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justosee:
leave them alone. some people can only learn from their own mistakes.

let your younger brother make his own mistakes, only through that can he become a man.

Allow women to deal with him.

leave his brother alone , so that one useless Olosho will come and give his brother HIV ba,.and leave his family or rather him said bro to suffer?

It is very difficult to advice an individual in love more so your brother is very well aware of her escapades. You can only share your obersavtions with your brother but the decision to end the relationship is not yours to make.

Loner97:
I understand u bro, i have been in his shoes and it doesnt usually end well, am not between anything they have but my problem now is that she is trying to turn my bro against me and she has being disrespecting me so very much(Mind u am 6y/o than she is) maybe because she knows am uncovering her every evil dealings to my bro and its something i wouldnt take

bro, just ignore(not to hold grudges, both don't ever get involve in there matters) both of them and you will thank me later.

You ve to protect ur bro interest,so that a girl will not end his life shortly through sickness if she is kind of wayward girl.You need ur bro to be alive.

Loner97:
I cnt leave my bro to suffer in her hands, i have had this experience and its not a nice situation to be in.. Moreover my bro is not the problem here, the girl is.. She insults me when she gets the slightest opportunity, trying to turn my bro against me and i have even seen her chat with my bro where she said she respects me just becus of my younger bro if not she would have given me the insults of my life and my bro was just begging her not to insult me so as not to enlongate the issue(Just imagine). Thats utter disrespect to me, am just trying to figure how to f**k her up real bad without hurting my bro

@bold do u have a gf?

Loner97:
Greetings all, pls ignore my typos.

I have a bro (3yrs younger) who have been inseperable to me ever since we became adults, we do virtually everything together not until he met this girl he calls gf.

She wasn't really a problem, till recently when I started perceiving foul play in her dealings. First she never accepts anything to be her fault even when she's at fault, always playing the victim card and my bro always goes back to apologize.

Secondly, my bro got a hold of this girl's phone and her chats were out of this world for sm1 who has a bf. Planning on how to go lodge in a hotel with sm1 she said was just her caring friend and nothing more when my bro asked due to the way they act even in the presence of my bro, although through their chats she was asking the guy what to do if her bf knew but that was only bcus she was scared my bro might find out soon.

My anger now is that when my bro confronted her she became angry.

There is nothing you can do if your brother cannot do anything about it.
Awon Emotional blackmailers

see! my younger brother is over 30years, and I dey still reset him face with slap, if he is misbehaving. just tell him point blank that you don't want him and that bitch again, give him reasons why. if he refuses go tell your parents. if he has little respect for you he will run away from that Olosho.

Strech:
leave his brother alone , so that one useless Olosho will come and give his brother HIV ba,.and leave his family or rather him said bro to suffer?

What about the brother who decided to collect HIV willingly?
He will learn his lessons after contacting HIV

Ur bro is a pussy -ass nigga.
nothing u can advise their kind, that they will listen, they can even divulge all your sayings to their partner.

You should learn the use of pronouns. Your story is tortuous to read

Wahala be like bicycle. What do you want us to do now? Why not Drop her contact let some people collect their remaining share

I'm disappointed at the mod that brought this silly thread to FP
Also I'm unimpressed that you (@OP) choose to be this mediocre in your reasoning.
Thirdly, is having a gf an achievement?
Furthermore, your bro isn't ready to settle why is he attempting to lock up someone else's destiny?
This life is live let's live, if there's no future commitment on the line as per correct marriage (even marriage na scam), then he should free someone's child
Just like he did choose the girl out of his options & if she ain't good anymore he has freedom to switch, then so does the girl, she has her options
Besides your brother ought to be sued for breach of privacy. Only pvssy ass niggars check their partner's phones, real niggars are concerned only after their clients affairs not gf
I'm unimpressed
Just because of normal dating you're not doing well, you & your pvssy ass nigarr brother
Afterall Naira Marley (a real nigarr) said ... Alaye calm down hope she's not your gf, just your turn

Loner97:
Saying my bro had no right to go through her chats, my bro wasn't taking any of that this time so he pressured her to say the truth but this same girl had same effrontery to lie again that she planned out the said chat to check the level of trust he had for her but my bro kept pressuring until she succumed and said the truth crying that she was very sorry.. I was really angry that i called my bro and let him knw my stance on this girl, Like while would sm1 lie after being caught?I told him to do away with this kinda toxic person before it gets late and he agreed.. Three days back i was around some folks and this girl was around too.. In the course of discussion she made a very derogatory comment bout smbdy and this person got angry and jokingly i said "leave that girl she get bad life" just to reduce the already flared temper n errbody laffed but this girl insulted me telling me i was very very stupid, like wtf

Nuel4:
You should learn the use of pronouns. Your story is tortuous to read

whoever's interested, contact me I'm an English teacher. Just saying

But wait o . . .if a big brother can't tell his blood brother the truth then who will ?

Loner97:
I cnt leave my bro to suffer in her hands, i have had this experience and its not a nice situation to be in.. Moreover my bro is not the problem here, the girl is.. She insults me when she gets the slightest opportunity, trying to turn my bro against me and i have even seen her chat with my bro where she said she respects me just becus of my younger bro if not she would have given me the insults of my life and my bro was just begging her not to insult me so as not to enlongate the issue(Just imagine). Thats utter disrespect to me, am just trying to figure how to f**k her up real bad without hurting my bro

My guy to what end?

No go cause problem for yourself. Give your brother your advice,if he takes it fine, if he doesn't fine, that's his decision.let him know his options and take a strong stance and let him see reason, if he can't, let him be, don't think you can change him, that's the problem in many relationships, let leaving the girl be his decision, but make him see reasons.

