ziondaughter247:
Honestly, i have come to the conclusion that many of you are simply retarded. It is obvious it wasn't a woman that gave birth to some of you! Obviously this woman married as a child-bride. She probably had no say in her marriage. Yes her husband is very rich, but she is willing to find her happiness now that the children have grown. Some of you are really really mean, honestly. This is a woman that is obviously trapped, even with all the money is not willing to stay again, she probably suffers domestic violence. I pray you don't find yourselves in a situation like this. We are blacks and the truth is that many blacks are already living that this in your daily life but are rejoicing because a 'woman' is being oppressed. No wonder the black man hardly makes much progress. Typical blacks have a big issue with mentality, they can barely see beyond their noses. Why force someone to stay when they are not interested? It is the same thing a white man, an Indian, a Chinese does to you and you shout oppression. but you're happy now because it's a woman??

It's obvious she isn't and has never been happy in that marriage.

You are a black man abroad. You have no say and most times you might not get justice even when you've been obviously wronged. This woman married as a child, obviously against her will. It's still the same thing!

simplesearch:


If your tales are anything to go by one could easily end up in the Atlantic ocean in the midst of sharks in search of personal happiness, freedom and uncontrolled living, instead of being driven by a sense of duty of what is right and most appropriate. Check her up and you will discover there is nothing useful she'll do with the freedom, except destroy every fabric of morality left in her and finally destroy herself.

frozen70:
I think she wants freedom and to enjoy life

If the husband can step up his romantic game, she can still remain there

The men outside knows how to handle women more than the ones inside with them

This life is not balance, you just want to have it all

LordKO:



Come on, stop visiting your frustration on me. Of course, direct your further mention to your fellow low-lives because I'm not the cause of your frustration.

RisenPhoenix1:
Dumb husband. He should ask for his dowry and gifts back then trade her in for a newer model with better specs. 40 year old wife who doesn't even appreciate him; what a waste of a luxury car and 25k dirhams monthly when an 18 year old wife will fall at his feet for the opportunity to get all those goodies.

I said it. When men love, they become useless.

JovialJune:
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Da hell!!! See nonsense this one typed abeg, a woman is willing to leave a marriage so that she'd stop disrespecting her husband, you're saying she cant leave cos marriage bla bla bla, see talk abeg, she said she wants to be free, she has the fvcking right to leave a marriage where she feels caged, marriage hlas it is in this century is not sacred anymore, at least for some, you hear husband and wives commiting disgusting atrocities in secret when they can easily divorce and do it freely with no guilt,

The lady should better go to a better Judge or court where she will be granted her divorce abeg, marriage is not by force, everybody has the right to leave a marriage they are no more interested in, regardless of whoever is enjoying it or not.

Nonexistent:
Search for husbands usually reset women's brains so don't rejoice too early.

Ishilove:
Some people don't know what they have until they lose it. I guess a little 'pay cut' may just be the humble pie she needs to eat.

Be that as it may, no sensible court will grant a divorce because one partner is no longer interested for reasons that are not life threatening. They will always give room for reconciliation, just as this one has done. Those who are quick to shout 'divorce' have either not experienced marriage or have had bad experiences in theirs. Divorce is not always the solution.

delishpot:
Good decision by the court. I just hope she doesnt poison him out of frustration.

Downey:
Correct Judge and not lbadan Judge oh I'm sorry Nigeria Judge

Ishilove:
Some people don't know what they have until they lose it. I guess a little 'pay cut' may just be the humble pie she needs to eat.

Be that as it may, no sensible court will grant a divorce because one partner is no longer interested for reasons that are not life threatening. They will always give room for reconciliation, just as this one has done. Those who are quick to shout 'divorce' have either not experienced marriage or have had bad experiences in theirs. Divorce is not always the solution.

bukatyne:


Hahahahaha





I am happy the wife stated the true reason for wanting the divorce.

I give her points for that.

An Arab woman interested in no-fault divorce? Aye n dori kodo.

Since the husband still wants the marriage, he should engage his wife on what she means by 'freedom' and reach a compromise.

The Law unfortunately cannot force anyone to be with their partners when they have checked out of the union.

If not for the court, babe would divorce Oga and request for monthly alimony of D25k so she can maintain her 'current' standard of living.

"Signs*

chris259:
U can see how useless some women are.. And someone said the future is female.. smh

Saccharine:
So,basically she is being forced to remain married when she doesn't want to.

She is alleged to be disrespectful and yet the man is insisting on continuing and im seeing comments that are even projecting what she might have done if she got the divorce.

Same set of people would cry 'why did she not divorce' if she does something harsh to this man now just so that she can have this freedom that she went to a court to acquire..

Last I heard,marriage is not by force.

Y'all are funny individuals.

frozen70:
I think she wants freedom and to enjoy life

If the husband can step up his romantic game, she can still remain there

The men outside knows how to handle women more than the ones inside with them

This life is not balance, you just want to have it all

Ishilove:
Some people don't know what they have until they lose it. I guess a little 'pay cut' may just be the humble pie she needs to eat.

