iamcee:


There are gonna be cases in which one partner would feel lust for another but a good communication and understanding of each other could solve that.
I have seen cases in which a guy doesn't feel love for a girl before being in a relationship with her,but some days after the relationship started,he doesn't feel lust for her anymore..

Doradorwa:
My opinion about sex before marriage is that if you can help it then don't have sex till you get married... There are some things that are involve in premarital sex that are way bigger than us... You have unplanned pregnancy, sexual diseases, abortions that sometimes cause emotional breakdown for the woman...
If your partner is understanding and really want to be with you then the lust will die... Communication and understanding is what matter... Cos sooner or later when reality of life kicks in sex stop being a priority...

igboamakaaa:

What happens when you eat your meat before consuming the food?

iamcee:


And that is due to the effective communication between them..you can know much about someone through communication
A good communication and understanding is just what matters

MOVIC6:
I better risk been religious and be saved and if heaven is not real I will still be happy I was religious till the end than living a reckless lifestyle.....

Maobichek:
Good morning, I will prefer not to lust after a girl and go into relationship base on lust, lust does not last, many relationships failed cos of lust. Any relationship that started via good communication and understanding is the best and better.

yYot:

This comment is a Big lie! When you are married, your eye go clear!

Maobichek:


I agree with you but the urge in man is something else, a woman will not understand what I'm saying. Sometimes, I wonder what God want from man by creating such dangerous urge in man. Communication is good, but when a man has urge for sex, he can go to length to be free via sex or masturbation. The question I want to ask is this: since premarital sex has it negative effects, can you encourage your man to masturbate in place of sex with you?

youngchopper:
really wordly love is blind and will lead you into destruction
if you don't desist from it!
relatioship that can lead into marriage is a timing bomb!
if as a child of God and you are serious in going into marriage you don't need sex as a test for marriage!
sex is meant for husband/wife
untill then you don't have the right to have sex with a woman.
what's the way forward
friendship is the key to discover your missing ribs!
adam/Eve were on friendship even in marriage and they did not have sex!
God wanted them to be friends for a while before he will reveal the need and process on multiplication Gen 1:28!
it was after the temptation of man that Adam realised what unclothedness is all bout
God was not yet done with Adam on how to go about having sex with his wife Eve
but in today's world if the man never see Toto Bleep e go be like say make the world end or maybe the babe no like the Bobo!
taa! that's manipulation from the demonic kingdom
women protect your virginity
if you are no longer a virgin move on with your life and forgive the man and don't ever expect bride price from a man who wants to marry you that criminality
and for the men pls learn on how to pick a wife from friendship and not from sex relationship

advice
most successful marriages is when you marry your best friend and not your sex mate!

this is the word of God!
thanks be to master #jesus
#holyspirit una weldone
#a_friend_of_man_is_a_friend_of_God
king David

Ladylite:


Sex is normal.

But it makes you loose interest over time.

#fact

iamcee:


I understand the urge would always be there but I can't encourage him to masturbate ..No no no.
Masturbation isn't a good thing..
Once a person starts masturbating,he or she would be addicted to it..this masturbation of a thing has affected a lot of people in their spiritual life, social life,a lot of people are out there battling on how to stop masturbating.
Masturbation is a sin and asides spiritual belief,it leads to premature ejaculation or even an ejaculation during sleep (males), it may also inhibit sexual activities with your partner after getting married,Masturbating in excess might also impact your social life. Doing it too frequently might prevent you from going out. This can negatively impact your mental health.
It has a lot of effects.

Maobichek:


Aptly written, so you would prefer premarital sex to masturbation? I ask because you emphasized the place of communication and understanding to prevent premarital sex and I know that communication do help to build healthy relationship but issue of sexual urge in men is something that praying and fasting can't stop.

youngchopper:
really wordly love is blind and will lead you into destruction
if you don't desist from it!
relatioship that can lead into marriage is a timing bomb!
if as a child of God and you are serious in going into marriage you don't need sex as a test for marriage!
sex is meant for husband/wife
untill then you don't have the right to have sex with a woman.
what's the way forward
friendship is the key to discover your missing ribs!
adam/Eve were on friendship even in marriage and they did not have sex!
God wanted them to be friends for a while before he will reveal the need and process on multiplication Gen 1:28!
it was after the temptation of man that Adam realised what unclothedness is all bout
God was not yet done with Adam on how to go about having sex with his wife Eve
but in today's world if the man never see Toto Bleep e go be like say make the world end or maybe the babe no like the Bobo!
taa! that's manipulation from the demonic kingdom
women protect your virginity
if you are no longer a virgin move on with your life and forgive the man and don't ever expect bride price from a man who wants to marry you that criminality
and for the men pls learn on how to pick a wife from friendship and not from sex relationship

advice
most successful marriages is when you marry your best friend and not your sex mate!

this is the word of God!
thanks be to master #jesus
#holyspirit una weldone
#a_friend_of_man_is_a_friend_of_God
king David

Bluehill1051:
Marriage, marriage this, marriage that... Nonsense!
Just like saying cuz someone refused to attend a matriculation or convocation ceremony, he's not a graduate.
Soon as u start seeing this marriage thing lightly, the better you'll be able to choose a "life partner" without feeling the need to ceremonially tie him to your will.
My girlfriend only has to look at me, n I'll understand what she means. Yes, sometimes we communicate just by looking, how many husband n wife does that? By Easter or June/July, I'll go n do the ceremony, bring the two families together, n that is it. No DJ, no hall, no wedding gown, just a small thing to get the two families more accustomed to each other

Misterone:
sex does not make you loose interest over time #bigfatlie. you spice your sex and your relationship. ie you can eat beans as akara, moimoi, ewa agoin, etc. it is the same beans

Ladylite:


Sex is normal.

But it makes you loose interest over time.

#fact

weyreypey:

A lesbian in the making. Pity the unfortunate man who wifes you

Millenniumlady:
pity yourself

iamcee:

I prefer none and I don't pray to indulge in any..

Elsueno:


Yes of course, it's very easy, my reason is simple, relationship to me isn't about sex in the first place. I make sure this is very clear in all my engagements. As marriage is for ever, I need to understand the person am stuck with, this is very very important. this is usually the stage I have problems, because most women just want marriage jejely after like a few months of dating, which doesn't work for me. I just don't understand D rush, I didn't demand sex from them, nor asked for sleep overs.

Religious beliefs aside, I just find premarital sex unappealing, I want my wife brand new, so I would not spoil another's future wife. it's just that simple

Lazykulture:
What of someone like me that don't want to get married, would you still consider it a sin??

iamcee:


I love this write up..
You just said the candid truth..why would they wanna test the girl or guy before getting married to him or her.. it's crazy.
So,if you test the person and he or she isn't your type,you are gonna leave him or her..
How many people are you gonna test before getting married?.. that sounds like a giveaway.
Girls, keep your virginity.. don't allow someone to manipulate you with some fake words like "if you truly love me,let me have sex with you" ,"you don't trust me" or whatever..those words are fake..
Run oohh

BOSMANARIS:


No interest can be lost before marriage.....maybe on the case, there's no genuine intention (the reason for going for her is just for the purpose of sex). Someone said and I quote, "we value sex more when unmarried, reason we are so eager to have anytime the opportunity present itself"

It is while in marriage that the loose of interest steps in.

Ladylite:


Bro, all beans na bean, all rice na rice.

Spice all you want, same face, same body, same shape... It gets old

janedonez:
Bad, aside from the psychological effect of guilt, there's a feeling of likely distrust amongst the partners because both believe once the other can do it with 'me', then it can happen with another.