can bet you are one of the people who worship doctors, lawyers and engineers. I’ll advise you work on your self esteem, Work on it and you will realize you are been enslaved. Forget all these high value silliness. It’s just what you think in your mind. I have worked with a female doctor here in Lagos who is social too. All of these blah blah blah about sleeping in 3 different hotels before you could meet her is trash. It’s not as if she work with National hospital or is she the only doctor in the hospital where she works? I read you stated that she had colleagues. So she don’t just value you as you portrayed, you are only trying to comfort yourself by those jargons you wrote up there. Not having time for you and you moving from one place to another just to see the woman whom you claimed took you for her colleague is not an evidence of high value woman. She’ll definitely make time for you if she respects and value you like you did for her. The doctor friend I have got married in 2018. She works with 2 different hospitals and still balance up her social life. All I see in your case is a man who has a low self esteem and got flattened by a doctor. Been a doctor doesn’t make a woman high value, ok? Adesua Etomi is more career oriented and trust me, she made up her time for Banky. We all know Funke Akindele’s family. So wake up and address her or you walk away. We have lots of female doctors on Nigeria, in fact; There are hundreds of them out there. There are female barristers, female accountants and engineers who earn decently. So stop the foolishness in your heart and confront her.

You got these words right outta my mouth. Does being a doctor automatically make one "high value"? The level of asslicking I see in his write up is nauseating, to say the least.
Mind you, I'm married to a doctor. All through our dating months, she was very available. Whoever values you will make himself/herself available

Op I wish your woman will give you more time because for you to complain a little about it in the first place means it troubles you. I'm no relationship expert but I feel you both should take out time and discuss this thoroughly. Enjoy

Tejuri:
When a man tells another man the truth, this is always the angle you women take, I wonder why.

He is way too excited, like a teenage boy who is having a girlfriend for the first time, I just asked him to calm down.

Is he you? Are you him? What gives you the right to think that just because you FEEL something about someone's relationship, that's what's happening?
Very presumptuous of you, old man.
Stop projecting your insecurities onto others.

Red7:
Educate us, this time don't write a prose. We need you to answer this kweshion one by one like you're talking to an high school student.

List top five compromises you make to make your relationship with your high flyer lady work

List top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better


Do this by answering the questions in the best possible way and we'll have you both on CNN live with Larry King

You don't need all those epistle and tutorials brother, all u need to do is keep working hard and smart and then pray for God to bless the works of your hand, believe me, once your hustle start paying eh, you will never give a damn about the status of any lady honestly.


Can't you see how Anichebe, Anthony Joshua and co no even send Billionaire Otedola daughter despite that she is the daughter of a billionaire The reason is because those guys are ballers, they must have dated girls with higher profile than DJ Cuppy so them no go even notice her for serious stuff, that's how life works.



Learning one million ways to keep a rich Lady or high income earning lady is a waste of time, all you need to do is be successful and focused on your own money making business or career, Na she go De crack her head on how to make you happy and keep you amidst plenty other better ladies than her around you.


Women were created for a man to appreciate and have not the other way round.

BLoomfrancs:
OP better run for your life while you can. Female doctors are better off as single ladies. They chop gbola from their male counterparts and most time fvck their patient. Most of the acts take place during night shifts when you the husband will be at home playing the role of house wife. And she won't give a damn about you cos she has got the money. Op, I am talking to you as a friend. Run while you can!

Nice assertion ..looks like something off a nigerian movie tbh

It's difficult for people that don't have much good going on in their lives to be happy for others. You cannot give what you don't have.

DrFunmisticGlow:
Wow!! Nairalanders can never be happy for other people, can they?!

Peelee

DrFunmisticGlow:
we came up with the answers together. Thanks so much

Ok you are quality already

Who ask this guy all these?