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Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 9:24am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Dreyton36: Am gonna be honest because I can't kill me. 1 Sometimes I talk too much I agree 2 Very very expressive. I noticed it's too bad through this relationship I am very physical and passionate with the people and things I love 3 initially she loved me way more than I did her but immediately she started noticing how passionate I was boom attitude start. Person wen dey call me like 5 times a day hardly calls because na me come dey call pass so you're right again I was too expressive 4 I bleeped up and made her find out 5 I have never trusted any girl aside my first love so now am not surprised because I know what I saw in school back then. Uniben 6 Thanks I always suspected she's the bitchy type, especially while having se** na really the bitchy type of sex bro I dey tell u. Wen I connect the dots I see a bitch trying to package me. A whole me 7 Yes sir true talk 8 I smoke strictly high grade stopped smoking Igbo 2016 9 we are different bro, different personality 10 They are not in my top 30 artist but I prefer davido to wizkid. Ronaldo to Messi Like I said am very expressive. Thanks for the time man 3 Likes |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 9:28am On Jan 11, 2021 |
zealousayo: Thanks boss I don learn. I am not the relationship type because my last relationship was years ago. Due to societal pressure ( will never fall for it again ) I decided to cultivate one that will lead to marriage u know this things na. Na so I take enter this one oo bros say make I show care and affection when I never show before and gbam e do me jigijigi lessons well learnt 1 Like |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 9:31am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Stainlezzking: Thanks Alpha. If u see person when u no like loose body go tell you sha. It takes will power like mine to come out 1 Like |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 9:33am On Jan 11, 2021 |
SarutobiEky: I ain't doing relationship no more bro. Lessons well learnt bro |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Xenry: 9:36am On Jan 11, 2021 |
All I see here is a nice guy with a boring chat. |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Dreyton36: 10:11am On Jan 11, 2021 |
kluvert: You're welcome man Never ever run outta Arizona , very important Lights up my kpoli in peace and listening to Burnaboy 23 because I no be 48 1 Like |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 10:17am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Dreyton36: You're my man. That's my best Nigerian song 2020 1 Like |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Dreyton36: 10:20am On Jan 11, 2021 |
kluvert: And remember to freestyle that girl of yours and tell yourself "if I must date any girl she must be from a good background " Lights up my kpoli in double fire , bye |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Jack005(m): 10:31am On Jan 11, 2021 |
Dreyton36:Tuale baba... Nice cappings! 1 Like |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 11:58am On Jan 11, 2021 |
kluvert:Perhaps she found out you smoke and wouldn’t stop anytime soon, then fell out of love with you. No lady in her right senses will look forward to spending the rest of her Fairy tale life with a smoker! Never!!! |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Michelle55: 12:11pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
From all indications, you're the only one questioning and answering them.. Gosh! I hate it when one can't hold down a conversation without the usual ok, wdf, xup and whatnot.. Abeg which planet dem come from sef? Op dust ya ass and move, it's too early to settle for less. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Michelle55: 12:19pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse:OH please spare me the sermon sweetie, she's just not into him anymore. Smoking has nothing to do with the attitude. What right does she have to judge him for smoking if her blood can't wash away his sin? I know that smoking is bad but is it not better than when he drinks to stupor and womanize. No relationship is perfect so choose your battle carefully, i don't want a Saint for a partner because I'm no Saint either. Dude has agreed he has lots of flaws so what's the big deal, to me that's being real. Infact I know understand some ladies sef, when a man is expressive he's been seen as a talkative and when he's quite, he's seen as a slow poison. I just tire! 2 Likes |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by yetunsbay(m): 1:29pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Op, although we know u would have spent on her. The question is, have you yansh her too ? If yes, then u no lose but if No,haaaaaaaaaaaa |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
On a normal day, I wouldnt want to comment but I need you to know from a woman's perspective that I was touched seeing how you opened up and kinda tried to really have a heart-to-heart conversation with this lady but one thing is this " you deserve better Bro" The lack of seriousness, commitment and the response to that very "most " important question you asked , which was; " what do you want from me and For me ?" Which she responded" I want to be happy " gave you all the answers you've been asking ! You are being considered as a side dude and just imagine lots of "ok's" as answers to all the confessions you made. You definitely deserve better. You both aren't on the same IQ level or she just isn't into you ! Cuz it takes a lot for a man to pour out his emotions just like you did up there ! 1 Like |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Fvcknames: 2:40pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
kluvert:To Shalaye mean say u dey over explain. Resist the urge |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Fvcknames: 2:50pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
kluvert:I sabi dis guy |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by OscarJaden(m): 3:07pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
were do ya'll get all this kind of girls that love chatting with 'ok' 'ok' I swear to God I don't care the kind of status you owe once am chatting with you and I notice all this 'ok'... am gonna fucking ghost you no matter the feelings I have for you OP sef to the talk,you just dey throw throw epistle upandan |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 3:53pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse: Funny thing is the first day we had sex I even smoked in the car when I went to pick her, she should have just stopped there. Even the first day we met I was surprised she would give me a listening ear because I was looking so baggard and I had not left the house for two weeks I just went out to get drinks and a pack of rizzla wen I met here. No simping allowed. |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 3:56pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Michelle55: That was what I hated about her she talks smart and acts dumb. I always tell her you're lucky to have someone so expressive as I am and even has the patience to leave other things to hold a conversation with you that is not going to bring me money. I'd rather be on NL reading comments instead. Lol life sha. Don't know if I will ever love again, I swear I don't want to think about it sef |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 3:57pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 4:00pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Michelle55: bless you ma. I couldn't pretend anymore so I held her up so early to have that conversation and am glad I did. I learnt something though, always know your worth |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 4:02pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
yetunsbay: Back to back EPs Can't say I spent on her though. More like independent shit ND I loved it because I wanted her to feel involved Call me a rat � lol the long mouth rat pmsfl |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 4:46pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 4:46pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by McEphiks(m): 4:59pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Too much talk for a man. |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kriss27(m): 5:26pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse:Lol what of girls that smoke? And runs girls too? They too expect a better life |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 5:34pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Classyuniquebae: Thanks. I killed pride just to make my relationship work but it didn't. This is the same girl that knelt down to me in the house and said I should use her the way I like ( jokingly but romantically) I smiled and brushed it off. Well it is what it is. I told myself I deserve better long ago but I didn't want to just tell her straight out. But common sense forced my hand. I sent her the link to this thread and told her to block me on all social media platforms. Dead and gone. Bless me I can breath 2 Likes |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 5:34pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
kluvert:It’s usually like that at the beginning, then reality sets in. She sees her friends boasting about how their men don’t drink and smoke, and she isn’t used to living with someone that smokes probably, then she thinks of the future, the kind of man you’d be and how your kids would feel about their dad smoking etc I’d think this way, anyways! Being a good girl, I fell in love with a drunkard & a smoker, it didn’t stop me from loving him but I knew I couldn’t marry him. Thank God i was saved. |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 5:36pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
kriss27:Yes, they all wished they could change deep down you know? |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kriss27(m): 5:41pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
kluvert:You want her to feel involved as how OP? And what do you mean by EPs and pmsf? |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kluvert(m): 5:47pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
kriss27: Have always been accused of not listening and being too bossy I thought maybe a little change could help u know women complain of their men not listening a lot or hardly having a conversation EP- extended play Pmsfl- pissing myself on the floor laughing. It's a British slang |
Re: Pls � Am I Wrong To Take Her As A Friend With Benefits ? by kriss27(m): 5:50pm On Jan 11, 2021 |
Xilsbridalhouse:So you can't date a guy that smokes? Don't be judgemental, its Nothing |
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