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Taa. Are u a learner? Na koko she yarn u so. Make she die make u marry another wife abi? E no go work for u.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

. She should have kept silent, whatever she would do if she found herself in that position should have been in her heart.

Tajbol4splend:





Easier said than done, would you have chosen to die?

rooftops:
..it is really easy to say she is a hero, can you do such.

Hey! Stop posing that question to me. It's not my portion. Ok? I sincerely wished the girl didn't die. So, enough of all these.

You can go and ask the Ops wife that put herself in the girls shoes that question.

HMM SHE MUST LOVE HEFTY DUDES LOL PROBABLY ONE OF HER BDMN FANTASIES

She is right..

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Hero nobody would remember after the burial? So it's death that's now pleasurable ehn? . And look at how you're running your mouth rudely against somebody's wife. Iyanma. You seem to be everything you typed above

Some women can talk nonsense.
What will happen to her if she had kept quiet? Must she say everything that come to her head?

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Calidra, abi wetin be your name...wot kind of bullshit are u spewing....You mean she died a hero...I don't get uo...u are always forming one saint and prim...but na format. May God help u be honest in ya life. And for ya information...Yes, some ladies enjoyed being raped...some fantasize being raped ..so what's ya point...if not all bullshit

your wife give you a shock of your life becouse she says she will save her life rite? nonsense. when they kill her will you kill yourself? than to live and fucking other girls.

Femich18:


How are you sure she is not feeling same for you.
Brother spill it out your chest. Nothing spoil. She will only say Yes or a No. You no kill person

So how far out relationship u no girls once u toast her n it fails u are no friend anymore

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

This is why some lies are good for the sake of peace sha

All these women married to small boys need to learn how to talk in their presence.
She should have just lied about rather dying than allow them and when the situation arrives in real life she calmly submit and sare her life if rhey refuse to hear her plea for mercy. thrn I am sure you would still dump her afterwards based on your inability to get the picture off your mind for ordinary movie talkless of in real life of course you would expect her to be killed and celebrated (maybe) in your heart as a good wife.

I like her, she is an open minded person, she trust you to the point of telling u this, that is some level of trust. Keep her close, she is worth it.

CalliDora1:



Hey! Stop posing that question to me. It's not my portion. Ok? I sincerely wished the girl didn't die. So, enough of all these.

You can go and ask the Ops wife that put herself in the girls shoes that question.

You were trying to say dying is better than being raped, so that is what provoked my question, not wishing it for you

Baba OP your wife said the bitter truth. Who wants to die? Abeg leave trash for LAWMA to carry. Don't you ever think bad of your wife. You fit swear say you never knack kpako outside your marriage since you and her started living together?

everything you said pointed to one thing.. which is.. bro, you love your wife, and you would be so pained if another man chop her.. love is blind tho..

Your wife was being indiscreetly honest. Although, i understand how you feel however we are humans and we have our various survival instincts towards danger.

You're not completely right.. someone can be overpowered.. drug and get rape.. without option of choosing death.. it unfortunate she was killed. Rape is evil..but any one that pass through it.. and survive can still live normal

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

They might be 30 seconds men. No be my build. Next

chaii what nonsense

Bro.... if the men were all skinny..... would you be shocked by the answer? From the tone of your writing your problem seem to be the built of the men. Is it the thought of such men having your way with your wife that is messing with your head?..... or is it that may be a secret fantasy of your wife? .... or both?

Remind me of a medical student who lost his life because he refused to drop his Samsung 6.

If he had drop his phone, he would have lived to buy another phone.

cayorday89:
She is very wrong for saying that, and if you both eventually find yourselves in such situation and she agrees to the demand of the robbers just to stay alive and you can't bear it, just take your own life.. Case settled..

na you settle this matter pass. A1 for you.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

So you'd rather want your wife dead? I fear Nairaland men.

Heartdanny:
So you would want her to resist them and die? kwata kwata 6months you don marry another wife and soon we will be hearing "stepmother poured hot water on a child of 10yrs and the father joined in beating the child"

So true

StPete:


Your comment has been the most honest and reasonable so far. I mean for crissake, why would a lady just assume rape is pleasurable except of course she's intrigued by the pleasure of it. She wasn't even supposed to make such comments even if she had harboured it in her head

Obviously rape isn't pleasurable but neither is death.

So a Hypothetical situation is what is getting you worked up?

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

You reasoned well! God bless

Stop being selfish bro and face reality abeg

nedekid:

The wife talks without sense. Certainly not smart.
While we agree it is survival instinct, there was no point in her mentioning what she will do faced with such situation.
Somethings best left silent.
Put yourself in the ops shoe, how will you feel if wife says such?
Its just like a man saying he will die to protect his wife, yet we know most men wount. But you do not go telling your wife to her face you wount die for her.

Just shut the fviick up you kid...

The truth is raping a woman is different from raping a man. It will be easy for the wife to get over the raping of her husband but may not be easy for the husband to get over the picture. In that situation these guys will deposit all there semen inside her. Though give or take both are exposed to possible diseases.

I pray for you reading this post that may you and your family never find yourself in an impossible situation. May you never experience such in Jesus name.

Oga you want the truth see the truth and you're here talking of shock...
She has the right to choose between life and death ... she's a good wife and mother, because of forced sex , she will not take care of her children abi ? I respect her so much ..
Oga yiu can give the Armed robber your ass to rape or better still take the bullet for the family ... radarada