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Mutemenot:
Go n sin no more. Two times fvck isn't bad for a pussy. U are still a grade 1 American Benz

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Isokoson1:
Op, u Bleep up gan, I no say Nah ur type dey always look for fine boys and the one way dey put trouser for yansh, I believe say better guys come you shun dem base on say, you go dey select dey look for Mr cute


Now e don sup, you dey cry, well d guy Bleep up, him no be real niggar and you too Bleep up bcus u dey happy take alcohol


Sorry anything way you wan do, do am because I no know who I go belive make I hear from the guy first, I dey fear women,dey can fabricate lies

Abbobii eeeeee


After enuf molicle dem come kolombi...

Maybe she off based on say her brain no carry am.......


Abeg mk we leave dia matter jareh.....


Las las dem go still settle.....

this is heart breaking,so sorry for the bad experience from someone you trust. you just have to be strong. some guys are just evil

please no need of insulting her she's already going through a lot of pain

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

bae calm down o,, I understand everything infact i ws once in your shoe,, I got tired of cryinh i.console myself nd move on, nobody can make u happy pls make yourself happy,

if u want to cry � pls cry � cry a river build a bridge � nd get over it. The guy that disflowered me left me that same day after the sex.. I moved on ni, if I start typing what v bn tru in relationship u go weak,, be strong for yourself pls,,

Isokoson1:
How you think say police fit judge this case, go police go police she no get evidence


Make she just live the modafucker that is if she dey talk true

Make she go hospital make she know wetin really happen.

Donspicey:
You no be virgin.......


You sex starved the guyy.....


His John Thomas sufferret violence.....


U both got high and he took it as he pleased now u re here telling the whole world that you had sex last night.....


My Advice:No kill your self ooo.....

u just made a point here....the both were intoxicated..... hardly to term it rape cos the two where under d influence of something

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

I have read your write up...you are making point until you said life isn't worthy of living anymore. Shit happens dear...We all go through shits okay? So what is it that is worth taking your life. If you see the shit going on in the world, God would have ended d world a long time ago.

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

Lolsss.....

Many people here have passed through more than wat happened to you in the quest for true love and they are still living......


Put ur sef togeda and move on dear....life is too precious to waste over avoidable incident.....


Crying will only add to ur predicament.....

It happened before....

It happened again second time......


Never allow it to happen again......

Always be on guard....if u hear odas tori u go know say ur case na moimoi.....

Donspicey:
You no be virgin.......


You sex starved the guyy.....


His John Thomas sufferret violence.....


U both got high and he took it as he pleased now u re here telling the whole world that you had sex last night.....


My Advice:No kill your self ooo.....

You made me Laugh when you said
"His John Thomas Suffereth Violence"

Mozino007:
What is sensitive about this topic or u dey whine me ni?...Yoruba people said n I quote"if u collect kobo be ready to receive koboiru(gbola)" so what twisting is all about...

smh,. I only have one question for you,. If this happened to your sister,. God forbid,. Would you still react the same way? Be honest!!

Hi, sorry about what happened. Please do everyone a favor by involving the police and both parents. I can assure you that it's not a first for him. He has been doing it.

You didn't tell us, was he there when you got up? Have you spoken to him. Don't be deceived by trying to maintain your reputation by keeping quiet. Make sure you pursue this to a logical conclusion. He is a devil, not alll men. I have accommodated women in the past and I couldn't have thought of raping them.

Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.

Hmm

@op, I'm so sorry for whatever happened to you, but don't let it define your existence, i know how painful it is but you have to move on, i believe it's only a matter of time and the right person would come, free your mind, you have to activate your sixth sense, don't let emotions get to you, love with your head and not your heart, i promise you'll be fine, for now avoid any relationship and grow wiser, they say, experience is the best teacher... Take care

Hmmmn

Look at my signature and contact me if you need those services.

How are you sure he was not under alcohol influence too You may know this & still nail him because you're a female,,,, we don see & read a lot.

Even bible confirms that whosoever is deceived with wine/beer is not wise. I've stopped taking wine since my childhood,,,, when I got intoxicated with Bacchus

Na crime section you come post am sef, this love don hit rock

Go for test,collect the result as evidence and report to the police. I hate rapists!

Don't allow this matter to die off like that .

You find am go him house and you hot what you deserve


Abeg who hit me

dollytino4real:
u dey ur house b4 the drugs fly enter ur mouth

help me tell her oooh

Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.

Sorry, ladies never go to where you cannot tell your parents.

Girl9999:
The only two men I've loved and taken seriously have both betrayed me. I can't trust any man again.

Better for u poo

Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.

I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.

When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.

Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.

Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.

I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.

Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.

Tales by moon light ...in Nigeria nobody will believe your boy friend raped you. Both of you had sex period .....boy friend and girlfriend do have sex .

Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.

He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.

I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.

I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?

Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked.

you’re just an attention seeking bitch....die and we’d have one less hoe to deal with on nairaland

Girl9999:
The only two men I've loved and taken seriously have both betrayed me. I can't trust any man again.

that's your cup of coffee .

I've always said it. All men are potential rapist. Girls beware of them. Trust them at your own peril.

Sorry for your predicament. Avoid them and stay safe.

One was itching to come to my house this weekend but I refused because I don't trust them even in my own apartment and because of that he went and unliked the pics I uploaded in my profile. I don't care.

Ndi Uchu.

DaddyRochie1642:
You made me Laugh when you said
"His John Thomas Suffereth Violence"

Seriously i know how it feels to be sexstarved by someone who isn't a virgin but dat does not justify rape..if at all na rape..

Well i believe u should understand better....

Thats why i love been plain wit ladies wen asked what i like most....

Ans:Sex,Food,Peace of mind......


Me no dey for relationship dramaz....

No posting.........

If we cant cope i move on.....

EMDN:
help me tell her oooh

uncertain relationship can even lead to ur death

everything click and he was the one.. where do you want him to get sex from?... stingy gal

It's really discouraging that youths of nowadays now see rape as something normal, even girls are asking her why will she be sex starving the guy.
Woe to you all blaming this lady, for the girls, may you be raped brutally and for the guys, may your sisters experience the same. Amen

Op, please suicide is not an option, people have gone through worse, pick yourself up, go for a test, afterwards delete the guy's contact from your phone and your life and stay away from him.

The one who loves you will meet you.
Stay alive baby girl, the world still needs you