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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Bobotic(m): 1:04pm On Jan 22, 2021
Don Jazzy is aware already oooooh grin grin grin

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by jeff1607(m): 1:04pm On Jan 22, 2021
From the knocking at the door (money to be paid) to paying for just seeing or getting the list to the billing the lady’s siblings and family put their demands as if they just won a lottery

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by sammirano: 1:05pm On Jan 22, 2021
VEXT:
Who want marry imo gals... Dem go move out of your go dey stay for hotel

grin grin

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by wpadmin: 1:05pm On Jan 22, 2021
Lol
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by wellmax(m): 1:06pm On Jan 22, 2021
Thus guy just ended up saying nothing.
Marriages in Imo and entire SE is expensive. That is why their young men do anything for money and they marry very late, same with the ladies.

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Kimjongun: 1:07pm On Jan 22, 2021
I could have married, but the wine won't let me
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Duru9(m): 1:07pm On Jan 22, 2021
I'm from IDeato South
Marriage is very cheap in my village

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Dejicano(m): 1:07pm On Jan 22, 2021
y una no put all the Mbaise

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by DoubleEngine007: 1:08pm On Jan 22, 2021
Hehehe
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Bonesking(m): 1:08pm On Jan 22, 2021
Moferere:
Wetin want carry me go Njaba?

With those plenty snakes?
Njaba is a River. Eke Njaba is the name of the Python that dwells in the River basin. However there is a LGA called Njaba which was named after the river.

The points still remains that not all places in Imo state have the same marriage rites. Orlu areas to the borders nearing Mbaitoli and Mbano are mostly cheap and affordable just like the OP stated.

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by letitrainnow(m): 1:08pm On Jan 22, 2021
Okay
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by SeriouslySense(m): 1:08pm On Jan 22, 2021
Instead of the cost of these marriage, maybe people should focus on the cost of establishing a family business, the cost of housing and providing in the house. forget all this celebrations they are just waste of time. lol sorry so blunt from me cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by naijadrivablog: 1:08pm On Jan 22, 2021
Coconutheadd01:
Aunty don para
You didn't read. I am a man
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by capitalzero: 1:08pm On Jan 22, 2021
naijadrivablog:
Enough Is Enough: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From

I have read several misconceptions on social media over the years that all parts of IMO State is expensive to Marry from. Even recently, a lady who is supposedly from IMO State made a viral video of how men from IMO don't marry "them" (ladies from IMO State).

I write this article to clear the air about this generalisation about marriage in IMO State. I am a married man from Imo State and well travelled individual and take it from me when I tell you that NOT ALL parts of IMO State is expensive to marry from. Stop the ignorance and stop peddling lies.

Also, I noticed that most people mistake Bride Price to be the only money paid in traditional marriages, as you can hear one say, "IMO bride price na 1 Million Naira", etc.

Bride price in an Igbo Traditional marriage is the agreed sum (by law, it is N50 but families can state the amount they want) paid by the groom or his family member to the family of the bride. This has both physical and spiritual implications as the authority over the bride is passed to the groom and his family via that sum and other rites performed during traditional marriages. Even if you, in a traditional marriage, kill 100 cows, give your inlaws both gold and diamonds but haven't paid the bride price of a woman, YOU ARE NOT married. Most times, a family may charge, for example, N10,000 but will return a sum from it to the groom, while saying that they are not selling their daughter and other pieces of advice.

Apart from bride price, other items like goat, yams, snuff, kola, garden egg and so on are written on a MARRIAGE LIST usually given to the prospective groom, upon acceptance of marriage proposal and Introduction of both families of the groom and bride.

It is true that some parts are expensive to marry from but this article will focus on the largely unmentioned areas that you can marry from without spending an arm and leg.

I must state here that whatever items any part of the Imo State or any other place in Nigeria require as traditional marriage rites to give out their daughters' hand in marriage is their prerogative.

Below are some of the areas in IMO State where you won't spend an arm and leg to get married (traditionally):

1. Orlu (Ihioma, Umuna etc)

2. Oru West and Oru East (Amagu, Mgbidi, Akata, Ubulu (formerly called, Ubulu Ihejiofor), Nempi etc)

3. Orlu LGA (Awo Idemili, Amannachi, Amaebu, Umuhu Okabia (Cubana Chief priest's village), etc
4. Isu/Njaba axis (Ekwe, Ofekata Orodo etc)

5. Onuimo LGA

6. Nwangele LGA (Linda Ikeji's place)

7. Ideato South and Ideator North (Akokwa, Osina, Obodoukwu etc)

8. Even some places in the feared Owerri is cheap, eg. Agwa

I know that some villages/towns in these Local Government areas may be "expensive" to marry from but you can add other areas that you know are cheap to marry from.

