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| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by luminouz(m): 11:38am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Marriage should be contract based,on a five/ten year basis.... The lifelong option is too boring and gives room for so many rubbish, especially for men. If after 5/10 years,Una no fit continue,then you terminate the contract and everyone goes home happy, while you both take custody of the kids. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by ayusco85(m): 11:39am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff:I actually agree with your opinion, we share the same thoughts on almost everything u shared. Alot of people have missed it, and another mistake is not every girlfriend or boyfriend is husband material. There are people u just date but shouldn't marry, there are people that are made to be good wives and husbands. Ur ability to identify each will also help |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by chival(f): 11:39am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Midas01:Incidentally, you see that thing we call romantic love? That "butterflies in the stomach, crazy about you" love? That is the one that unfortunately leads to divorce. It usually comes with crazy and extreme emotions that usually cause problems. Another kind of love - the kind our elderly ones have, is not as sensational as passionte love, but is calmer and more accepting. That's why we see them staying married for 30, 40, 50 years and even longer. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by luminouz(m): 11:40am On Jan 11, 2021 |
slawormiir:For once,you crack me up. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Apktotheworld: 11:40am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Uyi168:Baba oh!! Statistician of life!! You are doing well ![]() |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Romanoff(f): 11:40am On Jan 11, 2021 |
biggy26:Yes I am. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by colestephan86: 11:40am On Jan 11, 2021 |
RealSolution001:I am still of the opinion that, the cause of failed marriages these days is that most ladies feel it's the responsibility of the guy to do everything, while she saves her own money. But In Nigeria of today couple must share the responsibility Grocery and toiletries to the lady Cable TV the lady Gas refill the lady Food the man Gen running everyday the guy Car maintenance the man House rent 60/40 This is the model I use Many guys are overburdened buy doing it all alone. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by sugarleen: 11:41am On Jan 11, 2021 |
slawormiir:
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| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Nobody: 11:41am On Jan 11, 2021*. Modified: 12:31pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
The5DME:For fun you say? Your definition of fun is worrisome. Misogyny is not fun and definitely not for fun. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by guy222: 11:42am On Jan 11, 2021 |
God has already fuckkked me up with six women Five female siblings and my mother So I won't add a wife to it[/quote]Chai!!! Bros i swear down you the vex. See as you just the voke for small matters, but Wait ohh! OG this your weed wey you the drag go bad dieeee i text you, how G's from down town go take feel am na? |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by ayusco85(m): 11:44am On Jan 11, 2021 |
newguy1:You have a point, the blame should be on the individual and not the institution. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by sugarleen: 11:45am On Jan 11, 2021 |
alphaconde:
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| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by ayusco85(m): 11:45am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Uyi168:How did you come up with this statistics? How good a guesser are you? |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Samakus(m): 11:45am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff:My bad |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by ayusco85(m): 11:46am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Commonguy:because nature designed us to be polygamous but they are not ready for this conversation |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by meobizy(m): 11:46am On Jan 11, 2021*. Modified: 12:45pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
You know, you should have gotten the full story before typing this topic. Which kind of “try belle full on this small bread" story is this? |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by sugarleen: 11:48am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff:
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| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by X3MLY(m): 11:48am On Jan 11, 2021 |
slawormiir:You this ganjarised bomber ehn . . . ur matter no be here ![]() |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Uyi168: 11:48am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Apktotheworld:.. It's common sense. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by youngestgrad(m): 11:49am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff:Na so Dem dey talk, na for mouth e dey end. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Chirowman(m): 11:51am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Marriage of this days is a mess both from the men and women .but when God is in control and both individuals in marriage understand themselves .it will survive the test of time especially when there's money to take care of needs. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by cassyrooy(m): 11:54am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff:Well said RomanOff, if only people can slow down and choose their spouses because life get wahala o. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Sunexy(m): 11:54am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff:Lol..coman be my friend ![]() |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Beze992(f): 11:56am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff:Thank you for this sister! Like you rightly said, take away sex, there will be nothing left in most marriages. But the irony is that after reading this and probably every other related write ups on marriage, people will still marry for good sex and beauty and for probably who they have absolute control over, the latter is relatable to the male sex. And you wonder why the failure rate is high. Like I was telling a friend, the truth is the 'Sparks' will certainly die down a bit, and when does, what exactly remains when you're not friends with your spouse, when you both cannot have genuine conversation or even gossip together. How will it survive when most couples have absolutely nothing in common but only got married because of probably physical attractiveness, pretentious humility and financial security. And note, I do not in any way undermine the importance of the latter in marriage. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by JoeEeL(m): 11:56am On Jan 11, 2021 |
alphaconde:OK my bad. I have now read your post again and I see you are the worst and you deserve to forgive her of all she does behind the scenes cos it will never measure up. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Norski15: 11:58am On Jan 11, 2021 |
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| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by MJlee31(m): 11:58am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff:Your opinion is the truth and the best... if only people will adhere to it |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by UOBEN(m): 12:00pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff:you are favoured I swear... |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Yampotatocarrot(m): 12:01pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Romanoff:Very valid points you raised there. I think the issue is, for some men (I inclusive), we don't actually discuss how our day went or any of those other stuffs... And in cases where we even want to do so, 100 times out of 100, we'll rather do so with male friends than females. I think it's high time men desist from marriage and leave it for only those who are comfortable enough to discuss their problems, how their day went, their goals, e.t.c. with the opposite sex... That way, we'll have less of these divorces. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Isokoson1: 12:01pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
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| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by salt1: 12:03pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
AfroKnight:I've been married for years and I'm enjoying every bit of it. So is my spouse. Marriage is life. It throws up the good, the bad and the ugly. Where people like the op get it wrong is in expecting to have only the good and blame their partners when it's not going that way. Are you happy with your life 24/7? Why put the burden of making you happy on another fragile individual. We share our lives, not endure each other. In seeking to make another person happy, you derive the greatest joy. I know that this forum is filled with underaged fellows who are screaming baby mama. Nothing beats the joy of sharing your life in a committed relationship to someone who's exclusively yours. |
| Re: My Guy Said, "O Boy I Don Divorce O". by Olakunleyakub(m): 12:04pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
The answer is very easy Most people get married for a wrong reasons and too much expectations while some are not ripe enough for marriage yet.. Some think marriage is just to have free access to sex but enh it is a complex institution! I don't fancy marriage this days but I think I have PhD in marriage experience! Infact God had used me to unite more than 4 nearly broken homes. Am convinced I can make marriage works by Allah's grace.... I ignored a beautiful and responsible lady green light becos she had too much respect and expectations for me which is not healthy. I asked my two friends who got married last month middle about the journey so far and behold, both of them told that my brother it is not easy at all but nah patient ooooooo..they wanted to start to shalaye I just told them not to tell me cos they don't need a third party now. That is where is most of us got it wrong...the next 3 years of marriage is for the couples to know and understand themselves better and that is why family members or relatives staying with them should not be encouraged at that time.. There are still good homes outside there. My parents are still living together as husband and wife... atleast for now they are my role model. In marriage, Hope for the best and expect the worst.. |
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