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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Sixfeetbelle: 2:28pm On Jan 17, 2021
cooooooks:
What do you mean?

Is rape by 1 less traumatizing than rape by 6?

Are you stratifying rape trauma?


You're the one who was stratifying rape, whatever that means, by saying since some ladies get raped in their younger years, this event wouldn't matter much/differ.

As if any of them suffered rape in the hands of six men at a time and survived.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Sixfeetbelle: 2:29pm On Jan 17, 2021
obstead200:
just pray u don't ever have to make such choice. But trust me, u will choose to live

I won't chose to live. People's mental health are not the same and not everyone remains the same after being raped.

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jan 17, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


What's the assurance that she will survive being raped by six men?



Asides from what we've seen in live orgy porn, there is nothing new under the sun, if women can withstand long hours of labor the probability is high most women would survive rape ... about 9yrs ago i watch a clip of 4 cult boys rape a 17yr old gurl, she kuku survive
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jan 17, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


I value my mental health over my family. If I have to choose between living life with that horrendous event hanging over my head or be dead, I'll choose death.

Life isnt worth living if you're living it in nightmares



Its not out of place, if you put yourself 1st before any family buh the bone of contension here is do you value your pvssy more than your life.

@gunpoint ...... Your life or your pvssy ?

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Sixfeetbelle: 2:39pm On Jan 17, 2021
MLTR:




Its not out of place, if you put yourself 1st before any family buh the bone of contension here is do you value your pvssy more than your life.

@gunpoint ...... Your life or your pvssy ?

What use is your pvssy if your mental health can't allow you to live life normally afterwards?

My problem with guys is that most of you are just seeing this as sex with six men when in actual fact, it isn't. Try having sex with a woman who isn't ready for sex and tell me the sensation you'll get from it. Or even better, try anal with your girlfriend without preparation and tell me what the experience was like. That's what rape is like. Forceful penetration by six guys.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Sixfeetbelle: 2:40pm On Jan 17, 2021
MLTR:




Asides from what we've seen in live orgy porn, there is nothing new under the sun, if women can withstand long hours of labor the probability is high most women would survive rape ... about 9yrs ago i watch a clip of 4 cult boys rape a 17yr old gurl, she kuku survive

And where is the girl right now? How is she living life now?
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by cooooooks(m): 3:22pm On Jan 17, 2021
I never said anything like that.


Take your dishonesty elsewhere.

Sixfeetbelle:


You're the one who was stratifying rape, whatever that means, by saying since some ladies get raped in their younger years, this event wouldn't matter much/differ.

As if any of them suffered rape in the hands of six men at a time and survived.

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jan 17, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


And where is the girl right now? How is she living life now?



How am i suppose know, buh from the video she was conscious enough to leave the premise ... trauma level depends on your mentality.
if i press ur breast maybe you wil cry for 6month, some gurlz wil just curse n move on.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jan 17, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


What use is your pvssy if your mental health can't allow you to live life normally afterwards?

My problem with guys is that most of you are just seeing this as sex with six men when in actual fact, it isn't. Try having sex with a woman who isn't ready for sex and tell me the sensation you'll get from it. Or even better, try anal with your girlfriend without preparation and tell me what the experience was like. That's what rape is like. Forceful penetration by six guys.



Except for instances of STD i don't see how rape can jeopardize the victim mental health, how you view & handle problem is what tells on your health.
We all know rape is a terrible experience, whether one or six .... but the topic on ground is why we are downplaying rape for a life.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jan 17, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


How many experience it with six guys at a time?
I think you've misunderstood his point.

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Tonitoniton(m): 4:12pm On Jan 17, 2021
wemen see their body in different ways.

they are some women that see their body as a sex object and so can do any thing with it or allow it to be used any how, ur woman fall into this category.

they are still some others that see their body as a symbol of womanhood to be respected no matter what, the lady killed falls into this category.

the so called modern woman sees her body as a sex object and to be used as it pleases her and that is their major undoing.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Sixfeetbelle: 4:16pm On Jan 17, 2021
Chii59:

I think you've misunderstood his point.

Okay.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by HRMK: 4:28pm On Jan 17, 2021
u dont state her age!i think she shuld rather av prayed against going through such experience!she is too immatured!!
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Gugle: 4:37pm On Jan 17, 2021
Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?
Why did you allow robbers/rapist to get to your wife in the first place? This implies you have failed one of your duties.

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Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by JJOF(m): 6:05pm On Jan 17, 2021
ubola:
You are myopic in your reasoning. You live to fight another day. A lady in my neighborhood was hacked to death for refusing to let go her iPhone in a robbery situation. She died and the phone was still taken, now how do you justify this.
Nobody, absolutely nobody
Callidora1: SHE WAS AN HERO
grin
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Lydiahandmade(f): 10:09pm On Jan 17, 2021
[quote author=CalliDora1 post=98145650][/quote]the organic bleaching cream you are rubbing on your body is gradually turning your brain into expired relaxer. Anumpama!!! Make sure you don't patronize this shallow minded person cause she doesn't understand "what is Chemistry"
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jan 17, 2021
Lydiahandmade:
the organic bleaching cream you are rubbing on your body is gradually turning your brain into expired relaxer. Anumpama!!! Make sure you don't patronize this shallow minded person cause she doesn't understand "what is Chemistry"

Jealousy and bitterness is written all over your warped brain and comment. Do you know me from Adam? Come on drop the hate and get a life!

Who do you think you are to determine people's patronage in my biz. You're simply pained because what I know in skincare, you'll never smell a quarter of it in your entire acrimonous life.

Let me leave you to continue wallowing in your pains.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by evans4luv: 10:20pm On Jan 17, 2021
So u prefer ur wife to die abi? Just because u want her to satisfy ur selfish desire, guy u are worse than satan, I see no shock in what she say
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by saasala(m): 11:05pm On Jan 17, 2021
Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

You are a very foolish man who deserves to die by firing squad. Seriously? Giving yourself unnecessary headache over something that will most likely NEVER happen. You are a mad man.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Coolgent(m): 11:38pm On Jan 17, 2021
Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?
Oga there is nothing wrong with her statement. Is better to be rape than to be kill mercilessly.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by Lydiahandmade(f): 7:43am On Jan 18, 2021
CalliDora1:


Jealousy and bitterness is written all over your warped brain and comment. Do you know me from Adam? Come on drop the hate and get a life!

Who do you think you are to determine people's patronage in my biz. You're simply pained because what I know in skincare, you'll never smell a quarter of it in your entire acrimonous life.

Let me leave you to continue wallowing in your pains.

big Fool do I sell cream? So y should I be jealous of an idiot like you? I advise them not to buy from you because you look insane. Your comment shows you are typing directly from yaba left. So y should people buy products from some one that has mental issues. I will never smell a quarter of it in my entire acrimonious life., it's only low life people that vomits such out of their miserable mouth.
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by SavageResponse(m): 10:55am On Jan 24, 2021
You're just being childish
Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by antibullshit: 12:40pm On May 08, 2022
Are you saying you would rather have her die than be raped and still alive? Just to satisfy your ego? That's very unfortunate . You are a wicked and selfish person . You're also very petty .Shame on you .

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