This is a new year, find love, go for what you want. IMO ladies hardly abandon their husbands when things are tough (there are exceptions though), most are hardworking, Most are God fearing, they are the most beautiful, they HARDLY marry and remarry or engage in extramarital affairs, they are sociable, they are ambitious and so on.

NOTE: In every 12 Apostles, there must be a Judas so, pray and understudy your prospective wife.

Expensive traditional marriage can be when you spend 600,000 Naira to 1 Million Naira or more TO FULFILL ALL the REQUIREMENTS IN THE MARRIAGE LIST (decoration, band, DJ, Aso Ebi and other things in a traditional marriage event not inclusive)

While an affordable marriage is when you spend 50,000 Naira to 300,000 or less to FULFILL ALL THE REQUIREMENTS in the MARRIAGE LIST (DJ, Aso Ebi, food, etc not inclusive)

If there are areas that I didn't cover, please add.

What about mbano?
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Psalmy2cute(m): 1:08pm On Jan 22, 2021
wellmax:
...Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From

But Imo still remains the most expensive place to marry. It is also the HQ of promiscuities in Nigeria
No edo is the headquarter

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by dachisom(m): 1:09pm On Jan 22, 2021
Ngor Okpala, is another good area in Imo state to marry from.
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by greggng: 1:10pm On Jan 22, 2021
Things has changed since the started marry Yoruba people . I am not an ethnic bigot but I believe is a good development cos if price is high in the east , they will cross over and marry Yoruba ...that way the greedy parents will be forced to accept what they have been given
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Deserea: 1:10pm On Jan 22, 2021
Ok! Let me see what I can do about them.
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Evii: 1:10pm On Jan 22, 2021
Sir, your article is false reason been that my immediate younger brother married from Ideato South 2019 Dec and the list alone was over N800k(marathon) and the pride price was N20k which they refunded N10k upon payment but the main money has been collected behind closed doors(a week before the deal day)...they even ask use to monetize all the items on the list which we agreed. Imo state girls are expensive my guy don't paint it.

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Freestainworld(m): 1:11pm On Jan 22, 2021
Some people wants their respective in-laws to be to give them their daughter for free, even if you tell them to bring a bottle of soft drink as bride price, they will still shout it is expensive, some men hype the money they spend on a woman during marriage so they can be respected by their peers, don't rely on what you hear alone, you have to make a bold step to confirm.

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Abudu2000(m): 1:11pm On Jan 22, 2021
naijadrivablog:
For other Igbos always castigating other ones from Other States, stop it!

I married from Anambra (na where love been carry me go) and I know what I was billed. My cousin married from Azia in Ihiala LGA of Anambra, we almost cancelled the wedding the. because of outrageous Marriage list.

Is it Enugu? Some places like Ngwo and other llaces I cant mention is expensive to marry from.

Is it Abia? What about Ngwa expensive marriage, and other numerous places there

My point is, don't come here and paint your State as cheap to marry from just to feel superior (Some Igbos do this and this is BAD sad)
don't mind that fool, he even listed a goat go and ask how much any animal cost today. I have a friend who canceled his plans to marry one yam leg lady and went for a benue girl and today tey are happy. No wonder most of theirmen engage im rituals. My point is let themmarry their selves abeg. Me i have specifically told my family that non of my sisters marriage list should contain that money being collected for the boys. I don't need it, iamnot selling anyone. Money in exchange for a human being is trading, no other word for it!!!

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Bonesking(m): 1:11pm On Jan 22, 2021
wellmax:
Thus guy just ended up saying nothing.
Marriages in Imo and entire SE is expensive. That is why their young men do anything for money and they marry very late, same with the ladies.
Shussh, say what you know. You people must stop lumping everyone in Imo state together. Even in Imo state people are scared to marry from Mbaise due to their costly marriage rites.

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Enugupikin: 1:12pm On Jan 22, 2021
Jagznation:
oga it is expensive leave matter for Mathias
Leave am naw, very failed attempt at image laundering

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by CzarChris(m): 1:12pm On Jan 22, 2021
mrbaba18:
nsu in ehime mbano with 200k u are done with traditional marriage
Which NSU? No bi nsu na ebichi ụkwụ iteite, Bros leave matter make we no expose ourselves for here.

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Goldbw122(m): 1:12pm On Jan 22, 2021
Naturally marrying from imo state is very expensive, don't get it twisted..

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by dachisom(m): 1:13pm On Jan 22, 2021
Thus guy just ended up saying nothing.
Marriages in Imo and entire SE is expensive. That is why their young men do anything for money and they marry very late, same with the ladies.

I disagree with your point

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by BarrElChapo(m): 1:14pm On Jan 22, 2021
naijadrivablog:
Enough Is Enough: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From

I have read several misconceptions on social media over the years that all parts of IMO State is expensive to Marry from. Even recently, a lady who is supposedly from IMO State made a viral video of how men from IMO don't marry "them" (ladies from IMO State).

