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showafrica:
Be nice with words, don't call him foolish. What you don't know is bigger than you, he needs some red pills. That woman no value am that much, I am suspecting the guy never see pant self. I can't hang around for 3 days just to see a woman who claims busy. The guy looks like he wanna dig gold from the she doc.

sirjamesjnr:
You are dragging me out but I have to come clean.
Five top Sacrifices
1: Five years of good friendship with an American lady: I have to choose between Green card( working opportunities) or my girl.
2: I have to explain every motive sometime with proofs. ( I like being the boss in my relationship)
3:I had to endure a less romantic moment: due to her job, babe is always on calls.
4: I put up a lot of patience dealing with her: Last time we met I slept in three different hotels, spend good money, endure Lagos noise for three days before she could find time to be with me.
5: Always be the one travel to come meet her: Only once my babe visits me in Abuja. I like hosting my girl but I can't for now.
These are huge compromises for me.
Top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better
1:Absolute Trust.
2: step up romantic words and deed
3: Find time to read books with me
4: Putting me first before her family
5: Go on a vacation with me.

The5DME:
Doctor, has that guy fvcked you before? I'm sure you will let him beg before you give him sex.

Smh

DrFunmisticGlow:
No it hasn't!! He's a wonderful person and will continue to be. The people I lost respect for are some nairalnders who wont let the past go!!

Hassanmaye:
Hahha Are you sure which hospital do you go when you are sick?

Nuel4:
the guy is a joke. What's a "high value woman" so the one I'm dating is a hoodlum abi? What's my business with your woman's business?

Victorclean1:
This is the greatest lie of the new year. Doctors have more time than most civil servants.

This guy is just faking story to creat traffic. Call duty gives doctors 24 hours work and 3 to 4 days off. Even doctors in private practice have time as well.

Am sick of all these fake news or stories here. Maybe he want to tell us he is dating a doctor and was dying of the hallucinating joy because of low self esteem.

Humorme2:
Lmao. All this male redpillers and Alpha whatever will drag the OP
I believe OP is mature enough to know that everything shouldn't be brought to SM.
If you value her as you claim, you can send this to her privately.
Nairaland Alpha male wannabe's will only shove their opinions down your throat till you end up finding faults in your woman that aren't there there.
My advice, delete this thread while your sanity is still intact

emmachukwu99:
So you have all the time in the world to quote people upandan here okwa ya? Yet you can't devote time for Ur man and he's here lamenting and pretending..

Raalsalghul:
I thought "Men are scum" in your dictionary.

Albertone:
Only brokeness and frustrations can make someone attack another person who didn't even say something bad in the first instance.

No wonder you and your mom broke down when your fiance didn't buy ordinary bread for her....hunger is truly bad.

BiggyB242:
I was surprised, I have seen several of her posts. The babe can argue for Africa, her way of thinking very bias, this guy is definitely a SIMP. See the way he was hyping her guess he fascinated by dating a doctor.

sirjamesjnr:
You are dragging me out but I have to come clean.
Five top Sacrifices
1: Five years of good friendship with an American lady: I have to choose between Green card( working opportunities) or my girl.
2: I have to explain every motive sometime with proofs. ( I like being the boss in my relationship)
3:I had to endure a less romantic moment: due to her job, babe is always on calls.
4: I put up a lot of patience dealing with her: Last time we met I slept in three different hotels, spend good money, endure Lagos noise for three days before she could find time to be with me.
5: Always be the one travel to come meet her: Only once my babe visits me in Abuja. I like hosting my girl but I can't for now.
These are huge compromises for me.
Top five things you would wish for her to adjust to have your relationship better
1:Absolute Trust.
2: step up romantic words and deed
3: Find time to read books with me
4: Putting me first before her family
5: Go on a vacation with me.

12345baba:
Larry dey hospital nah

UDbester:
This is what I will advise you to do, anytime you miss her and wishes to see her so badly, go to the hospital she works, pretend as if you are sick and register to see a doctor making sure it must be her, if you succeed explain to her how you became so sick that seeing her is the only doctor's prescription that can cure you. This act is both romantically and emotional sensible. Thank me later bruh���

The5DME:
Doctor, has that guy fvcked you before? I'm sure you will let him beg before you give him sex.

Smh

Godblessbiafraa:
I swear the relationship will never remain the same after this post lol

DrFunmisticGlow:
please, which place is that?

I will love to work in auch a place

We4all:
Are u one of them crappy doctors? Just say the word and let me settle your matter.

Zeinymira:
I swear bro, this post is the beginning of the end of that relationship.

DrFunmisticGlow:
before I had time to quote u upandan, i called bae and he told me he wanted to sleep

sirjamesjnr:
Yes, She won't have time for me. She doesn't have time for herself either . But trust me she always takes out her precious nap and food time, just to talk to me .

I visit her workplace she wouldn't have time to say hi also I have to sleep three nights in different hotels to be able to see her. I got angry one day and ask her, how will she take care of my kids when we marry.

When she is with me, I never want that moment to end. Our romantic life has had to suffer a lot of time because of duty calls. I have to get myself busier so I don't get emotional. she is honest and blunt, doesn’t beat around the bush. Sometimes I have to win her with a strong argument and points.

She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more.. understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.

As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. She knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.

Learn from me, if you can't compromise in some area never date a high valued woman. With slay mamas wannabe, You have no issue, all you need is your time and money and you are the boss.

mabea:
God bless you sir. All I see here is a potential house boy

Chatflick:
Op I wish your woman will give you more time because for you to complain a little about it in the first place means it troubles you. I'm no relationship expert but I feel you both should take out time and discuss this thoroughly. Enjoy

emmachukwu99:
Biko give that guy some quality time if you love him or want the union.. that's all he's indirectly masticating.

studentofTruth:
Don't say what you don't know. That profession can be extremely demanding, except for consultants. Even at that, the hustle begins at consultant level, unless you want to die poor — you want to consult at my hospitals as you can. For those in private practice, unless you have other doctors working for you, you freedom is the hands of the patients. You may go to bed at 12 am, and the nurses will call you by 1am for emergency CS. You can't tell them to take the patient back, no matter how tired you are. And, in the morning, you start your day as usual.

Take it from me, it can be very very stressful!

cerebralniggie1:
OP is just a SIMP! Simple.
What does he mean by "high value" in the first place?

Priam:
What past are we talking of here?

You mean your past as the cheerleader of the Nairaland coven of man-hating feminazis? Who would have thought that after all your braggadocios you'd be humbled by one SIMPle man.

I only pity all those naïve impressionable young girls you led astray to hating men while you were secretly collecting Vitamin D, bd.