Again leave the girl alone, finding ways to fvck her up may end up hunting you, the best revenge in this case is ignoring her and keeping silent, minding your business and doing your thing. She go advise herself.

Codes151:
because the older one refused to mind his business

Giving advice to ur own broda is now not minding ur business? When issues happen will he still be allowed to mind his own business?? That's the question. If ur brodas issues comes back to affect u then it's ur business.

Loner97:
Greetings all, pls ignore my typos.

I have a bro (3yrs younger) who have been inseperable to me ever since we became adults, we do virtually everything together not until he met this girl he calls gf.

She wasn't really a problem, till recently when I started perceiving foul play in her dealings. First she never accepts anything to be her fault even when she's at fault, always playing the victim card and my bro always goes back to apologize.

Secondly, my bro got a hold of this girl's phone and her chats were out of this world for sm1 who has a bf. Planning on how to go lodge in a hotel with sm1 she said was just her caring friend and nothing more when my bro asked due to the way they act even in the presence of my bro, although through their chats she was asking the guy what to do if her bf knew but that was only bcus she was scared my bro might find out soon.

My anger now is that when my bro confronted her she became angry.

It's a sign of a girl with "eyes outside". He better let her go ASAP or else na community pot your bro wan dey use cook o!

Quit with the pity party. She's girlfriend, not wife, so no one owns her for now.

Rubbiish:
@bold do u have a gf?

His moniker is loner97
Meaning
He's either a loner OR a 97 born loonie

Mali kush gives advanced logic

Another episode of em ghetto soap operas

Loner97:
He knew what i passed through when i was simping around my ex and how it turned out.. Thats what am trying to avoid in his case, i just don't want him to pass through what i experienced.. Almost all this v*gina people no get conscience for this our kontri

pls how old are you?

Loner97:
I understand u bro, i have been in his shoes and it doesn't usually end well, am not between anything they have but my problem now is that she is trying to turn my bro against me and she has being disrespecting me so very much(Mind u am 6y/o than she is) maybe because she knows am uncovering her every evil dealings to my bro and its something i wouldn't take

Pally. Bone both she and your bro entirely. If she is disrespectful to you the elder brother, there is a problem. It will always end in premium tears. Simps will never learn and your approach will ruin stuff. Advice, give him his space and let him know not to bring the girl around you from now on. If he needs to see u, it would be personally. If you need to hang out same thing. You try sef. I never ever talk to any of my siblings galfriends except they come correct. And even at that, I keep them at arms length cuz my siblings know I do not take crap even from them so them go done prewarn the chick. If not na Good morning brother, good afternoon brother and it ends there.

I usually give you my opinion once and shut up.

Loner97:
Greetings all, pls ignore my typos.

I have a bro (3yrs younger) who have been inseperable to me ever since we became adults, we do virtually everything together not until he met this girl he calls gf.

She wasn't really a problem, till recently when I started perceiving foul play in her dealings. First she never accepts anything to be her fault even when she's at fault, always playing the victim card and my bro always goes back to apologize.

Secondly, my bro got a hold of this girl's phone and her chats were out of this world for sm1 who has a bf. Planning on how to go lodge in a hotel with sm1 she said was just her caring friend and nothing more when my bro asked due to the way they act even in the presence of my bro, although through their chats she was asking the guy what to do if her bf knew but that was only bcus she was scared my bro might find out soon.

My anger now is that when my bro confronted her she became angry.

Mind your business!

Mikester:
Like I said, sometimes to draw people closer, you have to give them some distance. All the while you tried to convince your brother, did he listen to you?

For fvck's sake, leave him to his folly and stop disrespecting yourself. You aren't that jobless. When he screws himself up, his will come to his senses.

Na so my junior brother dey too o.
This my bro dey wash his woman clothes but him no dey touch my own. Pim I no talk. I dey go collect my clothes wash. Even my shirts wey him wear, na me dey wash am.
My house wey I dey mob at least twice a month, them no do am for months, na me come dey do am when I see d condition but pim I no talk.
Sometimes, if you worry these small boys and their Girls, the girls go turn them from you and you no go like am.
Now them don go and do come around when they desire.

Lols

Your imaginary "younger bro" or you?

If you have sisters,this should be a walk in the park

Loner97:
My bro is no kid, i see signs of being a simp in him but as a big bro am trying to turn him into an alphamale

Please, the opposite of a Simp is not alpha male.
Yes, your brother may lack confidence when it comes to the things of a woman but trying to turn him to something he’s not or is built to be is not healthy.
You can help him build his confidence around women but trying to turn him to an alpha male will be colossal in the long run.

Pierocash:
Mind your business! Your brother isn't a kid,he should know what is good for him.

WTF are you saying

So he should fold his hands and watch his own flesh and blood suffer?

At least the younger bro is having sense now sha

Loner97:
I cnt leave my bro to suffer in her hands, i have had this experience and its not a nice situation to be in.. Moreover my bro is not the problem here, the girl is.. She insults me when she gets the slightest opportunity, trying to turn my bro against me and i have even seen her chat with my bro where she said she respects me just becus of my younger bro if not she would have given me the insults of my life and my bro was just begging her not to insult me so as not to enlongate the issue(Just imagine). Thats utter disrespect to me, am just trying to figure how to f**k her up real bad without hurting my bro

You are too involved in your brother's life. He is a man, presumably an adult who is capable of making decisions for himself. Perhaps you are overprotective, which seems normal but the truth is you might end up losing a part of him if you don't realize that the best you can do is counsel and look on. The mere fact that you are too involved, snooping on your brother's affair is why you've been reduced to nothing with his girlfriend. The disrespect, unfortunately, won't be going away anytime soon.

Let him get hurt, and probably learn. It is all part of life's experience. However, try as much as possible not to get drawn in their world, lest you become stupidier than you've been made to be.