I write this article to clear the air about this generalisation about marriage in IMO State. I am a married man from Imo State and well travelled individual and take it from me when I tell you that NOT ALL parts of IMO State is expensive to marry from. Stop the ignorance and stop peddling lies.

Also, I noticed that most people mistake Bride Price to be the only money paid in traditional marriages, as you can hear one say, "IMO bride price na 1 Million Naira", etc.

Bride price in an Igbo Traditional marriage is the agreed sum (by law, it is N50 but families can state the amount they want) paid by the groom or his family member to the family of the bride. This has both physical and spiritual implications as the authority over the bride is passed to the groom and his family via that sum and other rites performed during traditional marriages. Even if you, in a traditional marriage, kill 100 cows, give your inlaws both gold and diamonds but haven't paid the bride price of a woman, YOU ARE NOT married. Most times, a family may charge, for example, N10,000 but will return a sum from it to the groom, while saying that they are not selling their daughter and other pieces of advice.

Apart from bride price, other items like goat, yams, snuff, kola, garden egg and so on are written on a MARRIAGE LIST usually given to the prospective groom, upon acceptance of marriage proposal and Introduction of both families of the groom and bride.

It is true that some parts are expensive to marry from but this article will focus on the largely unmentioned areas that you can marry from without spending an arm and leg.

I must state here that whatever items any part of the Imo State or any other place in Nigeria require as traditional marriage rites to give out their daughters' hand in marriage is their prerogative.

Below are some of the areas in IMO State where you won't spend an arm and leg to get married (traditionally):

1. Orlu (Ihioma, Umuna etc)

2. Oru West and Oru East (Amagu, Mgbidi, Akata, Ubulu (formerly called, Ubulu Ihejiofor), Nempi etc)

3. Orlu LGA (Awo Idemili, Amannachi, Amaebu, Umuhu Okabia (Cubana Chief priest's village), etc
4. Isu/Njaba axis (Ekwe, Ofekata Orodo etc)

5. Onuimo LGA

6. Nwangele LGA (Linda Ikeji's place)

7. Ideato South and Ideator North (Akokwa, Osina, Obodoukwu etc)

8. Even some places in the feared Owerri is cheap, eg. Agwa

I know that some villages/towns in these Local Government areas may be "expensive" to marry from but you can add other areas that you know are cheap to marry from.

This is a new year, find love, go for what you want. IMO ladies hardly abandon their husbands when things are tough (there are exceptions though), most are hardworking, Most are God fearing, they are the most beautiful, they HARDLY marry and remarry or engage in extramarital affairs, they are sociable, they are ambitious and so on.

NOTE: In every 12 Apostles, there must be a Judas so, pray and understudy your prospective wife.

Expensive traditional marriage can be when you spend 600,000 Naira to 1 Million Naira or more TO FULFILL ALL the REQUIREMENTS IN THE MARRIAGE LIST (decoration, band, DJ, Aso Ebi and other things in a traditional marriage event not inclusive)

While an affordable marriage is when you spend 50,000 Naira to 300,000 or less to FULFILL ALL THE REQUIREMENTS in the MARRIAGE LIST (DJ, Aso Ebi, food, etc not inclusive)

If there are areas that I didn't cover, please add.

Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by Bonesking(m): 1:14pm On Jan 22, 2021
dachisom:
[s]Thus guy just ended up saying nothing.
Marriages in Imo and entire SE is expensive. That is why their young men do anything for money and they marry very late, same with the ladies.[/s]

I disagree with your point
You made no point. Just assumptions.
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by sojfarm: 1:14pm On Jan 22, 2021
If this is meant to change the practice, I think it is better. So that we can drastically reduce the number of waiting Imo babes

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by ayenale1(m): 1:15pm On Jan 22, 2021
Reno says according to the bible, all this things can be done if she's a virgin...

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Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by obyrich(m): 1:15pm On Jan 22, 2021
naijadrivablog:
For other Igbos always castigating other ones from Other States, stop it!

I married from Anambra (na where love been carry me go) and I know what I was billed. My cousin married from Azia in Ihiala LGA of Anambra, we almost cancelled the wedding the. because of outrageous Marriage list.

Is it Enugu? Some places like Ngwo and other llaces I cant mention is expensive to marry from.

Is it Abia? What about Ngwa expensive marriage, and other numerous places there

My point is, don't come here and paint your State as cheap to marry from just to feel superior (Some Igbos do this and this is BAD sad)
It is relative. In Ngwa for example, if you come as a rich man, you pay heavily. Though some families don't do so.
Re: Not All Parts Of Imo State Is Expensive To Marry From: Enough Is Enough by ayenale1(m): 1:16pm On Jan 22, 2021
Reno says according to the bible, all this things can be done if she's a virgin...

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