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Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by angelfallz(m): 11:53am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Very true |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Tedpgrass: 11:56am On Feb 04, 2021 |
Princedapace: Oga, How does change of name equate to demonstration of love?? *****whistling off-- stirring up the pot!!! ***** . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by dangotesmummy: 12:08pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
zeeatallied:Nigerians always fond of majoring in non essentials Naija matter infact Henn.smh 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by dangotesmummy: 12:10pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
Chii59:don't be surprised if he's still a teenager and collecting pocket money from his parents |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by simpa99(m): 12:15pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
When we say Islam forbids a woman from changing her surname due to marriage people reject it..but now when they see the numerous disadvantages they accept it with ease.. Same as when Sunni Muslims raise their pants above their ankles they see it as wrong but when it turned to a fashion trend they see nothing wrong with it.. Same as keeping the beard and so on.. Study islaam well today with an unbias sincere mind and Allaah shall guide your to the right path.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by alizma: 12:16pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan:And when somebody call laziness after their name, all hell will be let loose. Nothing is difficult in changing name. Go to court and swear affidavit, then proceed to make it public in any of the national dailies accessible to you. |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by bukatyne(f): 12:19pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
Acidosis: It depends on the age the wife married. A woman who marries younger would find it harder to navigate official life if she doesn't change her name. Genevieve Nnaji can swing not changing her name officially because she is made and has a lot of stuff in her maiden name. I am sure she has built all the needs to at this age and has all the identifications required. You are right that every married woman is automatically her husband's Mrs. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:20pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
Change of name no go work in this country again. The system is too rigid and it's even baseless. The entire Nigerian government and the system are all crap. Nothing in this country is working or progressive. It only disrupts the system that's only manageable before. Backward country. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by daveemuobo(m): 12:26pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan: this is a terribly flawed stand. You don't need to perform a name change for all your documents as OP stated That is why newspaper publications tell you that other documents with former names remain valid. |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Nobody: 12:34pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
omonighoblessing:.. |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Lexusgs430: 12:41pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
Regardless of certain limitations, changing of names is usually NEVER required........ Does changing the name, change the human being?.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by BluntCrazeMan: 12:42pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
NoToPile:So Sorry My Dear. This is what the whole thing had turned out system into. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Nobody: 12:48pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
They don't need to. It makes no difference to the husband's status whether his wife (wives) bear his name or not. That is a European tradition adopted by Africans with inferiority complexes. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Princedapace(m): 12:50pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
Tedpgrass: How does doing wedding equate to love? If u don't Wana see what I'm saying forget it. If the man loves it, do it for him. He also went thru stress marrying u. Everything must not be stress free. There are some stress we must go through for the sake of who will love. If I'm to choose, marriage list and all that stuff, I wouldn't want to do it. But for the sake of the woman we love, some men even end up doing wedding they don't desire. |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by BluntCrazeMan: 12:59pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
alizma:You forgot that this is Nigeria.. These two things are not enough, and will never ever be enough. Trust me,, BVN and NIN had changed a lot of things. |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by BluntCrazeMan: 1:05pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
daveemuobo:If you are a Government-Employed Civil Servant, you will understand how easy or hard the Change-Of-Name Process Is. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Lightorder: 1:08pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan:I didn’t need to shout about it. When it got real, she went through all and changed it. Don’t just like those mixture 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by excellencyabia1: 1:11pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
I did that of my wife (change of name and news paper publication) it wasn't that difficult but ( because I had an insider) just two days but that of NIN and bank is an issue especially when the bank know that they can use it and toss you around 2 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by capitalzero: 1:18pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan:Some stress are not necessary. Some of these things can be done online. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Lightorder: 1:19pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
Cutehector:don’t mind them. I only see ladies dragging their dad’s names along as a hold that would make it lot easier to move on when their marriage fail, un-noticed. Get the divorce, delete the surfix and no one would notice that it happened. I am of the opinion that you either take my full name or your full maiden name, simple |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by NoToPile: 1:31pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
BluntCrazeMan: I actually don't blame those who can't go through the stress, it was annoyingly frustrating . The BVN was the most annoying of all, Nimc was easier back then I just paid remitta submitted the affidavit and newspaper, it was updated that day and I was told a week and the slip containing the new name was was gotten the next week I had an insider ooo . Simple things are complicated in this country 2 Likes |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by cooooooks(m): 1:36pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
In most of the world, including Nigeria, change of name is entirely voluntary. Where I live, change of name is actually not allowed legally. You can use your husband's name for your personal use or as an alias. However, all legal docs will bear your own name. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Realguyman1(m): 1:56pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
thebosstrevor1:You said it all..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Cutehector(m): 2:13pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
Lightorder:gbam. 1 Like |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Nobody: 2:32pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
I don’t mind Keith sweat voice |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Codyt(m): 2:40pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
bukatyne:This!!! |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by WoundedLamb: 2:53pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
The Nigerian population is naturally inclined to side the man. When news are shares portraying women as the bad ones, we swallow it sans doute and shout "fear women", but when it's against a man, we try to water down the crime or even find a way to blame the victim. The truth is, the fact that she's asking for her school fees doesn't invalidate her claim. Let's not concentrate on the minor things and leave the major allegation. Even the surname change request whether granted or denied is inconsequential in comparison with the actual allegation which is a very heavy one. For the possibility that she could be telling the truth, I think it's mean of anyone to brush her story aside just cause of her demands. Those shouting "fear women" are already wired to scream that regardless of the situation. Nevertheless, if she's not being honest, she won't only regret it some day but will also hate her mum for it. |
Re: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by nan1: 2:57pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
i will advice every lady never change your names on your official documents just change on social media, church or social gatherings. my ear saw the back of my head when i ignorantly did mine i still regret it till date. cos im still affected in a lot of ways 1 Like 1 Share |
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