Good evening every please I just want to know if any of you can live without sex with your potential future partner.

Incase you can please drop a hint of the secret behind it.�

Also, what's your opinion about sex before marriage subtracting religious belief out of it what just you plain opinion.

Thank You very much.

Waiting for the elders in the house to comment.

festyese:
Waiting for the elders in the house to comment.

Here at least they can talk from experience

KimVenom:
Good evening every please I just want to know if any of you can live without sex with your potential future partner.

Incase you can please drop a hint of the secret behind it.�

Also, what's your opinion about sex before marriage subtracting religious belief out of it what just you plain opinion.

Thank You very much.

Sex is normal.

But it makes you loose interest over time.

#fact

Ladylite:


Sex is normal.

But it makes you loose interest over time.

#fact

same as getting married, only you loose interest and is stuck with some annoying prick you thought you loved!!

My opinion about sex before marriage is that if you can help it then don't have sex till you get married... There are some things that are involve in premarital sex that are way bigger than us... You have unplanned pregnancy, sexual diseases, abortions that sometimes cause emotional breakdown for the woman...
If your partner is understanding and really want to be with you then the lust will die... Communication and understanding is what matter... Cos sooner or later when reality of life kicks in sex stop being a priority...

falcon01:
same as getting married, only you loose interest and is stuck with some annoying prick you thought you loved!!

So is the cure drilling every borehole that you find?

falcon01:
same as getting married, only you loose interest and is stuck with some annoying prick you thought you loved!!

Okay from a woman's perspective

Doradorwa:
My opinion about sex before marriage is that if you can help it then don't have sex till you get married... There are some things that are involve in premarital sex that are way bigger than us... You have unplanned pregnancy, sexual diseases, abortions that sometimes cause emotional breakdown for the woman...
If your partner is understanding and really want to be with you then the lust will die... Communication and understanding is what matter... Cos sooner or later when reality of life kicks in sex stop being a priority...

I love this

KimVenom:
Good evening every please I just want to know if any of you can live without sex with your potential future partner.

Incase you can please drop a hint of the secret behind it.�

Also, what's your opinion about sex before marriage subtracting religious belief out of it what just you plain opinion.

Thank You very much.

There are gonna be cases in which one partner would feel lust for another but a good communication and understanding of each other could solve that.
I have seen cases in which a guy doesn't feel love for a girl before being in a relationship with her,but some days after the relationship started,he doesn't feel lust for her anymore..

KimVenom:
Good evening every please I just want to know if any of you can live without sex with your potential future partner.

Incase you can please drop a hint of the secret behind it.�

Also, what's your opinion about sex before marriage subtracting religious belief out of it what just you plain opinion.

Thank You very much.

Subtracting religious beliefs like you said,Sex before marriage isn't a good thing..I just feel bad about the way pre-marital sex is now common.
If the guy loves you,he should wait..girls,when you are not yet ready to having sex and he's saying he is not ready to wait,let him go..
Pre-marital sex is the main cause of increase in the rate of abortions
It increases risks of incurable disease, depression as well as some other things
Now,males and females are just in relationship for nothing else than sex and money.. that's bad...
Premarital sex isn't a good thing.. don't involve in it if you haven't
Once your partner understands you,you won't have problem.
One reason why getting a partner who understand you well is important

iamcee:


Sex before marriage isn't a good thing..I just feel bad about the way pre-marital sex is now common.
If the guy loves you,he should wait..that would even be of great help in avoiding the problem of sexual diseases, abortions,etc.
Now,males and females are just in relationship for nothing else than sex and money.. that's bad...
Premarital sex isn't a good thing.. don't involve in it if you haven't
Once your partner understands you,you won't have problem.
One reason why getting a partner who understand you well is important

Communication must be the foundation of every relationship that want to last.... Sexual urge are hard to control but one must learn how to lock up especially about all this sexual diseases...

Doradorwa:
Communication must be the foundation of every relationship that want to last.... Sexual urge are hard to control but one must learn how to lock up especially about all this sexual diseases...

Exactly..you got it

Waiting for the elders in the house to comment.

Ladylite:


So is the cure drilling every borehole that you find?

there are exceptions, but we talking bout the average

iamcee:


There are gonna be cases in which one partner would feel lust for another but a good communication and understanding of each other could solve that.
I have seen cases in which a guy doesn't feel love for a girl before being in a relationship with her,but some days after the relationship started,he doesn't feel lust for her anymore..

Wow that's amazing

iamcee:


Exactly..you got it

Yes it's really Important.

iamcee:


Sex before marriage isn't a good thing..I just feel bad about the way pre-marital sex is now common.
If the guy loves you,he should wait..that would even be of great help in avoiding the problem of sexual diseases, abortions,etc.
Now,males and females are just in relationship for nothing else than sex and money.. that's bad...
Premarital sex isn't a good thing.. don't involve in it if you haven't
Once your partner understands you,you won't have problem.
One reason why getting a partner who understand you well is important

I agree with you

What do I know.. Let's wait for them!

I'll never marry a lady that denies me sex. After I've cut off all others, for the sake of fidelity and respect.
I wonder how some people see marriage as if it's a maximum prison. What's my own there anyways? Just misbehave thinking marriage has a hold on me n I'll treat u like a girl I met 2 days ago.
The koko is trust, understanding and communication. Like my friend use to say "Marriage is just a ceremony", If u guys don't start seeing each other as one from the early stage, marriage will not change it.

Marriage, marriage this, marriage that... Nonsense!
Just like saying cuz someone refused to attend a matriculation or convocation ceremony, he's not a graduate.
Soon as u start seeing this marriage thing lightly, the better you'll be able to choose a "life partner" without feeling the need to ceremonially tie him to your will.
My girlfriend only has to look at me, n I'll understand what she means. Yes, sometimes we communicate just by looking, how many husband n wife does that? By Easter or June/July, I'll go n do the ceremony, bring the two families together, n that is it. No DJ, no hall, no wedding gown, just a small thing to get the two families more accustomed to each other

KimVenom:


I agree with you

Yes..a lot of problems comes with this premarital sex of a thing..

KimVenom:


Wow that's amazing

And that is due to the effective communication between them..you can know much about someone through communication
A good communication and understanding is just what matters

....

Bla bla Bla..

Most females will be like no "it's not good" but will do a Linda ikeji in a second ...

Sex is sex, deal with it! It's not a crime or immoral to have sex before marriage..

falcon01:
same as getting married, only you loose interest and is stuck with some annoying prick you thought you loved!!

meaning the person was not in love with the prick?

they were booking space!
now that is unfortunate

iamcee:


And that is due to the effective communication between them..you can know much about someone through communication
A good communication and understanding is just what matters

the understanding part is the opposite of the good communication

placing religion aside, I think sex before marriage isnt dt bad, when its bad is when she gets pregnant by mistake and the guy starts behaving asif it was all her mistake...

iamcee:


And that is due to the effective communication between them..you can know much about someone through communication
A good communication and understanding is just what matters

Exactly.these are two most important factor in a relationship/Marriage

Bad, aside from the psychological effect of guilt, there's a feeling of likely distrust amongst the partners because both believe once the other can do it with 'me', then it can happen with another.