Be that as it may, no sensible court will grant a divorce because one partner is no longer interested for reasons that are not life threatening. They will always give room for reconciliation, just as this one has done. Those who are quick to shout 'divorce' have either not experienced marriage or have had bad experiences in theirs. Divorce is not always the solution.

WoundedLamb:
Nothing new; this happens all the time everywhere in the world (I mean one partner rejecting divorce). Usually, each partner must agree to divorce before the request is considered valid. What I found bizarre is forcing anyone to live with a partner against thier will. Again the way the story went extra mile to paint the husband as all loving/caring and the woman as shallow is suspicious. She alone knows what she's trying to flee from. But if the entire story is factual, then she got served!

ThatEnuguboi:

Stop assuming what u don't know, work with the information given u

Olaideolayemi:
The way our ladies thinks nowadays amazed me..look how you are saying trash, Do you know different between cage and freedom? You are collecting huge cash every month for upkeeping and riding expensive car and other luxurious life style..Did your husband said you shouldn't visit friends or travelled elsewhere you like?I think it's man that cause this rubbish.. it's because,she is over comfortable, that's y..you better change your mentality before it's too late..

Liposure:
Some husbands do have them. Look at her, looking for an opportunity to venture into fulltime LovePeddler business. The judge did the needful the by jeopardizing her gameplan.

frozen70:
I think she wants freedom and to enjoy life

If the husband can step up his romantic game, she can still remain there

The men outside knows how to handle women more than the ones inside with them

This life is not balance, you just want to have it all

BRATISLAVA:


It's such a shame that once women want freedom, men think they want to turn into prostitutes.

You don't know what she means by freedom because you are not the one living under Islamic marriage as a woman to a man who wants to forcefully stay married to you no matter what. Your freedom is to simply come online and get likes from people like yourself who don't think, by posting what they want to see versus what the case may reasonably be.

You can't expect to control someone's life because you're giving them money. That's an exercise in stupidity.

RisenPhoenix1:
Dumb husband. He should ask for his dowry and gifts back then trade her in for a newer model with better specs. 40 year old wife who doesn't even appreciate him; what a waste of a luxury car and 25k dirhams monthly when an 18 year old wife will fall at his feet for the opportunity to get all those goodies.

I said it. When men love, they become useless.

Godbless3:


Mr man go and sit down and be depress alone.
After 25yrs of the man paying her such amount on a regular basis, the only reason she want a divorce is she want to be free.
Yea, what the english when a woman slur on a man?

Lucyspa:


Even though she decides how does it affect anyone. The way Nigerian men are so obsessed with controlling how women use their bodies is mind boggling. They keep on wailing and calling us names. So annoying.

alizma:

That judge has indebt knowledge of family affairs management. He knows that when a woman become to comfortable, she starts to allow stupidity crawl into her head

ziondaughter247:
Honestly, i have come to the conclusion that many of you are simply retarded. It is obvious it wasn't a woman that gave birth to some of you! Obviously this woman married as a child-bride. She probably had no say in her marriage. Yes her husband is very rich, but she is willing to find her happiness now that the children have grown. Some of you are really really mean, honestly. This is a woman that is obviously trapped, even with all the money is not willing to stay again, she probably suffers domestic violence. I pray you don't find yourselves in a situation like this. We are blacks and the truth is that many blacks are already living that this in your daily life but are rejoicing because a 'woman' is being oppressed. No wonder the black man hardly makes much progress. Typical blacks have a big issue with mentality, they can barely see beyond their noses. Why force someone to stay when they are not interested? It is the same thing a white man, an Indian, a Chinese does to you and you shout oppression. but you're happy now because it's a woman??

It's obvious she isn't and has never been happy in that marriage.

You are a black man abroad. You have no say and most times you might not get justice even when you've been obviously wronged. This woman married as a child, obviously against her will. It's still the same thing!

JovialJune:
[s][/s]


[s]Da hell!!! See nonsense this one typed abeg, a woman is willing to leave a marriage so that she'd stop disrespecting her husband, you're saying she cant leave cos marriage bla bla bla, see talk abeg, she said she wants to be free, she has the fvcking right to leave a marriage where she feels caged, marriage hlas it is in this century is not sacred anymore, at least for some, you hear husband and wives commiting disgusting atrocities in secret when they can easily divorce and do it freely with no guilt,

The lady should better go to a better Judge or court where she will be granted her divorce abeg, marriage is not by force, everybody has the right to leave a marriage they are no more interested in, regardless of whoever is enjoying it or not.[/s]

JovialJune:



You are daft,

What is the natural supreme rule of nature and society at large that doesn't allow freedom of association

Olaideolayemi:
The way our ladies thinks nowadays amazed me..look how you are saying trash, Do you know different between cage and freedom? You are collecting huge cash every month for upkeeping and riding expensive car and other luxurious life style..Did your husband said you shouldn't visit friends or travelled elsewhere you like?I think it's man that cause this rubbish.. it's because,she is over comfortable, that's y..you better change your mentality before it's too late..